Love this I am 36 right now😊 hope he finds me soon but determined to create the best life possible either way 🙌🏾🙌🏾
@masilisomuyunda2 күн бұрын
Everything you mentioned was my take away
@melaniewhyte89102 күн бұрын
@@masilisomuyunda Amazing! I'm glad you found value!
@masilisomuyunda2 күн бұрын
While you have reviewed so much information I didn't know, thank you.
@melaniewhyte89102 күн бұрын
@@masilisomuyunda you welcome!
@thembekadorcaskhumalo8662 күн бұрын
It's nice to see people talking about genuine love. You don't get that nowadays.
@melaniewhyte89102 күн бұрын
@@thembekadorcaskhumalo866 thank you!
@PhilosopherFromMontreal6 күн бұрын
Girl, I met my 30-year-old childless, middle-class, future doctor boyfriend at the age of 44. Try to beat that. I am already super charming. I don't need your tips.
@mmalodimoche69054 күн бұрын
You don't sound like you are happy :(
@prettypetals52016 күн бұрын
Serial watching your videos
@Pecknock7 күн бұрын
Really love all the points you share. Such a level headed husband you have. He's such a caring husband
@melaniewhyte89107 күн бұрын
@@Pecknock Thank you! He truly is!
@laneaspen75359 күн бұрын
I’m 33 and just left an awful toxic ex two months ago. He wanted to marry me but he was very abusive and i finally got the courage to leave and just be alone. Bc being with someone abusive that you might even love… is the worst! I’m praying i can meet someone kind and fitting for me soon. i am focused on healing my heart and just trying to adapt to single life. I’m so glad the stress of him is gone. but I’m a little nervous to date again.
@melaniewhyte89106 күн бұрын
@laneaspen7535 thanks for sharing! I'm so glad you moved on because if you married him, things would have got worse. I love that your taking your time to heal your heart before entering Into another relationship. When one door closes another always opens.
@TKsKitchen21 күн бұрын
Congratulations may God continue to bless your union. Obedience is conducive to victory in Christ Jesus. God is not a man that He should lie. We must hold up our end of the bargain, walk in radical obedience to prevent delays and blockages. Keep those doors closed off on the enemy. God always come through. Awesome and Faithful He is.❤
@withlovefromlisАй бұрын
Thank you for sharing this!
@carmelpage9384Ай бұрын
Claiming to be found, in Jesus name,
@colleenb6712Ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this
@elroywhyte2083Ай бұрын
Preach! You can't hate on something you desire. It will shy away 💪🏿
@esg3813Ай бұрын
Nice thank you
@themalawiandiner180Ай бұрын
What happens with physical intimacy? Does kissing happen with more than one guy?
@ElaynaAlexander-z5rАй бұрын
Single Sally😂😂😂
@nesha50421Ай бұрын
Great video❤❤❤
@nesha50421Ай бұрын
Dating pool now sucks!!!! Due to social media 🙄🙄🙄
@jess77surfsАй бұрын
I cant afford the gyms, grocery stores, events, or restaurants that my ideal would be at..I'm a very athletic fashionable highly educated poor woman 😂😭(serve navy families and pay is terrible) Trust I've tried everything you've suggested for years. Sometimes God makes you invisible. Also, FYI, middle aged single women dont help other middle aged single women. They petty 😂
@jess77surfsАй бұрын
Its not so much finding a good man.. its finding a good single Godly active middle-aged man that doesn't have toddlers and little children ( Im an empty nester that has not intention of going backwards). 🦗 🦗 🦗😂
@cosmicsalmonsАй бұрын
Thanks guys for a great helpful video! And it's amazing to watch you two together. The love between you is very tangible. I am single and it's so nice to witness body language and energy of a healthy happy relationship! Much love from the Netherlands.
@melaniewhyte8910Ай бұрын
Thank you! I'm glad you found it helpful. I'm curious, what was your biggest takeaway from the video?
@amandajoyeuse2 ай бұрын
Thanks for the video am single mom of 4kids & am 35yrs men really want me yet I want a Godly man & believe GOD for my KING
@Consecrated932 ай бұрын
I’m 31 and I think im in my marriage season but I don’t date I stopped dating because I believe that the man God has for me will be clear about his intentions and that is to marry me. I have had a few frogs, counterfeit using that approach but God said no so I believe I have yet to meet him
@lashannawilliams77212 ай бұрын
Yall are so funny with these ages. Try being abstinent since 2015 a single mom and still waiting for my husband at 47. Right.
@sistahinscrubsАй бұрын
You still gotta put yourself out there to meet said husband
@gloriadolo2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this video!! 💗 I am currently 27, celibate for 3 years; no dating whatsoever and back in school studying psychology. Most importantly, I am fully focused on my relationship with God and bettering myself in all areas of my life. In all honesty, I feel so immensely blessed to have so much time to work on my inner self and become a better woman. However, at times when you are 27, especially in my community, you are reminded that you are getting older, "hitting the wall," and no one wants to marry a woman over thirty. It doesn’t always get to me because I have fully submitted and surrendered my entire life to God's will. Being that if it is indeed His will that I get married and have kids, I will. If not, then I will be just as content. Be that as it may, I am still human and tend to feel some type of way by being bombarded with messages about how no one wants to marry women over 30. So this video was truly encouraging and reaffirming, I appreciate you for making and sharing it.
