Good Morning Coach great content. Just recently my ex agreed to meet up w/me after me going no contact for 6 weeks. She had become distant per distance, work etc. I had started seeing someone else(she knows)but still had feelings for her. I reached out and said i would be in town this weekend and she said she’d really like to have a friendly catchup Anytime/Anywhere. Should i go through with it?🤔 I really still do care. J

Does that mean you’re ignoring his attempts to reach out?

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What if they have zero Social media- he is not on it!!!!

It's funny to hear these guys disagree respectfully. 😊 I've been a subscriber for years. This is the first few times I've ever seen these two talk directly to each other. It's pretty cool.

I have now the self awareness required to capitalize on this experience. I have implemented much of what you all have conveyed. Spot on gentlemen as these scenarios you are discussing. Whether god will grant reconciliation or not- I have to grow these circumstances

Just love them ❤

My ex dumped me 1 month now.. 3 weeks already of no contact but i break the no contact yesterday because i feel like i really want to apologise for my poor response when he broke up with me, i plead and begged cried and felt so selfish. So i felt i needed to apologise for that response.. BUT he didnt reply to me, until now dont even know if he received my text. I feel bad and hurt.. pls sir adrian, what i am gonna do now? I need some advice.😢

Mine has been on & off,broke up two times,this the thrd breakup he just blocked me everywhere😌i feel soo sad,i feel soo heartbroken though i still love him

A leopard doesnt loe their spots. Where they really putting in an effort? Was it all about their emotional support and attention? Where they really invested in you or just needed you for validation? Its hard to move on. Theyre seeing someone very quick and chatting to them in the relationship?? Over...

We broke up coz her parents disagreed our relation,marrige,aftr that c blocked me but she used to call me evryday and whrnever c calls me c always cry 😢 ,n c once said we can b good friends n iknw il never find a good caring n kind herated person like u, wt m i gnna do ...??

My ex is married in Nigeria and he is waiting his woman to come to Germany but he still follow me and insult me,yesterday he come in to my apartment and insulted me infront of our kids it too much tommorow l am taking to lawyer he will never put legs in my house,why cant he move on since 7 years and l move on long time ago

I like it guys! I want to add you to the briton media roster, where can I reach you?

I may not be dating at the moment , but I still give ur guys videos support , due to the fact I think u guys are definitely up there with the best , and u guys are very likeable people and love seeing the friendship when u guys do videos together haha, wish u both the best

what if it's two years later?

What if I controlled her and said her what to wear and what not to and she got angry and left me even after I apologised to her. I thought that I was making some good to her but it reached her wrongly and she brokeup with me. And now she's happy and posting stories and posts in her instagram.

Thank you. This helped so much. ❤

How can I show common vision in my reach out when my ex fiance just got engaged? 🙁 Not sure what to do, Alex. It's been 6.5 months since we talked.

Hello to everyone reading this. Right now, I'm inconsolable. My ex-partner left a few weeks ago, and I am heartbroken and saddened since this relationship is the best thing that has ever happened to me. Although I tried, I was unable to win him back. I don't know what to do, but I shouldn't be posting this here.

There's no bringing her back. She made her choice, and she knew what she was doing. I'm conflicted in my feelings about her, but I can no longer respect her. That low vibration woman is such a complete disappointment.

I tried a lot last year and nothing seemed to work other than push her further away due to my lack of control over my emotions…. Since taking your advice ive been doing my best in controlling my emotions and have giving her the space that is needed in my situation…. Few days of talking in the middle and few days ago she slightly opened up that she loves me but doesnt see us together and rather miss me that be with me…. Been in no contact since… what can i do to take positive steps from here on coach?

I tried a lot last year and nothing seemed to work other than push her further away due to my lack of control over my emotions…. Since taking your advice ive been doing my best in controlling my emotions and have giving her the space that is needed in my situation…. Few days of talking in the middle and few days ago she slightly opened up that she loves me but doesnt see us together and rather miss me that be with me…. Been in no contact since… what can i do to take positive steps from here on

A guy was telling me how he wants me and is looking forward to seeing me.. invited me on a date on Sunday for Thursday and went silent🤣 Thursday 11pm message from him as if nothing happened: hello🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 wtf

Thank you, Coach. This is great advice, but I don’t know if I want my ex back to be honest I would just love to have a conversation with her. Yeah I do love her. I don’t know if I want her back. It’s very confusing. She’s in a new relationship already. When she told me she wanted to focus on school now she’s going skiing with this new guy something that we never have done before together but always wanted to and just seems so different while I’m over here trying to rebuild myself. She’s just moved on and a fast pace too. I have so many things I want to say to her, but I would never disrespect myself again by reaching out the last time I reached out, she said, loving me is like besting up a dead animal after she said that that is when I just left her alone, unfollowed her and started to focus more on me. It just hurts more because one week before she told me she passed out and that she didn’t know why she also wrote me a letter saying how much she love me and couldn’t wait to be right back in my arms a week after all of that came up to me and just dumped me a little less than three months she post another guy and her on social media

Coaches I would like some advice as well I was with my ex for four years and I messed up throughout the relationship yes but she did as well. It was more of me than her. I definitely feel like there’s some trauma bonding within this relationship, but I also don’t think it should be over But if it is, I’m OK with that as well as long as she’s happy I just wanted to at least talk to her one last time, but I refuse to break no contact, especially after less than three months. She already has another boyfriend now I understand that she is hurt lost and confused, but she also has said some very hurtful things to me before breaking up with me. She wrote me a letter and when she came back the next week from a research shit for her class she just broke up with me so why was she write a letter to me And then the next week a few days later break out with me and then just move on to someone else so fast? It’s kind of immature to not be able to talk this out and like I said I have messed up but I’ve been working very hard to get myself right for me but deep downI just want her to see the differences that I have made so far but then again she already moved on

