Not me googling the sneakers y’all was rattling off 😅 I didn’t get into sneakers until about 5 years ago tbqh. Growing up my parents couldn’t afford the hottest releases so I never concerned myself with keeping up…even though a lot of my friends were into them. Now I did recognize alot of the sneakers y’all named after googling…just never knew what they were called. The only silhouette I know off top are the 6’s because I’ve always wanted a pair. So imagine my devastation when I finally bought a pair last year only to discover that they look big and bulky on my already large feet 😢💔ANYWAY I enjoyed hearing about the history and experiences you’ve both have had as sneaker heads/collectors. The sneakers in the washing machine, as well as Alex’s graduation story had me cackling. 🤭
@coolinreallife7 күн бұрын
It’s never too late to get into sneakers! You’re in good company. 😊
@_alexblvck6 күн бұрын
I’m still hurt I didn’t go get them 😂…def gotta spin the block on them!
@coolinreallife7 күн бұрын
𝗤𝗨𝗘𝗦𝗧𝗜𝗢𝗡: What hot sauce are you bringing to the function?
@shaMUSiiC7 күн бұрын
Is this a safe space? What if I say I’m bringing Red Hot?
@coolinreallife7 күн бұрын
It’s for sure a safe space. We gon’ question you though, fam. Red Hot over Crystals? We need a breakdown as to why.
@_alexblvck6 күн бұрын
Crystal’s ALL DAY LONG
@RiqiaRightNow14 күн бұрын
31:56 I think this is so good Court. As someone who‘s parents split when I was younger it was hard navigating that through adolescence. But when I became an adult I started to respect their split so much when my father shared with me his why. I appreciate him for choosing what was best for himself because ultimately it would have been worse for all of us if he stayed.
@muchosalsa14 күн бұрын
Jus spun this on my Saturday night watching hoops. Great vibes.
@coolinreallife14 күн бұрын
Nice! We’re glad you enjoyed the vibes.
@swellthy80415 күн бұрын
🔥🔥🔥
@swellthy80420 күн бұрын
Let’s goooo
@shaMUSiiC20 күн бұрын
This was a vibe! I look forward to more of these!
@coolinreallife20 күн бұрын
We’re glad you enjoyed it!
@RiqiaRightNow27 күн бұрын
The new production off rip 😮💨
@coolinreallife23 күн бұрын
Off rip!
@dee.albertАй бұрын
Happy 2025!! This year is a lot about moving in my truth, keeping boundaries, and trusting God’s plan. I am now adding moving with intention-because that’s the first step in all things I just mentioned. Our intentions unconsciously set the tone for how life turns out for us. Law of cause and effect. Looking forward to this year with you guys ✨
@coolinreallifeАй бұрын
We’re so happy to hear your plans on stepping into this New Year with intention, and grateful you’ll be on the journey with us. We appreciate you for always being here 🖤🙏🏾
@aleahlorianАй бұрын
This video truly confirmed a lot for me. I'm in a space where I am not only moving with intention but also with alignment. I can’t allow myself to let anything-or anyone, including myself (self-doubt, fear, imposter syndrome, self-sabotage)-get in the way of God’s plan for me. I’m learning to not lean on my own understanding, and instead, I want to keep moving with intention while reminding myself that I can’t control every detail of my life. I also loved the point about loving people in the way *they* need to be loved. It’s so important to ask those key questions in relationships, like 'How do you want to be loved?' or 'How do you want me to show up for you?' That intentionality is what makes relationships thrive. Thank you both for setting the tone on how we should all move with purpose and mindfulness.
