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@TLilacTwilight 3 күн бұрын
Hi I really need your advice. I am in a LDR with a nigerian man. He is 30, a verified music artist (works in the day) college educated. Has no kids, say's he's never been married currently lives with brother. He says he is looking for love. (Of course he likely wants a VISA too). He discussed what his goals are with me and after sharing the cost of living and home prices in the states he says if we choose to be together it makes more financial sense to live mostly in Nigeria and just visit states keeping a condo in US. Since he will be travelling alot while performing. He hasn't asked me for anything. Has been consistent with talking with me. I would imagine that with him being a artist with the same name for about 15yrs somebody would have spoke out on social media. Whats your thoughts?
@annetteroberts4009 4 күн бұрын
Thanks
@MimiliciousMimi 3 күн бұрын
Thanks sis 🙏🥰
@PAUL06222 6 күн бұрын
This is not African issue; it’s happening in all continents in marriages having similar problems. Each gender has a role which is evolving because of changes in new social structures.
@MRSROBINC231 6 күн бұрын
We have American men that do the same thing. African American women (especially those of us raised in the hood / ghetto) know these types all to well! We have a saying over here “Game recognize Game”, which means we can spot the games a mile away! And as far as giving them money…Baby Please, it’s not gonna happen in most cases.
@Lovebug07 9 күн бұрын
Lady, you are HYPOCRITICAL and ONE SIDED. You said " if you are getting married to a Nigerian woman you need to follow HER culture and traditions in order to marry her." However, you stated that a woman must be prepared to transition into her soon to be husbands culture and traditons since he is the man. You blatantly said that the woman must take on the mans culture but in the same the breath said if that woman is nigerian, the man must accept her culture. You ONLY have a regard for African values. You are basically saying if a woman is not african than her cultures and values are to be disregarded if her man is nigerian. You did not say that if a woman is American or any other nationality, then the Nigerian man should also honor her customary traditions . Yet, you emphasized honorary and acceptance for a nigerian woman from a man. Well news flash lady in Rome you do as the Romans do. So if that nigerian man cannot also accept customary American traditions then shouldn't him and his family find a lad for him in Nigeria? QTNA?
@Lovebug07 9 күн бұрын
Wow sounds like the wife has to give up her identity and values for her soon to be husband . It’s good to learn and care about the Nigerian tradition however, as a black American woman it is not right to neglect the wife’s values and traditions. If the wife and soon to be husband are in the United States of America they should honor and be receptive to the roles in the country in which they reside ( America). How can Nigerians expect American woman to follow their customs and roles while living in America! If that’s what they want then they should raise their sons to find a Nigerian woman. It’s offensive to expect someone in American to completely do a 360 into your wedding culture when you met your wife in America. You guys kill me with that 🤦🏾♀️. Its not like I’m in your country calling shots
@MimiliciousMimi 4 күн бұрын
@Lovebug07 Thanks for watching and contributing sis, but am not saying that a woman will lose her identity just for marriage. Am saying, if you want to be properly married by a Nigerian man, this is what it entails, or else you risk being an "away wife" who won't be accepted. Meaning no one knows you as his wife, as you were never introduced to his people. He may marry you there and take someone else home, if you get the jist. We have values and traditions. Just trying to prevent some heart breaks.
@Lovebug07 4 күн бұрын
@mimiliciousmimi are you talking about Nigerian men who live in Nigeria or Nigerian American men? Men who are United States citizens?
@Lovebug07 4 күн бұрын
@@MimiliciousMimi yes I understand you all have values and traditions but are you referring to men marrying women in the United States of American? Are they are marrying in the U.S? I’m trying to understand
@Princess-xoox 10 күн бұрын
He wants money we are long distance
@MimiliciousMimi 9 күн бұрын
@princess-xoxo Don't give him.
