a player once said… “he who hesitates, masterbates!” Be aggressive!
@barrisoden3 күн бұрын
@@Chancellor255 🤣 🤣 🤣 we’ll be aggressive it’s a masculine trait anyways
@saspalace88815 күн бұрын
Assertive not aggressive
@barrisoden5 күн бұрын
@@saspalace8881 I can go along with that.
@jonettaotis38286 күн бұрын
I'm a bbw but I can't seem to find a good man. I work, cook, clean and I'm an honest person. It may be the location
@barrisoden5 күн бұрын
@@jonettaotis3828 and where is your location?? That could be it. You might not be where men love BBWs
@knighttrain306 күн бұрын
The TRUTH
@barrisoden6 күн бұрын
@@knighttrain30 yes 🙌🏾 thank you 🙏🏾
@IgorMironov-rq4ye6 күн бұрын
James Oden you are telling some straight up facts. Your The man. Unfortunately i gave up on dating. Im not looking whatsoever, at 36 years old I love my peace and Tranquility; and freedom of movement.
@barrisoden6 күн бұрын
@@IgorMironov-rq4ye I was going to give up on dating as well but one day I found her and that’s it. You’ll find her when you least expect it. Just like I did. You got this. And yes that woman I described is the woman for you she’s out there. Thank you for watching it is very well appreciated.
@IgorMironov-rq4ye5 күн бұрын
@@barrisoden thanks for the positive affirmation James. I honestly don't feel I have anything to offer a woman. I may be 6' 5, I'm 36, still living with parents, and work in a nursing home as a Janitor. How bad can things go, right?
@barrisoden5 күн бұрын
@@IgorMironov-rq4ye at least you are honest. You’ll have to make better for yourself and leave your parents home. You’ll also have to have a better career job to make more money putting yourself in a better position so you can have something to offer a woman. If you remain how you are it will be very difficult for you.
@IgorMironov-rq4ye4 күн бұрын
@@barrisoden your right man. Thanks for the sound advice.
@homiesenatep6 күн бұрын
Man, you don’t see the GAME. The WOMEN think WE gotta do ALL THE WORK so THEY CAN BENEFIT from it! I’m not being the nice guy! I’m PLAYING BACK. If I gotta make all the damn aggressive moves and get no moves back, while she make no moves and get all the moves back to her, she get all the benefit! You see that!! SHE EVEN CONFRONTS your DAD about it!! You see the manipulation! I would’ve confronted HER MOM AFTER THAT!!! Much sacrifice! Little gain and belittlement after that! That’s us MEN! The women? Much little effort with much REWARD!!
@barrisoden6 күн бұрын
@@homiesenatep yes you make a very good point. They do want us to initiate everything make the first move and this and that. Yes they do benefit they want to be on the benefit side all day long. That was wild when she went to dad and told him about it. She wanted me to be aggressive and I wasn’t I viewed her as a friend nothing more than that but I guess she had other plans. You make a good point there and thanks for your response it is very well appreciated.
@williamwright46786 күн бұрын
When a woman likes you and is sexually into you, the worst mistake you can make is being respectful and nice. Hypergamy always wins .. dominate her body and be emotionally unavailable
@gilbertovillarreal697 күн бұрын
I got raiders winning these ravens 🙏😂
@barrisoden7 күн бұрын
@@gilbertovillarreal69 Raiders +9.5 vs Ravens that might not be bad but you said the Raiders going to win outright whoa 😮 that’s why they play the game 🙏🏾
@An_Escaped_Mind7 күн бұрын
Texans is my main winner ats
@barrisoden7 күн бұрын
@@An_Escaped_Mind Texans over the Bears on Sunday night 🏈 you say they win and cover. Nice 👍🏾
@pauljohnson60198 күн бұрын
I've been celibate for over 42 years my friend, I'm a proud celibate, this also helps with Nofap, hard mode.
@barrisoden8 күн бұрын
@@pauljohnson6019 outstanding 42 years of being celibate
@pauljohnson60198 күн бұрын
@@barrisoden Thank you brother, looking forward happily, to another 42+ years, if I live that long.