@coolinreallifeАй бұрын
Thank you for watching! Entering the New Year with a refreshed resiliency is beautiful, and realizing that you’d already started moving intentionally in various areas of your life is even more beautiful! Here’s to more growth in 2025 🖤✨
@RiqiaRightNowАй бұрын
1:36:52 “just start” is so good. So proud of all you both have done this year and watching the progress has definitely inspired me! This is such a good episode. 🤎🤎🤎 definitely look forward to what you both have in store for 2025! ✨✨✨
@coolinreallifeАй бұрын
We’re glad to know that we’ve inspired you! That’s always the goal; we want to inspire others as much as others inspire us. This year has given more to us than we imagined or planned for, but we receive it all with gratitude. Thank you for sharing this year with us. It’s only up from here! ❤️✨
@RiqiaRightNowАй бұрын
1:02:30 needs that Taste Makers merch ASAP 😮💨
@coolinreallifeАй бұрын
Ay, we got you! 🤞🏾
@boosie1305Ай бұрын
Self-Compassion❤
@coolinreallifeАй бұрын
Always and forever. ❤️
@dee.albert2 ай бұрын
I learned something new today-it is ok to circle back around with important convos. I am such an “I said what I said” person, that I refuse to repeat myself, but now I understand why sometimes it is important to do so, or just to come back and have the same convo when the energy is different and after we’ve thought about it a bit more. Grateful you guys provided this space in 2024 and allowed us to be part of it….tastemakers. ❤
@coolinreallife2 ай бұрын
It is important to meet people where they are at, in any given moment, especially when a topic needs to be unpacked. Shoutout to you for being willing to circle back moving forward, growth is so beautiful 🖤
@shaMUSiiC2 ай бұрын
TASTEMAKERS....to see how far y'all have come in just 8 months is truly inspiring. "Just start" so simple but profound. As someone who is constantly in my head, I easily talk myself out of moving forward on things that I desire to do. I'm working hard on getting out of that and seeing the journey you two are on has helped me change my perspective. Now, the monthly playlist...I voted on the poll to keep them and I'm standing 10 toes down on that! LOL I know I'm going to get to hear artists/songs that I would never hear otherwise. I don't care if it's new or old....it's all new TO ME and there is nothing like the feeling of discovering new music. It's literally one of my favorite things. Y'all put me on to Elmiene who is has been in heavy rotation since!!! June and September are my favorite playlists.
@coolinreallife2 ай бұрын
It means the world to see the impact our journey has had on you. 🖤
@shamaraneil64772 ай бұрын
The vulnerability in this episode!!! I love it!!
@RiqiaRightNow2 ай бұрын
10:03 I often struggle with celebrating accomplishments, big or small. Thank you for sharing. Especially what you said about children who were emotionally neglected and how that impacts how they celebrate or lack thereof. I don’t feel so alone in that now.
@coolinreallife2 ай бұрын
Hopefully you no longer feel alone. Many of us deal with the same struggles, but we unfortunately don’t speak on them transparently out of fear and/or other reasons. You’re not alone. 🖤
@_alexblvckАй бұрын
Thank YOU for sharing, and now I know how I can show up for you and celebrate you 🥰🫶🏾
@djmentosdotcom2 ай бұрын
“Walking on the wild side” ❤
@RiqiaRightNow2 ай бұрын
The Tidal girlies need love too 😗 don’t do us like that 😭
@coolinreallife2 ай бұрын
Shout out Tidal. Maybe one day soon. We’ll keep you posted. Stay tuned. 😎
@dee.albert3 ай бұрын
Thank yall for touching on topics that we don’t even speak of with our own loved ones!! Please keep the raw conversations going. ❤
@coolinreallife3 ай бұрын
As we close out our grief series, we’re mindful that these styles of conversations are needed more than ever. We’ll continue to share our vulnerability the best we can, whenever the time organically calls for it. Keeping our humanity on full display is our top priority. We’re glad this series resonated with you as much as it has. 🖤
@_alexblvck3 ай бұрын
🤞🏾🫶🏾
@dee.albert3 ай бұрын
I cannot imagine the pain of loosing so many people back to back to back like yall did!! Thank you both for sharing and for venerating your ancestors in your own ways-literally just acknowledging that they are still with us is enough for the signs to start coming through. 🤍
@coolinreallife3 ай бұрын
The signs began pouring in from so many directions and in so many ways. It’s extremely hard losing loved ones, but we’re eternally thankful for them, so it’s only right to venerate them. There’s love in grief.
@sistermyoho3 ай бұрын
ha'aheo (PROUD)🤩😍😎💯💣🙏🙏💐🌲
@sistermyoho3 ай бұрын
living in your/my prayer😍🥰🤩😘😎💯👊🙏🫀👀👂
@sistermyoho3 ай бұрын
@sistermyoho3 ай бұрын
love it.
