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@emeraldchat Күн бұрын
That's actually not a bitter revenge, you focus on yourself, and it is really for the best version of you to emerge. Great advice!
@Caitlin_Mahina Күн бұрын
glad it resonated! I see "revenge" in heavy air quotes 😂
@charlesmerrill9679 Күн бұрын
that's a 2 way street girl...
@Caitlin_Mahina Күн бұрын
😉😉
@anewmo 2 күн бұрын
Great video! I love the focus on realistic changes.
@Caitlin_Mahina Күн бұрын
thank you so much for the feedback! we all deserve to win 💞
@halzeyna 2 күн бұрын
Thanks a lot 🎉
@Caitlin_Mahina 2 күн бұрын
@@halzeyna yay! So happy to help ❤️
@dianacamones7246 8 күн бұрын
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@panchoalvarez7539 8 күн бұрын
But you need to be worthy of better treatment as well. Are you making his life better as well?
@Caitlin_Mahina 8 күн бұрын
Every single day 🥰
@donwest9014 8 күн бұрын
Its a two way street, little miss narcissist.
@bigastrofan1966 8 күн бұрын
I was going to say the same thing.
@hicnos_9267 8 күн бұрын
It goes for anyone; you shouldn’t be with someone who half-asses a relationship as it’s unlikely they’ll magically change further down the line. It’s about being a team player. Wild because you’d probably have a very different reaction if this was a man saying the same, basic fundamentals. It’s not ‘narcissistic’ - it’s called wanting a caring, supportive partner; something everyone deserves. Grow up man :/
@Caitlin_Mahina 8 күн бұрын
@@hicnos_9267 I totally agree, thank you for backing me up here!
@bi_squared1533 10 күн бұрын
thats amazing that that is your experience and that is what youve found peace and happiness in! but just remember that just because that was the right thing for you doesnt mean people who dont want that are wrong for it 🫶
@Caitlin_Mahina 10 күн бұрын
There's of course no one lifestyle that's a good fit for everyone. I'm here to talk to the people who agree and want the same thing for themselves. Thank you for adding your perspective!
@cybermitski 11 күн бұрын
is this bait or satire? or do i have to send this to instagram reels so people give you a reality check
@Caitlin_Mahina 11 күн бұрын
It's my real life and my real story! 💞
@misamisa. 11 күн бұрын
Honestly, I enjoy being a feminine guy because it attracts anyone. Been with someone for a while and she does the exact same things as you've said. It doesn't really narrow down to gender when it comes to energy. Feminine energy, masculine energy, neutral energy, we should accept every energy that exists in the world because it's beautiful ❤
@Caitlin_Mahina 11 күн бұрын
@@misamisa. this is put so beautifully, and I wholeheartedly agree! Energies have nothing to do with gender. I’m so happy you’ve found a partner that is such a good match for you! 🫶🏻
@KalyaneeGautam-x8t 10 күн бұрын
Finally a logical yet emotional comment❤
@pipeliner4029 11 күн бұрын
I'm really happy it worked for you. However, allowing yourself to be taken care of by a man does come with risks. Men generally live shorter lives. If everything works out, you will be alone after he dies where you'll need to go back to doing everything on your own. If he dies way younger, God forbid, you'll have to start working again. People who are poor don't have these options either because unfortunately living on one income isn't very plausible in today's economic situation. Also, some women enjoy being independent. It's not a routine. It's who we are. :) It is a good message to allow people to help you when you need it, though.
@Caitlin_Mahina 11 күн бұрын
Totally appreciate your opinion and I agree! I didn't have enough time to mention it in a 1-minute video (I really wish you could do longer ones on shorts) but that is why I've also started my own business with the time that I now have because my bills are taken care of. I'm SO grateful for this opportunity, and my biggest goal on my platforms is to show other women how to take control of their own lives, but still balance that out with softness and other, more stereotypically "feminine" qualities. Thank you for bringing up such good points!
@alexandraardnaxela4 11 күн бұрын
This has been really helpful, thank you
@Caitlin_Mahina 11 күн бұрын
I'm so glad to hear that! Shadow work can be really misrepresenting online, unfortunately. Keeping you in my thoughts today as you go on your Inner Work journey. You've got this!
