I understand bro ty for the wisdom. He went to trash after I left and I know because his Narc family keeps contacting my kids. I told them I don’t wanna know. Look up the that 90s song or maybe 2000.😊😊😊😊
@soldierupproductions37 минут бұрын
Talk about it! Yes man! He will regret ever messing with you jus by you keeping it moving
@soldierupproductions36 минут бұрын
Go Kick ass, join my TikTok and shake ur hair back n forth. You got this. It’s nice to hear strength
@danielj2333 сағат бұрын
Powerful stuff!
@danielj2333 сағат бұрын
That's why most of the narcs rush to get new supply, so the karma hits the supply instead. It becomes one flesh.
@digdug92754 сағат бұрын
I'm going to try n condense this best I can. This is for all of you thinking these channels saying the narc misses/obsessed with you is bs just trying to comfort the empath. My personal experience. Grew up in a narc home parents were drunk narcs. I tried to fix it. Worked really hard gave everything sacrificed my life. Married my first narc we were young 20 yo. Golden child narc believed I could fix her. 10 years married I loved her was best husband I could be worked hard new house new cars Vaca nice clothes. She tried to break me insults put downs I worked out all the time played guitar to combat the psych warfare maintain some self esteem. She's cheating the whole time. Left me for a guy really short not handsome or built cheating on his pregnant wife and his mother in law who was fighting cancer. A real prince. Little over a year she calls me we had to meet at notary sign papers for a car remove her name. She wants to know all about my life. Btw no contact other than legal stuff. So I grayrock im polite but I have no feelings for her it feels great. About ten minutes after our call phone rings what does she want now. It's a weird 800# ten o'clock at night. I pick up. A guy says that he's relaying a message from an anonymous person typing. I'm like wth ok go ahead. He says "I love you." I say ok that's nice who is this? He says "You like to blank with my blank." I'm shaking because I realize at that point I was sleeping with a complete nut job for ten years. I hang up. So yeah...Do they miss and obsess over you? More than you'd ever realize. 2nd narc she's from messed up drunk family like me add domestic abuse. She had great game. Played the victim to a tee 4 kids loser ex baby daddies broke anxiety depression. So of course I'm gonna save the day. Helped with her bills bought clothes beds shoes for her kids prepared meals for her and her family every weekend. Took her to great restaurants hotels trips intimacy don't know how you could give a woman more satisfaction than I gave her. Spending time with her kids on weekends. Future faking me I moved close to her. After the move it goes downhill fast. Lying, disappearing acts devaluing me insults lowering my self esteem. So I'm done text her breakup. She calls like 75 times in 4 hours. Even broke out a burn phone. So we make up. Then break up make up break up make up. Cycle for months. Finally I'm done for good. Block her new phone # emails to spam. It was hard at first but 6 months since I've been around her I feel great. She's back with a baby daddy who cheats takes her money in n outta jail drugs in n outta jobs. He's an overt golden child narc uses her sex&porn addict they belong together. Before no contact she hoovered multiple times.
@digdug92754 сағат бұрын
I can only speak from a man's viewpoint but we empaths think in our minds the narc is off to better things after no contact. First of all you're madly in love with the narc and you hear constant stories of how everywhere they go men are throwing themselves at the narc. So you envision they left you for a guy tall dark n handsome rich great intimacy treats them better than you. Because the narc programmed you to believe that. The narc is with old guys losers users other narcs. That's the reality. We as empaths probably don't even recognize or ignore advances from others because we're committed to the relationship. Which is the way it's supposed to be. For normal people.
