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@AgentThursday
@AgentThursday 13 күн бұрын
A brother must become adept and averting his eyes. It can and must become second nature to us who live in wanton and lascivious societies.
@MakeNoProvision
@MakeNoProvision 13 күн бұрын
I agree, @AgentThursday
@jewishbride5010
@jewishbride5010 18 күн бұрын
Praise God for giving nothing but His brst! I will wait untill the right man comes and desire no man that can not give me what I need in marriage, praise God for opening my eyes! In accordance with this word and proverbs 5:18-20, 2 corinthians 6:14-18 I bind to hell desiring marriage with any ungodly man lusting after other women while not delighting in me alone and binding myself to desire a marriage with a godly man delightibg in me alone while not lusting after otger women, binding to hell every unequal yoke and common share with anyone lacking desire to delight in me alone in marriage while lusting after aother women, in the name and blood of Jesus Christ, amen and hallelujah, glory to God ❤.
@MakeNoProvision
@MakeNoProvision 17 күн бұрын
Thanks, @jewishbride5010
@wickmaani116
@wickmaani116 19 күн бұрын
thank you for these videos!
@MakeNoProvision
@MakeNoProvision 17 күн бұрын
You are most welcome, @wickmaani116
@inkcreature1343
@inkcreature1343 22 күн бұрын
So is eating a candy bar also sinful because it doesn't bring anyone to God and is in fact bad for you, and can not masturbation be used to glorify God, similar to dancing, as a type of worship? Without lustful thoughts, the pleasure can't be shared towards God in reverence, similar to how eating a candy bar can be done in thankfulness for it's flavor? I legit don't know the answer, I am not advocating for or against it, only that it does not make sense to me when you apply the same logic to other self pleasuring activities that have no benefit, like eating candy or just generally having fun, like luxuries that don't accomplish anything other than to serve as pleasurable activities, like riding a rollercoaster.
@MakeNoProvision
@MakeNoProvision 22 күн бұрын
I can't speak to other activities, @inkcreature1343 This channel is dedicated to helping Christians avoid sexual sin. Masturbation is sexual sin because someone can't do it to the glory of God.
@NelsonLilTV
@NelsonLilTV 22 күн бұрын
Amen
@MakeNoProvision
@MakeNoProvision 22 күн бұрын
You are welcome, @NelsonLilTV
@thomasbrunt6182
@thomasbrunt6182 Ай бұрын
was feeling my mind go down the path of temptation, so I searched for you on here. It's just the kick in the pants we need!
@MakeNoProvision
@MakeNoProvision Ай бұрын
Glad to be of service, @thomasbrunt6182
@AndrewS-e2j
@AndrewS-e2j Ай бұрын
Wish I knew this before, until recently I hadn't realized that Mario updated his favorite way to tackle ED and it's a relief! Although what he previously suggested was pretty good, it was a real pain to follow... I just go'ogled the latest by Mario Volpstein, it's so much easier and potent now!
@MorganL-h4k
@MorganL-h4k Ай бұрын
You know, until recently I hadn't realized that Mario updated his favorite way to tackle ED and it's a relief! Although what he previously suggested was pretty good, it was a real pain to follow... I just go'ogled the latest by Mario Volpstein, it's so much easier and potent now!
@neverinthemoment
@neverinthemoment 2 ай бұрын
I have had to deal with this same problem all of my life. It began early on in my childhood from the stimulation achieved when shinnying up the support poles of the slides on the playground at elementary school. During that same period I developed a fetish for articles of my Aunt's clothing and would use them in the same manner. The devil is bent on corrupting and destroying us and shows no respect to the age it occurs at only that it happens! Here is a link to another video that may be helpful to whoever is interested: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qpSnfZp9aq2cerM
@MakeNoProvision
@MakeNoProvision 2 ай бұрын
Victory over the sin of masturbation is available, @retroseventy I know a Christian man who looked at porn and masturbated for 50 years. But that all stopped in 2021 when he got serious about forsaking his sin and following the Lord's commands about how to flee sexual immorality, as found in the Bible. I have had victory in this area for years, too. A life free of sexual immorality and masturbation is possible, as long as a man is willing to trust Jesus Christ to save him and deliver him.
@kenpyle1716
@kenpyle1716 2 ай бұрын
Almost every new testament author was Paul, a very conflicted man.
@MakeNoProvision
@MakeNoProvision 2 ай бұрын
Yes, except for Matthew, Mark, Luke, John, Peter, James, Jude and the writer of Hebrews. @kenpyle1716
@prestonwade1848
@prestonwade1848 2 ай бұрын
Hello there, my Fr. recommended to fix the underlying source of the problem of consumption. For me that’s not doing enough and having the right mindset. Consumption is getting better but I keep failing. Is that what the verse means in order to escape, to stop failing? And, is destruction exclusively for lustful desires, or can it be for desires of status?
@MakeNoProvision
@MakeNoProvision 2 ай бұрын
The context of this verse is God commanding Lot and his family to flee the wicked city of Sodom, which was wicked because of its sexual immorality. Fleeing in this case meant fleeing God's wrath against sexual immorality. God will one day destroy sinners for all manner of sins other than sexual immorality and lust, @prestonwade1848
@MrAndyhdz
@MrAndyhdz 2 ай бұрын
an explanation of each of these verses would have been better especially about gouging out your eye!