@alisawatchesstuff9334 12 күн бұрын
Pick me women are so unattractive😊
@whatskraken3886 12 күн бұрын
what a retard
@toematochan 12 күн бұрын
Thank god I'm not the only one that thinks this video is weird and the way she answers every single comment with the same answer while ignoring the criticism
@alisawatchesstuff9334 12 күн бұрын
Shes 100% either tone deaf and looking to get attention or completely stupid
@alisawatchesstuff9334 12 күн бұрын
Scripted
@Caitlin_Mahina 11 күн бұрын
Hi there! It's unfortunate that my most controversial video that I've ever posted is the one that has completely blown up my channel in a way I've never experienced before, but that seems to be the nature of the internet. For better or for worse, keeping engagement going on this video is changing the trajectory of my life and has boosted my business in ways that I could never dream of. The primary mission of all of my platforms is to help women become the best versions of themselves, without burning out. So the criticism isn't fun to read, but I know my mission always has and always will come from my core desire of wanting to help other women escape the trap of being forced to "do it all" and run themselves into the ground, when I know from first-hand experiences that there are other options. I also genuinely have no hard feelings towards the people that disagree with me. My content and message just aren't for them! But if they are going to go out of their way to interact with my posts, I'm going to interact back so that my message can reach the people that need to hear it. I can either hate the system for blowing up a video that's being widely misinterpreted, or I can work with it and ride this wave of having my channel boosted. It is what it is!
@practiceofpoetry 12 күн бұрын
So glad to see all comments defeating this idiotic and tone-deaf video. Stop telling women who they should be and how they should behave. There is no 'right way' to be a woman, but there is a wrong way to treat a woman, as demonstrated by this embarrassing video.
@Caitlin_Mahina 12 күн бұрын
You're spot on, there is no one right way to be a woman! We all get to do it however feels good to us, to each their own 👏
@alisawatchesstuff9334 12 күн бұрын
Imagine a 40 year old getting offended. Im starting to understand men more who have to deal with people like you (the creator of the video).
@Caitlin_Mahina 11 күн бұрын
@@alisawatchesstuff9334 I'm not sure I understand your comment, but I appreciate the engagement nonetheless. Enjoy your Sunday!
@_.sweetx 12 күн бұрын
Yes, we all should be what you think it's good, instead of being our true self, i, personally, like to be feminine, that's how i feel good, but having long hair, cute dresses and nails will not improve your life like magic, maybe we shouldn't be allowed to vote or wear pants
@Caitlin_Mahina 12 күн бұрын
Totally agree! What you're describing is the idea of femininity, while feminine energy is something completely different. It has nothing to do with how you choose to style your appearance. I also completely agree that we should all do what feels best for us. Thank you for your input!
@bellacantt4570 12 күн бұрын
never seen a more uneducated and not thought through post in my life
@beeppboopp 12 күн бұрын
9/10 when I see people talk about "feminine energy" it's hornestly just relabeled misogyny. And half the time, the people saying this stuff don't even realize it. "Women belong in the kitchen" No! ❌ "Feminity is nourished by being loving, and caring, doing natural things like baking fresh bread and cooking 😊" Yes! ✔️
@Caitlin_Mahina 11 күн бұрын
I totally agree that part of Feminine Energy is nourishing yourself and those around you with love and kindness, and reconnecting to hobbies that bring you joy (for me, that does happen to include fresh bread and cooking). I strongly disagree with the women belong in the kitchen sentiment. My take on it is that people tend to confuse "feminine energy" with classical, misogynistic ideals of femininity, because aesthetically, there is some overlap there. Thank you for your input, it's appreciated!
@aggropeachy2532 12 күн бұрын
Do what makes you happy, don't destroy yourself emotionally/mentally to look cool, I'm a man and embracing my own feminine energy from time to time helps me
@Caitlin_Mahina 12 күн бұрын
Yes you are exactly correct! we all need a balance of both. I appreciate your insight ❤
@ghislaine1726 12 күн бұрын
The way you describe it, it makes it sound like feminine energy is eating healthy, drinking enough water and not over-stressing yourself 😂
@Caitlin_Mahina 12 күн бұрын
@@ghislaine1726 that’s part of it for sure! 👏🏼👏🏼
@alisawatchesstuff9334 12 күн бұрын
You do not read your comments well most of these are insulting for a reason You actually made me realise how shallow people who advocate this are. Youre rich ig yey. But highly unattractive in your soul.
