This sounds like a recipe for dealing with children. No thanks.
@Thelashaymarie2 күн бұрын
You did very well with this video. VERY informative. Keep up the great work
@thesuccessvisa2 күн бұрын
@@Thelashaymarie Glad you loved it. Thank you.
@ViRrOorR2 күн бұрын
I dont think a woman needs to do all this to get a man
@thesuccessvisa2 күн бұрын
@@ViRrOorR Yea, that's true.
@GisselleKaric3 күн бұрын
good video
@thesuccessvisa3 күн бұрын
@@GisselleKaric Glad you loved it. Thank you.
@GisselleKaric3 күн бұрын
@@thesuccessvisa Yw
@e113jelly63 күн бұрын
So basically it’s all just one biggggg game not worth it
@lesleyelalami25623 күн бұрын
Oh gawd, tell me about it...... I must have met them all.
@thesuccessvisa3 күн бұрын
@@lesleyelalami2562 We all are a work in progress.
@PaulGunnMusic4 күн бұрын
This is so helpful! Thank you so much for posting this 🤍
@thesuccessvisa4 күн бұрын
@@PaulGunnMusic Glad you loved it. You're welcome.
@taylorgotdank4 күн бұрын
Ty for this
@ninawestlake50055 күн бұрын
When it's all part of who you naturally are, it is so friggin' sweet😂🎉
@Let_draw3406 күн бұрын
I need the book can someone help😢😢.
@Intoxic_p7 күн бұрын
This is the exact attitude that will 50‰ of you women single and childless by 2030... Total nonsense
@victoriaramsay12198 күн бұрын
don,t like this artest. why arre all these "people". women
@ezhilpathy29039 күн бұрын
🎉
@thesuccessvisa9 күн бұрын
@@ezhilpathy2903 Glad you loved it. Thank you.
@PrinceLevii12 күн бұрын
Horrible advice.. terrible
@kaz284413 күн бұрын
This is a lot to remember, but basically date men who show more interest in you than you do in them
@Vuri_13 күн бұрын
Attraction Principle number ultimate: DECENTER MEN❤❤❤
@blazingstar96389 күн бұрын
What does that mean?
@dreamchaser7603Күн бұрын
@@blazingstar9638don’t put men/romantic relationships in your top 5/ top 10!!
@haddadiwanassa14 күн бұрын
Ps. This is needless with a mature man who actually looks for commitment. This book is about immature insecure boys who arent ready to commit and are only there for the chase
@thesuccessvisa14 күн бұрын
@@haddadiwanassa Thanks for the observation. But this book means different things to everyone, you can pick your positives and leave out the negatives.
@ji-ah318615 күн бұрын
💖💖💖💖
@thesuccessvisa15 күн бұрын
@@ji-ah3186 Glad you loved it. Thank you.
@Tom-zp4xp16 күн бұрын
this describes everyone
@thesuccessvisa16 күн бұрын
@@Tom-zp4xp We all have a category we fall into.
@Tom-zp4xp15 күн бұрын
@@thesuccessvisa Not a big believer in the cookie cutter perspective. Everyone does all of these things to some extent.
@thesuccessvisa15 күн бұрын
@@Tom-zp4xp Yea, to some extent, I think we all have a 90% specific category and a 10% touch of other categories.