@MakeNoProvision
@MakeNoProvision 2 ай бұрын
That is a great suggestion, @MrAndyhdz. But I can't deal with more than one topic per video. I have created a playlist that deals with gouging out your right eye. And I have created videos that address each of the other verses in detail. Enjoy.
@melodywoolf171
@melodywoolf171 2 ай бұрын
Not helpful for the person that has access to a beautiful life and seeks out porn because it’s easier than to maintain a relationship
@MakeNoProvision
@MakeNoProvision 2 ай бұрын
This channel is for Christian men who want to forsake and avoid pornography because it is wrecking their lives, @melodywoolf171 . Jesus says to men that looking at women to lust after them is wicked and sends a man to hell. So, any warnings about avoiding porn are useful.
@NethanaelRoberts7x3
@NethanaelRoberts7x3 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for explaining Jesus's teachings to us that he learned from his Father, Jehovah. It reminds me of the scripture in James 1:27, to keep oneself frome being polluted by the world. That is what all of these social media platforms are, pollution from the world. We take risks when we are on them to watch videos like this and to learn, but if we have faith in Jehovah and His son, Jesus Christ, we can conquer the world. Just as Jesus did.
@MakeNoProvision
@MakeNoProvision 2 ай бұрын
You are most welcome, @NethanaelRoberts7x3 Glad to be of service.
@AlanAlbertTharakan
@AlanAlbertTharakan 2 ай бұрын
Sir, I am addicted to thses things for these things for last 8 to 9 years. I don't know how to stop doing it again
@MakeNoProvision
@MakeNoProvision 2 ай бұрын
Please watch the course I have on my channel. And check out the free resources on makenoprovision.com @AlanAlbertTharakan
@wilhelmvonn9619
@wilhelmvonn9619 2 ай бұрын
What percentage of the books of the New Testament warn against the sin of murder?
@MakeNoProvision
@MakeNoProvision 2 ай бұрын
I have no idea, @wilhelmvonn9619
@joshthesmith77
@joshthesmith77 2 ай бұрын
If I had the wife God has for me then I wouldn’t struggle anymore. Please pray for me. God bless.
@LNR65
@LNR65 2 ай бұрын
God is your wife. Do you think any woman on earth can compete with God?
@joshthesmith77
@joshthesmith77 2 ай бұрын
@@LNR65 God is my Father not my wife. Show me in scripture what verse you found that in.
@MakeNoProvision
@MakeNoProvision 2 ай бұрын
@joshthesmith77 you may want to know that plenty of Christian men who watch porn and masturbate as single men continue both activities long after marrying. Don't ask me how I know. Maintaining sexual purity is hard, even after marriage.
@joshthesmith77
@joshthesmith77 2 ай бұрын
@@MakeNoProvision I understand but I don’t desire porn. I burn with passion and I am pulled to it because I have no way of fulfilling my desires the right way while married. 1 Corinthians 7:8-9. The Bible also says not to withhold from your spouse but for a time for fasting and prayer so that neither is tempted into adultery. When God gives me my wife then I won’t even consider porn because we can do things the right way to fulfill each other. God bless.
@LNR65
@LNR65 2 ай бұрын
@@joshthesmith77the entire book of Song of Songs. God is Father/Mother Husband/Wife. Get to know him and maybe your lust issue will get better.
@gulqureshi5681
@gulqureshi5681 2 ай бұрын
Staying away from every immorality is important.
@MakeNoProvision
@MakeNoProvision 2 ай бұрын
I agree, @gulqureshi5681
@Jwb9107
@Jwb9107 2 ай бұрын
The delivery of this made me giggle. Read your Bible people!!!!
@MakeNoProvision
@MakeNoProvision 2 ай бұрын
I am glad you watched it, @Jwb9107
@trnabout
@trnabout 2 ай бұрын
This popped up in my feed and I gave it a watch. Good topic and one that needs to be talked about. Something to think about though, your title emphasizes the 'why', yet you spend 3:30 of your 3:50 video citing all the places the warnings occur and then ending with 'because God cares about your purity'. Of course that is true, but uninformative. I would like to hear more of your why. How does it impact your view of the world and God's kingdom. Is it a gateway to greater transgressions and a slippery slope that will make it harder to come back from other things. Can it normalize your view of things in the world that shouldn't be normalized. That sort of thing. Cite the references in your writeup and give me 3:50 of your personal experiences and theological perspectives. I look forward to your next video.
@MakeNoProvision
@MakeNoProvision 2 ай бұрын
Thanks, @trnabout. I have published hundreds of videos on this topic. Enjoy.
@TDL-xg5nn
@TDL-xg5nn 2 ай бұрын
Then why isnt masturbation mentioned by name like adultery, fornication, homosexuality, etc?