@Cool_as_the_Northern_Wind 12 күн бұрын
What is this even supposed to mean???? Like your ladyfriends are less important than you because you'rr eay better at menstruating?
@Caitlin_Mahina 12 күн бұрын
Thanks for the comment!!
@Ary3aa 12 күн бұрын
omg girl thankyou so much!! i have been doing shadow work for months now but never really understood it in this manner before this was so helpful!!
@Caitlin_Mahina 12 күн бұрын
I'm so glad I could help! I appreciate you letting me know 🥰
@GalvinPaine-rf8fr 12 күн бұрын
Jesus Is Lord
@maxe159 12 күн бұрын
All this is made up bullshit. None of this is real
@confusedjello7292 12 күн бұрын
we're just rebranding misogynistic talking points as feminism now?
@Caitlin_Mahina 12 күн бұрын
Thank you for the comment!
@megleg584 12 күн бұрын
I don’t see why this is more offensive than most stuff I see here. She’s trying to help/uplift women. If that’s not for you, it’s not for you. Don’t bash her for your own personal agenda
@megleg584 12 күн бұрын
After reading more comments, I don’t see how you guys don’t hear the tone that’s being created. It comes off as victim-mentality as well as jealousy. You can take the message how you’d like. She obviously did not say to go buy her shirt and $100 nails. Assuming that feminine energy is before mentioned is WILD and more harmful to the UPLIFTING of women than what she is doing
@Caitlin_Mahina 12 күн бұрын
I appreciate you! People interpret things how they want to based on their lived experiences. Oh well! I’ll happily help those who want to listen 🤍 enjoy your weekend!
@Taka-lc9yk 12 күн бұрын
me when i reinvent bioessentialism
@Caitlin_Mahina 12 күн бұрын
Not going to lie I had to google that one 😅
@beeppboopp 12 күн бұрын
I've seen so many people push bio essentialist rhetoric on here, it's genuinely insane
@Saltbreather 12 күн бұрын
Man there’s a lot of haters in these comments. Bring back real femininity and glorify women being women again.
@Caitlin_Mahina 12 күн бұрын
What I’ve learned is that people getting triggered is more a reflection of them than of me. I’m happy and in a loving relationship, I truly couldn’t ask for more. But when I want to share how I did it with others, they get triggered instead of listening. Oh well!
@EpochUnlocked 12 күн бұрын
@@Caitlin_MahinaIt's because "modern" feminism wants women to be inferior males to disrupt and divide us apart. It's an anti-human movement now. Misanthropic. Keep on doing your thing. We need to bring equilibrium back.
@cachedcrusader5118 12 күн бұрын
🗣️🗣️🗣️i only seee facts from a based Woman
@Caitlin_Mahina 12 күн бұрын
Thank you for your comment 👏🏼
@catbeingcurious 13 күн бұрын
I feel like everyone talks about shadow work but no one ever defines what a shadow actually is. It's so helpful to actually share the definition of it. Thank you ! 🌺
@Caitlin_Mahina 12 күн бұрын
I felt the exact same way!! It always felt like some weird woo-woo stuff that was meant for clickbait. Sending you so much love and healing 🤍
@extremelyproblematic 13 күн бұрын
Female content creators when they realize there are some poor and middle class women who avoid going to the doctor's because it's too expensive and can't go get their nails done for +200$$$: 😱😱😱😱
@Caitlin_Mahina 12 күн бұрын
Thank you for your comment!
@bellacantt4570 12 күн бұрын
@@Caitlin_Mahina and these reponses show you don't care about women at all. sucha money grabber who benefits off other women
@Caitlin_Mahina 12 күн бұрын
@@bellacantt4570 Enjoy your weekend!
