As an adoptee, I can say that adoption is one tragedy made much easier with such loving supportive parents. You have been blessed, and clearly, they've done a wonderful job raising you and supporting you through your journey. The other tragedy is the loss of your culture. As a foreigner who has lived in China and Taiwan for 30 years, I sincerely hope you have the chance to reconnect to your genetic inheritance. It is truly amazing!
@sui297816 күн бұрын
Love Updates From NYC Manhattan ❤️💋
@2prize2 ай бұрын
Hello Marlie sweetheart
@wesleyyoung10822 ай бұрын
Hi Marli, You probably won’t see this but I thought I’d ask anyways. As this was a long time ago I’d like to know what the outcome has been for you. Have you found any family members through the DNA test you did. Have you been back at all. Would be lovely to find out what you have been doing on a short video if you ever get the time. Thanks hun…
@marlichesak75752 ай бұрын
hello! yes i’ve not done a good job of updating everyone. I did find my birth family - bio parents and siblings along with a big extended family! 🎉
@Neyobe3 ай бұрын
Your cinematography skills ❤
@Neyobe3 ай бұрын
You are absolutely amazing
@Neyobe3 ай бұрын
Amazing story ❤❤
@636488895 ай бұрын
I was born and grew up in Changsha. After graduating, I returned home and have been working here since. The hotel where you stayed in Changsha and the surrounding streets are very familiar to me. Recently, I’ve been watching many videos and documentaries about adopted children. It’s heartwarming to know that you have chance back to Changsha to fulfill your dream.
@user-vp6fh8gx7z5 ай бұрын
You are amazing.
@MyMason1007 ай бұрын
Sound is way off
@seliamalave551610 ай бұрын
I was adopted from china as well! I am trying to look for my biological parents. I was wondering if there’s any Facebook group you recommend? When I called “the Great Wall of china adoption agency” they told me it’s forbidden to look. It was discouraging. But I believe it is possible! Any information would greatly appreciated!!!!
@LucyLeigut Жыл бұрын
I have been twice to China since I was adopted and I loved what I was able to see and visit in Shanghai. It's always nice to meet more adopted people and get to know a little bit of their stories. Love for you and your family!
@kevinmoody9605 Жыл бұрын
Watched your video. We stayed at the same Hotel in Changsha as you did. The view out the window is in our album when we got our little girl in 2003.
@user-cs3hi8zp7p Жыл бұрын
I pray all is well with you now in 2023 & you're having a blessed life🙏🙏
@Anthony11qq Жыл бұрын
The look in your mom's eyes when she was holding you was pure. The kind of look that says there is still good people and hope for the world😁
@lesimkien724 Жыл бұрын
Did you find your birth parent? I adopted a little girl from China 23 yrs ago. I want to know how to find her birth parents too.
@marlichesak7575 Жыл бұрын
Hi ! I did end up finding my birth family. I am going to upload an update video soon about all the details of finding them :)
@lesimkien724 Жыл бұрын
@@marlichesak7575 Ha, hope my girl can find her parent too. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you!
@jingkun7211 ай бұрын
@@marlichesak7575 Looking forward to it!
@SnootchieBootchies10 ай бұрын
@@marlichesak7575I recently watched "Return to Seoul" and found your videos while looking for similar stories of transracial adoptees from China. I would love to see an update video about finding your birth parents but also about how difficult it must have been to connect with them and your bf during the COVID-zero period in China. Thanks for sharing your story.
@lukedavis8212 Жыл бұрын
Marli, I'm glad you grew thick skin! I was adopted (so was my sister, from another family, and my birthgrandmother) but was in a more unique situation where I was in contact via letters with my birthmom while growing up. This contact was a huge deal for both parents because they could both see how much love I was getting and how the choice for adoption was, in both their opinions, the right one. I was able to grow up knowing both parties were happy and that was hugely positive for me. My fiance and I want to adopt an Asian girl. What are potential cultural challenges/questionings did you have growing up? (if you don't mind my asking)
@nillyk5671 Жыл бұрын
I see you found love! That's so cute! Is he your nanny's relative? The one who spoke English? 😳😁
@dubagentselekions8221 Жыл бұрын
Love and Light from South Africa
@nancymoran2180 Жыл бұрын
This is so beautiful! When I was very young and lived in Boston, Mass I remember my mother speaking to me and asking me not to stare and stop when walking past a Chinese Family with a young baby. I said but Mama I love the China babies...hugs and hope.
