My highschool sweetheart wants to divorce we been together 24 years and married 17 we are 40. She started dressing exrra sexy 4 months ago then started not coming home after work and sometines not all night Then few weeks ago on fathers day served me with divorce papers and wants the house we own together 100percent and we have a 15 and 16 year old daughters I feel like i want to die ive akready dealt with depression and anxiety and i cant even get out of bed I cant believe were not going to grow old together I was so s9 excited go live our golden years together Im ready to leave this world for real I have no support, i had 3 brothers and two have past and my mom and dad are passed and the one brother left we dont talk 😢

You showed up in my feed . What perfect timing...

38 years if I didn’t have a relationship my protected my healer my comforter. He just told me 2 months ago he wanted a divorce. After months of silent treatment. I said ok. He hasn’t pursued anything. Still in house. He’s doing whatever he wants. He has no money that’s why he is staying. Now I have to pursue matters I want to get on with my life. Emotions all over the place.🙏🙏🙏

38 years if I didn’t have a relationship my protected my healer my comforter. He just told me 2 months ago he wanted a divorce. After months of silent treatment. I said ok. He hasn’t pursued anything. Still in house. He’s doing whatever he wants. He has no money that’s why he is staying. Now I have to pursue matters I want to get on with my life. Emotions all over the place.🙏🙏🙏

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I pray God keeps blessing you Kathey! Thank you for your work. I appreciate these weekly videos. They encourage me.

Don't stop doing this work Kathey. Thank you.

How can I get the Seeing your attorney for the first time booklet?

I’m 63, and doing this soon😢scared to death.

From what I understand, God says we can’t remarry after divorce.

More great information just wish you serviced state of Mass.

This described everything I've gone through.

It took me six years to recover from a divorce (fifteen year relationship). Drugs helped me through all six years.

Thank you Kathey! Continue letting your light shine.😀

Yes i am interested

I and my son both have a 5 yr protective order against my spouse due to dv. Its been 3 yesrs, and the thought of the process of filing the actual divorce is paralyzingly terrifying. Do you perhaps have a network in oklahoma, that can aid me in this, aside from legal aid services

I am 53 years old. I am ready to go to sleep. Love is a lie you rent from the government with compound interest.

After 26 years of marriage, mine just ended on Aug. 22nd of this year. It been four months and she’s already talking to someone. I believe he was waiting in the wings anyway. From a job she had about 4 years ago when they were working together. Anyway, I shouldn’t be surprised, she’s had at least 6 encounters with other men I know of, not all of them sexual in nature, but my point is, it was infidelity. She just changed her Facebook status to single yesterday, so I’m experiencing the slow pull aways. Now I’m not going to act as if I didn’t try to get her back, because I did, but it didn’t take me long to figure that wasn’t the life I wanted to live. I wanted to just forgive each and move on together, but for her (yes,the one who had been forgiven the most), she just didn’t want it anymore. “Not right now, she said”, like I know what the future holds or something. I do not have a support group, but I think I might need one.

Can i get the book please

I love you and this interview. 😊

Why get divorced after years of marriage? We’ve been married 51 years. We love each other.

Divorced 18 yrs ago. Friends got me through weekends. Lost house. Had 2 teenagers looking to me. It’s bloody tough. However, I’m over it and have a better more authentic life. I’ve taught around the world. My kids went to university. We survived. My ex husband was the loser, not us. Happy Christmas 🎄✨🧚‍♀️💫

Riding my Harley Davidson is my escape. It works for me..

I have been financial and mental, abused by my female spouse. I am getting ready to retire and she is basically cashing in on me due to her lack of empathy. It is very heartbreaking and it caused me to have CTPSD does that play into a settlement, which I can prove beyond any doubt

Great consolation, is like God Himself guided me to your site thank you

Today my husband of 20yrs moved out. Today is also our wedding anniversary. Im dying inside. Our youngest is 8, hes special needs and Im a stay at home mom. Im literally freaking out.

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This lady is a quack

Is this mediation process the same across all the US? Do all courts use this process? My first court date says pre-trial. There has been no mediation prior to this.. just trying to determine what's going to happen at this pre-trial?

Great ideas & advice.. I'll be reaching out!

How/where do you begin to find/develop a reputable network of experts you can trust when starting over in a new city? Especially a financial expert…they don’t seem interested in talking with a 62 year old starting over from scratch😔Also, is there a link for your book?

The worst part is that im totally alone. I dont wanna end up as one of those invisible old ladies. Leaving by itself in a small apartment with only the company of dogs

Thanks Kathey. I will rewatch this. You have good content!

Very important information .

You're amazing. I needed to hear that and it's especially nice from your gentle voice

Thank you for doing this and for sharing this.

It's very hard for women 😢 I am getting though this situation 😢😢😢😢😢

I am not based in the USA, how do i go about joining your group please

After 10 years being married to that onery bag of bones, I am struggling keeping up with these college girls now.

Very helpful, thank you! Would love to get a copy of your booklet!

I m in this path, 20 yrs of marriage, and i m on my own.

No one reached out or wanted to help they all left me to deal alone apart from my parents and brother in law

I have an off the cuff idea. Can you compare it to death and say "this for now is instead of death?"

Is alimony and its amount typically settled during mediation?

46 years and he just walked away from the marriage. I'm in shock and so traumatized I can barely keep going. He's also left me broke at 64.

Thanks

If the other party has attorney and you don’t have it because you can’t afford the money for him you are loss! It doesn’t matter if you are in mediation or going to a court. It is frustrating!

I was really attentive until the God talk started. I had to stop there. Don’t get me wrong, I believe in God and I truly believe that Jesus died for my sins. The issue I personally face is that my wife of 10 years is big time into god and going to church, yet she is the one that constantly does bad and evil things to me. Not your fault, but I bow out.

Thanks you! I was been abusing financially and psychologically for 17 years marriage that is what my psychologist said; I just beginning to accept it. I don’t believe in Justice here! I am been 2 times in a hearing meeting and 1 with the judge; he send us to a mediation. 7 months without my kids, my house in this foreign country. I was just been a mom and wife, never work before, now working 10 hours every day to survive!