20s are suppose to be wasted

I'm 40 and I said the exact thing about my 20s, and 30s.. You will say the same thing about your 30s, when you are 40. Trust me mate. Welcome to life..

hey you hadn't wasted anything at all, your past experiences made u become who u are today

I'm 22 Yo and i have all these problems now.

I’ll turn 20 soon. Still don’t have a job, leave with parents, father always supports me but definitely worried about my future my mother vice versa always compares me to others and reminds me my failures like past exams, job problems etc. The worst stuff that I found the girl of my life and tried to gain the position (fixing my life mess) to call here but she found a guy so now I’m feeling purposeless despite that I have a lot of time upfront I just don’t wanna achieve anything like it doesn’t give me any passion just stuffs to put a check mark

Nobady cares if you waste Your life

Thx for sharing

It seems there springs a new trend. 30ish something, telling they wasted their 20s....

Im 16, and this is exactly how i feel, i got to this awareness after i almost got kicked of my school. "Everything bad, is good for something" this is extremely true. And looking at life trought this optic is extremely freeing.

look man you are doing good way better than other people in there 20s what you did work in the long run trust am in the same boat drop my friends I drop the gaming what I do for myself is gym every morning 6am am my own boss work at home what I do in my free time I study medical stuff become a register nurse but been thinking to go for it to become a dermatologist am 24yr

When you want to build muscle what do you do? You break the muscle in order for it to build up and become stronger

Making money is never a waste of time. Waste of time is want something and not being able to because of money.

i think the actual waste is having such a pessimistic mindset that you view things as a waste instead of a lesson. with this mindset you’ll be 40 and picking yourself apart too, your mind will find something.

honestly bro, learning lessons isn’t a waste lol. if it took you ten years to realise things that’s fine.

I wasted mine cuz of disease and I’m still not gonna let it stop me

Why did u delete ur videos?? You're a KZbin gem, honestly!! You've given some of the realest advice I've come across on the Internet, and I've watched a lot of self-development content

Life's true meaning is to get to know yourself. This is truly who i am and if you don't like me, you can go away, accept me or deny me! Good video David!

There’s someone I know just like you and looks like you who was once my friend, he betrayed me and it was for my own good, I had a spiritual awakening. If he doesn’t stop, he will end up like you. You worry even me but it’s rather I was manipulated by family subconsciously and me changing my “life course” every week made me seem like a fool to everyone. This year of spiritual awakening led me to realize my end goal, so now I’m doing what I do for myself in the subconscious. Although for me it was never about ego in my 20s, such as you in your 20s or that friend. It was rather I was lost. Like this comment if this is you 😂 From what your saying it’s weird, last thing I noticed happened to him was him passing out and could have injured his head from falling

I sense that you grew up a people pleaser, I don't know what happened to your childhood but I can feel that you can't live without validation

The good thing is you still look like you are early 20s haha. Fresh face

Where are all your vids?😢

Those who have believed and whose hearts are assured by the remembrance of Allāh. Unquestionably, by the remembrance of Allāh hearts are assured. [Quran: 13-28]

you look like Giovanni Ribisi

You sound like you were actually cool

Excellent video, 100% agree with you. I wasted all my life till age 30, then I am on my way to revolutionize my life

It's strange how rewarding and natural it feels to follow what other people want and then when you innocently decide to go that path life will relentlessly torment this idea out of you, seemingly out of nowhere to you because it just felt natural to do that. You don't even realise you're doing it, you feel like you were born with that mindset, "I must please people".

Waste of space n time! Grow a pair lil 1!

I wasted my 20s not giving F what others thing, not living up the expectations of the society, not following others "life walkthrough tutorial" No refrets. Would do that again. All my mistakes, all my fails saved me from bigger disasters that would happen if everything "worked as I planned" Example one: Didnt get accepted to my dream job after finishing medical school. Years later, girl who got accepted instead of me told me she hates her job, is stressed 24/7 but its hard to leave now cuz "habbit" and she doesnt want to start all over again Example two: Got kicked out from my first job. In the retrospective, most of people there were fu*kin psycho and working there is a living hell. But got some experience Example three: GF broke up with me. If I "fought hard" to save that relationship, maaaaybe we would be still together. But now I realise she was patological liar, manipulator and having "victim mentality". (Nothing was ever her fault, she always had someone or something to blame for all that s*it that happened me) If we were still together, I would waste tons of money and energy trying to help her with her life situation, only to be slowly turned into "beta provider"

I've just turned 26, and I certainly have wasted these past 8 years. And not even doing anything fun, just isolated in my mom's house because of this weird existential anxiety and feelings of constant dejection. I need to get up start moving NOW!! I don't even have a license. I do have the permit though, at least.