@coolinreallife3 ай бұрын
@@sistermyohowe’re glad that you do 🙏🏾
@lizigns3 ай бұрын
I really enjoyed this episode, much needed. Thanks for sharing your stories and being vulnerable with us.
@coolinreallife3 ай бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it!
@chillcourt4 ай бұрын
Thank you to everyone that watched the episode, will watch the episode, and for everyone that sent heartfelt responses. To be a vessel of light oftentimes means doing what’s difficult. To be vulnerable in front of the world is no easy task. To share deep feelings and emotions that have yet to be fully realized by yourself can be triggering. However, light always wins. I’d have it no other way. Every struggle I’ve ever faced led me to this very moment. To know that my pitfalls and heartaches can help others find healing means so much to me. This is what healing looks like. This is what love looks like. As for my dear friend, Alex… A lot of what you’ve expressed during this episode was heard for the first time, even for me. To know that you were in such pain for so long and dealt with it alone pains me. To have a person enter your life at a moment when you’re learning and growing into womanhood, only to snatch the very essence of you is beyond cruel. Sometimes what looks and feels like a person leaving out of your life is actually God’s favor over your life. In my heart of hearts I don’t believe that you were left, I believe that they were removed. Rest on the fact that God has a special calling on your life. I pray that you learn the lessons in it all. I pray that your heart remains open to all things Godly, especially love in all forms. You’re loved. You’re supported. You’re seen. Thank you for taking this journey through healing with me. There’s no better person to do this with than you. 🖤
@_alexblvck4 ай бұрын
🥺 I love you…thank you 💙
@aleahlorian4 ай бұрын
What an incredible and powerful episode. Courtney, I just want to start by giving you your flowers for how beautifully you’ve shown up in this series. What I admire most is how you're now choosing yourself, being your authentic self, and honoring who you are. I admire your self-awareness and the grace with which you hold space for your healing, even while acknowledging the hurt that still lingers. The way you navigate those emotions, despite the harm you've endured, speaks volumes about the loving and resilient person you are. Your journey is inspiring, and you deserve all the flowers for the courage it takes to sit in that discomfort and still choose growth. Alex, your story touched me so deeply as well. The heartbreak of losing not just a partner but someone you envisioned your future with is such a heavy grief to bear. The vulnerability you showed while recounting the narcissistic behaviors you endured, and how you’re navigating your healing process now, was profound. You are such a beautiful person, and I want you to know that it's okay to open your heart again. This is your rebirth, and I hope you can embrace the truth that your ex no longer deserves any control over your emotions. There is so much life ahead of you, and so many people yet to love you. Sitting in your emotions is so important-there is wisdom in that stillness. But don’t stay there forever. When you reclaim your power, I know you’ll see just how transformative it will be. Thank you both for this episode and for the space you’ve created with this series. I can’t wait for the third edition-you are helping others find healing just by sharing your truth.
@coolinreallife4 ай бұрын
Thank you for your kind words. We’re glad that you’re moved by the series. Our goal was to find personal healing by sharing our deepest and most personal experiences around grief. To see that our stories are helping others reflects back to us and further helps us heal. To be able to not only create such a safe space for ourselves, but to share this space with others is the style of community we’ve been longing to create. ✨
@kscott97944 ай бұрын
I really enjoyed this podcast series, a very open and transparent episode. Listening to Alex Black’s experience with her ex-husband will resonate with any woman who has been involved with a true narcissist. Everything about her encounter and experience with him exudes narcissism on his part. What I find so uncanny about a narcissist is that you only have to encounter one to know the characteristics of them all, because they all embody the same characteristics. Unfortunately, he did a job on her, killed her confidence, self-esteem, self-worth, causing her to spiral downward into that dark hole that she tried to claw herself out of only to be kicked down the dark hole again and again. I am so so happy and ecstatic that he is no longer in her life, her space or her desire. Courcobain i’m glad that you were able to release and let go of the hurt, anguish, and pain that you’ve endured over your lifetime. Doing the work is so important and fulfilling. Not only are you now respecting other peoples boundaries you have set your own and demand that they be respected as well. this was a very good podcast episode and I know that many people will be able to relate and find healing in the process.