@MimiliciousMimi 10 күн бұрын
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@michaelokon1388 12 күн бұрын
Nigerians are free minded people. Nigerians want to experience other cultures, Nigerians like to explore. In short, nigerians are universal
@naiely81503 13 күн бұрын
that was amazing. such an intelligent way to handle the situation. I loved it!!! lol
@MimiliciousMimi 12 күн бұрын
@naiely81503 😂😂😂
@okekechukwuemerie4591 19 күн бұрын
Is true
@shawannawilliams2221 20 күн бұрын
I agree❤
@EmerlitaMirkovic 21 күн бұрын
I like your video..all you telling us...are all true..
@Monkeyy-y1f 23 күн бұрын
My husband went and married a second wife to have a son
@MimiliciousMimi 23 күн бұрын
@Monkeyy-y1f Welcome to the life of African men. Though most are changing this mind set.
@nzehkelechukwu3234 23 күн бұрын
My sister we igbo's don't engage in the so called white wedding igba nkwu nwanyi is what we do the madness of white came from the European and Nigerians woman amplified it i don't care about that white wedding either in igbo culture igba-nkwu is legit more than that white wedding. Again disagreed with when you say a lady shouldn't support financially in a wedding if she's capable mind you most men especially igbo's we don't value this white wedding you ladies of this day see's this so called white wedding as competition among your self whose wedding is gonna be the most expensive or most talked about if me as a man i a budget of 1k dollars for our wedding but you want a wedding of 5k and you can afford extra 4k who are mind to say no 😂😂 but that doesn't mean i will not take marriage serious i can't take my business money to marry a lady and after marriage i go broke chukwu-aju the woman will call me an irresponsible man for not providing for the family. I learnt this from a friend and a former colleague. Dalu nwan ada mimi.
@MimiliciousMimi 21 күн бұрын
@nzehkelechukwu3234 😂😂😂 OK bro, but it her choice. I still believe that our men prefer to marry their wives by themselves without her contribution
@MimiliciousMimi 23 күн бұрын
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@laylayingram 24 күн бұрын
Just found out the one I was chatting with is a damn lie😂😂😂😂😂😂. Saying he was single for a year I searched his name in facebook because we met on instagram, and boom a video with a girlfriend just last week 😂😂😂
@MimiliciousMimi 24 күн бұрын
@laylayingram 😲😲😲 OMG sis! Thank God you found out. We should check them out more on Facebook, I believe it shows a lot😂😂😂
@laylayingram 24 күн бұрын
@@MimiliciousMimi it does show a lot of they’ve been active , I’m happy because now I know why I wasn’t really feeling it
@MimiliciousMimi 23 күн бұрын
@laylayingram Yes sis, but we still have good Nigerian guys, just that the bad ones are everywhere on social media 🤔
@larosalarosa288 25 күн бұрын
All you people care about is money
@MimiliciousMimi 25 күн бұрын
@larosalaros288 And you don't??? Please what else is the whole world struggling for... Why do we do 9 to 5 jobs instead of enjoying with our families... What are business men and women trading for?
@hoodunnit3884 29 күн бұрын
There is too much oil in all these recipes
@MimiliciousMimi 28 күн бұрын
@hoodunnit3884 I guess it's a matter of choice, use as much or as little as you want. I promise you, we are very healthy it doesn't matter a thing 😊😊
@ugotony3713 29 күн бұрын
Yummy deliciousness ❤
@MimiliciousMimi 29 күн бұрын
Hello beautiful people, try this recipe and tell me what you think... You will be amazed ❤❤
@Ppp12547 Ай бұрын
3:30 start there
@karinamoses790 Ай бұрын
Engaged for 10 3 kids didn’t know he already had a wife and planning another without my knowledge
@MimiliciousMimi Ай бұрын
@karinamoses790 😲😲😲 Are kidding me sis?
@22vlawrence Ай бұрын
Yes this is. It's the most important?? Maybe yes. Is it the woman's culture that's followed or the mans? What is enforceable is important too. Legal matters in USA. I don't think it's one size fits all. Age matters meaning younger people typically follow tradition older couples tend to make more of their decisions
@MimiliciousMimi Ай бұрын
@22vlawrence Yes sis, actually the Woman's culture, but it's important to take note of both. As we abide by both his and her tradition so as to prevent any misunderstandings in the future.