Exactly, thanks coach youre right i gotta build myself so good that she will have to miss me because one day shell breakup from that person too

She leaves me now she comes back and we are fight for her bad behaviour (she cut my call) then i don't contact her but she also no contact with me, now she send me ❤ and i was give her ❤ and i approach her to date now she pretending she talks to another person, then i was going no contact but i was unfortunately (long time ago she told me one person talks to her father for her marriage to those parson son )but those parson come to same office where We are working but now i was told her(when we are no contact) those parson come office and unfortunately expressed my feelings to her now she disrespect me, what to do now .

We recently break up 1 week ago..she told me she is confused .she siad she is in middle ..she dont know wat to do...if i continuosly call or text she responds once or twice ...i gave her 2 or 3 times chance to comeback n to work out with our issue ..but she din respond ..she din even block me in text or call .. should i wait or move on ??? Ples do reply

My ex said that he did not see a future with me after he went out with friends and met someone. This has been 3 months ago and i found out that he us now in a relationship with that person. Im trying so hard to move on but this feels like a punch in my stomach

My ex went into a relationship 4 months after we broke up. We were together for 3 years in a long distance relationship, I really thought we had an emotional connection because of that. His new girl, however, woke up with her ex the morning and moved in with my ex that same night. She never healed, even though they chatted for 4 months. How is that going to work? Plus he blocked me but has send a message from another number? Guess he blocked me because she asked but he still made a way to stay in contact even though I dont hear from him at all. He really seems inlove and happy.

i cant find the link of Push pull masterclass, anyone?

I really cared about him but he made me feel unwanted after leading me on and giving me hopes about future and marriage and pulled back He became inconsistent and didn't care about me. I forced myself to cut myself off of his life and he also told to not text him and I told him that I do stop texting him but he is the one coming back and bothering me. I said that coz he made me feel like I was not important to him my presence or absence didn't matter to him After I told that he blocked me and he never texted me again it's been a month. Will he come back or not? I didn't want to end it but he pushed me to end it

Hello my ex saying I will never get back with you because you make feel bad and I don’t feel good when am with you I said ok if you don’t want me back just block me she said I don’t want to block you if you want you can block me why is she doing this ?

If your ex is with someone else blocked on everything and no reply to a letter what else can u do it has been 14 weeks I feel all is lost between us

How long do u resist contact?

Best coach 😊❤

What if you live with him and you started acting cool about him leaving, but then you acted so cool he commented on it saying “this is a better breakup than my last, at least we are roommates now!” Then he insists you talk about details that night, after he makes it sound like he’s not sure he’s done…. But when you talk about those details you say you don’t want to break up but he does bc he “felt unloved” and you’ve had this convo w him many times-- he had previously said he felt unloved and you told him if he stopped being rude mean and harsh verbally (he said things like “shit up, don’t fucking talk to me” etc bc of a bad mood- he always took bad moods out on me-- then you wouldn’t have to be a bit distant to protect yourself. and he still blamed me. So how am I to be loving when he’s always like that? Is he a child or should I work to save it.

My ex left me cuz he got scared when I ones tried to harm myself during a fight he got scared. But he still loves me and it’s hard for him to talk about the break up. I hear these from his friends. I’m doing my best. I hope comes back. I know he will come back.

It’s like judging each other.

I think it brings more conflict in the relationship

Blaming others don’t develop a healthy future relationship

Thank you Alex … you and Adrian were here for me when I broke up with the first man I ever loved at 41….I had never been in love even after 12 years of marriage and divorce … you helped me when I was in more pain than I have ever had in my life … also when I wanted to get him back .. I did all you said and he did come back ….but I decided to let go and heal because I couldn’t trust him… really the trouble started from his selfish, vindictive ways…and poor communication… I had 12 years under my belt with 3 arguments total … he’s had more “crazy ex’s” than I can. It was love story turned cautionary tale … I learned a lot and I’m finally open to actually date again

Will this work if I broke up with him? I had to walk away after 2 years because his alcoholism has gotten worse and he was not making time for me. I realize he needs to change but I'm missing him terribly

Alex he reads my texts but does not respond but when I called him and asked for a favour,he fulfilled my request within a minute.what do I do

I can tell you that a 5-year relationship I was in ended last year around this time. Now this is where the 80/20 rule comes in. I knew the 80% of what I really wanted in a relationship she could not offer yet the physical chemistry between us was the best we had both ever had and were doing so many firsts even having numerous partners before. Now I can't sit here and tell you that I'll ever find that Feeling Again of lust / love but that was just 20% once that wears out I really want the 80% we need to focus on the 80% over the 20% because the 20% will fade and 80% is what you'll want long-term growing old. These are 100% facts.

It's only me who finds nothing good from my ex😣😣😣😣

He blocked me for 6 months. Then he got a new fb account and got rid of the old one. (Got a friend to check lol) he’s been posting selfies and changed his profile twice in one month lol. We dated 3 months he never changed his profile pic once. I am not reaching out but I’m going crazy. 😊

Ohh you reading our mind I using chat gpt and it's help me in my trigger

It was interesting what you said. Thank you very much for your good analysis.❤

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