great video this week! this is our first time on this planet, we are not supposed to know everything

You're not stupid at all. And besides that, you look amazing lately!

Wise words 👍

Bro that's so simple and clean 😮❤

There three kinds of friends in that regard: Friends for a Reason; for a Season and for a Lifetime. When you understand this you are able to appreciate each one for who they are and especially appreciate the friends for a lifetime much more.

Ngl that cat is adorable 🥰 like a little creme brulee 😊❤

Do you delete your instagram and TikTok? The links don’t work

Geddit Olivia ❤

That leather jacket ❤😮

Putting work in 🔥 how tall are you ?

Thank you for this ❤️ you're very insightful Olivia 😊 🐸🐸

Pretty insightful and engaging way of speaking, thanks mate.

you are a great women who understood reality. AWESOME🥰🥰🥰🥰

is you live in car?

damn liv, you a snack

My life is full of fleeting moments with special, but temporary people. I still reminisce about a girl I dated for 3 WEEKS(!) 10 years ago, I'm ok with it. c:

thank you so so so much liv!! 🐸🤍

While she makes very good points, I always do laugh a little at video titles like this when the person presenting them looks like a young 20-something because it's much easier to be optimistic at that age.

Any worthwhile person in your life would be happy/supportive of any positive changes you've made, and if they're not, they're not worth your time/might possibly act as an anchor to drag you down/make you regress as a person. You are who you associate with, so if you want positive change, disassociate with negative people - they absolutely will drag you down to hell with them.

Im so sorry. I’ve never been diagnosed but I have felt this way as well. Not fun at all. I felt like I was driving myself crazy for no reason.

Found you in Tiktok from your shameless youtube shout out.

❤

"It’s never too late to do better"....said her Last Boyfriend!!!!

Why is there subtitle ?

omg this!! show up everyday for 30min, until you create the habit of doing it everyday.

The chair looks so good

hi liv, i really love your content and i was wondering if you could sometime do a video on how to keep moving through life while missing someone you love. basically like how to get over someone who had to step out of your life. thank you! 🤍

cats made it so funny

new favorite youtuber

Marry me

im nhlst and idk hoow and what to do 4 change that and im already in therapy ha

same with Mortalists and anti natalists. something that these people cannot seem to grasp is, that any time you "end the suffering" you also end the pleasure and the ability to feel it which in itself is torture.

i have wacky ambitions like i've always wanted to have a show on adult swim, this is not a serious endevour but ive mentioned it to TWO dif friends, no relation to each other and it was "???? why" like HUH is it a problem? like is adult swim this devisive and i had no idea. i have ideas for a story that would fit perfectly on adult swim \. like geez i wasnt evven serious XP and now i felt so bad, like what am i being judged for lmao. but i wanna be a mangaka (seriosu endevour) but idk. i meniotned it once and i wasnt expecting much of a response, but even with my expectiations low. the response i got felt like "oh. neat?" like um pls what is wrong with what i want to do like. im dying here. i wanna start uploading on youtuve, but i feel like the content id make is something they'd also find weird even though with one of them, ive always supported her: her writing, edits, fun and silly youtube videos, ALWAYS. but i got such a wierd response that one time im like ":o ok!". i mean, i dont mean to say that if i do something nice for someone, i want the same treatment, but it does feel iffy when you give that love and supprt and for something (even unserious) that you wanna do, just hit with *judgment* and *shame*.

the line about faith in the unknown hit me ☹️

I can definitely say I’m on the nihilistic side, but I don’t agree with the idea of “just do whatever you want with no consequence”. In my eyes, Karma exists for a reason so it’s important to treat people kindly and have a passion for connecting with others. So I have hope for the world forsure, bc there’s a lot of good people out there if you look hard enough. But unfortunately, Mother Earth is not being taken care of, and we’ll most likely have to face the consequences from that.. so for me, I tend to think in a “what’s the point in doing anything?” kind of way if that makes sense. However, I do want to get out of my nihilistic mindset. I’ve been trying to find something that will prove to me the life that we live has its purpose and is worth all of these memories we get to make. It’s just.. I know there’s no overall goal here that we’re trying to make as a collective. All the biggest powers that be, are highly manipulative, treat us like lab rats, and are extremely greedy so they all have their own agenda. So the only answer I ever come to the conclusion to is that we destroy everything and start all over again. Idk if that’s a terrible way to look at it or not to be so honest, I just more see the world for how it is. It’s more of accepting the ugly side of humans and realizing that will never go away. So realistically I know a giant reset wouldn’t fix the problem either. My mind’s been wrapped around that idea for quite a while so I’m still trying to figure it out for myself. Sorry if any of this starts so sound more like rambling than a cohesive thought lol..

I didn't know what nihilism was or that I am one until I watched this but it changed my way of thinking, thanks

I can’t with Nihilists. I get it as a phase when being over stimulated or working through trauma but it seems like sometimes people are dedicated to nihilism to avoid meaning and responsibility.

Great job!!

I love your perspective on this. As someone who has struggled so long with people pleasing and caring about others' perception of myself over my own perception of myself, your video was a great reminder to stay authentic 🦃

You did great! 💓 it

Yes! Authenticity! 1 of my values

Also 🦃

For the last few years I’ve been shedding a lot of aspects about myself that didn’t feel authentic. I feel much more myself now and I’m no longer people pleasing like how I used to. It feels uncomfortable at times in like a “doing this for myself feels selfish” kind of way, but I’ve been allowing myself to express myself a lot more and not being afraid of showing my own personality without worrying about others think. I appreciate you bringing this topic up for others to think about

Like your tshirt..the italian one!

Girl I completely understand. I don't have bpd but I understand about loving people and trying to give them your all bc you want to be loved that way. And then they don't, they use it to their advantage or make you feel bad bc they don't reciprocate it. Every guy I've dated or been with relationship wise has been that way. You're not alone though! I remember in a video you said something along the lines of I know someone can love so much bc you're full of that same love that's how I feel. If I'm able to understand just how loving you can be I'm sure there's so many other ppl that also feel the same way as you and I.

You've got this Liv. You are loved so do not think you are not.

Find someone who grows flowers in the darkest parts of you.

You matter.