@MakeNoProvision
@MakeNoProvision 2 ай бұрын
The Bible couldn’t possibly be large enough to mention every forbidden act or every authorized act. Plus, you face the problem of innovation. Technologies exist today that didn’t exist when the Holy Spirit inspired the authors to write the books of the Bible (that’s why the Bible is silent about Tinder and virtual reality headsets). There is simply no way that the Bible could be a rule book that governs every possible activity for all time. You and I know that exposing our genitals in public is a sin even though the Bible neither forbids nor authorizes exhibitionism. We know that peeping though windows to watch others undressing or having sex is wrong even though the Bible is silent on the topic of voyeurism. The same goes for masturbation. If you and I study the Scriptures with an open heart, asking God to guide our thoughts, and meditating on God’s express design for sex as something that takes place only between a husband and wife (God has spoken expressly on this topic), we will discover soon enough why masturbation is sin. @TDL-xg5nn
@Maikigai
@Maikigai 2 ай бұрын
Lust I understand, but where does scripture ban masturbation? And don’t use Onan, his sin was not impregnating his sister-in-law.
@MakeNoProvision
@MakeNoProvision 2 ай бұрын
The Bible does not ban masturbation. You and I know that exposing our genitals in public is a sin even though the Bible neither forbids nor authorizes exhibitionism. We know that peeping though windows to watch others undressing or having sex is wrong even though the Bible is silent on the topic of voyeurism. The same goes for masturbation. If you and I study the Scriptures with an open heart, asking God to guide our thoughts, and meditating on God’s express design for sex as something that takes place only between a husband and wife (God has spoken expressly on this topic), we will discover soon enough why masturbation is sin. @Maikigai
@Stephen_Samuel
@Stephen_Samuel 2 ай бұрын
@@Maikigai when mastu_bating, your mind and body is in the same state as when one has s_x. With your mind, body (and often eyes) you are literally having a s_x.
@louisgjp
@louisgjp 2 ай бұрын
@Maikigai Masturbation suffers the same problem of sexual immorality in men - the expenditure of seed. To understand what ages a man, look no further than: stress & replenishment of seed/seminal fluid. It is extremely costly for your body to produce semen, after all at the foundational level it is the meaning of your life, to succeed where your parents and all of your direct ancestors succeeded - reproduction. So rule 1: Stop, think, go do something productive instead. Because It's killing you, slowly, and its effects are far more potent if you are doing it at a young age (worsened eyesight, terrible memory, feelings of depression and loneliness, not growing to your full genetic potential height). Leave yourself alone, let yourself develop, and you'll realise that the seed that you've been wasting will improve ever other aspect of your life. Another rule, and probably the one that pairs best with rule 1, is rule 2: avoid lusting. You are a human soul, in an animalistic body. The animals go around their business and at a certain time, they dance and fight for the right to reproduce, the best dancers and the best fighters are the ones with the most skills. You get skills by working on yourself, not by sitting alone in a room and touching yourself to dirty images on a screen. None of this is taught in mainstream schools, because if it were, we wouldn't have people growing up without ambitions and wants and needs. There'd be no one to work at McD's!
@Stephen_Samuel
@Stephen_Samuel 2 ай бұрын
Those who are struggling with this kind of addiction, It may look impossible to quit, (and it is impossible to fight with your own strength). Just make a decision with repentance, tell to God, I will not do it again, submit to God repenting, fully trusting in Him that He is able to deliver. (and consider yourself dead to this sin). God delivered me from the addiction in 2020
@MakeNoProvision
@MakeNoProvision 2 ай бұрын
Thanks, @Stephen_Samuel
@crystalramdial9078
@crystalramdial9078 2 ай бұрын
Thank God for His deliverance power in my life.
@MakeNoProvision
@MakeNoProvision 2 ай бұрын
Thanks, @crystalramdial9078
@AgentThursday
@AgentThursday 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing, so candidly, your own experience. Brother, you are valued.
@MakeNoProvision
@MakeNoProvision 2 ай бұрын
I appreciate that, @AgentThursday
@AgentThursday
@AgentThursday 3 ай бұрын
Amen. Perpetuating the language of addiction only perpetuates the thinking of addiction.
@MakeNoProvision
@MakeNoProvision 3 ай бұрын
Thanks, @AgentThursday
@snowwhitehair485
@snowwhitehair485 3 ай бұрын
Your clinical "anti" teaching totally ignores the sexual dysfunction and age-related problems that can cause misery and frustration for older, moral, married Christians. Here's something else to consider. I have no need to explain the catastrophe that could result when a seductive 'Christian' woman repeatedly tries to entice intimacy with a moral, non-sexually active, frustrated man. These things happen. Better surely for self-pleasure to be used before such an impending encounter results in a sudden and disastrous lack of self-control and its consequences. Sex works like that. (Works the other way round too). The lack of depth of your message is WAY too simplistic. Please at least be realistic: and remember who invented sex in the first place.
@MakeNoProvision
@MakeNoProvision 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your view, @snowwhitehair485 I disagree. My view, based on the teaching of Scripture overall, is that masturbation is always wrong. It's sin for believers and it's sin for unbelievers. It's sin for the married and it's sin for unmarried. So, there are no scenarios in which masturbation is acceptable to God. This video, by the way, is simply one of many that I have created that deals with this issue. There are other biblical reasons that masturbation is sin; this video deals with just one of them. I cover these reasons in detail in an article, Why Masturbation Is a Sin. makenoprovision.com/why-masturbation-is-a-sin/ I hope this helps.