@digdug92754 сағат бұрын
Once you go and maintain no contact you start to heal. Your memories of the narc are bad. What do I remember about my narcs? The cheating, the lying, the using, the abusing. How arrogant and ungodly they are. What do the narcs remember about me? What I brought to the table. True love, trust, care, empathy, kindness, goodness. Flowers like not grocery store but $50 bouquets from a florist, nice hotels, trips, restaurants, gifts. The narc would be lucky to get a pbnj Sammie from the bottom barrel losers they're with. Every time they're disappointed with supply they're thinking...man the empath didn't use me for money, the empath didn't cheat on me, the empath didn't leave me walk to my car alone in the dark after we made love. Come to think of it when's the last time I got nice flowers? I used to get flowers like every week or two. From the empath.
@ButterflyNebula-jn8rl12 сағат бұрын
The narcissist I dated I think he was gay and in the closet. I havent met a “masculine” male. I feel as a girl more masculine than the ex narcissist. I guess because I work and pay for my way through life. He lived with his mother and she paid the bills. I do not live with my parents I live in my own place. I just feel more masculine because of that reason
@ButterflyNebula-jn8rl15 сағат бұрын
The flag is suppose to represent the milky way galaxy! But was sabatoged by the german nazis
@tmichele892217 сағат бұрын
Well what next?? He got upset because I didn’t invite him to cookout that my family had. He had a temper tantrum and said it’s over, I said ok 😅 deleted his number. My friends say oh he’s going to reach out sooner or later.. no sir no ma’am
@ButterflyNebula-jn8rl20 сағат бұрын
I totally understand that concept the demon comes out on me with dementia patients when I had to do a xray on them!! Its weird too cause the demon would make threats to me like say I will follow you out on the streets!! Coming out on a patient with dementia
@rosaliaoliver-qv3gr20 сағат бұрын
❤Wonderful❤ SOLDIER ❤Thank you for being honest❤ !
@user-vj2sn7vv5s20 сағат бұрын
Every picture he posts , he literally does not smile at all , and he wears sunglasses inside of places as well such as nightclubs and restaurants as if he is really hiding his emotions .(if he had any) or guilt. He just does not seem happy . LMAO , well yes you reap what you sow . We were only a 6 month fling . But he did me pretty dirty and Yes I can say that I may have been grade A supply cause he has hoovered . But I feel that I was not his Primary option .
@digdug927515 сағат бұрын
Stop looking at his bs posts
@tdog915012 сағат бұрын
Unfortunately.yu are correct , we are never their only option .. that’s why when yu find out , yu walk , get your crap together , go get your std test , and pray its clean , and never ever look back . .they don’t deserve to even look at yu .. well that’s how i look at it .. and that is what i did ..
@rosaliaoliver-qv3gr20 сағат бұрын
♥️Great ♥️video♥️I LOVE IT♥️
@g.babyluv372Күн бұрын
They’re being destroyed in the process of trying to destroy others! And when they don’t succeed , they’re left with all that baggage!
@rochellet1333Күн бұрын
They are stuck because of the harm they inflicted on good people. That is the price they have to pay. Maybe, if they reflect on what they did to good beautiful people, they will change, but their diagnosis is not promising. Sad, but they are raising another generation of narcissists. Leave in Peace. Life is short.
@NotYourOrdinaryDogWalkerКүн бұрын
Oh well, he's not my problem. :P
@mulhollanddoseКүн бұрын
I had no idea what narcissism was until this woman hired her girlfriend as my boss, with no qualifications for the job. My coworker said she was literally intentionally cruel. Now, I thought to myself "no way, I'm excellent at this job, so how could a human be cruel just to be cruel." My coworker said she literally enjoyed being cruel. So he was basically saying she get off off cruel treatment. Needless to say, I couldn't go to her girlfriend who hired her to get her to behave like a human being, without cruelty. Turns out she was hired for no other reason but the cruelty, and her girlfriend was the real narcissist, and so she hired her girlfriend to be the flying monkey....I went to HR, and HR suggested if I say anything, they's call me "unstable". That was a threat. So I quit, then began a campaign of trying to get people to see what was happening....Then law enforcement stepped in, as a proxy for my former tormentors and terrorizers in the IT industry. Then months of stalking and harrrassment, then a SWAT raid on falsified info, now been homeless for 3 years in Oakland CA. Moral of the story: No contact is still the best policy, but some narcissists will do everything possible to destroy your life, call you crazy to discredit you, and many MANY people will help narcissists hurt innocent people.
