You must be uneducated on the way your body heals and strengthens itself postpartum. Women aren't left with a hole the size of their babies head down there. Everything goes back to normal, especially with postpartum rehab. C-section mothers aren't free from pelvic floor dysfunction either. The weight of the baby in utero puts lots of pressure on your pelvic floor. This video is beautiful and shows very well the magic that happens during childbirth! I feel sad that you didn't get to experience it. It's an absolutely sensational experience. Nothing compares to how proud you feel of yourself. There are no flaws with the human design.

King Louis wanted to see the birth of his child. Being a king, he didn't want to get on the floor or lower his physical position to see her deliver as women had always done. She was directed to lay on her back and those who witnessed or heard about how she gave birth thought it was a great thing. Back birthing became a status symbol (when it was just a selfish, stupid dude wanting life to be about him) and began spreading the word. Since then, birth is somehow about the comfort of the person looking and not the person pushing out the child. 😒😏🤔

I'm more or less the same as you apart from I can lie on my right side only. Have you found any relief or help since your post 7,MTHS ago

Me too! 🤣🤣

How are you doing? If you're having genital area pain that you believe is originating further up the spine, one possibility is the genitofemoral nerve. Your pain doesn't sound like pudendal neuralgia. Rotator cuff is obviously a completely different area, but when your under anesthesia, you never know what odd position they cold have placed you in.

You're not funny dude, why are you disgusted?

lmao

literally how you came to be. grow up.

Question: What is Mansplaining?

U healed

Fuck nah this shit hurts

That’s the real question. Thinking is one thing… but this nerve pain is brutal. The nerve pain destroys your life. There is a reason people commit suicide because of this condition. I’m sorry but it doesn’t sound like her case is bad at all. I am going on 8 years…. And, I hate to say this so much, am losing hope & feeling helpless. But I’m trying to keep my faith up, positivity etc.

@@dianalynnelizabeth780 I'm so sorry to hear that. I'm on the same boat with you except I've only been experiencing it for about 3 months. I've been suicidal for almost a decade now and this condition has made those ideations a lot worse than they already were. To me, it just does not seem like a life worth living. If there were assisted suicide in the state I live in, I would be signing up for it. I hope everything gets better for you.

@@lukemarshall118 I’m so sorry 💔😢 and am of course completely empathetic. I hope and pray things get better for all of us. I wonder if there are research studies or research in general going on to help deal with nerve pain, I haven’t heard about it. There is no national platform for Pudendal Neuralgia. It’s not out there in the public awareness like cancer, ms, diabetes, etc. Marin Hinkle and Paige Davis both have come out with their Pudendal Neuralgia diagnosis. However, they came out in articles talking about, but are doing absolutely NO advocacy work for it all even though they have a huge platform at their disposal that the rest of us DO NOT have. I have thought about writing to them and seeing if I can get a response about getting involved. Do they even realize how many people they could help if they just used their celebrity status to raise awareness and push for research to be done? If they do and aren’t doing anything about it, shame. But if they don’t I think they need to be made aware. I would hope that maybe if people starting writing them letters, they may be willing to join forces with other PN sufferers and get out there to help make a REAL difference. I hope and pray for all of us that we find the miracles we all need so desperately. 💜🙏🏻🕊️. Edit: and the thing about this condition is that it is not ONLY a woman’s issue, men can get this too! So I really don’t understand why there aren’t any open, national efforts to truly raise awareness and get more research going. And if you hear of any research studies being done or other information, let me know. Are you in any support group sites like on fb or even just on the internet itself Luke? I know sometimes that can make one feel more hopeless ironically enough, BUT useful information can also be found in those groups by bouncing off of one another’s various experiences. Thoughts?

@DeliciousWontons 😢💔 check out my reply to Luke, I’d like to maybe hear if you have any thoughts about trying to make a difference…somehow…

@@dianalynnelizabeth780 No I am not in any support groups but I am in physical therapy to try to help get rid of this condition. Because for me dealing with this condition just wouldn’t work I want to get rid of this all together because I cannot live a happy life with this condition at all. And I don’t know how you went on eight years and are still here. Because if I were in your shoes I would’ve already been gone. I am at my wits end with this condition and if this doesn’t go away within the next five years I just don’t think I can move on with life anymore. I just don’t think support is going to be enough for this. This is just way more than I can handle. Like I said I am going to give us a chance to go away but if it doesn’t then I’m afraid that’s just gonna be it for me.