Not sure if youll see this but im wondering what you went to school for?

There's wasting and wasting. Having porn addiction, never having had a relationship, feeling like talking to pretty girls is a thing of another world, idealizing youth, living in parents' home, and, worst of all, having escapist tendencies and learned helplessness that make it impossible for you to change at 29 years old is to be very behind. If I would put the work now I would succeed, but I don't know how frankly. Everything fails, I always backslide. Now I even got Gastrosophageal reflux disease and have to take a pill daily (not to mention the quality of life decrease). I feel my life is over, and I can't find anything that I've learned from those years. The only thing I have in my favor is my academic career. I'm doing a PhD and have a scholarship, but I feel like an imposter, I procrastinate and have procrastinated a lot so I haven't read much and so I tend to procrastinate even more and I'm in complete despair. Not to mention the unmet social needs and loneliness. I wish I was born again, but that is just an unhelpful fantasy, like the refuges of porn and videogames. I don't know what to do, frankly. There's no way, I have no internal freedom, I have an addiction and powerful maladaptive habits due to years and years of bad reinforcement.

Thank goodness you brought this up! Truly, investing has changed my perspective on how one can succeed in life; working multiple jobs isn't the optimal way to attain financial freedom and unfortunately, we discover this later in life. Currently earn as much as 10 grand weekly and this has improved my financial life. Great piece!

I’m 30 now. I have no advice for people in their 20s other than don’t be so hard on yourself. 20s is fcking hard. just do the best you can

Thank you so much man. I pray to God that he leads me to become a better person through suffering or comfort. Great video. I learned something

Nobody knows what they are doing in their twenties .. i think most people just dont have a clue

I also feel I wasted my 20's. I just turned 30 2 days ago and self blaming is killing me. Especially because I know it's unfair to have depression and anxiety while most people don't have to live with that weigh of a life that might be already hard for young adults. I can't stop comparing myself to others the same age as me with more success.

Get religion.

I’m 28 and can’t afford to drive my car to work. I’d say owning a house in your 20’s isn’t a waste either. This guy seems like he’s bragging really.

Dude, almost everyone "wasted" their 20s lmao don't worry bout it. This is not a new phenomenon. You're fine.

I'm at 34 and still searching.

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20´s are for waste! And make mistakes and make bad desicions meet wrong friend and choose bad jobs! You call it experiences and they help you to develope. If you dont make mistakes in your live you learn less live lessons. Or this is just an excuse for messing up in your 20´s. Anyway you can fix it in your 30´s 40`s 50`s60´s and so on.

noway you wasted your 20s more than I did

I wasted my early and mid twenties, spending what was supposed to be the best decade of my life being isolated, with zero friends and no boyfriend, living with my parents ,with whom I had a horrible relationship with, being depressed and dealing with social anxiety/GAD and severe OCD. Now I turned 27 a month ago and just decided to turn my life around after being fired from my job during what has been the worst year of my life. Something as drastic and tragic had to happen in order for me to realise that this was the moment for a big change, and that if I didn't do it now I will regret it for the rest of my life. I had to do that in order to save myself. I'm beginning from scratch and started doing everything I didn't/couldn't do in my early/mid twenties. I just moved to a new city and left everything I knew behind. Last night I even went out to socialize like a normal person for the first time in years, I went to a bar with a my cousin and one of his friends. I went to the beach and watched the sunset while lying down on the sand. I also started learning to play the instrument I always wanted to learn and I will start going to concerts this month. I look back to the place I was at 3 months ago and cannot believe how much my life has changed and improved in such a short time. I'm determined to make my 27, 28 and 29's amazing, so I can welcome my 30's with a new mindset. And know it's never too late to begin living your life the way you always wanted, and realise you didn't really waste time, you were just learning and now you became strong, mature, and unstoppable, you will overcome every obstacle that comees your way. You have been through hell and back, now there is nothing that can stop you from living.

I wasn’t financial free until my 30’s and I’m still in my 30’s, bought my second house already, earn on a monthly through passive income and got 4 out of 5 goals, just hope it encourages someone that it doesn’t matter if you don’t have any of them right now, you can start TODAY regardless your age INVEST and change your future! Investing is a grand choice I made. Great video! Thanks for sharing! Very inspiring!

You have plenty of time to create a beautiful, meaningful (for you) life!

Seems to me like you're bragging my man. Wish I had that kind of money in my 20s

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I'm just curious what did you study in school and you made a lot of money?

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