There's Life After Divorce 6
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Pullin' Em Over
8:04
19 сағат бұрын
$25 tree removal
1:12
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There's Life After Divorce 5
2:53
There's Life After Divorce 4
2:29
There's Life After Divorce 2
2:28
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There's Life After Divorce 1
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my babies 2
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my babies 1
1:10
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cliff clearing job
4:48
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FireWood
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Take A Hike
15:27
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$150/hr
6:29
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healin up i guess
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tree slayin
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bullseye
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On To The Next One
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@endofthebarscreamer6998
@endofthebarscreamer6998 21 сағат бұрын
Thank you very much
@certifiedhoarder
@certifiedhoarder 21 сағат бұрын
You are welcome
@certifiedhoarder
@certifiedhoarder Күн бұрын
Im sorry i forgot to mute the high speed audio on this one!
@JohnWilliams-jx6tl
@JohnWilliams-jx6tl 9 күн бұрын
Amen brother. Yeah your not covering your costs. But there are jobs for people that we do for the simple reason of helping others. I myself have and still do jobs for a lot less than I normally charge cause it was the right thing to do
@certifiedhoarder
@certifiedhoarder 9 күн бұрын
I charge $150/hr and make my living with the machine. The vid is just demonstrating what value you get when you use the right tool for the job.
@FaceNorthForestry
@FaceNorthForestry 10 күн бұрын
Great attitude to screw ups, they happen. Over time the good days and bad will balance out, you might even come out in credit.😂
@Kejsh22
@Kejsh22 10 күн бұрын
You are definitely not covering your costs by charging $26. You have the cost of your equipment, transporting it to the job site, gas, insurance and your time to and from the job site.
@certifiedhoarder
@certifiedhoarder 9 күн бұрын
You think $150/hr isnt high enough? I have been on that property for days. Its demonstrating how efficient a dozer and tree spear is for the landowner.
@ToddAdams1234
@ToddAdams1234 13 күн бұрын
Awesomeness 👍🫡
@ToddAdams1234
@ToddAdams1234 15 күн бұрын
CH, she’s a very nice looking individual for certain. If she was in my AO she’d be in trouble for sure! That would be quite a loss if she gets away to a man that doesn’t deserve her, so DON’T let that happen, make her know it but make it be known that it takes two to tango (2 to argue, 2 to fight, 2 to be happy together, 2 to be miserable and 2 to so on and so on) but it only takes one takes 1 to lie or cheat or steal. THOSE ARE DEAL BREAKERS! But she is arm candy!
@sc4112
@sc4112 18 күн бұрын
If it's abusive, RUN and don't look back. If the avoidantly-attached person is noble, honest, and willing to do the work and make progress, the relationship can be amazing. A healed avoidant is loyal and full of love, and has just been terrified of being let down and heartbroken one more time. My dear (avoidantly-attached) husband took the courageous step of giving our relationship a chance, and over the years, he has learned that it's safe to let down his guard and open his heart, and he's more securely attached now. We have a deep and genuine bond and I'm all his. As a healed anxiously-attached person who is now secure, the struggle was real on the front side of the relationship, but the reward of an affectionate, protective, and attentive husband is priceless.
@smbritton1
@smbritton1 24 күн бұрын
A DA here. The DA behaviors described here exist in a spectrum and gradations. The traits are context and situation-sensitive. I felt a lack of emotional fulfillment, leading me to improve my relationships and learn from my mistakes well before I was aware of attachment styles. My journey is more typical of a DA person.
@certifiedhoarder
@certifiedhoarder 24 күн бұрын
It turns out im a FA, and i experience the full range under varying circumstances. From anxious at one extreme to dismissive at the other, with secure in the middle which is where im trying to stay.
@pawelkrokun9358
@pawelkrokun9358 Ай бұрын
Hey there, trying to fix my 1984 F150 and wondering why it turns the starter but no spark, also not much works in the truck(lights , radio), coulsd it be this ignition starter switch? Also can't put my key in to the ignition(could be an old jammed up key cilynder) but it cranks without the key
@certifiedhoarder
@certifiedhoarder 28 күн бұрын
Well start with a can of wd40 with the straw and hosing it all up in the key cylinder and all around any column access crack. Itll turn easy when you hit it. If not youll break a little link that i hear is a B**** to change. My guess you arent getting 12vdc to tbe coil or the ground wire on the other side has lost continuity. Im not able to say for sure why yours aint working but a bad key switch will cut the juice to the coil for sure.