@melissabarrett30882 ай бұрын
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@doloresgr7162 ай бұрын
Hello Melanie can you pray for me to meet my future husband? God bless you. Dolores
@milana20202 ай бұрын
1:31 could you make a video on your experiences dating Men in your 20s
@melaniewhyte8910Ай бұрын
@milana2020 yes, I'll make a video on this topic
@milana20202 ай бұрын
Hi, im only 21, and I do talk to someone although he's a year and a half younger. I would like a video on things for us younger women to look for in a man. I know some say I'm too young and whatnot... but oftentimes many approach me and I can't really tell if they are genuine and oftentimes are immature for me and want sexual relations. I never had sex so I find it difficult to even have genuine male friends. 😂thank you!
@milana20202 ай бұрын
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@lucytatublessed95762 ай бұрын
You are so beautful❤ , with a cute smile ❤. God bless you both, your family is blessed
@melaniewhyte8910Ай бұрын
Thank you so much!
@thefoxaay2 ай бұрын
This man sounds Jamaican lol. Is he? 🇯🇲
@melaniewhyte89102 ай бұрын
He sure is.
@jeccym87152 ай бұрын
Am 38,soon 39,single ,no kids, just myself, i find it difficult to fall in love, but one concern is that,in physical world,i have zero sexual feelings towards a man,and in spiritual world,i have soo a lot of sexual feelings,am very confused 😢😢😢 It's my desire to get married and have a family, but am broken cos am afraid without feelings, it's hard to keep a man 💔💔💔💔💔
@livelife2dafullest198828 күн бұрын
I feel the same way at 36
@cassandra55502 ай бұрын
I love your smile ☺
@lamontevlogs2 ай бұрын
Damn I hope it doesn't take me three more years lol
@ElaynaAlexander-z5r2 ай бұрын
Aaliyah said it best, "age ain't nothing but a number," and its true😊. Some of the older ones are the worst...
@melaniewhyte89102 ай бұрын
@@ElaynaAlexander-z5r definitely agree!
@Bella_M262 ай бұрын
This is good 🙌🏾❤️
@melissabarrett30882 ай бұрын
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@melissabarrett30882 ай бұрын
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@py203 ай бұрын
All three points from my brother are on point. No real man wants a controlling, pushy woman. No mature man wants a materialistic woman. And no decent man wants a woman who loves to dress immodestly/indecently. A man who pretends not to care about these things is most likely looking for sex and nothing more from you. Run.
@melissabarrett30883 ай бұрын
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@ralucaifrim49163 ай бұрын
My mom was negative the other day telling me i am too picky and will end up alone. I can’t completely distance myself but i told her to never say anything negative ever again because that’s her belief not mine. Luckily we live in different countries.. but this can be frustrating when it comes from ur mom. I am working on my beliefs that i am enough and will attract the man that i desire and not settle for less just because of not being alone. Just the city i live in is crazy and not ideal for love ( live in London ).
@beautifulblackswan012 ай бұрын
Dont confess that either dear.... you just confessed that your city is ''not ideal for love'' your words can block your blessings too. ❤❤❤ Nothing is impossible with God, your Father Creator of ALL LIVING THINGS, including your husband
@melaniewhyte89102 ай бұрын
I'm so glad you're aware of your beliefs and working on changing them. My mother too was negative as well, so I understand. Love mom from a distance, I'm sure she means well and wants the best for you, our parents just have a funny way in showing it.
@moneypenny30503 ай бұрын
Wow it took a really long time for you to share that bit of information but thank you.
@LessonWorldTV3 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing this video. This video encouraged me to try again.
@princeofasgard93013 ай бұрын
I'm a 60 yr old dude. Reading the title of this video without actually seeing the video, I know immediately that your the problem. You should have figured that out in the first 3 to 5 dates. But hey, people learn at different rates. At least you figured it out.
@melaniewhyte89103 ай бұрын
@princeofasgard9301 I consider myself as a late bloomer. Better late than never. Thanks for your comment.
@favoredhandsofjudah49323 ай бұрын
60 yrs old still being mean spirited that must be miserable.
@princeofasgard93013 ай бұрын
@@favoredhandsofjudah4932 That's the problem with the younger generation. Everything is mean spirited. Can't say this, can't say that, someone's feeling is going to get hurt. Well, FU grow up. This why dating for your generation is a S#!t show.
@oliviastar38123 ай бұрын
@@favoredhandsofjudah4932 I don't think he was being mean spirited, just honest and realistic. Those that cancel what they don't like to hear, do themselves and society an injustice.
@melissabarrett30883 ай бұрын
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@melaniewhyte89103 ай бұрын
@melissabarrett3088 thank you! I'm curious What did you love about this video?
@melissabarrett30883 ай бұрын
The advice...especially to be more selective with my dates...and to look within.
@moneypenny30503 ай бұрын
@@melaniewhyte8910 I didn't
@sevenfoldrestoration47903 ай бұрын
People at work…
@melaniewhyte89103 ай бұрын
@@sevenfoldrestoration4790 Yes, people at work were like family.
@evertonwhyte2903 ай бұрын
Who wouldn't want a second date with you? 😅
@melaniewhyte89103 ай бұрын
@@evertonwhyte290 Thank you! 😊
@jblackmel3 ай бұрын
Bro, stop simpin...
@melaniewhyte89103 ай бұрын
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