@davidkellymitchell4747
@davidkellymitchell4747 3 ай бұрын
I've had so many sins I'm just gonna trust in Jesus Christ to save me. I don't do a very good job of it myself. I'm sure there's a lot of Christians that can save themselves but I can't.
@MakeNoProvision
@MakeNoProvision 3 ай бұрын
Only God can forgive sins and save a soul from divine wrath. Jesus Christ is the only way to receive that forgiveness. You are wise to trust Him, @davidkellymitchell4747
@davidkellymitchell4747
@davidkellymitchell4747 3 ай бұрын
@@MakeNoProvision That's right! Only Jesus can save us. We're already saved, we just have to accept that gift. If we appreciate what God has done for us we'll do our best to do the things that please him. Love and forgiveness is what makes him happy. If we truly loved everyone including God it would be hard to sin.
@antonreyneke6191
@antonreyneke6191 4 ай бұрын
Well men got married at 14 and died at 25,wasnt to much time for these things,and privacy was but a dream
@MakeNoProvision
@MakeNoProvision 4 ай бұрын
OK.
@Music1art
@Music1art 4 ай бұрын
Also, masturbation, does not have to be a matter of faith just like taking a shower, eating or going to the gym are not. Masturbation is not sin, and refraining from it can cause significant damage to our bodies and mind.
@MakeNoProvision
@MakeNoProvision 4 ай бұрын
Masturbation is sin if someone does it without full faith that it is OK in God's eyes. The bible teaches that "whatsoever is not of faith is sin" (Romans 14:23). @Music1art
@Music1art
@Music1art 4 ай бұрын
@@MakeNoProvision "20- For meat destroy not the work of God. All things indeed are pure; but it is evil for that man who eateth with offence. 21- It is good neither to eat flesh, nor to drink wine, nor any thing whereby thy brother stumbleth, or is offended, or is made weak. 22- Hast thou faith? have it to thyself before God. Happy is he that condemneth not himself in that thing which he alloweth. 23- And he that doubteth is damned if he eat, because he eateth not of faith: for whatsoever is not of faith is sin." (Romans 14: 23) In this context paul is speaking of a choice, to eat food that was previously offered to idols or to not eat it. As Paul clarifies in the context, eating is not sinful in itself, but it is a matter of faith IF it is involved with a ritual act, it is then a matter of believing or not in the ritual act, not in the eating itself. So, your text is out of context when you apply it to an act that does not involves faith because is not bound to rituality or the believing in idols. The mere act of eating (or masturbating) is not bound to rituality or faith, is just a natural biological need.
@MakeNoProvision
@MakeNoProvision 4 ай бұрын
Read the text, @Music1art "WHATSOEVER is not of faith is sin" (Romans 14:23). If you have doubts about ANY act, whether you should do it or not, suspecting that the act might be sinful, then you are sinning if you go ahead and do it anyway, because "whatsoever is not of faith is sin."
@MakeNoProvision
@MakeNoProvision 4 ай бұрын
@Music1art My intended audience on this channel is Christian men for whom masturbation is a matter of faith. Masturbation is not an act like taking a shower or going to the gym. Around 55,000 Christians go online every month and search to discover if masturbation is a sin. They boot up Google and type: “is masturbation a sin” (15,589 searches), “is masturbating a sin” (6,544 searches), “is masturbation a sin according to the bible” (6,494 searches), “what does the bible say about masturbation” (4,774 searches), “is jerking off a sin” (2,400 searches), “is touching yourself a sin” (1,900 searches), “what does the bible say about self satisfaction” (921 searches). Why do so many Christians search to discover if masturbation is a sin? Because their conscience troubles them. Their conscience makes them feel guilty and ashamed after the act, so they suspect that the act must be wrong. They do the act in private, and keep it a secret from their fiancé or spouse, so they naturally suspect that it must be sin. But they don’t find a clear command in the Bible prohibiting masturbation, so they turn to Google. But the better place to turn to is the 14th chapter of the Book of Romans, verse 23. Here Paul spells out the universal rule to use whenever contemplating a dodgy act. “Whatever is not from faith,” says Paul, “is sin.” In other words, if you cannot do something with full conviction that the action is right, that action is sinful. If you doubt that something is correct, don’t do it, because doing it is sin. For you to take any action, you must be persuaded that it is right, proper and good. You cannot doubt. If you doubt, you are condemned (read the first part of the verse again).
@Music1art
@Music1art 4 ай бұрын
@@MakeNoProvision That is taken out of the context. I just showed you why the word "faith" is used when it is in reference to sacrificing to idols. If the conscience of the one eating thinks that that food is evil and eats it, then they are participating of idolatry, but if they think that "an idol is nothing in the world" and "all things are clean" in themselves, as Paul says, then they have the faith that eating is not going to make them idolaters. But by your argument you seem to imply that if they don't doubt masturbation being acceptable, then it is not sin, but if they doubt, then it is sin. That destroys your initial argument about it being sin. The "WHATSOEVER" is still within that context anyway, it is not a word used with an absolute general meaning, otherwise, many daily things could be considered sin, and that is ridiculous.