@bustermarch8005Күн бұрын
Thank you. It's very reasonable. It would be interesting to know what happened to mine.
@smokeybear7669Күн бұрын
I don’t recycle garbage so she would be wasting her time hoovering me.
@soldierupproductionsКүн бұрын
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@ButterflyNebula-jn8rlКүн бұрын
Well the previous narc still had his ex around while we were together. I guess he thought I would stick around for that sh$t well it backfired!! SMH!! I think we need to ask ourselves would a narc stick around if we had our exs on the back burner 😂. That would be a NO! When I saw him last I was speed walking away as fast as I could down the hall thankfully he wasnt looking when I saw him.
@user-vj2sn7vv5sКүн бұрын
I reconnected with a friend from High school , I was just getting out of a 26 year relationship with my first Narc .and we just happened to be in a specialized class that was meant to support youth that were struggling with childhood issues/trauma back in high school . Thats where I met him , We were Sophmore students and we had similar backgrounds , the only difference is I was the Empath and he Was the Narc. He threw my trauma in my face , and it was uncalled for. My Father was never around ( I am a female),my dad ended up passing away when I was 9 , and then 2 years later I lost my Mom at 11 years old, and his dad Also was never Around. We both had issues . But I grew up and during our recent reconnection , I have learned that he did not grow up on many levels. And Yes I was sooo devastated when Narc #2 ghosted and Dicarded me , I had been chasing him for almost 2 Years for accountability, he does not care . And yes Thats's a great point , I have been chasing him and who knows who he's with, he could be using my reactive abuse as fuel for the other supply and who knows I could have been placed in a secret compettion I know nothing about . I was soo stupid the other night I went on his Social Media and I had been good about staying off his pages . Its a healing journey , But he used my vulnerabiliy against me 110% .
@soldierupproductionsКүн бұрын
I get it stay up
@jessncin15862 күн бұрын
This was one of the best videos ever. I realized a few things I didn't before. I feel like I could talk to you forever about this. Like, you really get it. We have such similar upbringings. Listening to you is like remembering mine. Thank you!
@soldierupproductions2 күн бұрын
TY
@digdug92752 күн бұрын
God stepped in removed this individual from your life. Count your blessings.
@digdug92752 күн бұрын
Im 4 months no contact from my second romantic narc. It couldve been longer but i had guilt so i started talking to her again. Big mistake. Every day no contact you will get stronger. Keep yourself busy, pick up or rejunivate hobbies/interests. If youre on this channel with your first narc youre luckier than most of us. Im waking up after a lifetime of narcs. They were on me like white on rice. Being able to release guilt and push these toxic individuals out of my life its like a fresh start. This video is on point. Take the advice to heart, be strong, man up and move on from this narc. You.Are.Better.Off.Alone!!!! Trust me Im going through it right now and the thought of being with her again makes me vomit. You will feel the same in a few months. Or...keep chasing her and enjoy a miserable life. NO CONTACT! WINNING!!!!!
@Ehuff2 күн бұрын
Another great video. So true with the childhood BS. It’s sad, but how liberating to understand. To pin point and to realize it wasn’t my fault, as I was “raised” to believe
@MeCynthiaAnn2 күн бұрын
So so true, if I had not gone through this from the time, I was born all the way through my life, and then came across KZbin videos, trying to figure out what in the world is all this……. I would’ve never learned this. So what man meant for evil God can turn to good. You are correct, that the Normies may never understand this because they did not go through it. God bless you, From Cynthia in JANESVILLE, WI
@MeCynthiaAnn2 күн бұрын
Such a very accurate video. From JANESVILLE, WI
@simi17752 күн бұрын
Great content and Nice Hat brother.