@coolinreallife4 ай бұрын
We both struggled with bearing all, but to see the responses we’ve received thus far lets us know that it was the right decision and timing. Thank you for your continued love and support. ❤️
@dee.albert4 ай бұрын
This was so beautiful to see. I have never witnessed friends hold space, be vulnerable, while also being accountable and respectful of each other and the other people whom you’ve hurt and hurt you. This is the types of friendships I pray to have!! These are the kind of conversations I want to be in! Thank you both for this. 💐💐
@coolinreallife4 ай бұрын
Wow, thank you for much for sharing this with us 🖤
@chillcourt4 ай бұрын
Thank you! I’m extremely grateful to have this level of friendship. Most importantly, I’m open to build more friendships that’s rooted in vulnerability and honesty. I’m always open to build new connections and converse with others. That’s where the true growth is found.
@SamiAm94944 ай бұрын
Wow I love the openness and ability to put your inner most feelings on the table, because it's important to be honest with ourselves! I too, have lost myself in someone else, and literally almost did not recognize myself in the mirror. Some people can truly suck the love and light right up out of you. I am still trying to rebuild my self esteem from the trauma of dealing with that relationship. Being with the wrong person can damn near destroy you if you let it. There is two sides to every story though, and I definately have work to do. We cant grow if we cant acknowledge that we need growth. Thank you for being inspiring ✨️ 🙏 💛
@coolinreallife4 ай бұрын
It was difficult for us to be so vulnerable, but reading your words and knowing that our openness helped, makes it a little easier 🖤
@chillcourt4 ай бұрын
Thank you for your support. We will always have “work” to do. It’s the willingness and commitment to do the work that counts. I pray you find the level of healing you seek.
@shaMUSiiC4 ай бұрын
I'm so proud of y'all!! The vulnerability and growth displayed in this episode is so inspiring. I haven't had the same experiences but I still found alot of the feelings expressed relatable. I hope you both continue to allow grace for yourselves on your healing journey.
@coolinreallife4 ай бұрын
Thank you for always supporting us and finding commonality, even when you haven’t had the exact experiences. You are so appreciated 🖤
@chillcourt4 ай бұрын
Glad the episode resonated with you on some level, homie. I’m glad it left you inspired.
@Underseagalaxy4 ай бұрын
Gaming is how I met you all! Love this guys keep it up!
@Underseagalaxy4 ай бұрын
Damn straight you’re shouting me out!
@coolinreallife4 ай бұрын
Of course! We’re friends for life! We love you back.
@aleahlorian5 ай бұрын
I’m just genuinely in awe of the two of you. I know it couldn’t have been easy to share such deep and personal experiences. the way you opened up, & showed such vulnerability on camera, is incredibly brave. not only did you confront your pain, but you're using it to help others who might be going through something similar. your podcast isn’t just a show; it’s a powerful platform that’s leaving a lasting impact on our culture and the people who listen. this episode really resonated with me and gave me an even deeper level of respect for you both. ♥
@coolinreallife5 ай бұрын
It means so much to read this! Thank you for watching and letting us know how you were impacted 🖤
@_alexblvck5 ай бұрын
Not you got me in tears all over again 😂🥹. This is beautiful, thank you for sharing!
@sweetnesslvly5 ай бұрын
Every episode make me so happy and proud of yall! ❤
@coolinreallife5 ай бұрын
Thank you for your support 🖤
@_alexblvck5 ай бұрын
We appreciate you 🙏🏾💛
@SheaSlaughter5 ай бұрын
Love it. ❤
@dee.albert5 ай бұрын
Glad to be here, finally!! I’ve always loved the way Court’s mind thinks, always been a critical thinker and an artistic intellectual.
@chillcourt5 ай бұрын
Deli! Glad to have you here! Thank you. Your words mean so much. 🖤✨
@EternityMedia_5 ай бұрын
This is loooove! So good man.
@RickTheClipper5 ай бұрын
There is no lens in the world that shows You God
@coolinreallife5 ай бұрын
Out of everything featured in the actual video, this is your takeaway?
@MarvaSlaughter5 ай бұрын
Even though I never said that, the lenses in your camera and in your natural eye, show you God, because God is everything and everywhere. He is the creator, so I beg to differ. actually I don’t beg, I just differ.