@kcdabeast096 күн бұрын
Damn much respect to any man who’s celibate 🫡
@pauljohnson60196 күн бұрын
@@kcdabeast09 Yh, it's a lifestyle now.
@barrywolfe35138 күн бұрын
💙🙌🏽🫠
@barrisoden8 күн бұрын
@@barrywolfe3513 thank you 🙏🏾
@richardnhlanhla298210 күн бұрын
Your unique outstanding personality is cracking me up. I really do appreciate your wisdom and insights. It's beautiful.
@barrisoden10 күн бұрын
@@richardnhlanhla2982 thank you 🙏🏾 very well appreciated and thank you for watching that is also appreciated as well 😊
@robertporter114310 күн бұрын
Use you" X "Please stop saying Messyskin it's MEX-I-can!!!! Do you want me to call you a "Lack Man"?
@phunku888811 күн бұрын
Told no lies. I've been the dummy. I can't even blame her, because I knew better but I wanted to believe she was a honorable being. Needless to say had to take my rc racer and go home. Lesson taken from the situation. Never trust a woman's word and treat them accordingly
@barrisoden11 күн бұрын
@@phunku8888 you learned first hand from experience and you saw it for yourself. And you watched this video thank you for sharing and thank you for watching. And please don’t let this scenario happen to you again.
@FamilatheG11 күн бұрын
#WORDUPJAMES⬆️
@barrisoden11 күн бұрын
@@FamilatheG yes thank you 🙏🏾
@YWenXuan11 күн бұрын
Instructions unclear. Currently in jail. Edit: /s
@barrisoden11 күн бұрын
@@YWenXuan currently in jail?? What’s going on what happened??
@bluebay011 күн бұрын
@@barrisoden 🤦
@zugootsprevasio659512 күн бұрын
Factual. A lot of dudes are playing catching learning how to be a man. Thats why it’s important to have strong men around to check effeminate behavior.
@barrisoden11 күн бұрын
@@zugootsprevasio6595 yes I agree with you all the way. I want men to catch up and learn and understand the game out here so they can be better off
@mysoundmindz12 күн бұрын
Trauma for real. It spilled over into Adult hood. Thank God for everyone who is still living grinding through life. You Are Not The weakest link. You Are The Great I AM. Straight up. What was meant to hurt us make us stronger.
@houndawg13 күн бұрын
Great view
@barrisoden11 күн бұрын
@@houndawg yes 🙌🏾 thank you 🙏🏾 and thank you for watching!! Very well appreciated.
@KL1ST1ER13 күн бұрын
Thats the truth! If shes unattractive-friend
@barrisoden11 күн бұрын
@@KL1ST1ER only if she is unattractive then yes and even then you might not want to be friends with her because she might get too close 😂😂😂
@KL1ST1ER13 күн бұрын
My ex hit me up YEARS later after we split. This bihh was already married too! Had to tell her to stop contacting me cause who knows what her husband wouldve done if he found out. Also had this girl at work trying to get at me. She sent her friend to ask if I was single and whatnot. I knew who her ex was too (another coworker). I happen to see her still talking to him with a big ass smile on her face. Immediate 🚩🚩🚩 to me and I ended up telling her friend I just wasnt interested even though I was at the time. If shes allowing ex's to still have access to her, just look elsewhere.
@barrisoden11 күн бұрын
@@KL1ST1ER very good 👍🏾 and yes if her ex still have access to her then leave her alone and let her be. Good thing you didn’t mess with that woman who has a husband because husband might go off on both especially her. Women these days are bold to be married and still want to get with an ex or another man. Women like that don’t need to be married. She probably did it for the money she doesn’t really want that man she married to.
@Mummy13 күн бұрын
"When A Man Is Not Aggressive With A Woman Who Likes Him" aka self control
@barrisoden13 күн бұрын
@@Mummy if he likes her and she likes him it gives him the green light to be aggressive with her. Not too much just enough. And yes self control is good to have.
@barrisoden13 күн бұрын
@@Mummy if he likes her and she likes him it gives him the green light to be aggressive with her. Not too much just enough. And yes self control is good to have.