@soldierupproductions2 күн бұрын
Thank you
@katherineraquelle19302 күн бұрын
I faced my childhood wounds in 2020…. I found a series made on my childhood traumas realizing how messed up my family is.. lol my childhood was the female form of…. A infamous serial killer 😅 lol sad.
@JohnDave-rz8vf3 күн бұрын
Does the narcissist hoover even if she changed her number and went off social media?
@soldierupproductions3 күн бұрын
The narcissist if did that they may have changed it because of some other predicament. Maybe they were threatened by another love partner? Maybe or you continue to bother them so much and are acting crazy that they did that. Idk your situation but the more you chase them then no you have nothing to worry about bc they will not ever come back like that
@JohnDave-rz8vf3 күн бұрын
@@soldierupproductions so the more u leave them the more chance u got them coming bk
@soldierupproductions3 күн бұрын
You want her back that’s problem number one. Check yourself. 2 if you listen to my stuff I always say they are opposite of humanity bc they are possessed and so when you hate them they love you when you neglect them they want you when you ghost them they have to come find you. I will pod cast this today bc this is psychologically even deeper
@JohnDave-rz8vf3 күн бұрын
@@soldierupproductions ok thanks so the best is go totally go no contact
@soldierupproductions3 күн бұрын
I’m uploading your pod cast as I send this out give it 30 min
@rosaliaoliver-qv3gr3 күн бұрын
❤Thank you!❤I❤this video!❤
@ButterflyNebula-jn8rl3 күн бұрын
So what is a super empath?
@soldierupproductions3 күн бұрын
I will do a podcast on it
@ButterflyNebula-jn8rl3 күн бұрын
Cool thank you! I work in a hospital and there have been occasions where I can feel energy to the point something happens as soon as I felt the energy shift. I have felt a persons fainting spell when she was about to pass out on me when she was a patient of mine. But my gift has been around a long time when I was a kid. I get it from my mother.
@MeCynthiaAnn3 күн бұрын
Thanks for the video. God bless you from JANESVILLE, WI
@hopeinhumanity.3 күн бұрын
Awesome!
@ButterflyNebula-jn8rl3 күн бұрын
Just sounds like they are out for blood. Sad creepy creatures. 😢 I remember taking a pic on my phone of the narc and his face looked so disdained.
@lcoscare4 күн бұрын
God bless brother. Hard truths
@ladydi12104 күн бұрын
Thanks Brother
@ButterflyNebula-jn8rl4 күн бұрын
I dont think we can help a narc!!! They are so embedded in their horrible behavior
@ButterflyNebula-jn8rl4 күн бұрын
My father remarried and even though his new wife says she knows the lord she is a OVERT NARC!! She is very controlling of my father so she will not allow my father to help me financially. She is extremely jealous and Im fortunate that I have a good paying job. I will not be able to have a relationship with my father because of her as well
@ButterflyNebula-jn8rl4 күн бұрын
My father has been remarried now 3 times
@ButterflyNebula-jn8rl4 күн бұрын
Amen they did choose evil!! Their intentions are VERY SHAMEFUL!!
@ButterflyNebula-jn8rl4 күн бұрын
My father who is a narcissist played off of me and my brother. My parents play my brother as the golden boy and me Im the scape goat. I really dont care what my family thinks. I am a successful person I have a good job and my own place and did it all on my own with no help from my family.
@user-vj2sn7vv5s4 күн бұрын
In the beggining of the It was stated that Empaths and Narcs are attracted to eachother for a reason, I laughed , cause it is soooo true, Alot of people used to comment on our relationship and say that he really did not deserve me and what makes us like echother and his Answer was "opposites attract" Yes maybe so ,but are not compatible .
@soldierupproductions4 күн бұрын
Ageed
@ButterflyNebula-jn8rl4 күн бұрын
Lol Im 44!! Started waking up 6 months ago!!
