ha ha ha, I had a boss like this once. pain in the ass.
@heydeanie40 минут бұрын
You were rude, u deserved a write up
@Stephaniecarlisle052938 минут бұрын
@@heydeanie well I didn’t get one. Sorry to disappoint you
@Stephaniecarlisle052937 минут бұрын
@@heydeanie you can come deal with them anytime you want to.
@cherami-nox-fleuret6 сағат бұрын
The irony of her having a child's handwriting..
@zerotodona14958 сағат бұрын
There’s nothing wrong with transphobia. Letting men into the women’s areas is disgusting. Mistaking a lesbian for a man though is the lesbian’s fault.
@Stephaniecarlisle05292 сағат бұрын
Who ever said she was a lesbian? No one ever. She looks like a girl. Dresses like a girl and has always been a girl.
@vermithax9 сағат бұрын
I like how you were going to keep your personal feelings out of it -- and then you didn't. Good for you, ma'am.
@Stephaniecarlisle05292 сағат бұрын
I still never have my personal feelings. Just an overall consideration for all people
@AnniekinsMyshkamouse-r4j10 сағат бұрын
She is like the businesses that want experienced employees but never hire so they can get experience. Sometimes, having no experience was good, so I did not have to spend forever retraining bad habits out of employees.
@Stephaniecarlisle05292 сағат бұрын
That’s very true
@AnniekinsMyshkamouse-r4j10 сағат бұрын
When I placed my Mother on Hospice, the VNA Hospice team got a prescription from the Doctor for her to have her wine. She always had a small glass with dinner at home. She only had a few sips a couple times. But, it was the principal of how everyone tried to care for her.
@Stephaniecarlisle05292 сағат бұрын
That’s so sweet
@RJ-sb5qr11 сағат бұрын
If a natural born woman uses the ladies' room, that's perfectly acceptable. It's when a natural born man, dressed like a woman, wants to use the lady's room, that's when I have a problem. I truly don't care what or who you think you are. But if you have a penis you use the men's facilities. If you have a vagina, you use the ladies' facilities no matter where you are. I know I just rambled, but this skit hit a nerve because this is obviously a female, apparently not dressed lady like, was basically being judged by their appearance. Like I said, I don't care what or who you think you are, just please use the proper facilities no matter what.
@murielsmith754014 сағат бұрын
Why do you have pj's on?
@Stephaniecarlisle052914 сағат бұрын
@@murielsmith7540 because I can 🤷♀️
@Buteo1415 сағат бұрын
Not even funny
@Stephaniecarlisle052915 сағат бұрын
@@Buteo14 it’s really not. She made that server feel like crap for no reason. The server is a girl and has always been a girl and even dresses like a girl
@nicoleparreira102417 сағат бұрын
The tone you hit for “Cook your own food” is my inner voice when I AM DONE too.
@Stephaniecarlisle052914 сағат бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@a.j.nunnaurbiz653517 сағат бұрын
🎤 *mic drop*
@KK-eh2gm18 сағат бұрын
I wish that I could say this doesn't happen but ... so sad. So ignorant of the Karens.
@Stephaniecarlisle052914 сағат бұрын
Unfortunately there are a lot of Karen’s
@roderickgreig11118 сағат бұрын
Weird. These types of people like Karen are just weird... you forgot to latch?That sounds like a YOU problem. Would she havd preferred a woman seeing her pee?How would she know the lady wasn't a lesbian?Why can't we just let people be people, especially when them being the people they are doesn't impact on you AT ALL. We're all just indiduals travelling through life our own way, and bring nice, kind, respectful, and thoughtful towards each other just makes life that little bit better for us all. Karens now use 'Woke' as an insults - it's like calling someone kind and expecting them to be hurt. Karen's be like: “Kindness is what's wrong with 'Merica - all this Kindness made everyone lily-livered. In my day there weren't no being all Kind and Nice. We didn't like someone we told them so, 'fore taking em to the hanging tree.” Yeah, alright Karen, but if you wouldn't mind, I'm in the middle of enjoying my day with the smiley people...
@Stephaniecarlisle052914 сағат бұрын
Yesssss. It takes so much less effort to just be kind to people.
@ytadventurer917018 сағат бұрын
The ONLY situations in which Trans people should have any restrictions (IMO) are: 1. Romantic relationships. Prospective partners deserve to know certain basic facts about each other by the end of the first date at the very latest. 2. Competitive sports. Unfortunately, at this time, it's just not possible for transitioned females to compete fairly in women's sports, due to undeniable natural physiological differences between genders that no currently available treatments can overcome.
@Jane-t1z18 сағат бұрын
It saddens me that people like this Karen exists. My late husband used to be a bit homophobic. But a lot of my friends are gay. He finally understood that they were and are people. And he would agree with most of my friends, i am predudice against Karen's
@Stephaniecarlisle052914 сағат бұрын
I’m an equal opportunity hater I guess. I don’t like anyone that is rude and has to create and cause problems wherever they go.
