I appreciate this so much you have no idea.. I’m so sorry you had to go through this we deserve better 💙

Thank you so much for sharing your story. I’ve never had an abortion before but I wanted to understand what actually happens and I’ve heard stories that you deliver the fetus. Why is there NO information about this anywhere? It’s all happy stories of empowerment. I’m so sorry you experienced this and we need to educate women on the realities of abortion because it’s such a traumatic experience.

Thank you for sharing this story with me. ❤

The health care who deals with abortions are just cruel 💔 it's as if they hate us for our choice but they're meant to help 😢

Hi Megan, I’m so sorry for your experience. Thank you for your video to let others know. Sending you hugs and healing wishes. Please continue to use your experience to advocate for other women (and babies).

If the doctor doesn’t care about your baby, why would she care about you.

God bless you and your baby that was killed in your womb, you are a mother now and that will never change,. I hope you find healing and forgiveness. God bless you both.

There's forgiveness in Jesus. ❤ Cry out to Him. He loves you. 🌹

thank you for posting this more people need to talk about this!! i’m going for a medical abortion tomorrow but i’m 13 weeks so in getting admitted into a ward and it’s a terrifying feeling but i know irs the right choice and tbf my doctors and nurses have been amazing but i will say they do forget to mention some side effects which are vile

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thank you so much for posting this. i cried along with you. i’m currently 8 weeks along (almost 9) as well and the father of the child wants me to do this method of abortion so i’ve been trying to educate myself as much as possible. he doesn’t understand my fears behind doing this. honestly this sounds completely traumatizing and you are very brave for doing this and also sharing your story with everyone. i’m terrified of childbirth however this sounds not only physically but emotionally and mentally taxing. i feel at a loss but still thank you for helping me be more informed. hope all is well with you 🩷

Thank you for your honesty and sharing this experience

Thank you for sharing this, Megan. To the girls reading this: You won't be told what happens in an abortion because they don't want you to know. They don't want you to know what Megan saw: her fully-formed little baby. They don't want you to know that the pain you will experience lasts longer than the average birth. They don't want you to back out of it because that means you aren't giving them all that money. If you find yourself pregnant, and unable to raise a child, please look for any other way to choose life. Your little baby boy or girl will get the chance to live, and you will not go through this traumatic, painful, heartbreaking experience. Don't do it to yourself, or your baby. 💜

Killing a child is never a solution. Your leg cramp was nothing compared to the pain felt by the other person in your story. Shameful.

I got the pills by post, and done this method at home never having left my house to speak to a medical professional. I found out on a Wednesday afternoon by Friday 1pm I started treatment arrived and step 1 completed by Sunday I was bleeding ! I paid a private clinic a fair bit of money! With bpas and other services you have to jump through so many hoops that you end up further alone and suffering more ! Thank you for sharing your story x x I have to say it was only like a period ! Actually I’ve had more painful periods than this but I was 4 weeks x I’m in the uk ! If

So sad. The child never had a chance to talk, to decide, to live etc. hysss😢

If they didn't get back with results it means it's negative.. had it been positive they would been in touch to get you the doxycline to treat it

Thank you for sharing this experience it has helped me with my decision!

Something else they didn't tell you is that you will likely be traumatized the rest of your life. Many older women who had abortions say they have never gotten over it. Abortion doesn't just end a life , it traumatizes you for the rest of yours. Sad

The most informative video I’ve found, thank you

The contractions were terrifying! Sorry you had to go through that. Thanks for sharing

I feel embarrassed to be born in the internet generation. I’m 29 and folks in my age group are acting promiscuous in the West and the young women from 18 to 29 are aborting left and right.

Is it extremely painful? I’m going to take the pills today :(

As per now I'm 5 weeks pregnant and my parents have abandoned me bcoz of this. I'm still a student and scholarship is to end in 2023 so I can't have a dead year inorder to have my child. The man responsible for my baby is not interested and I'm not okay financially. Some advice on what to do

I'm 9 weeks and getting an abortion I've had one at 6 weeks years ago and I told myself never again. But here I am again not in an ideal situation and I have backed out twice and even saw the heartbeat and now I'm terrified of seeing it because I am further along. I was shocked that the nurse as sweet as she was didn't know exactly what the first pill did I had to tell her through my own research. She knew it stopped pregnancy but not that it does by blocking progesterone. Also research what's in them everyone has a right to know what's in them I didn't know testosterone and cortisol was in it. Anyway I agree they should give more info and I hope you're doing okay. Its definitely truamatic hence why I've put it off.

What a brave and intelligent young woman you are. By sharing your experience you could literally save lives. Thanks so much for taking the time and tell your personal journey to all of us. Be kind to yourself.

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My relationship was tumultuous. The man I had a child with was emotionally abusive He even told me he didn’t want children with me and he hate I got pregnant and he hoped I had a hard pregnancy because he was not going to be around. My life is a wreck I was not in no position to take care of my child on my own. I got my abortion on Nov 19th and I’m having a hard time coping just seeing my baby lifeless is eating me up inside. I can’t get it out of my mind. I’m experiencing anxiety depression and a lot of sleepless nights. Even though I know having child would have been a hard. I even started counseling because I still feel guilty about everything.