@Tom-zp4xp14 күн бұрын
@thesuccessvisa I think these are traits everyone has in varying degrees. You most certainly can't say there are people that have zero percent of these certain traits. Everyone has between a little and a lot. And these traits can come out in many different ways. And quite frankly, you can't always know where they will appear. For instance, a mother that has a problem with being possesive, might control that trait in a healthy way, by painting, taking care of animals, getting closer in relationship with her husband or friends, and in an unhealthy way by trying to be involved in her children's lives to the point it is unwelcomed, and avoided. She can also do nothing with that emotional problem and become emotionally unstable and irrational in what would seem to be other random categories in her life, work, mood, general peferences, getting irritated by seeing a happy family, not enjoying nature, complaining about random things that dont involve people( And therefore, no one to be jealous of and no to try and control, like being annoyed at beautiful birds chirping), etc. And this is all from one certain bad trait, When you combine other problem traits, You create a sort of number lock combination with numerous outcomes and variations. I've known people that lost a child to a miscarriage. They become very religious and have very happy families and are good parents. I've seen people lose kids to miscarriages and become very good arborists. That do very dangerous things, in order to control something that they can control and do something dangerous to keep their mind off of the pain of losing their child. I've also seen people that had abusive parents that became very good parents. You can have the same outcome" Good parents" From two completely different problems, Or we could say pains, One abusive past parent, Another loss of loved one, Two different outcomes controlling, irritable, or stable with healthy relationships. I've seen kids from financially stable responsible families become very irresponsible problemed kids. And i've also seen children from financially stable homes that are also very responsible become the same responsible people in all ways. Having a category is a very broad way of throwing something in a group, but I don't think it tells a very detailed specific story of individuals. This is kind of like macro economics versus microeconomics. One is very broad, one is very specific, but they are both very different.
@thesuccessvisa14 күн бұрын
@@Tom-zp4xp This is amazing. Thank you for the detailed explanation.
@Thejazziestt-mj5sr17 күн бұрын
Okay I pass a majority of these time to kick it up a notch
@thesuccessvisa16 күн бұрын
@@Thejazziestt-mj5sr Glad you appreciated it. Thank you.
@unclebuckshot899617 күн бұрын
#6 is me. I ruin my life the most
@thesuccessvisa17 күн бұрын
@@unclebuckshot8996 Trust me, you ain't all that. Just figure out what the problem is and work on it.
@AishaArshad-jg6mq17 күн бұрын
the nice girl gives away too much of herself when pleasing regularly becomes more impt than pleasing herself. ❤
@thesuccessvisa17 күн бұрын
@@AishaArshad-jg6mq That's true from the video. Glad you loved it. Thank you
@TheyHateAnythingRight.17 күн бұрын
"Women have no mental capacity. They deliberately let it disintegrate" They're also devoid of emotional depth and/or heart intelligence altogether. A wonderful book writren by a remarkable woman devoted to upholding truth against all odds. This book saved my soul and now I live for myself free of any slavery.
@Love-n-serve18 күн бұрын
I went out with a girl with all of these. Took 5 years to get over. She’s Lucifer.
@thesuccessvisa18 күн бұрын
@@Love-n-serve I'm glad you are okay now. That's good.
@Love-n-serve17 күн бұрын
@@thesuccessvisa I still get flash backs. Until someone has been though it… they’ll never understand we live amongst soulless entities. I honestly don’t think I’ll ever understand … why people can be that??? Thank you btw
@thesuccessvisa17 күн бұрын
@@Love-n-serve Yea, life is interesting. Different people, different personalities and lifestyles. I'm glad you feel better. You're welcome.
@americanbeautyl8 күн бұрын
The point of this video is to be informed and set boundaries for yourself and the other person..not to demonize any personality disorder even tho they are difficult to understand at times. Working on yourself will keep you safe from future negative interactions. Have a safe day😊
@thesuccessvisa8 күн бұрын
@@americanbeautyl Thank you so much. I appreciate.
@mayahaidar224819 күн бұрын
OK so I am one of them! good..I have borderline personality disorder, that’s frustrating
@thesuccessvisa18 күн бұрын
@@mayahaidar2248 I understand how you feel. The first step is to be patient with yourself and learn to separate facts and emotions.
@jromeo824718 күн бұрын
Keep yourself in check. You ain't all that. That's the cure for borderline. Ps nobody owes you squat.
@thesuccessvisa18 күн бұрын
@@jromeo8247 This is good. Nice one 👍
@juancmblanco14 күн бұрын
Maya I can relate. Also BPD. Hyper aware of my triggers and reactions. Thoughts and feelings are out of my control. The only thing I’ve learned to do to my benefit is control my behavior. Good luck.
@thesuccessvisa14 күн бұрын
@@juancmblanco Keep it up
@kenkenvlogs19 күн бұрын
This sounds like a how to for dealing with an a partner with an avoidant attachment style and the correct advice is “don’t”
@thesuccessvisa19 күн бұрын
@@kenkenvlogs Well, I think one should observe one's partner and know what's best.