@22vlawrence Ай бұрын
@ agreed
@elvisejo5885 Ай бұрын
My sister ,I am an African from Cameroon and rather than marry an African woman with all these wahala. Just cut it short and get married to an Eastern European lady who will cook without problems
@MimiliciousMimi 29 күн бұрын
@elvisejo5885 You must be kidding if you think she is going to cook without wahala... Are you serious, 😲😲! Don't you know over there that you will not only cook, you will do everything she does 50 / 50 and that is life over there that some African women with African mentality men are craving for. FYI when African men marry European wives the do chores, they give excuses only to African women.
@22vlawrence Ай бұрын
In every culture
@sanjacurak621 Ай бұрын
One pastor said the worst thing for a woman to do is to married a man who didnt submit to christ ... A godly man fear god more then Tradition...
@MimiliciousMimi Ай бұрын
@sanjacura621 Remember! We are Christians... We submit to God and also love and follow our cultures and traditions. After all, it is written "give to Ceaser what's Ceaser's and to God what's God's" I hope you understand that scripture? This simply means that because you are a Christian and believe in God doesn't mean if you are sick you stay home and pray only... You have to go to a doctor for help... Then pray. 🙏
@JadaBryant-c6w Ай бұрын
Oh wow. Is this essential for marriage with a Nigerian? Like will they take you seriously if you don't ask for a dowry?
@MimiliciousMimi Ай бұрын
@JadeBryant-c6w It is sis, but it's extremely important for the Igbos. The Yorubas... I don't know how serious it is for them, but it's important in general.
@JadaBryant-c6w Ай бұрын
@ Do I bring it up before or after he asks me to marry him?
@Amina679 Ай бұрын
@@JadaBryant-c6w look at how they treat their women. They always look miserable.
@MimiliciousMimi Ай бұрын
@Amina679 Actually, your people are more miserable as I live here in your world 🤔🤔. A place where women have no say and are used as they like without fear of retribution... We Africans follow our culture and are very happy with it, our men are so mature unlike your baby men I see here. Whatever grievance you have with us... Keep it as no one really cares about it and I don't. If our men weren't caring, women around the world won't love them as they do. Nigerian men are worth it my dear. Sorry your heart is so bitter... But, 🥰🥰🥰
@MimiliciousMimi Ай бұрын
@JadeBryant-c6w After he's asked you sis, that will be the perfect time.
@Amina679 Ай бұрын
They buy you and refund you if the woman don't put up with his bullshit.
@MimiliciousMimi Ай бұрын
@Amina679 Is that all you understand about this video? Wow... Your way of understanding is questionable 🤔🤔🤔
@Amina679 Ай бұрын
@MimiliciousMimi I understood clearly, I live in Montreal Canada and I see a lot of Nigerian igbo women get abused by their so called cheating husbands. You'll problem is that you worship these degenerate broken buck males.
@MimiliciousMimi Ай бұрын
@Amina679 Can you manage any conversation without curses? I mean... No man would want such... Especially not Nigerian men. So I understand your anger. 🤔
@Amina679 Ай бұрын
@@MimiliciousMimi that's your problem, I don't care about Nigerian males they have nothing I want. You put them above you. They're Nigerian women on Facebook that are been beaten by these males. When the wives tried to leave they beat them with hammer and pulled their teeth out .
@Amina679 Ай бұрын
@MimiliciousMimi I don't care what Nigerian males wants. I rejected them every time they approached me there in Canada. They have nothing I want . I see how they treats their wives.
@EmerlitaMirkovic Ай бұрын
If a Nigerian man call you Queen, babe, angel My Princess he is an Scammer right.. and calling several times a day..
@MimiliciousMimi Ай бұрын
@EmerlitaMirkovic It depends on his attitude and some other factors like collecting money from you.
@EmerlitaMirkovic Ай бұрын
Thank you very much. All you said are all true..