@tokyo976613 күн бұрын
I can attest to this. But in my defense, i don't know for sure since they show they like you in non-verbal ways and i'm autistic. Meaning i don't understand these social cues. Thank goodness these types of videos exist.😭
@barrisoden13 күн бұрын
@@tokyo9766 thanks for watching it is very well appreciated and thanks for sharing what you said it will be helpful for you.
@IBigDickI15 күн бұрын
If only I had female friends 😂
@garrettburton533116 күн бұрын
Slavery ended 400 years ago and I’m confused on why blacks want interracial love so much. Black love is still beautiful
@barrisoden15 күн бұрын
@@garrettburton5331 black love is still beautiful yes 🙌🏾
@justinvernon936316 күн бұрын
Bro went to America an switched up 😭🤣
@barrisoden15 күн бұрын
@@justinvernon9363 😂😂😂
@igottasitdownforthisone776816 күн бұрын
This is true. Ive witnessed it too many times.
@562335663017 күн бұрын
💯 facts.
@barrisoden16 күн бұрын
@@5623356630 yes thank you 🙏🏾
@bryantcrawford191220 күн бұрын
Well, this is interesting video but I got to go in on this. First of all there's not enough men around period, 50 to 1-facts. I think that women use this chasing method to control and dominate and to secure some insecurities and trust issues that they have hidden inside. The whole time they tareing down and draining these men spiritually as well as financial-facts. I think the best thing to do for a man is to stop chasing women and start chasing their on financial security and stability mentally and well as their physical appearance. After a man a finally get his shit together, then every woman is going to start chasing him he has that choice to choose any woman his heart desires.
@filipinoblackpill619423 күн бұрын
Dont believe on this, we adjust based on womens level of interest if she really likes you she will not make you uncomfortable. I promise you this even if your a nice guy nerdy type sht, if shes really into you you become the aggressor, its on her attraction level and demeanor, like you said shes only a friend, not sexual attraction. Briffaults law, women dictate the condition of the relationship, no cooperation means no sx or relationship.
@barrisoden22 күн бұрын
@@filipinoblackpill6194 you said some good stuff there
@edwardgraves677024 күн бұрын
Bro don't b dumb never ever spoil a Btch
@ghostbuilder318724 күн бұрын
Never upgrade a broad. Be selfish Constantly improve yourself Never deal with broke women Smash single moms never wife em No dating till your are financially able Adopt “Body Game” as a religion, go to the gym as much as possible Limit your time with her as this will make her want you more and wonder what you doing Stay smelling good, looking good, & cleanliness Stay chasing the bag Never be afraid to say no. If you can do these things you’ll be fine no matter what
@barrisoden24 күн бұрын
@@ghostbuilder3187 that sums it up right there. You said that. Very good 👍🏾
@BrandonJAllDay25 күн бұрын
I hear what you saying but you have to go in deoth on what type of women we talked about to
@barrisoden24 күн бұрын
@@BrandonJAllDay this is good what you said. If I really be very specific about it whoa it’s going to be some fire 🔥
@BrandonJAllDay24 күн бұрын
@@barrisoden mhmmm 👌🏾💯💯💯💯
@ShatterR-il6yz26 күн бұрын
Your never the only guy she's never yours it's just your turn these women always got options don't trust the first red flag cut her off if you don't she will continue to disrespect you and cheat
@barrisoden26 күн бұрын
@@ShatterR-il6yz very well said there. She’s not yours it’s just your turn that’s all
@BrianIfeora27 күн бұрын
What size is considered as small and what size is considered as big
@barrisoden26 күн бұрын
@@BrianIfeora 6.5” or higher in length is big and 6” thick or thicker is also big. Ideally a man should want to be at least 6 to 6.5 inches long and thick. Small is 5” or shorter and not having a thick one and it’s skinny it’s a no go.
@travisterrelljacobs27 күн бұрын
They cant take the truth never wanting accountability never ever very dysfunctional
@barrisoden26 күн бұрын
@@travisterrelljacobs what can be done to change this issue??
