“The quality of showing up without artificially controlling” …”Liberate our clients and let their lives unfold from there…”
@equineassistedtherapyАй бұрын
Brilliant. That was in the teaching video
@nechtojAАй бұрын
Thank you for the demonstration indeed!!
@fredjones5137Ай бұрын
ACT is incredibly powerful. Thank you so much Dr Hayes for all of the good you are doing in the world!! ps Random observation.....you look a lot like Stephen R Covey.
@vitormancinipsiАй бұрын
Amazing!
@alettasinoff7632 ай бұрын
This was so moving and uplifting. Thank you Dr. Hayes for the opportunity to watch you doing this life-transforming work.
@RobertJohnson-ji1fv2 ай бұрын
Beautiful
@EugenieMacGillavry2 ай бұрын
This example makes me feel that behind the words YOU IDIOT and GO BEN is just the SAME ENERGIE chosen to be negative or positive directed.
@carolgerber63755 ай бұрын
Halfway in and still waiting for anything we all don't know. Done waiting. Yikes.
@frederikefalke6 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing that! I just started reading your book and loving it after a similarly painful long phase of hiding, anxiety and more and gradually ‘waking up’ right now, so I loved a practical example and insight, I think it makes it even more graspable than can be described by the written word :)
@Rivera66696 ай бұрын
Genius
@mentalhealthrevolution93666 ай бұрын
Is he an actor?
@EugenieMacGillavry2 ай бұрын
Who? And what made you ask that? #curious 😊
@feenaq2 ай бұрын
@@EugenieMacGillavry I think they're asking whether the client is an actor, since in the description it says "client" in quotes like that :)
@asanaswithari6 ай бұрын
12:45 I’m crying! This was a great example🎉 I appreciate the work of Dr. Hayes🤩RFT& ACT techniques brilliantly challenge fusion and can create joy for so many.
@behnooshazizi9267 ай бұрын
Amazing ❤❤❤❤
@chad85377 ай бұрын
Thank you for the excellent demonstration!
@centroholisticodelperforme46307 ай бұрын
Subtítulos en español??
@Anton-yr2hz8 ай бұрын
Great illustration n concept. Thank you
@helenpyon98608 ай бұрын
This is so moving! Thank you Dr Hayes!
@anthonymellor1749 ай бұрын
It makes sense what you've described. However, one of the most challenging aspects to recognize is how implicit memory can override conscious, or explicit, memory, thereby influencing our thought processes. I've noticed that I sometimes unconsciously project a monotonous narrative, which is influenced by my family history and learned behaviors. This often includes dwelling on past traumas that affect my day-to-day life, usually without my full awareness. I believe more research is needed to explore how implicit and explicit memories interact in our everyday interactions. A key factor to consider is how to identify the influence of implicit memory on our behavior. Most of the time, we're not fully aware of how our implicit memories and actions are connected. I wonder if there are any specific methods to examine implicit actions. I find that approaches like those of Byron Katie, where you delve into the language used and investigate the historical memory lineage constructed in your brain, touch on some of these issues then to look at How the behaviour attached to that manifests into your day today
@yvonnekneeshaw27849 ай бұрын
Wow! It’s interesting to watch someone else portray what I sometimes feel a wee occasionally.
@sarahepstein447610 ай бұрын
This was wonderful excercise!
@digitalduovids139811 ай бұрын
Great video and clear messages. An excellent random find! Thank you
@davidforman859311 ай бұрын
Why all the "disorder" talk?
@davidforman859311 ай бұрын
Pretty good!
@edgarsanchez776811 ай бұрын
Amazing work!!
@rairai7964 Жыл бұрын
How can people with borderline personality disorder ever feel good with that name as their diagnosis? Its like being labelled hopeless case. They need to change that because the internal idea that one feels or is broken is bad enough but to have he rest of society brand you is like putting heat on a burn wound.
@samanthafields434 Жыл бұрын
This reminds me of what DBT creator (who actually has BPD mind you) Marsha Linehan argues for a different label as well - I believe she argues for a shift to Emotional Dysregulation, which is what BPD essentially is.
@TheJojoaruba527 ай бұрын
There are many who want to change the label “BPD” to impulse control disorder.
@EugenieMacGillavry2 ай бұрын
It might be helpful to realise that we HAVE a diagnosis but we ARE not our diagnosis. To let go of holding on that rope and just look at it as a guideline might help. What we believe ourselves to be, is true until we believe that no more.
@wellbeingknowledgeplatform3156 Жыл бұрын
Would be very useful in suicide prevention
@carolwisniewski6611 Жыл бұрын
This is a wonderful exercise! I use I’m a loser. I replaced it with I am worthy! Repeating like a mantra. My therapist told me about you and ACT. I bought the book. Watching you is my beginning. I also keep in mind the rope exercise. I enivision the rope and say softly to myself let go of the rope. Practice,practice. Thank you for allowing me to visit your site and learn and reprogram! ❤
@carolemichell5648 Жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@nateschmall2926 Жыл бұрын
The self-as-process, and examples of questions you've asked in some of your videos related to self-as-context stuff, reminds me a lot of existential therapy based interventions. Great stuff :)
@islaskinner4911 Жыл бұрын
Really skilful
@aliciaflores7095 Жыл бұрын
Damn this is fucking insanely brilliant
@preciousntomesha758 Жыл бұрын
Good
@LottaMerikanto Жыл бұрын
That moved me to tears even though I am not a parent. Deep work.
@usbsol Жыл бұрын
This was interesting to see - the hexaflex at work 👍 One thought I had, when I read the description was that this was ACT for trauma and trauma seems like a bit of a buzzword nowadays. I think this conversation is just good act therapy - trauma or not 🤸
@PetrPitakM Жыл бұрын
Could be applied to the OCD. Dropping the rope, dropping the compulsions, becoming free, letting the thoughts pass. Putting ourselves into uncomfortable situation with uncertainty and no control. Just jump. Thank you so much Dr. Hayes.
@pattityson2958 Жыл бұрын
😳 'promo sm'
@gives_bad_advice Жыл бұрын
this is touching and really nicely done
@ohmynoche Жыл бұрын
Really great video. Thank you.
@humphreyswill907 Жыл бұрын
Amazing. Have the book and hoping soon to do the course for my work.