@AdamBechtol
@AdamBechtol Ай бұрын
Nice, thanks for sharing. I've thought about this problem in my head and likely would have resorted to ropes and pulleys, (though I've almost no experience). Your description was thorough and easy to follow, and it's neat to see homemade specialty tools.
@certifiedhoarder
@certifiedhoarder Ай бұрын
Glad it helped
@tgreenejams
@tgreenejams Ай бұрын
Great technique! Can't wait to try it!
@certifiedhoarder
@certifiedhoarder Ай бұрын
Be careful. Be sure any wood youre counting on is sound. Catch the chips and inspect color for rot on that first cut.
@Badger.008
@Badger.008 Ай бұрын
My 1983 Ford f250 does that sometimes, but it doesn't start right away or turn over! It usually takes a second or 2 before it starts right up. Why is that? It has a new - starter -solenoid -altantor ignition switch
@certifiedhoarder
@certifiedhoarder Ай бұрын
It takes a second or two for the starter bendix to kick out and start rolling the crank over, or it takes a few seconds of cranking to fire?
@Badger.008
@Badger.008 Ай бұрын
@certifiedhoarder it doesn't make a cranking sound right away. It takes a few seconds, then it starts to crank up ND starts.
@certifiedhoarder
@certifiedhoarder Ай бұрын
@@Badger.008 thats a wierd one, ya got me. Neutral safety is only other thing in that circuit i think. Its on the trans for automatics
@Badger.008
@Badger.008 Ай бұрын
@certifiedhoarder okay, my truck is an automatic. I'll keep messing with it, I feel like it has to do with the wires. They are original. Thanks anyway!
@blackinvestmentgroup
@blackinvestmentgroup Ай бұрын
1985 coachmen e350 nothing happens when I turn the key no dash gauge nothing but if I bump the solenoid it turns over stong
@certifiedhoarder
@certifiedhoarder Ай бұрын
Im guessing there is a blown fuse feeding power into the ignition switch, or a burnt wire, or the neutral safety switch on the trains has failed or been pulled off by something. The power flows from the neutral safety to the ignition switch. NSS is upstream of the key in other words
@blackinvestmentgroup
@blackinvestmentgroup 29 күн бұрын
@@certifiedhoarder fuses are good under the dash checked all and noticed no power to the fuse panel either will NSS cause that also? Going to change it out regardless just because it a 1985
@certifiedhoarder
@certifiedhoarder 29 күн бұрын
@@blackinvestmentgroup no power to the main distribution panel is probably your issue but im not familiar with the input side of it at all. Sorry
@TrumpWillwin-v7u
@TrumpWillwin-v7u Ай бұрын
237 thousand miles on my 2011 Chevy Silverado with AFM 5.3 and almost everything still original and going strong
@ToddAdams1234
@ToddAdams1234 Ай бұрын
That’s a pretty good size rootball. 👍🫡
@certifiedhoarder
@certifiedhoarder Ай бұрын
Yes it was!
@allenvinson
@allenvinson Ай бұрын
Great explanation
@certifiedhoarder
@certifiedhoarder Ай бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@aazhie
@aazhie Ай бұрын
That sounds awful, I hope sharing your pain out loud helps :(
@certifiedhoarder
@certifiedhoarder Ай бұрын
It really really helped me dump my shame based identity. Life is good
@sheilagavin6536
@sheilagavin6536 Ай бұрын
Greetings - today your channel appeared on my feed - it is my first time listening & seeing your content. Best blessings to you and your family. I am impressed with your maturity, and your ability to speak from your heart about reality, honestly in truth. Your openness in discussing your life/ journey, relationships, emotional challenges and growth is a beautiful thing. Thank you for sharing your experiences, I subscribed 👍😇🙏
@certifiedhoarder
@certifiedhoarder Ай бұрын
Thank you so much for the kind words miss Gavin.. just trying to be my authentic self once i figure out who that is!
@sapnapandey5922
@sapnapandey5922 Ай бұрын
@thereactionnurse
@thereactionnurse Ай бұрын
one of the best videos on youtube explaining DA's
@certifiedhoarder
@certifiedhoarder Ай бұрын
Wow, thanks! Mine may be an NPD so my opinions may have been a bit to an extreme side of the spectrum!
@thereactionnurse
@thereactionnurse Ай бұрын
great video thank you.
@katehampstead6024
@katehampstead6024 Ай бұрын
I love masculinity. My partner has that kind of masculinity.