@Music1art
@Music1art 4 ай бұрын
The argument of silent of the bible regarding masturbation is not extrictly about the silence but about why it is silent. "Exhibitionism, voyeurism, obscene phone calls and sexual sadism, frotteurism", these acts are easily by common sense considered sin because they violate the privacy, physical well-being or moral safety of other persons. It is well known that damage to other persons, from ancient biblical times was considered sin and retributable with damage to the one who caused them. The law in Exodus 21: 23-25 is considered an example for every type of sin mentioned or not mentioned that could cause harm to others: (As you say, the Bible couldn't possibly be large enough to mention every forbidden or authorized act) 23 And if any mischief follow, then thou shalt give life for life, 24 Eye for eye, tooth for tooth, hand for hand, foot for foot, 25 Burning for burning, wound for wound, stripe for stripe. Plus, the acts that you mention here were not existent, or not common in biblical times. In the case of Frotteurism, it could have very well been considered an aspect of rape which was surelly mentioned and condemed in the bible. But masturbation by its physiological and psychological nature has always been a known common practice that regularly, does not involve customary and direct damage to other persons, but is a private, hiden, and personal practice in most cases. Now, if masturbation would have been an area of interest for the Jewish people or God, the very comon and frequent aspect of it, and the fact that it was debateable in certain times would have been brought up and mentioned as sinful or not. So, it is not because of the silent, but because of the reason for the silent.
@MakeNoProvision
@MakeNoProvision 4 ай бұрын
If the Bible is silent on a topic, you cannot safely draw inferences for why the Bible is silent. After all, the Bible is silent on the topic of writing short stories about child molestation. But you can't argue that the Bible is silent on this topic because this act doesn't cause harm to others. Instead, you must use another yardstick. And one yardstick is Romans 14:23. Paul, through the Holy Spirit, says that if you have doubts about any act, whether you should do it or not, then you are sinning if you go ahead and do it anyway, because "whatsoever is not of faith is sin." @Music1art
@Music1art
@Music1art 4 ай бұрын
@@MakeNoProvision You say "After all, the Bible is silent on the topic of writing short stories about child molestation. But you can't argue that the Bible is silent on this topic because this act doesn't cause harm to others." All I said is precisely that acts that cause harm to others are sinful, so this example is just out of topic totally. If the bible is silent on a topic we have the right to draw inferences as long as they do not contradict the bible in an obvious way, otherwise, we will have to allow for wrong interpretations which would be the same as drawing incorrect inferences.
@dangunn6961
@dangunn6961 4 ай бұрын
Lol. The god delusion. The bible has some truth but is mostly fiction. The truth is all around you . There is no evidence that proves the supernatural claims made in the bible. When good things happen god is good. When bad things happen god is mysterious. For every answered or good outcome of prayer there are millions of unanswered or bad outcomes of prayer. From equally faithful god loving people. It just doesn't add up. And there are many religions. Are they all right? Are some right and some wrong? Or are they all wrong?
@MakeNoProvision
@MakeNoProvision 4 ай бұрын
There is only one true religion, @dangunn6961 Jesus says He is the way, the truth, and the life, and that no one comes to the Father but by Him.
@dangunn6961
@dangunn6961 4 ай бұрын
@@MakeNoProvision Christianity copied from Zoroastrianism. There are several dying and rising savior religions. You have been indoctrinated. There were at least 25,000 people in Jerusalem during Jesus time. But no writers of history documented the many public miracles Jesus is said to have performed. Why is that? It's because it is made up fiction.
@MakeNoProvision
@MakeNoProvision 4 ай бұрын
Actually, there are plenty of writers of history who documented the miracles of Jesus. Matthew, Mark, Luke, John. If the New Testament is fiction, then how do you explain why the disciples were willing to die for something they knew to be false? @dangunn6961
@dangunn6961
@dangunn6961 4 ай бұрын
Who wrote the 4 gospels?
@MakeNoProvision
@MakeNoProvision 4 ай бұрын
Matthew, Mark, Luke, John wrote the four gospels, @dangunn6961
@stephenwilkerson474
@stephenwilkerson474 4 ай бұрын
Lust of the flesh. The battle is Spirit vs flesh deny the flesh, crucify the flesh in order to obey The Spirit. Anything we don’t feel comfortable doing in front of Jesus we should not do (period full stop)
@MakeNoProvision
@MakeNoProvision 4 ай бұрын
I agree, @stephenwilkerson474 Thanks for sharing.
@PutGodFirst77
@PutGodFirst77 3 ай бұрын
I would not feel comfortable having sex with my wife in front of Jesus. So your saying I should not have sex with my wife ?
@MakeNoProvision
@MakeNoProvision 3 ай бұрын
My point, @PutGodFirst77 , is that you shouldn't feel ashamed. Sex between a husband and wife is natural, even God-ordained. Being seen might cause you some embarrassment, but not shame, or guilt. That's my point. The same cannot be said for masturbation. I can't imagine that anyone wants to get caught doing the act. That is a clue that it is wrong.