@MimiliciousMimi Ай бұрын
@EmerlitaMirkovic Thanks sis 🙏🙏🙏
@Angela-hm3xt Ай бұрын
I'm a Nigerian woman. Just don't let any man use you. I will not give any man money. I don't need to give you money to show you I love.
@JessicaHamblin-n6p Ай бұрын
My mama's boyfriend is a Nigerian man and he calls his mama his wife.What does that mean
@MimiliciousMimi Ай бұрын
@JessicHamblin-n6p No one in Nigeria calls their mother their wife.
@lasashaboone2734 Ай бұрын
Why did my African guy call me miss and he use to call me queeny? Also texting is short but he calls me. I also see he’s on WhatsApp but takes his time to reply. What does it mean? But he’s never asked me for cash he’s 30 I’m 37.
@MimiliciousMimi Ай бұрын
@lasashaboone2734 Sometimes, when Nigerian men are upset with you, they don't use the pet name they usually use so you know they are serious. Some men prefer calls to texting. As per being online and not replying you, it depends on how often he does that. If only once in a while, then maybe he is busy.
@yeosandy5969 Ай бұрын
Totally agree that when it comes to marriage, all cost have to be covered by the Nigerian man… if he truly loves you.. the moment he ask you to cover the cost, you really have to think twice and start to look out for red flags.
@MimiliciousMimi Ай бұрын
@yeosandy5969 Exactly sis, which Nigerian man doesn't feel the shame of having a women take care of his wedding? 🤔 He must be shameless or up to no good.
@yeosandy5969 Ай бұрын
@@MimiliciousMimiyes oo.. if you truely love your Nigerian man, then also don’t do things to shame him.. learn his culture and make him proud…
@MimiliciousMimi Ай бұрын
@yeosandy5969 On point sis, 😊🥰
@EmerlitaMirkovic Ай бұрын
I believe to all what you said..I easily notice an Nigerian love Scammer...
@MimiliciousMimi Ай бұрын
@EmerlitaMirkovic Thanks for watching sis, I glad you can read the signs. 😊
@mmm-ie5ws Ай бұрын
EVERYONE has low self esteem but they dont get trafficked. Its HER fault 10000%. She could have left at anytime.
@MimiliciousMimi Ай бұрын
@mmm-ie5ws True sis, I agree. Thanks for watching 🙏
@ScarlettAdriana Ай бұрын
Nowdays igbo men there are scammers for foreign women
@MimiliciousMimi Ай бұрын
@ScarlettAdriana Hello sis, thanks for watching and contributing, but it's truly not about the tribe as any tribe can scam, it's about the person. Just watch out for the signs and take action if you notice anything strange 🙏🙏🙏
@nzehkelechukwu3234 23 күн бұрын
Madam please don't use that blanket statement I am an igbo man that one person committed a crime doesn't mean all people from that tribe did the same okay. Do you have same character with all the members of your families?
@roselinebelizaire1896 Ай бұрын
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@CryptoBaybe Ай бұрын
Is it true they won’t be with a woman with children already. Or one that is older then them
@MimiliciousMimi Ай бұрын
@CryptoBaybe Hi sis, thanks for watching. It's mostly true except you are few yrs older, say 1-4 years difference and have at most 1 child especially a girl. They may be willing to look past the age and accept the child. But you never know...
@CryptoBaybe Ай бұрын
@ ok thanks , he’s 31 I’m 41 but I look about his age . I have a 4yr old daughter and a 10 yr old Son. He really leans more towards my daughter and he post me and her on his social media. He does ask about my son also and concerned about him and school and things. I’m supposed to talk to his mother on video call soon when he goes home to visit.
@MimiliciousMimi Ай бұрын
@CryptoBaybe OK sis, just be careful and always look out for signs. A lot of guys these days use us women a lot knowing they are only after papers or money.
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@MimiliciousMimi Ай бұрын
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@ishaw9894 Ай бұрын
I experienced, I got out safe God is good. 🙌🏿
@MimiliciousMimi Ай бұрын
@ishaw9894 Thanks to God 🙏