@roxcyn19 сағат бұрын
It looks like Karen won’t be eating there any time soon. Give hugs 🤗 to Kate from all of us. Thank you for standing up for all your customers and employees that want to be treated kindly and with respect.
@Stephaniecarlisle052919 сағат бұрын
Thank you, I will
@GoodNeutralEvilChaos20 сағат бұрын
"I'm in the wrong business. I need to run a restaurant." Only if it's successful, mate.
@Stephaniecarlisle052920 сағат бұрын
Exactly 😂
@debbimahan509520 сағат бұрын
Bottom line : latch your bathroom door. Duh ! P.S. no one wants to see you with your skirt up or your pants down. 😱 I'd say Kate was more traumatized than you.
@lelandgaunt998520 сағат бұрын
Olde parts🤪
@lelandgaunt998522 сағат бұрын
I was bi- curious about this story…..
@Stephaniecarlisle052920 сағат бұрын
The person Karen is referring to is a girl and has always been a girl and dresses like a girl. Karen was way off base
Well done. Thank you for Karen's learning experience; whether she gets it or not is a separate issue. 🙏
@Stephaniecarlisle052920 сағат бұрын
I don’t think she gets it
@namastezen330020 сағат бұрын
@@Stephaniecarlisle0529 your efforts help set the stage. Good effort. Thank you
@GoodNeutralEvilChaos22 сағат бұрын
I absolutely fell in love with Hawaiian culture when I learnt their cultural perspective on trans, "It's not a way of life, it's who you are."
@anndownsouth507021 сағат бұрын
Like I told someone today, you don't become gay or decide to become gay. Either you are or you're not.
@GoodNeutralEvilChaos20 сағат бұрын
@anndownsouth5070 that's something I learnt myself.
@mypinklife341522 сағат бұрын
Stay home and cook your own food Karen, lol
@bearpetunia22 сағат бұрын
This makes me think of when 2 Kpop idols were going to the restroom and were told they were in the wrong restroom lol Amber Liu was mistaken as a male due to her attire and hair Kim Heechul is a man and when the incident happened, he had long hair (likely shoulder length) and he was stopped from going to the men's room and guided him to the ladies room. When Heechul protested, a lady came out of the restroom and encouraged him to go inside and use it 😂
@Stephaniecarlisle052920 сағат бұрын
Oh goodness 😂
@ano07060223 сағат бұрын
You cannot fix stupid. No matter how hard you try.
@Stephaniecarlisle052920 сағат бұрын
Not even with a stick
@a.j.nunnaurbiz653517 сағат бұрын
@@Stephaniecarlisle0529 😆
@peanutbutrs23 сағат бұрын
I dont understand how karens are so resistant to treating others with basic decency and still manage to think theyre in the right. The mental gymnastics 😂 thanks for not letting that crap slide
@Stephaniecarlisle052920 сағат бұрын
I couldn’t let that slide
@tracyharrington697623 сағат бұрын
Oh sweet suffering succotash those damn Karens get more insane by the day.. Mid pee or NOT can you not be such a shit oh and get new glasses or clean the ones you have you blind bag 🤬🤬🤬🤬
@what_equals_4223 сағат бұрын
Wow, that Karen is messed up on so many levels! I feel bad for Kate and what sounds like her fantastic pixie cut she was probably so happy with before meeting Karen. But then, there's the transphobia. Why is it any of Karen's business what another person chooses to feel about their body?! Being trans is not a communicable disease, and yes trans people deserve to be served in restaurants, it's amazing anyone feels otherwise in 2024! 😬
@Stephaniecarlisle052923 сағат бұрын
Agreed
@maryloupatten709623 сағат бұрын
Absolutely love your channel! And agree with you 100%! Keep up the excellent work!!!
@Stephaniecarlisle052923 сағат бұрын
Thanks so much!
@markchaplain1152Күн бұрын
Giraffes eyelashes 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@Stephaniecarlisle052923 сағат бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@markchaplain1152Күн бұрын
Seems like EV = low IQ
@roderickgreig111Күн бұрын
“Why can't I get the Wednesday discount today?” - “Because today isn't Wednesday?That's generally how day deals work.” - “Then why did you give that other guy a deal?I saw you do it while I was waiting.” - “Who?That guy. That's Jack.” - “So?Why does he get a discount?” - “Let me tell you about Jack. Jack comes here for a beer or two three days a week after work. Has done as long as I've worked here. Him and his wife come for our monthly quiz. He brings work buddies from time to time. Our boss knows him well, and let's us treat him nice. He treats us nice too. Christmas, New Year, Birthdays - he's here but never gets drunk. When one of our servers had a baby girl last year, his wife brought in gifts for her 'new little angel'. If ever he finds out we gave him a discount, he leaves it as an extra tip. If we need the restroom, he'll watch the bar. If someone is problem, we know he'll help us if he's here. He never asks for anything special, but is kind and respectful to anyone who works here. Now, are you like Jack?No?So... ”
@alexanderralph8341Күн бұрын
I can't speak to my employer like that, because then I'd get fired, and the job I've maintained for 10 months will have gone straight down the drain because he won't have a good reference for me.
