omg the first one is so tru i cannot

5. It feels impossible to make peace with the past recalling all I put up with and taking it out on those I love, especially because the past is the reason my life looks as it does 6. Why is it so fucking impossible to succeed in my life? The reality of my life is hell. Most often I'm just being buried alive, and trying desperately to escape

I don't know which is more toxic abt number 4, someone with empathy or someone without empathy

_(❤Free huges here❤)_ . May god bless you and guaid u to the write friendship that leads you to the write path which is paradise 💖🤲🏼ameen 🤲🏼💖

My friend hits me a lot and more stuff like that that is normal right?

6#They drain the shit out of you. 7#They push or bully you infront of your crush. 8#They accuse you for no reason. 9#They uninvite you to things and leave you left out. 10#they ask you for money or if you could buy something for you and pay you back. 11#they shut you down and degrade you on a boy. 12#They disrespect you 13#they act with you one way in public and one way when your alone. And lastly 14#They ask you to drink or go to parties with them and pressure you.

Idk how I never thought of this... Probably because I was too focused on what I did wrong. Every date was memorable, sex was on fire (told me I was the best she ever had multiple times), we were probably a date or 2 from becoming exclusive. Then poof. This is the best mentally healthy explanation.

I cut her off once, but we got back on terms and she hasn't changed at all. It's getting worse tbh🤷🏻‍♀️ and I have no idea what to do anymore.. I'm literally seated next to her in class.

I overthink everything in every second of my life

#5 - in the video Plus these: 1. You stress out any time you see them, hear their name, or think about them. 2. They drain you, and purposely scare/stress you out. 3. They only talk/interact with you when they’re other friends aren’t there and there’s no one they know around. 4. They ignore your opinions and roll they’re eyes at you when you laugh at thing they don’t find funny 5. They make (not on purpose, just you FEEL/do this) you nervous-laugh (idk what it’s called) everytime you try to talk or go near them

Had to have this convo with a friend recently. Came to the same conclusion!

SSRIs have been shown to be Neurotoxic, if you’re taking them you should come off after recovery trying to take them no longer than a year. You can recover without meds, you’ll come back stronger if you can recover correctly without them

44... Male .. a woman will never experience the level of loneliness a man will encounter. She may not be happy with her certain suitor but she can always go out to a bar or anywhere and find temporary companionship something that doesn't come around for years and years and years. Debating on if I want to live to 45

They make fun of your insecurity

Can you help me out with number 5? How can I assign meaning to those thoughts? In what way?

NOPE . PHSYCIATRIC MEDICATIONS PUT A BANDAGE ON DEEPER PHSYCOLOGICAL WOUNDS

Beware the manipulator who will feign “celebration” with you.

This is a video for people with ADHD at three minutes in and I still don’t know what you’re on about. You’ve lost me.

Number 2 is what my friend does to and also number 5 happens to me

You won't believe how this white big is treating me

Well imm I'm in one

I really liked this video girlie. It helped confirmed my suspicions 🥺*I shared many times even emailed, and saved! Just subscribed also, excited to see what your gonna post ❤

Also when their toxic towards their other friends or romantic partners

The people I allow into my circle was cultivated after years of going from being a people pleaser, to not giving a shit about how other people felt about what I had to share. I suddenly became an "asshole" when I stopped letting them walk all over me. I used to be generous, helping above and beyond what I was capable of. I began to realize I was wasting my time, and I sat back and observed how they were around other people, how honest they were, and whether they kept their word. I now have a small group of friends and it keeps getting smaller. I sit back and let their "masks" fall off so I can see who they truly are. Very few people have kept their integrity, honesty, loyalty, trust, and respect. I have reciprocated those same qualities. For them, I have given unconditionally because they have proven to be true friends through everything. Solid people who I love and respect, and would not hesitate to be by their side, even if we annoy the hell out of each other from time to time. If they need me, I'm there; and vice versa.