@samwalker-fc3os
@samwalker-fc3os Ай бұрын
Good stuff
@sapnapandey5922
@sapnapandey5922 Ай бұрын
I am so sorry i am with you ❤
@sapnapandey5922
@sapnapandey5922 Ай бұрын
@sapnapandey5922
@sapnapandey5922 Ай бұрын
@sapnapandey5922
@sapnapandey5922 Ай бұрын
Thank you for this video it's very validating My feelings.❤
@jenniferhartranft3394
@jenniferhartranft3394 Ай бұрын
This was a small comfort to me, thank you.
@certifiedhoarder
@certifiedhoarder Ай бұрын
Really? How so?
@Jarrod2323
@Jarrod2323 Ай бұрын
Does that black wire going across the switch need to be removed before installation
@-CBA-
@-CBA- Ай бұрын
WOW much love brother
@DannyZúñigaperez
@DannyZúñigaperez Ай бұрын
So the metal wire that comes on the new one do we just remove it ?
@kelbruder
@kelbruder Ай бұрын
Same question Did you figure it out?
@ASP3N-311
@ASP3N-311 Ай бұрын
That’s so crazy! 😮
@mad__sketch9598
@mad__sketch9598 Ай бұрын
😢
@sylph99
@sylph99 Ай бұрын
Thank you for the most concise account of the DA dysfunction on KZbin. Subscribed 😊
@certifiedhoarder
@certifiedhoarder Ай бұрын
Welcome aboard!
@manojpathak-ql5op
@manojpathak-ql5op 2 ай бұрын
Thank you ❤
@certifiedhoarder
@certifiedhoarder 2 ай бұрын
You're welcome
@jamesguthrie7986
@jamesguthrie7986 2 ай бұрын
Liked going to focus on management of stress... taking every thought captive is freedom.go God.. fight!
@Wozamotorbikeadventures
@Wozamotorbikeadventures 2 ай бұрын
Nothing wrong with you your just trying to sort your head out peace .be with you my friend
@certifiedhoarder
@certifiedhoarder 2 ай бұрын
Yeah thats the goal, full time peace in any circumstance.
@Wozamotorbikeadventures
@Wozamotorbikeadventures 2 ай бұрын
@@certifiedhoarder I realized after many years only oneself Can find ones peace .
@Jacob1986
@Jacob1986 2 ай бұрын
Is the temperature one operated by cable too?
@certifiedhoarder
@certifiedhoarder 2 ай бұрын
Im sorry but i dont recall
@Casiusss3
@Casiusss3 2 ай бұрын
I am gonna to add my expirience as a point of understanding this borderline, narc thing. Once I took shrooms with my ex narc women. We took heroic doses. In one moment she was laying on me and I felt that she was sucking my whole life energy. She hold me tight, we were both with out our clothes. I felt whole her body sucking me in. Then I felt I am drawing into her I look up and I saw me and her laying on the bad in this position. Then I realized I was in "her". There was very cold dark, gray space. It was terrible experience. I felt nothingness. It was so dreadful. This dark, gray cloud was vastness and empty. I felt and I think it was hell for me, feeling nothing, no emotion no life. Then of my left I spotted light. I looked in this direction and I saw bal of light covered in this dark, gray cloud. I recognized it was her soul trapped, dimmed in this dark cloud. This light/soul want to connect to her body but due to this dark, gray cloud it was not possible. It was not a dream for sure. Till this day this experience was terrific for me. I felt this lost of connection as a root cause of this behavior. This connection was broken by her trauma and of course her subconscious choice to not connect to her soul.
@certifiedhoarder
@certifiedhoarder 2 ай бұрын
Wow.. thats a wonderful description and i believe it to be accurate. There is an innocent child trapped in that dark fortress that was built for them by trauma...and we get addicted to the little glimpses when that child comes briefly to the window!
@aazhie
@aazhie 2 ай бұрын
The wisdom with this comfy outfit are such a delightful compliment.
@certifiedhoarder
@certifiedhoarder 2 ай бұрын
LOL, thank you!
@Bob-gn8ph
@Bob-gn8ph 2 ай бұрын
❤John 3,16 ❤
@ogheat2453
@ogheat2453 2 ай бұрын
Wow great video brother!
@certifiedhoarder
@certifiedhoarder 2 ай бұрын
Appreciate it!
