You certainly have helped me along the way. Being a dude it's hard to keep up with the fashion brands etc. Every once and a while I cruise women's clothing and make a score. Thank you

Sending you love and light! You are amazing been wayching you for a while. Hugs

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love hearing this! do you still do amazon FBA or no?

I know the feeling. It’s so tough. I was adopted into my family along with my brother who isn’t biological and then my adopted mother died when I was 3 and my adopted dad was left to raise two children on his own. They were my adopted parents. So he struggled but did the best he could. Brought in a lady whom he became in a relationship with and she abused us for 10 years. It was awful. We tried to tell him but when he was around she played a different person. So year later when my dad realized this was all true he kicked her out and she took him for half. He struggled. Then we lost many family and then my brother when I was 23 and he was 26. It was awful. I do eBay as a hobby (eyegotwhatuwant) and everyone thinks I’m just different. I’m the black sheep. I work and have a daughter but I have other family now that just are awful and treat me not like family. I’m so done. So I don’t blame you. I was adopted and believe me I really do feel it. I thank god I have a daughter whom is amazing. Life is tough when you have to take people out of your life. Hang in there. You’re truly amazing.

Things start changing slowly at age 40. Yout energy, your body, muscle tone , strength, hormones. Honestly it stinks. It's a crazy ride.

Ashley, I appreciate the knowledge you share on your channels; I, too, would like to think that responsive customer service counts for something on ebay, but i don't think ANYONE can say they know, 100%, how the algorithm works. Please don't make speculations come across like an absolute truth, unless you have (and share) proof from ebay that it is true. It is a disservice to your watchers and to yourself as an influencer with integrity. Plus, if you knew how ebay works then you would be a bajillionaire, and the only video you'd need to do would be sharing all this first-hand algorithm knowledge. I doubt employees at ebay even know how it all works... and why assume there is only one algorithm? Maybe there are several, randomly running at different times and days, in different categories. Who knows?? Sorry for the rant. I hope you feel better soon.

Can you do a video showing exactly how social media pays more, and that side of things?? Thanks for all your hard work and content!!

How do you know what you have put in those poly bag later? Was that all just 1 order?

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Would you mind doing a video where you explain how selling on eBay works and also how it works when you do taxes. Do you need to keep track of price paid per item and what do you need keep track of for taxes? Thank you

Your story is so similar to mine. My wife and I are determined to break so many generational cycles in both of our families. I have been following you for years now. You are brave and have such a sweet family! Blessings to you :)

the people who make lowball offers are usually the same ones who are problematic after the sale

I listed something for $48, I got an offer for $10. I declined. They came back with $20, I countered $38 (my lowest) and they bought it. From $10 to $38. 🤷🏼‍♀️ Love your videos! ❤️

I decline $10 offers..it's demeaning to my channel & my time!

Hi Ashley, I just watched all your videos and wow, love this casual, fun, and raw new channel. I have been following you for a few years now and have learned so much. I just wanted to take a moment and thank you. Thank you being a truly beautiful person ❤ Inside and out!! You have inspired me so much and I want you to know that because of you I am excited to learn more about becoming a reseller too. I do pray for you, TJ, and the boys all the time. Sending love from Chesapeake, Virginia Jennifer 😊

One of my most cherished items is a signed copy of the Martian. I haven't checked his other books yet but they are on my tbr for sure

I love you. Yes God is good and faithful.

It’s bread & butter …..

Your doing so well because you are yourself and you open up so makes you very relatable. I have thought of doing it too but what stops me is the lack of privacy as a result and I also don’t like relying on one platform.

I love your shirt!!!

TJ AND YOUR BOYS ARE ALL THE BEST! BLESS YOU SWEET INTERNET FRIEND!

Thank you so much for this video. I have been estranged from my parents most of my adult life. Like you always keeping an open door but I had to finally closed the door permanently. My Dad is dying and I’ve wrestled with seeing him one last time but I know it isn’t right despite how others may judge. I feel less alone knowing I am not the only one walking this terribly difficult road.

I'm so sorry about your loss. Family dysfunction is real and it's painful. Yes, we were created to be connected, to be in relationships. The enemy wants to divide and isolate us. Sometimes we have a choice to be connected, but sometimes we have to make the awful choice to stay away for our or our family's sake. Prayers for you as you grieve.

Thank you so much for all that you do, and for sharing so much of yourself. There are many of us who can relate and share space with you as well. Sending the love back to you and hoping you feel the peace through this most difficult time. Stay strong and keep doing what you do!!

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This is literally the first KZbin video I’ve ever commented on. Your story is so so similar to mine and I cried for the first time in a long time about my own situation just seeing your emotional video. Having two toxic parents is so hard but I also choose to thrive and be better for my own kids and husband. You’re a huge inspiration for me professionally and now also emotionally. I don’t know you but I feel like I do and I just want to say I’m extremely proud of you. Coming from someone who didn’t hear it much if at all growing up as well. Much love to you and yours ❤

So it's better to decline or counter than to let expire, even if it's super low ball?

3 kids I feel the brain cell struggle lol but you are doing very well!