@alisawatchesstuff9334 12 күн бұрын
Lmfao
@alisawatchesstuff9334 12 күн бұрын
Rich older lady pretending to advocate
@extremelyproblematic 13 күн бұрын
Lmao so if i painted my nails, did my hair and wore dresses, I'd automatically be happier? Because if so, then that'd be very helpful for my depression.
@Caitlin_Mahina 12 күн бұрын
What you’re describing is the idea of “femininity” vs what feminine energy really is! Which is learning to relax, regulate your emotions, and listen to your body despite what’s going on in your life. Super easy to get them mixed up, especially with how much “femininity” is glorified in our society. We live in some strange times! Thank you for your comment 🤍
@ratmessiah7223 12 күн бұрын
@@Caitlin_MahinaLearning to relax, regulate your emotions, and listen to your body aren't inherently feminine things, they're literally just things all human beings need to in order to have good mental health
@Caitlin_Mahina 12 күн бұрын
@@ratmessiah7223 These are definitely beneficial practices for everyone!
@csonweedagain5054 13 күн бұрын
Ugh I'm so sick of hearing this shit about the "patriarchy" when women are just as toxic to each other. This is the female equivalent of "just push ur feelings down" and making women think they need the same things you do do make them happy. Not all dudes like football games and mechanic-ing, you feel me? At its core its judgemental and superficial ☹️
@Caitlin_Mahina 12 күн бұрын
Thanks for the comment!
@franksmith7419 13 күн бұрын
Satan
@LandonWhitmire-m9i 13 күн бұрын
"masculine energy" is just burn out
@Caitlin_Mahina 13 күн бұрын
@@LandonWhitmire-m9i that’s definitely what happens when you don’t balance it with feminine energy and rest! 👏🏼👏🏼
@pipeliner4029 13 күн бұрын
Dang. You getting blasted in the comments. I've never seen any of your content before, that I remember. The clip to me was saying that women who discount being a woman as less than have issues in their life. I can agree with that. As a youngling I was a super "not like other girls" girl and that really sucked. I finally started tapping into being a woman and appreciating that I'm a woman and it's really nice! I consider myself a girl's girl now. I love lifting up and appreciating other women.
@pipeliner4029 13 күн бұрын
Oh dang. I watched some of your other shorts. I don't agree with a lot of your opinions. Regardless I hope you have a wonderful life!
@Caitlin_Mahina 13 күн бұрын
@@pipeliner4029 We can all agree to disagree then :) thank you for your kind words despite not seeing 100% eye to eye, we need more people like you in the world!
@pipeliner4029 13 күн бұрын
@@Caitlin_Mahina Thanks I appreciate that. There's more than one way to live life. If we agreed on everything, it would be a pretty boring life! I like your upbeat positive attitude. ❤️
@batkat0 13 күн бұрын
Another self-help grifter....
@kenmina-hs1wb 13 күн бұрын
Pic me
@henriquegraca1976 13 күн бұрын
Why are women so superficial
@KL-sq6cl 13 күн бұрын
Venting doesn't equal not looking for solutions. That is reductive and continues the narrative/stereotype/fear women feel towards being labelled as someone that complains/nags a lot Venting is good (i.e., seeking solidarity from people that cares about you) but just venting is unhelpful
@monicaaquino8647 13 күн бұрын
Big no yo your PJ
@AmbersDangleenAnkle 13 күн бұрын
I never felt more sluggish and unhealthy than I did being hyper-feminine, i had an earing disorder to fit the beauty standards and was depressed because I couldn't keep up with societies expectations of a feminine woman. Im so glad i dont care anymore. This clip is giving tone deaf tbh
@Caitlin_Mahina 13 күн бұрын
Aw I’m sorry to hear that! Sending you love and healing, your health is #1 ❤
@AmbersDangleenAnkle 12 күн бұрын
@@Caitlin_Mahina i ABSOLUTELY adore feminine energy, but it is exhausting trying to figure out what is appropriate for the individual. For me doing nails, hair, makeup, and dresses everyday got depressing. I'm way happier in my workout clothes farming all day!! Hair in a bun, making bread. I didn't mean to trauma dump on your post. I suppose it was triggering for me.