@knighttrain3028 күн бұрын
LMAO!!! Man the Truthhhh
@barrisoden28 күн бұрын
@@knighttrain30 yessir 🙌🏾 there are plenty of women out there who are very friendly 😂😂😂
@FamilatheG29 күн бұрын
🫡🫡🫡🫡🫡🫡🫡🫡🫡
@barrisoden28 күн бұрын
@@FamilatheG she needs to be on the court hooping not sitting the bench
@befree957929 күн бұрын
Clown video bruh. Encouraging surgery for solving it aint the issue.
@FamilatheG29 күн бұрын
#James🚹 🫡🫡🫡🫡🫡🫡🫡🫡🫡
@barrisoden29 күн бұрын
@@FamilatheG thanks 🙏🏾 very well appreciated
@tb9340Ай бұрын
Now speak to our brothers that need to better themselves in various areas to allow black women to live in their “feminine” energy. Hopefully they’ll come a day when we stop putting each other down so feverishly.
@barrisoden29 күн бұрын
@@tb9340 yes I agree with that and women do need to live in their feminine energy and not be masculine. But if men don’t know how to lead then it becomes a problem for women and she can’t be in her feminine energy when the man isn’t doing his part to allow that to happen. What you said is good it is very well appreciated.
@michaeldix3329Ай бұрын
The real point is not to allow any woman to dictate what and when you want to treat them to something nice. We do it to ourselves by allowing them to control us If I want to do something I will do it, if not I won't and I'm not gonna explain no matter how much she complains.
@barrisodenАй бұрын
@@michaeldix3329 I understand that. I get your point sir. But some men who do the opposite of what you’re saying they have to be taken into some accountability right??
@michaeldix332929 күн бұрын
Absolutely! It's according to what kind of man you are. Much respect to your opinion my brother
@barrisoden29 күн бұрын
@@michaeldix3329 thanks 🙏🏾
@michaeldix3329Ай бұрын
You're totally missing the point fam
@barrisodenАй бұрын
@@michaeldix3329 what’s the point?? I’m curious to know this one. Apparently you disagree with what I said on the video which is fine but just know when you keep on raising the bar she will hold you to it.
@michaeldix3329Ай бұрын
Rule no. 1 never let anyone hold you to any standard, do what you only feel like doing when you feel like doing it. The thing is woman never let us hold them to standards or make them do something they don't want to do, so why let them make you do something you don't want to do. Men stop letting woman control you, none of this is true what fam is saying you have the power.
@barrisodenАй бұрын
@@michaeldix3329 well if they have the power then why they allowing this to happen?? And the first thing you said well unfortunately women have standards and expectations they’ll hold men accountable for so men should do the same right?? It’s a two way street. Both genders have expectations and requirements it’s that simple.
@RonaldR-w6tАй бұрын
Makes sense, after go’ogling around I didn't realize that Simmy Krotiel's Bigger Blueprint was updated and you can make it bigger even faster, yep, what Simmy suggested before was pretty good, but now it can grow up to 4 ins, I managed 3 ins myself and I feel like a monster lol
@barrisodenАй бұрын
@@RonaldR-w6t outstanding and thanks for watching it is very well appreciated
@dionwillis6381Ай бұрын
Hey James I have a question for you! How long should men wait to marry their partner?
@barrisodenАй бұрын
@@dionwillis6381 no more than 5 years from the time they start dating. Men know if that woman is the one for him or not. Her actions her character her morals and all will dictate if she is wife material. I will say 5 years max. You won’t get to know the person 100% but you can know the person the best way you can.
@williamhughey6875Ай бұрын
WOMEN ARE NOT FRIENDLY TOWARDS MEN!!!!!!
@Richard-i6m4mАй бұрын
Straight facts
@barrisodenАй бұрын
@@Richard-i6m4m yes thank you 🙏🏾
@Judah92Ай бұрын
I rather a female tell me she don’t see me in that way and I’ll leave her alone
@barrisodenАй бұрын
@@Judah92 yes I agree with you on that one
@stacysb1Ай бұрын
I prefer ssbbw. I think they are gorgeous.
@barrisodenАй бұрын
@@stacysb1 Alright that’s cool. If you can handle it go for it.
@earnestinecole403018 күн бұрын
"I lije regular a bbw and mini bbw the best,but that Ssbbw rock too. In the right moment, opportunity,I'd compromise. I like ALL the different levels to thickness,just some a little bit more. Lol. "