Sweet Ashley-First of all, I wish I could give you a big hug. You and TJ are so beautiful together and I just love your family. No family is perfect and some cycles carry on to the next generation, unfortunately. You have a wonderful life and you are such a loving mom to your awesome kids. You have broken that cycle. I’m sorry for your parents that they missed out on having a loving relationship with you, TJ and your kids. It is their loss. You are so genuinely real and lovely and I love watching your videos. You are enough. You are a wonderful mom and a wonderful wife and from what I can see, a wonderful friend. Instead of being sad for the relationships you don’t have, celebrate what you do have. I hate to see anyone cry but crying is a way to heal. You have lots of people that care about you. If you lived by me in Connecticut, I would invite you and your family to be part of our family. ❤️

I hope you give yourself credit for being great today. ❤

All items have offers? 😊

Is this new blog channel?

I DIDNT KNOW THERE WAS A BACKUP CHANNEL!!😮😮😮I’ve been missing out.

You are a daughter of the Most High God! And loved beyond comprehension.

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Hi Ashley I was watching you thinking I was on your regular channel, I realized at the end that you have a second one which I also just subscribed to 🤍 I’ve ( I don’t think) ever commented but have watched you for a couple years now. I also resell albeit not at your level 😅🥰 just wanted to tell you, you captivated my attention, and brought tears to my eyes. Lots of similar emotions in my past. Sending a hug from NJ🤍

Ashley, I’m 62, and also estranged from my family. They don’t appreciate the smart, generous, hysterical, big hearted woman.i have become. They wanted me to conform to keeping the secrets in our family, and I refuse to do that. I follow a woman by the name of Mel Robbins, she is the author of The Let Them Theory. Her words have helped me let go of all the sadness and immense hurt. I come from a family of 8 kids, 4 boys, 4 girls. 3 of us girls were victims of one of my brothers. My father was very verbally, emotionally and physically abusive. The others turned their heads and looked the other way. As a survivor of that, the others have made me feel unwelcome as I have stopped the circle of trauma, and abusive behavior. My 2 adult kids boy and girl have flourished into amazing individuals. So now my voice says Let Them, be miserable, let them not want me in their life. It has taken many decades to realize I can’t change them, I can’t make they love me. Once I came to terms with that, I’m honestly much happier. I only have people in my life who love me for who I am, I’m called the crazy aunt. That’s ok I’ll take that title. I will continue to listen to electronic dance music, go to music festivals and feel free to do so. I’m sending you big hugs and want you to know you’re not alone. Btw your brother is so darn funny. Is he seeing anyone. LOLOLOL

Gal I'm so sorry all this has happen to you. You don't forget but you can forgive in your heart. You don't forget you just put it all on a shelf. You just give all that love to your two beautiful boys and that wonderful husband. Do for them what was not done for you. Stay postive and stay strong.😅🎉❤

Sending love and comfort.

You are such a beautiful person. ❤️

Thank you for your honesty ❤❤❤

Sorry you are sick! I just got over walking pneumonia! Love your channel - I want to do a cooking channel, but I'm from East Texas w/ an accent! Been selling on ebay since 2001 - love learning new things and watching ebay sellers (and cooking videos too). Thanks for all the knowledge you pass along! You are a gem!

I love watching your videos!❤ I learn what is off and not so good. I’m not a seller I’m just a fan.

Random question, do you have a painting of TOTORO behind you on the wall?

Thanks for sharing these! I have also loved reading since I was a kid and worked at my college's library. I have two recent favorites to recommend. One is recent and definitely on audiobook. It's called First Lie Wins. The other one might be harder to find, but it's called The Authenticity Project.

Ashley, you are just AMAZING! You share everything with us for FREE! You are real, down to earth, sweet and truthful. That's all we see in you and that's why we are all here ❤ Appreciate you!!

Hugs from UK Respect

The most beautiful thing about a tragic story is when the person like you Ashley has been saved, rescue and brought into the promise by Jesus Christ. My husband has a very similar story as yours, all his life he grew up between strangers, drugs, abuse, abusers, violence and at the last minute of his dad's life he was only 34 years old when he was dying in the hospital my husband just a teen went after hesitation from all the pain his father caused him, but every story is different, his father in such a bizarre way he probably knew his time was coming up and knowing about Jesus when he was much younger, he asked for forgiveness, and asked my husband to keep God near and get near him. To my husband those were words of no means because his father never showed him God's love or his as a father, but many years later when he had an encounter with Jesus he then remembered his father's last words and it made sense, God was always there even in the middle of the dark stormy days, He was the one keeping him alive. And now he is the father to my children and he is nothing like his dad even with his own struggles of emotions some days is hard but I remind him, who he is now, who is his father, and that his own father is very proud of the men if God he has become ❤

Everything you said so beautiful. Relationships with “family“ are so complex and deep, and threaded through throughout all of our life. It doesn’t mean that we have to carry on when they do not bring us joy. I don’t have parents that were difficult, but I do have a sibling that I struggle with because as you so eloquently put it. There was a part of me that just wants it to work and I keep pushing through for those little glimmer of good moments. I do believe if it wasn’t for my niece and nephew who I want to have a relationship with I would’ve given up long before now.Because those people we love have more ability to hurt us than any stranger ever could, and sometimes sadly, they exploit that ability. I’m glad you’ve been able to find your peace and hold those in love close ❤