@taylorthetunafish5737
@taylorthetunafish5737 4 ай бұрын
The bible doesn't say anything about not grooming and assaulting children. Is that why the clergy does it?
@stephenwilkerson474
@stephenwilkerson474 4 ай бұрын
Not necessarily. They do it because they are not born of The True and Living God and will have to give an account of it soon. Very soon
@MakeNoProvision
@MakeNoProvision 4 ай бұрын
Anyone who assaults children is wicked, @taylorthetunafish5737
@taylorthetunafish5737
@taylorthetunafish5737 4 ай бұрын
@@MakeNoProvision That's not in the bible.
@taylorthetunafish5737
@taylorthetunafish5737 4 ай бұрын
@@stephenwilkerson474 Meanwhile, churches keep billions of dollars on retainer for legal fees and payouts for child grooming and assault. And anyone who gets caught just gets moved to another church so they can keep doing it. If I saw that happening I would try to stop it. Your god who sees all just watches. I am morally superior to your god.
@MakeNoProvision
@MakeNoProvision 4 ай бұрын
The Bible says, "Whatever is not from faith is sin." Or, to put it another way, if you can't do it in faith, don't do it. So, if you can't masturbate in faith that your actions please God, then that is sin. Masturbation is sin if you can't do it in faith, @taylorthetunafish5737
@petersclafani4370
@petersclafani4370 4 ай бұрын
Did Jesus say so. No its you crazy religious nuts
@MakeNoProvision
@MakeNoProvision 4 ай бұрын
Jesus said, "For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world through Him might be saved (John 3:16-17). @petersclafani4370
@rajeevkumar2184
@rajeevkumar2184 4 ай бұрын
Every porn blocker have a loophole
@MakeNoProvision
@MakeNoProvision 4 ай бұрын
I agree that every porn blocker has its limitations, @rajeevkumar2184 That's why I recommend a four-fold way to quit porn (which I discuss in my next videos). These steps are: 1. Install porn-blocking software on all devices. 2. Install accountability software on all devices. This software takes screenshots of online activity and sends them to your accountability partner. 3. Get an accountability partner and meet with them regularly so that they hold you accountable. 4. Spend the first hour of each day with God, reading the Bible and praying to Him.
@sauravgupta7415
@sauravgupta7415 4 ай бұрын
God hates any form of sexual immorality. But this adulterous generation is extremely difficult to live with because sexual content is everywhere. It depends on person to person, and not everyone has similar level of desire, but man I falter and standup, again falter but standup,
@MakeNoProvision
@MakeNoProvision 4 ай бұрын
Thanks for your feedback @sauravgupta7415
@gaylemalone5897
@gaylemalone5897 4 ай бұрын
I’m sorry I’m not going to marry someone just so I won’t have sexual urges. That’s not the kind of marriage that would last very long if that’s all there is.
@MakeNoProvision
@MakeNoProvision 4 ай бұрын
OK, @gaylemalone5897
@PaulSimon-b4b
@PaulSimon-b4b 4 ай бұрын
Paul, who wrote this letter to the Corinthians, had never met Jesus, and wrote this years after Jesus's death. How does he know that this is Jesus's opinion?
@MakeNoProvision
@MakeNoProvision 4 ай бұрын
Paul met Jesus on the road to Damascus. Paul spoke with Jesus. Jesus spoke with Paul. Read Acts 9:1-7, @user-ii4ll4cz3m
@lawrencehockett8179
@lawrencehockett8179 4 ай бұрын
You can’t just go out and marry someone just because you have a sexual urge. You can’t just snap your fingers and wall-a! I’m married, let’s have sex. What does Paul say about dating, you know- before you get married. Gotta try it on before you buy it, right?! Apparently, this guy hasn’t been paying attention to how difficult things are these days when it comes to dating and marriage. It’s a very expensive enterprise to say the least. I think God is fine with it as long as you aren’t hurting yourself or someone else. Hell it’s probably good for the prostate. We’re human- God understands this. Some people just get too wound up about stuff.
@MakeNoProvision
@MakeNoProvision 4 ай бұрын
I agree that marriage is a serious proposition, @lawrencehockett8179 As for God being fine with masturbation, I have to disagree. Since masturbation is sin, doing it is wrong whether someone gets hurt or not. Yes, God understands that we are human, but God does not excuse or overlook our sin. I get wound up about sexual immorality because it leads men and women to eternal judgment and separation from God in the Lake of Fire if they fail to repent and believe the gospel.
@lawrencehockett8179
@lawrencehockett8179 4 ай бұрын
@@MakeNoProvision I agree with you but i also believe God forgives because he understands that we will make mistakes. As long as we don’t make plans to do something wrong, it happens for whatever reason we will be forgiven. Obviously some sins are worse than others.
@jakethehud
@jakethehud 4 ай бұрын
1Corinthians 7:8-9 is not about masturbation but about avoiding fornication which is described in 1 Corinthians 7:2; Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband. The self-control is not having sex with someone you are not married to and not about masturbation.