I really needed REAL LIFE stories like this.... thank you for sharing. I am so sorry 😞 you had to go through this with little to no knowledge... but you're here making sure someone else knows.

Thank you for opening up about your experience. I don't think you know the depth of how many people you've educated, and informed with real life information about abortions or what to expect. I'm sorry you weren't informed, and me myself wouldn't have known anything if I didn't Google and search KZbin and find you. I don't know what I would have done if not finding you on here first before anything. I hope you are in a better place now, and feel better about your experience and experiences. Thank you for helping. You've helped me.

Just read more about this and another poor girl was told nothing either and on the way home on the train she haemorrhaged

So sorry you went through this event which is pretty dreadful anyway, you deserved to have been treated with kindness and compassion

Jesus the clinic you went to sounds horrific.

Abortion is murder. RIP your innocent unborn children

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I’ve had one too... They barely told me anything until I called a week later and demanded to know what had happened to me. YOU DO NOT JUST GET “PERIOD” LEVEL CRAMPS. The pills are MADE to force you to go into labor, you have CONTRACTIONS, Not cramps! Your belly will literally move, you can see it happening, and that is contractions, it is worse pain than anything you’ve EVER had from a period. I had mine at 6 weeks, and mine also came in a sack- it wasn’t formed at all, just bloody and clumpy inside of it... I’m so sorry for anyone else going through this, the guilt and fear of what’s happening is honestly the worst part of it. If you’ve chosen this route, a tip for the pain is to stay laying in a hot bath for as long as you can, that saved me from the pain.

Thank you for opening up, and being so sincere about your experience. If you were my daughter, I would be proud of you for handling this so courageously and at the same time, so superbly in the narrative sense. There is true substance and quality in your reflections and it seems to me as if I felt your memories. Excellent job. Sorry for the experience. Keep putting yourself out here. <3 You taught me something. Thank you.

Hey I don’t know if you’ve checked this recently but can you give us an update lake sometime today on how you feel even know how do your portion still contemplating it and I didn’t feel like it would really help just knowing that you have had a question but I didn’t I may be here you know what I mean? Lol but please if you could

Never get an abortion, it’s murder!

am crying ryt now am 19 yrs and am pregnant so no ways am going to do abořtion ohh my god it was mistake to feel pregnant pray for Saturday am going to do abortion pill abortion

"I was not told". Omg, people, I googled embryo development before I even start having sex. Don't you learn anything at school?

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thank you

Thank you for making this and coming out towards other people. This helped me a lot personally and I pray that you’re ok. Stay strong ❤️

If you didn’t get a response for your std test that’s usually good because it means it came back negative

What difference would it make if you saw it or not? You know what you did. You will always remember. Not having seen your baby would not have changed anything. We all make mistakes. Admit it, mourn and find healing

Not having seen the baby, would not have made it not happen. Wouldn't it just be better to admit a mistake was made than to try to bury it in denial and evasion? We all make mistakes. Might want to check out Project Rachel when you are ready to heal.

I was 6 weeks 2 days pregnant when i had the medical abortion pill and i went to planned parenthood and they were so professional and not judgy at all. Its something i got to keep it to my self for the rest of my life. one of my cousin had an abortion and let me just tell you my family just talked about what she had done :( im never judging her at all.

The reality is woman aren’t being educated on the truth of abortion. Before going to the abortion clinic, I convinced myself abortion was something that needed to be done. After about 5 mins talking to the on-site counsellor, she told me, I couldn’t give a child the life it deserved (mind you I didn’t say much to her other than reacting closed off). In that moment I hardened my heart completely, as she would have been the last person to give me hope and encouragement to say, “you can do this”, “you can keep the baby”, “there are other options”, “it’ll be hard, but it’s possible to be a good mom”. I truly was convinced (at 20) I knew what I was doing, even though I did consciously feel it was selfish/wrong. I didn’t like the baby’s dad, I was afraid of what my dad would think, I wasn’t financially stable (some reasons I used to make my decision). I know now, life itself would have been the best thing I could have gave my baby as it was already alive, simply just forming. We are faced with trauma not because we’ve seen our baby’s but because we were faced with the reality of abortion. What I learned is justifying an abortion seems helpful (for some) but in the end, only continues the downward spiral of trauma as this encourages other to believe abortion won’t affect them. No matter what, the internal loss is still there. It wouldn’t be there if we empowered women to be moms and connected them to pregnancy resource centres, to help navigate another path, before an irreversible decision. Or to open up to someone that would support you through a pregnancy, even if you didn’t want that support. We have too many people in society willing to support abortion, which continues this ugly cycle. Get another opinion. Its been 9 years since having an abortion which means I’d have a 9 year old. That psychologically messes with you, apart from soo many other things they don’t tell you about abortion. I’d do anything to have my little one back.

I’ve just taken the pill. I was not told any of this... and I’m in so much pain I decided to look up other women talking about it because I am completely alone through this and I needed to hear from someone. Thank you so much for sharing, I am terrified. I am about to have to take the second set of pills and I’ve already been bleeding and cramping since I’ve woken up this morning. They told me “cramps”, this is not that. No one knows about this but me, but I might have to be forced to tell my sister in case I need to go to the doctor because I’m freaking out.