@azeemade5989
@azeemade5989 2 ай бұрын
Gr8 video, am having the same problem but ur video helped solve problems of years in less than 1hr
@tracyalday462
@tracyalday462 2 ай бұрын
I did this because I watched my husband do it once on my car and I had forgotten how. But let me tell you how I made it easier and had it thrown back together in no time. I used electrical tape to go the top end up where that little gold square goes in the top of the dial so it wouldn't pop out once I got it in because that was a real issue for me, keeping it in place while trying to thread it around the dial. Next I got a pair of toenail clippers and separated the 3 wires, made the threading easy peasy. Put tension on the whole shebang while screwing the little screw in, then wrapped the bottom part past the plastic with more electrical tape. That wire never once even thought about moving. I'm assuming because I had a good amount of tension on the wires with no slack in the dial while taping. This video really helped me and I hope I in turn have helped you. ❤
@certifiedhoarder
@certifiedhoarder 2 ай бұрын
Thank you. This fix wont last forever but itll get you thru a season before the cable housing mushes up again.
@sonofhibbs4425
@sonofhibbs4425 2 ай бұрын
Wise words to your elder friend in separation. It was just now, listening to you that it dawned on me, divorce is a lot like how people commit suicide thinking things will get better on ‘the other side’ but there has never been ANY proof that it’s ‘better’, or the ‘same’. It could be WORSE! It’s the ‘lie’ of suicide. This isn’t said to nullify any reasons to divorce (where it would be better, and that it is necessary to divorce…I can think of a few). I’m just comparing those who think it’s a ‘cure’ for marital ills and will reach for it when things get ‘bad’. There is no guarantee. And if there’s something unchecked within one’s self, the same destruction will follow into one’s next relationship. I’ve never been married, but it seems tougher for those who do go through a divorce. I appreciate you sharing your insights.
@certifiedhoarder
@certifiedhoarder 2 ай бұрын
I agree. Ive been divorced 2x. In both cases it had to happen and there was a surprise each time.. terrible agony at just how bad you can miss someone that hurt you so deeply when you had them. But it wasnt their fault they got into my life to harm me, it was mine for allowing them to in the first place. Pain is a sharp punctuation mark on lifes imortant lessons. Its why we only need to touch a stove once.
@lcclark8370
@lcclark8370 2 ай бұрын
hey this video was recommened to me. you seem broken like me imo but not in a tragic way. there is a little light left in your eyes. you have been misunderstood for so long I feel but we will get through this. We will climb up and out and we will be loved.
@certifiedhoarder
@certifiedhoarder 2 ай бұрын
Im sure of it!
@sonofhibbs4425
@sonofhibbs4425 2 ай бұрын
Joel Haver had an excellent video on how a child internalizes their parent’s anger. As you watch the video it’s humorous because the father’s disgruntled anger and frustration being taken out on household objects seems like nothing to the adult, but to the child, it’s absolutely terrifying. I don’t remember the video’s title. I just remember Joel acting as a child, cowering in the dark corner watching and wincing as his dad (also played by himself) was hitting the blinds that aren’t functioning easily enough for him. I thought it was a very poignant important video to show the sensitivity of a child and that through a child’s eyes, a parent’s wrath is no small thing. Are you an infj by any chance? -referring to the Myers Briggs personality test. I like how you put it in the beginning of your video: Keeping the wrong relationships alive. It’s so difficult to come to the understanding exactly what relationships are right and which ones are wrong when your upbringing had you used to ‘wrong’. I think this is quite a common thing unfortunately. I think also the role of religion kept (back then, how prevent it was in relation to today) people where they shouldn’t be, but at the same time religion can be hailed for keeping some things together as they should. Know when to hold ‘em, know when to fold ‘em, type thing.
@certifiedhoarder
@certifiedhoarder 2 ай бұрын
Im gonna go look for that vid thank you. Never took the test.. i have a hard time choosing any answer on any of them. If i take it 3x i will get 3 answers. Its part of tossing your identity so you can be chosen by whoever you need to choose you.
@katehampstead6024
@katehampstead6024 2 ай бұрын
Wow, you have expressed this very well. I'm getting over a bad childhood too. Keep talking it through, privately to yourself, and here on KZbin. Those who have been through this horror get it, and can help each other.
@certifiedhoarder
@certifiedhoarder 2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much kate, hang in there. One day at a time girl
@carolcollins3108
@carolcollins3108 2 ай бұрын
Oh I know this all too well. Be very kind to yourself. Time to look into the mirror and promise, that you will take good care of you. Be very kind and compassionate to yourself and give yourself whatever you need emotionally. Sit with God and just let God love you, because God really does love you. May your healing path be beautiful. I understand all that you've said. Because that's my experience too. But God is Great and healing me constantly. Be Blest
@certifiedhoarder
@certifiedhoarder 2 ай бұрын
Praise Jesus.. thank you for saying all that. This is the plan! Peace be with you carol