@mikitooo4 күн бұрын
Real🤣
@AngeliqueGia20 күн бұрын
And men claim they’re simple. 😂
@thesuccessvisa20 күн бұрын
@@AngeliqueGia The rules aren't as easy as they seem. Just pick what can work for you.
@poloboy9 күн бұрын
if we compare ourselves directly with women, absolutely
@molestedmango22 күн бұрын
Come with terms and conditions... But let him give what he wants to give freely. Hmmmm. Contradiction
@jazriv294923 күн бұрын
This was great! Short, concise, but filled with gems. Thank you!
@thesuccessvisa23 күн бұрын
@@jazriv2949 Glad you loved it. You're welcome.
@Toikag23 күн бұрын
UnGodly princples
@thesuccessvisa23 күн бұрын
@@Toikag Can you pls state the Godly principles?
@ninawestlake50055 күн бұрын
@@thesuccessvisa I supposed the Godly ones would be the ones in their favor as the majority of them thrives off of a woman's emotional nature.
@chevanmeiring437823 күн бұрын
every woman ever
@thesuccessvisa23 күн бұрын
@@chevanmeiring4378 Can you explain more on what you mean?
@SimplicityForGood18 күн бұрын
ar you saying my father is a woman?
@thesuccessvisa18 күн бұрын
@@SimplicityForGood I don't think the initial statement is complete.
@Tom-zp4xp16 күн бұрын
Correct,every woman
@BalcoraMcFly9 күн бұрын
I wonder which category you fall into 😂 Hate women much?
@ShyGuySupreme00724 күн бұрын
All of this shit is absolute bs, I would always respond to everyone in my texts, who tf r these “men” u refer to? The ones who have an abundance of options because the majority of women chase them?
@thesuccessvisa24 күн бұрын
@@ShyGuySupreme007 This book touches every aspect of men and women relationship. Some tips might sound absurd while others might be absolute. It's all about perspective.
@MaybejustNarbe26 күн бұрын
Men are a game. An exhausting one. Also, we need to seriously stop using the terms “nice girl” and “bitch” to describe relationship philosophies. There is nothing bitchy about prioritizing your life and nothing nice about being walked over. I’m a nice woman and I employ all the “bitchy” strategies because I care about myself. And I apply these strategies with everyone, not just men.
@thesuccessvisa26 күн бұрын
@@MaybejustNarbe This is good. Thanks for the additional information.
@blazingstar96389 күн бұрын
Hahaha I imagine women are a much more exhausting game
@CWalthallBrand26 күн бұрын
So many gems packed into this 20min vid! I was a mess years ago but I’ve finally mastered the art and it’s nice to hear this because now I am doing the things the b**ch does unsubconsciously and getting all that I want out of my relationships and more! These are the tips society doesn’t want us to know. P**sy is power.
@thesuccessvisa26 күн бұрын
@@CWalthallBrand Glad you appreciated it. However, the greatest power of a woman is absolutely to be a woman.
@blazingstar96389 күн бұрын
@@thesuccessvisawhat does that mean?
@thesuccessvisa9 күн бұрын
@@blazingstar9638 Being a woman involves knowing who you are, being completely feminine, embracing your body as it changes, being self-assured, and supporting those around you.
@janiceball843127 күн бұрын
The “Bitch” reminds them of their mother. It’s familiar and comfortable, that’s the attraction.
@LetsGoforDabash27 күн бұрын
This book is nothing but male version of red pill bs One sided narrative n men bad women good stupidity As a man, who read this book can tell u , this book will make u aware of bad men but also potray good match as evil man in ur subconscious Low self-esteem doesn't make u good person whether u r man or woman The problem is majority of men n women nowadays thinks making unnecessary efforts which is truama response make them " i m good person" No man with healthy self esteem n who is working towards the betterment of himself loves b-word woman This is nothing but bitter female fantasy just like in*els loves to potray this " women only love bad boys" narrative My sister recommend me this book after her first breakup Thank God, I successfully destroyed her bitterness provoked mindset
@supermodeljaz682928 күн бұрын
Thank you so much for posting!❤
@thesuccessvisa28 күн бұрын
@@supermodeljaz6829 Glad you loved it. You're welcome.