@Caitlin_Mahina 11 күн бұрын
@@AmbersDangleenAnkle No worries at all! I tend to see "triggers" as a good thing sometimes, because they inform us of what we still need to heal. I'm so glad to hear that you've found what works for you. I hope that every woman can feel as secure and content in their choices as you. Side note, I'm also a bread maker! I have a sourdough in the oven right now 🍞❤
@KimmySaurusRex44 13 күн бұрын
All i see is "pick me pick me pick me" stank cooch energy is whiffing out the screen at me.
@rblxlewalt 14 күн бұрын
one last thing before i say my goobyes, are you the type of femenist who hates men and wishes they were dead? or are you just one of those that want more power and blaming everyone cause of the past
@rblxlewalt 14 күн бұрын
wannabe model :/
@Caitlin_Mahina 14 күн бұрын
Who hurt you?? 🥺
@rblxlewalt 14 күн бұрын
@@Caitlin_Mahina alot of ppl actually none of ur buisness tho, who made u feel badass 😭
@lkuiselnet6384 13 күн бұрын
@@rblxlewalt this is an odd take lol 😅
@Caitlin_Mahina 13 күн бұрын
@@lkuiselnet6384😂😂
@lkuiselnet6384 13 күн бұрын
@@Caitlin_Mahina you’re gorgeous, these comments won’t ever lessen your shine. ✨
@aatwood28 14 күн бұрын
How do you achieve that?
@Caitlin_Mahina 14 күн бұрын
Lots of ways! I go more in depth on a playlist I have on my channel for feminine energy, but I would first focus on slowing down (too many of us are moving a million miles an hour) and learning to listen to what your body wants to feel it’s best. When you feel good, you’ll glow from the inside and be in a better mental state! Sending a hug 🤍
@mariapaz6379 14 күн бұрын
When your ✨ feminine energy✨ requires ✨ privilege✨. Look, have your engagement and enjoy your money, i fully wish you success. But try to focus your future content into helping women instead of shaming them for not having the time or energy to focus on pretty nails and cute outfits.
@Caitlin_Mahina 14 күн бұрын
It’s almost as if you haven’t seen any of my other videos that are entirely focused on empowering and helping other women no matter where they’re at!! sending love 🥰
@keegan112099 14 күн бұрын
@@Caitlin_Mahinayou sound passive aggressive as hell. Doubt you've EVER given a fuck about anyone aside from yourself
@barborabarusova4790 13 күн бұрын
@@Caitlin_Mahina it's almost as many women can see just this one and consider you to be a pick me beetch
@rebekah9713 13 күн бұрын
@@Caitlin_Mahina it's almost as if you didn't communicate that vibe at all in this short.
@Cool_as_the_Northern_Wind 12 күн бұрын
@@Caitlin_Mahinaif you need your viewers to watch all your other videos to make sure you're not advocating for a karen-from-the-HOA type of feminine energy, you have a problem on your hands
@jackieAZ 14 күн бұрын
If you’re gonna chase a bag can you at least do it in a way that doesn’t push feminism back 50 years?
@aatwood28 14 күн бұрын
What are you talking about? Feminine energy is lost because we are so hard trying to be men not realizing how powerful a woman in her Feminine power is
@Caitlin_Mahina 14 күн бұрын
@@aatwood28yesss you’re one of the girls who gets it 🫶🏻
@keegan112099 14 күн бұрын
@@Caitlin_Mahina Hard line gender roles and calling women who engage in their feminity different than you men. What a laughable cunt
@Martinlorren 13 күн бұрын
From her page she doesn’t seem anti feminist at all! Feminism shouldn’t be masculine, and feminine doesn’t mean submissive
@Caitlin_Mahina 13 күн бұрын
@@Martinlorren You're absolutely correct! Thank you for your comment 🥰
@xzadious 15 күн бұрын
Real men want a loving wife, and mother to their children, that will stay as loyal to them as he is to her. Giving off feminine energy attracts men that want those things. Real men don't want a woman that constantly tries to be independent, or forces a fake confidence, or dominance, to try to show her "feminist" side. Men don't want that liability.
@Caitlin_Mahina 11 күн бұрын
That's pretty much how it's worked out for me, and I love my life!