@goldengryphonКүн бұрын
Having to point out reality is hard on people, especially if you worry about getting fired for it. I'm sorry your boss is having trouble with truth. That's hard.
@Stephaniecarlisle052923 сағат бұрын
I didn’t speak to him disrespectful
@PabloJones819Күн бұрын
Steph lova I want to stop by your restaurant. 😇
@Stephaniecarlisle052923 сағат бұрын
Come on down
@KentBallantyneКүн бұрын
I'm Sorry but NO , you can't talk to customers (plural) like that . Two Words . You're Fired ! Happy Trails
@Stephaniecarlisle052923 сағат бұрын
It’s a skit Kent 😂
@Stephaniecarlisle052923 сағат бұрын
You’re welcome to deal with all of the Karen’s yourself.
@waltblackadar469019 сағат бұрын
I tend to agree with Kent. No means no and you don't need to add "you're dumb". No is a complete sentence all on its own.
@kaycampbell8532Күн бұрын
Bosses need to grow a backbone stand behind their staff.
@Stephaniecarlisle052923 сағат бұрын
Thank you 🙏
@SunshineCatwoman12 сағат бұрын
The problem is that whole "the customer is always right" garbage that many restaurants go by. No, the customer is NOT always right. Sometimes the customer should learn some manners before going out in public.
@kaycampbell853210 сағат бұрын
@Chris.....I agree with you. The customer ISN'T always right. I don't know who started that saying but they were wrong. There should be mutual respect between the business and customer. If the customer is the problem, eject and ban them. Employees shouldn't have to put up with abusive, obnoxious custmers....EVER! That's in any business, not just restaurants.
@nancylindsay4255Күн бұрын
I can relate. As a communication assistant for a telephone relay service for the deaf and hard of hearing we replicated the telephone experience by typing conversations verbatim and describing any background sounds, as in "sounds like dog barking in background" or "sounds like thin stream of water falling into basin of water."
@Stephaniecarlisle052923 сағат бұрын
😑 I bet that’s weird for you to have to transcribe
@RJ-sb5qrКүн бұрын
Sassy is right. You don't give a specific daily special on any other day than the specific day. Next time, have a small calendar in your pocket and give a visual example of how Wednesday and Saturday are 2 different days that are spelled and sound different.
@Stephaniecarlisle052923 сағат бұрын
Spelled totally different 😂
@AnniekinsMyshkamouse-r4jКүн бұрын
"I'm a regular so I am special." Maybe not the way they think. Would have been sad if someone seeded the parking lot with metal screws.
@namastezen3300Күн бұрын
Does this mean that you are looking for work? Part 2 on the way?
@Stephaniecarlisle0529Күн бұрын
No. Not at all
@namastezen3300Күн бұрын
@@Stephaniecarlisle0529 The owner knows what side their bread is buttered on. Good for you.
@radolfkalis4041Күн бұрын
HAHAHAHA!!!! And a hearty F you to the boss!!! HAHAHAHAHAHAHAAA!!!
@Stephaniecarlisle0529Күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@DH-mf6jfКүн бұрын
It was absolutely ridiculous how many people would come in during the weekend or after happy hour had ended and complain that we didn’t give them happy hour pricing. Like ma’am happy hour is Mon-Fri 4-6, it is 8pm on a Saturday🤦 We had one manager that would give people the discount anyways “for the trouble”, even though the menu clearly states what time happy hour is. That’s part of the reason I ended up leaving. I can’t take stupid customers and stupid leadership at the same time.
@Stephaniecarlisle0529Күн бұрын
Soooo true. If you have a rule you should enforce it
@a.j.nunnaurbiz6535Күн бұрын
Umm... Owner? That WAS 'gentle guidance.' If Stephanie had been free to speak her mind, I'm pretty sure Karen's ears would still be burning.
@terrillcampbell673Күн бұрын
I've actually stood up to a couple of Karen's just to protect the server. Several people clapped for me. I was offered my food free but I had to much fun putting those people in their place 😂😂😂 I left a nice tip. I also told the manager that they should ban people like that because they ruin a good meal for everyone else. Have a beautiful day ❤
@Stephaniecarlisle0529Күн бұрын
Yessss and we absolutely love guests like you. Plz don’t ever stop
@gamingnerdgirlzКүн бұрын
I would have gotten the owner to explain to Karen no means no. And being like “if you want me explain it go ahead, because I will tell them no. now it’s your problem boss.”
@Stephaniecarlisle0529Күн бұрын
Yes because why do I need to gently guide a grown adult?
@grj5237Күн бұрын
😂
@elainebell26Күн бұрын
Basic hygiene, people!!!!! It ain't rocket science!!!!
@Stephaniecarlisle0529Күн бұрын
Thank you 🙏
@chriscooper654Күн бұрын
Oh, wonderful! Owner is indeed an enabler; an entitled person is INCAPABLE of being "gently guided" into understanding that they're wrong. They deal in absolutes, so only a very blunt "No" will actually penetrate their narcissism. And to their snowflake egos, that feels like the worst pain EVER...