@Kareena198829 күн бұрын
Us women have been deceived by this feminism and romantic love thing while men do by nature what they have always done.
@Aluiette29 күн бұрын
love does not need lessons
@thesuccessvisa29 күн бұрын
@@Aluiette Love may be a feeling, but loving is a learned behaviour which we can make a conscious effort at improving to build more intimate and fulfilling relationships. We may not have learnt to receive nor give love in our childhood, but it is never too late to learn.
@Aluiette29 күн бұрын
@@thesuccessvisa i respect yyour opinion but i stand by my word
@thesuccessvisa29 күн бұрын
@@Aluiette I respect your opinion too.
@PassportBrosAndBlondeManWeaves28 күн бұрын
Sorry but, you’re sadly mistaken. Please do not lean on your own understanding because men are actually incapable of love and, there is a book about it….
@hollysworldtv528529 күн бұрын
I've been doing it wrong all this time. Now it suddenly makes sense.
@thesuccessvisa29 күн бұрын
@@hollysworldtv5285 That's good. Good luck as you put it into action.
@ShyGuySupreme007Ай бұрын
Yall are spreading bs from this book? 🤦🏾♂️
@thesuccessvisaАй бұрын
@@ShyGuySupreme007 The book is amazing. You can pick out your positives and leave out your negatives.
@ShyGuySupreme00724 күн бұрын
@@thesuccessvisa You know what this is for women? A book that teaches you how to become more likeable to the men who discard you after they sleep with you or mentally and physically abuse you. Congratulations.
@ninawestlake50055 күн бұрын
Fear definitely has a smell😅
@kristinh461Ай бұрын
Careful, the author of this book likes and will sue. I saw her do it to a KZbin creator and a TikTok creator
@thesuccessvisaАй бұрын
@@kristinh461 This channel is all about reading and drafting out major lessons from a book. We don't take credit for any information and we don't copyright any book at all. Everything done here is for information purpose.
@KalvineGizАй бұрын
Wonderful content. I learnt a lot
@thesuccessvisaАй бұрын
@@KalvineGiz Glad you loved it. You're welcome.
@ArleneFranco-c7lАй бұрын
I bought copies for friends as soon as I done reading it.
@thesuccessvisaАй бұрын
@@ArleneFranco-c7l That's amazing. Thanks for the job well done.
@guidedenergy1Ай бұрын
Haha this came up in suggestions. I read this book a few years ago and actually hosted a group with my girls to put them on too. Good read even if you are aware of the advice in the book it’s a good reminder
@thesuccessvisaАй бұрын
@@guidedenergy1 Glad you loved it. Thank you.
@HereticSonGokuАй бұрын
Wtf??? This is SO offensive & misogynistic! Absolutely NONE of this is true! As a woman I can tell you when I say I love someone I mean it. We don’t HAVE a secret code language, besides sometimes saying “I’m fine” when we’re really not. DELETE THIS VIDEO.
@thesuccessvisaАй бұрын
@@HereticSonGoku Thanks for your observation. This book means different things to everyone. You didn't find it interesting but someone will. You can pick out the positives and leave out the negatives. Thank you.
@KalvineGizАй бұрын
why not create your's instead. OOPS looks like someone is guilty
@thesuccessvisaАй бұрын
@@KalvineGiz The video has done its job.
@thehyperkids9574Ай бұрын
Thank you!
@thesuccessvisaАй бұрын
@@thehyperkids9574 Glad you loved it. You're welcome
@frayansertzraveАй бұрын
I really like this book. It saved me on so many ways. Since I'm now single, it also made me be mindful and know my self worth and make me wait for a man who will love me. 💖 Good work Sheryl Argov!! (Next book to read: Why men marry btches)
@thesuccessvisaАй бұрын
@@frayansertzrave Glad you loved it. We are already working on your next book. Stay tuned. Pls, do subscribe.
@thesuccessvisaАй бұрын
@@frayansertzrave The book and video "Why Men Marry Bitches" is available. You can check it out.