@ButterflyNebula-jn8rl4 күн бұрын
Whoa!! Thats what totally happened to me from the last narc!! The dialogue was very similar to my ex 😮. I was married divorced the narc then dated another narc with kinda same life script!! If that makes any sense. Like has an occult families and controlling punishing behavior. Didnt realize I am a empath until my last breakup with the previous narc!!
@pipers-lildogadventures53604 күн бұрын
That last encounter, is the last encounter. There will be no one else going forward. I am happy being solo. It was such a severe attack this last round bc Satan knew if he couldn't get me this time, there wouldnt be another opportunity. Life is too short to make that mistake again. Lessons learned😅🎉🎉❤
@manessaland42674 күн бұрын
You always come with nuggets of truth! Thank you brother! ❤
@MeCynthiaAnn4 күн бұрын
Thank you. From Cynthia in JANESVILLE, WI
@heatherlynn34386 күн бұрын
I’m at 1:31 and you are talking about “Un-fairness” and is God fair? Well, thanks to your ministry here and particularly your other channel.. I’ve been led to look into it all.. And WOW! IT ALL MAKES SENSE NOW! We were born into “Satans Short Season” or “”for a little time and a half”.. AFTER he was thrown into the Abyss for a 1000 years! Jesus’s Millennial Kingdom was Glorious!! WOW! Now I want to tour me some buildings! Theres a bunch of them in Michigan.. So the people who knew about it were literally separated from their CHILDREN! The adults were sent to Asylums in the repurposed buildings WORLD WIDE! For “Re-Education) Ick! Those children were trafficked all over the world in Trains by Satans Little Minions and “Taught” in those beautiful buildings, now turned into Orphanages.. ICK! So like , “Those” are the people where WE came from! Those Children! I can’t imagine the things that happened to THEM! What a DELUSIONAL SPELL that has been cast on the world! It all makes sense now. All the divisions orchestrated.. All those narratives fabricated. Schools, Books, Churches, TELEVISION!! Written by “Them”. What a Paradigm Shift! Thank you for everything! I am so excited to learn more. I also want to ask you a new question. (I’m the one that asked about Nebuchadnezzar ).. What happens next? What should we expect? How long is Satans little time? Are they just going to stage the whole Anti-Christ show? Just repeat it like a Narcissistic Cycle of Destruction? Another re-set? At this point I don’t believe that God is unfair.. He told us about the 1000 years and the short time after.. Satans unfair! He lies, cheats and steals.. And that’s what we were born into.. So both God and Satan are doing exactly like the Bible says. I just don’t know what to expect from Jesus now? After Satans time is up? Does he still come back and the whole world sees him? Help! Thank you! 🙏💕 (okay, now I’m going to listen to your video) 😅
@soldierupproductions6 күн бұрын
Haha now you talkin’ my kinda Langauge
@ButterflyNebula-jn8rl6 күн бұрын
I think god knows our spirit! Because we are apart of his spirit. So if you have gods spirit you will grow in gods spirit. So it doesn’t matter if you were born in a abusive or neglectful situation. I have a father that is a narcissist more on the malignant side and yet Im nothing like his spirit!
@katherineraquelle19306 күн бұрын
I came to earth to fulfill my mission… I was born a miracle baby in 1995 nearly died.. have been spiritual all my life.. I’ve had mini awakenings in my life.. 2020 was the full awakening.. realizing I was born to narcs.. surrounded by them. Never taught survival skills or life skills.. 2020 was 2008 on crack 😅 I’ve seen the evil eye, eyes turning black in 2012 from narc mom.. I then find a cartoon series about my life in the last 20 years.. felt like my whole life is a lie.. lmao I’m a Barbie girl in a Barbie world..
@georgethompson56116 күн бұрын
Keep preaching bro
@piper43096 күн бұрын
Bit of validation for you: You are a modern day philosopher. Keep pointing to Jesus without apology and know that the "few that are chosen" will listen.