@boosie13055 ай бұрын
Loved this❤️
@MarvaSlaughter5 ай бұрын
This made my eyes sweat. Thank you for your inspiration. I have to remember to put some base in my voice if I’m ever recorded again though 😂
@coolinreallife5 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story with us. Capturing these moments were inspirational and time sensitive. We appreciate you! 💛
@_alexblvck5 ай бұрын
Growing up I used to play with her camera. It was a Fujica, never actually took pictures but I pretended! We ALWAYS had a bag of undeveloped film in the fridge too. Now that I’m older all these moments are coming to my memory, and I’m remembering how my Mom has always made sure our life’s moments were preserved through pictures. This is so beautiful, thank you 🥹
@chillcourt5 ай бұрын
Glad I could gift you something meaningful. Glad I could capture your mom in the way she deserves. Love you, homie.
@_alexblvck5 ай бұрын
“Put ya scalp on my scalp” is hilarious 😂. We did MAD walking but it was a beautiful day 🥹🖤
@chillcourt5 ай бұрын
Yo! I didn’t even realize how much we walked. It didn’t phase me one bit. It definitely was a beautiful day.
@shaMUSiiC6 ай бұрын
- I want Court’s socks!!! 😂 - Hearing how supportive Alex’s friends have been for her really warms my heart. Even the reassurance displayed in this episode when speaking about mental health is a true testament to y’all friendship and really is a beautiful thing to witness. I love how y’all speak life into each other! - I also collect vinyl. Largely because I missed the experience of purchasing albums in the physical form. It’s a trend I’m not mad at because I would hate for them to become obsolete. - I’m excited to see what’s in store for music heals! 👀 - This episode was “phenomenal”! 🤣 I think it’s my fav so far.
@_alexblvck6 ай бұрын
What a phenomenal comment 😂😂. Thank you Sha! I’m beyond grateful for how my friends show up and love on me 🥹🫶🏾. Also yes, I pray vinyl is one of the mediums that never goes away.
@chillcourt6 ай бұрын
I said “phenomenal” in another video too. 🫠 The socks were definitely cozy!
@chillcourt6 ай бұрын
Also, I stand by my point about some trends being needed. Trends help open the door for people to experience something worthy of being experienced, and it helps sustain things long forgotten. I personally don’t care what people think of me if I’m in close proximity to a trend. I’m not doing things for outside validation. If I like it, I’m going to wholeheartedly partake in it.
@sgsparks91706 ай бұрын
1:28:56 the annoying part of trends is the people that 1) jump in in the middle of the story and do nothing to learn how we go to this point 2) act like tastemakers after showing up to the party late. But overall the vinyl trend is a blessing because we’ve swung so far in the direction of digital, Art is wholesale being lost to the æther with the disappearance of physical media. We’re being nickel & dimed to death by corporations in control of our Art. Music, movies, literature. Everything is a subscription and the creators are the last ones to get paid. I’ll gladly buy vinyl, cassette, DVD, book, whatever, if the artist is getting their $ and I have access to the Art forever. Not $9.99 a month.
@chillcourt6 ай бұрын
I totally agree. You hit the nail on the head with people who follow trends; especially entering an already established space but acting like a tastemaker or even an “influencer.” I don’t personally see anything wrong with arriving to the party late as long as the party truly aligns and it’s not just because of a trend. Two examples that comes to mind are comics and anime. I definitely arrived to those parties late, and both have been pulled into trends, but they both align with me. Or, sometimes trends remind us of things we wanted to get into all along, but maybe didn’t have the chance to at whatever time we were initially introduced. I think it honestly boils down to the intention behind it. Hopping on trends just to discard it once the waves pass is f*cking wack.
@sgsparks91706 ай бұрын
@@chillcourt that last sentence is it 🎯
@_alexblvck6 ай бұрын
This is it! Capitalism has ruined so much of the things we hold dear smh.
@chillcourt6 ай бұрын
It felt good to be home. Had a good time recording this. I hope y’all enjoy. 🙏🏾
@coolinreallife6 ай бұрын
💯
@sistermyoho6 ай бұрын
Aloha, proud. Always 💓🥂💐🙏
@_alexblvck6 ай бұрын
Thank you, we love you! And thank you for introducing me to Free Bird 🫶🏾