@MakeNoProvision
@MakeNoProvision 4 ай бұрын
Masturbation IS having sex with someone you are not married to. Paul is speaking about sexual immorality (fornication), @jakethehud. Masturbation is sexual immorality. If masturbation was a legitimate way to release sexual tension, Paul would say so. Pleasuring yourself is certainly faster and cheaper, and more convenient, and involves less commitment, than marrying someone. But self-pleasuring is not an option for a Christian. Is masturbation a sin in the Bible? Yes. Because there are only two biblical outlets for sexual desire. One is self-control. The other is marriage. Pick one.
@jakethehud
@jakethehud 4 ай бұрын
@@MakeNoProvision No, masturbation is the stimulation of your own genitals for sexual arousal or sexual pleasure. It is a sexual gratification apart from intercourse. There is no definition that says otherwise, and there is no definition that says fornication is other than extramarital sex, extramarital relations, adultery or a bit on the side. There is nowhere in the Bible that mentions masturbation, and why would Paul have to mention it? You don't see him mentioning in the Bible every sin that can be done. Is it evil, vile or a wickedness? It may be a sin, but it can be forgiven. When the scribes and Pharisees brought a women to Jesus, who had committed adultery, and said to Jesus that Moses law required that she be stoned. And Jesus said, he that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone at her, and when they all left, and no one had condemned her, Jesus said, neither do I condemn thee: go, and sin no more. www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=John%208&version=KJV
@TheRealMonnie
@TheRealMonnie 4 ай бұрын
​@@MakeNoProvision masterbation is not having sex. Sex takes at least two people. Even if it were sex, you're doing it with yourself, a person you are already "one" with. Marriage is making two people "one". Besides, masterbation doesn't stop a person from burning with passion. It tends to make passion, or lust, worse. You are adding laws to the law. Like a Pharisee. I believe Jesus would rebuke you just like he did others like you. At best, the verse isn't clear. You shouldn't take a single verse and make a doctrine out of it. That's how cults get their strange rules. This is clearly a case of bad exegesis.
@TheRealMonnie
@TheRealMonnie 4 ай бұрын
Not to mention, what about masterbation within marriage? Both husband and wife, in bed, masterbating. You're doing it to yourself, she's doing it to herself, but you're together in the marriage bed. Together, mutually enjoying each other. What if one person enjoys watching the other do it? If you can do it next to each other, are you suggesting it's a sin if it takes too long and she continues when you have to leave for work? What if you want her to continue when you have to leave? Can you see how your viewpoint falls apart? I can't think of even one verse in the Bible about masterbation. What you're doing is taking your bias, your own presupposition, your own rules, and reading it into the Bible when it's clearly not there. Stop oppressing people. ​@@MakeNoProvision
@jakethehud
@jakethehud 4 ай бұрын
@@TheRealMonnie MakeNoProvision is wrong when he says masturbation is having sex with someone you are not married to, and I have told him this before. Masturbation is towards sexual arousal or pleasure. If you believe what he says, then your committing adultery if you masturbate to stimulate your sexual arousal, which people do as foreplay, when they are going to have sex. What do you call it if she masturbates her husband? Is she committing adultery as well?
@bigfootnmore6619
@bigfootnmore6619 4 ай бұрын
Seems like a vicious circle to those who can't marry like me. I know lust is sin, that isn't the issue. Basically if you are not able to practice self control fully, you are to marry, even though you can't?
@MakeNoProvision
@MakeNoProvision 4 ай бұрын
Thanks for your question, @bigfootnmore6619. Since you agree that lust is sin, you must surely believe that giving in to lust is also sin, right? You are wondering what to do if, as you put it, "you are not able to practice self control fully." This is where we disagree. I believe that, if masturbation is sin, then you do have enough self-control to avoid it. Sin is never mandatory. Sin is never something you must do. Sin is voluntary. You cannot stand before God on judgment day and say, "I had to sin against you. I had no choice. I was not able to practice self control fully." If masturbation is sin, then avoiding it is possible. If you cannot marry, then you must exercise self-control.
@MakeNoProvision
@MakeNoProvision 4 ай бұрын
Not a single sexual temptation is irresistible, @bigfootnmore6619. No sexual urge is impossible to overcome. God promises that, in every temptation, in every trial, He provides a way out. God always gives you a way to escape sexual temptation so that you do not have to sin. Here’s the promise: “No temptation has overtaken you except such as is common to man; but God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but with the temptation will also make the way of escape, that you may be able to bear it” (1 Corinthians 10:13). God always provides a way of escape from sexual temptation. Always. Look around and you’ll find it.
@bigfootnmore6619
@bigfootnmore6619 4 ай бұрын
@@MakeNoProvision well, since you don't sin then you must understand this on a level that we don't. Please break it down so that us that have not overcome sin can understand and practice a non-sin life. Paul had not gotten there either. He declared that the good he wanted to do he couldn't do, and that the bad he didn't want to do, that he did. Maybe later in his life he overcame it like you so that he didn't need Gods I'm grace. For me, I am still working out my salvation with fear and trembling. As I'm not 100% in perfect harmony with what my spirit wants and being able to control the flesh.