Every Monday without fail, I have to answer the dreaded question: "so... how was your weekend?" and i always answer with, "It was good. Fine weather. Thanks for asking. How was yours?" or I start listing activities in an awkward, robotic way like "We went camping. There were wasps. I went to the library. It was a good library." I can never tell if they genuinely just want to know or are they just asking as a societal obligation? Am I giving too much information or too little? Then they start telling me about their weekend and now I have to figure out how to react. After that I have to figure out how to transition to the real reason for the meeting without sounding dismissive. But when that transition happens, I can finally breathe. Now I can talk about work. The obligatory small talk is over.

Anti psy

Seeing people as stupid is accurate and wanting a partner that we do not see that way is also accurate. - 5w4

Yes actually

6)every time you talk to them about something deep they get bitchy and act like they have it worse

Oh god i need therapy

6. They disappear the minute their support is needed, and you are in a crisis, but expect you to be around whenever they have a bad dream. 7. They give you unsolicited advice 8. They never say sorry. 9. They shift blame /minimalize/ghost in case you give a feedback on something they hurt you with (no matter how polite you do it) 10. They talk shit about people. 11. They think they are better than, and can't see other perspectives. By the way what you described for number 4 could be unhealthy, but it could be simple simpathy/mirroring as well: emotional enmeshment is a bit more complex then that, an important point nonetheless!

Not true. You're a fraud

My neighbor

The different setting might make it more interesting. A few videos from WSJ is done with the reporting talking and filming themselves walking down the street in recognizable places. Some were on a bus, the subway and even in an Uber. If you can get acceptable video, a park or even your car might be fine.

Thank you 🎉

GUYS I NEED HELP! Ok so I have this girl at school who’ll I’ll call Sarah and she has no friends, I was trying to be nice/friendly and became friends with her. No one liked her and I mean NO ONE but I still talked to her and got her some friends. Now she is friends with all my friends and always makes my insecurities worse. Like I have crooked teeth but I’m not getting braces so she’ll always say that they are crooked, ugly, yellow etc. or she would make comments abt my body hair, pimples and say that her skin was flawless when she doesn’t. Sarah also embarrasses me in front of my old crush and she’s good friends with him so it’s really awkward. She also gets in MASSIVE mood swings and lashes out at anyone and anything. She always says I’m her #1 bestie and it makes me feel good but is she toxic?! IDK I NEED HELP! pls give me advice on what I should do bc idk if she’s toxic or this is normal.❤❤❤❤

I constantly tell my friend i dont like being too xlose to anyone. No one. But if im watching something like tiktok she's all in my space..? She said "im just trying to watch the tiktok" okay but can i have some space please? She also talks about my friend behind her back but when she's around she wither whispers crap to me or juy acts like shes best friends with said person. I've been friends with her a while now and i would feel bad to break out friendship off, im also at good terms with her parents and siblings.. so ill wait and see if she changes because I really dont want to break our friendship, i pm just a bit confused sometimes with sphow she acts every now and then.

I had a friend who was all of these. She did ALL of this

Hereing there name makes you stressed

This helped me a lot

I connect better with people in person. Getting to know someone through texting sucks, but it seems thats the 5 way to start conversations with people online. Even if i am introduced by a friend to a girl. It starts with texting and its not the same.

Urmmm

Last one for me 😢

5/5... sorry, my old friend , it's over now

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No And No

I’m a single mother that had to move back to my parents house for safety reasons for my child and I’m constantly having my room invaded by my adopted parents and sometimes even my brother and his friends and every time I try to explain why I feel like it’s an invasion of privacy they say I’m over reacting what should I do? I also got a toddler and a baby on the way yet they say I should pay them because I’m just a guest and I need to be grateful because they helped me get out of an abusive situation. I am grateful but I also have to provide for my child as well as have to get ready for the upcoming child. What should I do?😢

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Can anybody help me what I should do like my friend asked me to play tag I said no I don’t want to and she said then go!and be alone if you hate me so much that you don’t wanna play with me!