@raymondhasugulibug168 Жыл бұрын
Please keep on praying, it is possible to find her.
@jacobrocks7 Жыл бұрын
Glad you went back. Your parents seem amazing !
@tycute21 Жыл бұрын
He is so handsome and also he look like my bf lol
@tycute21 Жыл бұрын
How come you don’t have any new video come out ?
@tycute21 Жыл бұрын
Your bf so cute
@tycute21 Жыл бұрын
He so handsome
@tycute21 Жыл бұрын
Have fun be safe Please both should wear helmet for your safety.
@ChrisGrande Жыл бұрын
Great story!
@raymondlee44072 жыл бұрын
God bless you.
@Awanookwe2 жыл бұрын
Bucket list!
@Awanookwe2 жыл бұрын
Very cool thank you for sharing this is amazing 🤩
@rowenamoore33272 жыл бұрын
Hi loved watching your video :)
@MichelleLuvn252 жыл бұрын
Great video. Only thing I’d suggest is not having music playing in the background. Makes it hard to hear the video. ❤️❤️ Great for you to have found your family
@wangpan72732 жыл бұрын
Marli did absolutely nothing wrong trying to find her birth parents. We all thirst to know where we are from. I wish her and her family the best.
@annly6662 жыл бұрын
Ur baby pics are SO CUTE OMG 😍 And also great video xx
@MarionHuang2 жыл бұрын
Hi, I am from Guizhou, China. Thank GOD for the testimony, and your beautiful heart!! blessings sent from Israel today
@darciechristensen69234 ай бұрын
My daughter is from Guizhou too (Tongren SWI), adopted in 2004.
@RedHanded19692 жыл бұрын
I would say the best bet is to use social media or DNA registry.. The street search if initiated by the reporters, was nothing more than to create a storyline for their program. The orphanage visit was definitely state-approved propaganda.. No Chinese state orphanages are even half as nice as those, n the facts reporters were not allowed just showed how sensitive that was.. The whole friendly nanny scenario was most likely state sponsored to paint positive picture to everything. The gov is sensitive to foreign perception of Chinese adoption..
@sampatel55092 жыл бұрын
Loud music put in by an idiot, can't hear you. Or was that the point?
@fiddleronthecube78352 жыл бұрын
The main barrier is the fact that it's a crime in China to abandon a baby so the mother will probably not come forward because she might be arrested. Other barriers are the changes in areas and streets, and the fact that mothers sometimes don't abandon their babies in nearby areas and places. Well, good luck in your search for your birth family.
@marlichesak7575 Жыл бұрын
True! However, I do have a success story to tell here in an update video soon. Thanks for watching!
@grr304 Жыл бұрын
@@marlichesak7575 Hope you will Update us soon!
@Emperor_19712 жыл бұрын
I want to see a happy ending to this story
@marlichesak7575 Жыл бұрын
New video coming out soon with a big update :)
@Emperor_1971 Жыл бұрын
@@marlichesak7575 subscribe for updates
@catzzz26192 жыл бұрын
Just stumbled across the video and only 10 minutes in . Brilliant 👏 stuff. Bless the nannys and all the great hospitality and food...your very humble.
@Hugo-qn6mq2 жыл бұрын
hope you get more updates on this or on yr life.
@user-ln3gm4dy8l2 жыл бұрын
HI,尋親有無找到你媽媽。
@aysgin83122 жыл бұрын
Nice fam
@markshaw16292 жыл бұрын
Did you ever find your birth family?
@marlichesak7575 Жыл бұрын
Yes! :D
@gailbostock2 жыл бұрын
PLEASE CAN SOMEONE TELL ME WHAT IS THAT MUSIC IT IS GREAT
@rickolsen52992 жыл бұрын
I think chinese don't have the option of keeping their children by state law, so that your biological parents may have not given you away out of free will. anyway lovely stori S2
@rickolsen52992 жыл бұрын
do you keep a chinese citizenship after you are adopted? I love to see this kind of story, followed