@MakeNoProvision
@MakeNoProvision 4 ай бұрын
@bigfootnmore6619 I am not saying that I don't sin, because I do. I am simply holding up the truth from God's Word, the Bible, that not a single sexual temptation is irresistible. God always provides a way of escape from sexual temptation.
@bigfootnmore6619
@bigfootnmore6619 4 ай бұрын
@@MakeNoProvision oh, it sounded to me like you had overcame sexual sin and didn't need Gods grace anymore.
@AgentThursday
@AgentThursday 4 ай бұрын
That constant asking all too often becomes the excuse for not repenting. “Well, I asked God for strength to quit… but He must not have given it to me yet!” It’s infuriating to hear people speak like this.
@MakeNoProvision
@MakeNoProvision 4 ай бұрын
I agree, @AgentThursday
@crasher88
@crasher88 5 ай бұрын
What is the point of getting married to prevent you from getting wrapped up in sexual immorality when 25 to 33% of marriages are sexless? So don't get married and risk dealing with sexual immorality or get married and risk dealing with some form of sexual immorality. It's a loose loose situation.
@MakeNoProvision
@MakeNoProvision 5 ай бұрын
@crasher88 obeying the clear commands of Scripture is never a lose-lose situation.
@AgentThursday
@AgentThursday 5 ай бұрын
A dear friend, about 20 years ago, learned one night that through the internet he could find literally any fantasy he wanted, displayed for little to no effort. He was immediately determined to pluck that whole temptation out of his life. He disconnected and never looked back. Got rid of his internet service. I still admire him for that.
@MakeNoProvision
@MakeNoProvision 5 ай бұрын
Thanks, @AgentThursday Your friend took the command of Jesus (to pluck out the eye that causes sin) to its logical conclusion. I admire him for that, too. Following Jesus is going to hurt because it means getting rid of things that are practical and convenient if they cause sin.
@AgentThursday
@AgentThursday 5 ай бұрын
Amen! "Cease to do evil, learn to do well..." It's both.
@MakeNoProvision
@MakeNoProvision 5 ай бұрын
Agreed. Thanks, @AgentThursday
@Abracadabra208
@Abracadabra208 5 ай бұрын
I also find it telling that you will condemn what mutually consenting adults do when it comes to creating or watching pornography, but not examples in the Bible of the Israelites slaughtering other tribes and taking their young girls as war brides. Imagine your family being killed and then being sexually coerced by a member of the conquering force. No woman can meaningfully give consent in those circumstances. How is THAT for sexual immorality?
@MakeNoProvision
@MakeNoProvision 5 ай бұрын
I am not the one "condemning what mutually consenting adults do when it comes to creating or watching pornography." I am using God's Word, the Bible, to condemn pornography. Men and women sin all the time in mutually consenting ways, but that doesn't make their sin OK. God has a standard for sexual relations, and that standard forbids pornography.
@Abracadabra208
@Abracadabra208 5 ай бұрын
And what about taking virginal girls in marriage after killing their family? That was my other topic.
@MakeNoProvision
@MakeNoProvision 5 ай бұрын
I have nothing to say about that.
@Abracadabra208
@Abracadabra208 5 ай бұрын
@@MakeNoProvision That makes the rest of us wonder where your priorities lie on the matter. By not even addressing it, you create an opening for us to assume that you consider what two mutually consenting adults do in their bedroom to be more morally heinous than killing a family in another tribe and abducting the daughters. You won't confirm it, but neither are you denying it. The very act of not answering my query, in and of itself, still says a lot.
@MakeNoProvision
@MakeNoProvision 5 ай бұрын
OK, @Abracadabra208
@Abracadabra208
@Abracadabra208 5 ай бұрын
Aside from the non sequitur nature of your argument, you seem to forget that the Bible, and the Old Testament in particular, does not categorically condemn sex outside of marriage. Many Old Testament patriarchs and kings had concubines in addition to a wife, and the Bible writers did not condemn each of those instances.
@MakeNoProvision
@MakeNoProvision 5 ай бұрын
Thanks for your comment. Actually, the New Testament condemns sex outside of marriage. Paul teaches in 1 Corinthians that men and women are to exercise self control where sexual desire is concerned. If they can't, they are to marry.
@Abracadabra208
@Abracadabra208 5 ай бұрын
Were the Old Testament figures, then, sinning when they took concubines?
@MakeNoProvision
@MakeNoProvision 5 ай бұрын
I have nothing to say about that.
@dustindustindontworry-jz8dh
@dustindustindontworry-jz8dh 6 ай бұрын
More in depth videos on combatting porn through fasting, prayer and manual labor. John classism is a good read on this
@MakeNoProvision
@MakeNoProvision 6 ай бұрын
Thanks for the suggestion, @dustindustindontworry-jz8dh.
@GodsArmyUK
@GodsArmyUK 6 ай бұрын
It is so, so difficult in this world that deceives and tempts you at every turn. But, at least there is something here that gives someone a chance to change. To turn away from the bad stuff that this world offers you as a human being. Thanks for highlighting this issue. Had to be said.
@MakeNoProvision
@MakeNoProvision 6 ай бұрын
Thanks for your encouraging words, @GodsArmyUK. Much appreciated. Alan.