This is one of my favorite shows. I have all the seasons on DVD and I'm watching it now on Dabi. I didn't think about this perspective, but Joan slept with her fiancé Aaron's friend. He was married also. That was the last the season
@n.mulero4 сағат бұрын
alll imma say 90s -00s dating was COMPLETELY different than the "dating" this generation does
@DemandMoexhilarated4 сағат бұрын
@@n.mulero yea I understand what your saying and that’s definitely true however just wondering if you see the contradiction here. How Tony got judged for messing with Joan’s ex but Joan messed with William after lynn and nobody saids anything.
@FranSanTeeth904 сағат бұрын
@@DemandMoexhilaratedWilliam was the group hoe.
@therealmarlonbellamy10 сағат бұрын
People being happy in their relationships triggered Joan due to Joan’s people pleasing nature.
@DemandMoexhilarated10 сағат бұрын
@@therealmarlonbellamy factz she was insecure and jealous
@therealmarlonbellamy10 сағат бұрын
@ It was due to her childhood.
@DosmoniqueFrank14 сағат бұрын
I definitely see wym Joan’s character was always my least favorite of the show.
@DemandMoexhilarated14 сағат бұрын
Yess she was just a contradiction real bad
@Danny-ii6jn21 сағат бұрын
Not all women been dumb about a man like that
@DemandMoexhilarated17 сағат бұрын
And that’s your opinion sweet hart and you’re entitled to it luv. I just personally feel in my opinion that nobody is above humiliation. In my opinion We have all loved and let love. In my opinion Nobody is above playing the fool when love is the topic of conversation. I like to give people grace wish them well and pray for them.
@DonyaLove17Күн бұрын
I definitely feel like Zoey from Grownish was inspired by Joan.
@DemandMoexhilarated17 сағат бұрын
Hmmm lols I haven’t seen the show but isn’t Joan her mom 🤣🤣
@therealmarlonbellamy7 сағат бұрын
@@DemandMoexhilarated Yes. Traci Ellis Ross played Zoey’s mom on Blackish.
@DemandMoexhilarated6 сағат бұрын
@ 😂😂😂like mother like daughter I’m not surprised
@adiadenayКүн бұрын
THANK YOU for bringing up how delusional Clay was ,no one ever speaks on that ! 😂
@DemandMoexhilarated17 сағат бұрын
🤣🤣🤣very!
@KendratreeКүн бұрын
I think the poetry dude was named Savad or something similar. I fully agree with how jealous, judgemental and hypocritical Joan was.
@DemandMoexhilaratedКүн бұрын
@@Kendratree yesss that was his name and Joan was definitely hypocritical
@Bugzbunny52791Күн бұрын
Amen she damn sure did settle for less
@keylinsevilla43902 күн бұрын
He was not that cute!!!!!!!! She pissed me off 😂
@DemandMoexhilarated17 сағат бұрын
No for real lols not worth all that delusion.
@phyliciawhite6453 күн бұрын
There is no much hypocrisy when it towards Toni!!!!! For example: Toni cheats on Greg with Dr. Charles and the girls are all mad (even though she potentially did expose him to an STD) but when Maya cheated on her husband the girls defended her and even covered for her!!! MULTIPLE TIMES! Even when Darnell went off calling Joan everything out of her name but they still lied for May while she still saw Stan. I wonder if it has something to do with the villainizing of Dark skinned women??!??
@DemandMoexhilarated3 күн бұрын
It could be and that’s a wonderful point to make. Toni gets blamed for being a bad friend while they all have done things one way or another. Smh the contradiction.
@Meenalena063 күн бұрын
Maya is very judgy anyway and always has been
@DemandMoexhilarated3 күн бұрын
@@Meenalena06 they all are I think maya just pushes a lot of negative black stereotypes.
@teacupolous4 күн бұрын
toni's stressful ass chalmidia wig
@DemandMoexhilarated17 сағат бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@AlexanderCrocker-o3t5 күн бұрын
NICKI PARKER (PSYCHOLOGY) VS PROFESSOR OGLEVEE (NEUROLOGY) (ITS DEEPER THAN ACTIONS IT'S INTENTIONS)
@devinbanks37855 күн бұрын
You can’t blame Joan for Toni being a toxic friend
@snappwolftv5 күн бұрын
Toni has been a toxic friend, and they kept making Joan the "bad friend" in damn near every other episode.
@DemandMoexhilarated5 күн бұрын
The thing is everyone knew and kept dealing with her so is it really on her
@snappwolftv5 күн бұрын
@@DemandMoexhilarated Oh no, it's thier fault. Well I'd say Joan since she kept dealing with her and stayed friends with Toni- I think they're all toxic to be honest hahaha I wouldn't put all the blame on Toni.
@coriiiiii25584 күн бұрын
@@snappwolftv I think there's a difference between toxic and making infrequent human mistakes. Toni was legitimately a toxic person and the sole perpetrator in the demise of her and Greg's relationship. Joan did some stupid ish, and had her selfish moments, but she always apologized and made efforts to never repeat the same mistakes.
@llbabygirl15286 күн бұрын
I hated that Nikki ended up with Professor Oglevee at the end I was so mad at that finale
@Nita988 күн бұрын
Well, I took it for what it was a comedy show so I knew how to separate it from reality. It’s a joke. It was funny no woman in their right mind would do the things that she did on the show. It’s a show fake comedy for our entertainment. If I wanted reality, I wouldn’t watch comedy shows on TV and on that network.
@daaimahgreene5588 күн бұрын
Pretty interesting take. This was fun ✌🏾👠♥️😁
@DemandMoexhilarated7 күн бұрын
Glad you enjoyed
@heyitsbrya27499 күн бұрын
Man this take is so eye opening. She was compromising a lot to make that man feel like a damn man. Im not condoning her affair. But watching with emotionally intelligent eyes, irs obvious it eas destine to happen.
@DemandMoexhilarated9 күн бұрын
@@heyitsbrya2749 and that’s what I was saying from the beginning, this man definitely was out of hand.
@Mikey_EverythingK9 күн бұрын
If you really watched the show he been try end things with her there always something wrong with her that’s today’s woman some don’t know what they want until they walk out of your life in their own terms
@DemandMoexhilarated9 күн бұрын
Honestly your right that man definitely told her multiple times that he did not want her OmG 😳
@Mikey_EverythingK9 күн бұрын
Cap
@Lonelyeco13 күн бұрын
Trina was DISRESPECTFUL!! I hated her thee most!! But Faith was and what's her name from Player's Club was tied in 2nd.
@DemandMoexhilarated12 күн бұрын
So for you Trina is your number #1😂😂😂she definitely violated🤣
@LifeIsNotorious15 күн бұрын
Girl bye you act like she was innocent in this. She was the main culprit.
@nostalgicxscaperoom16 күн бұрын
Imma always be team Mia that’s what lance get lol. The play version of temptation marriage counselor she got lucky and didn’t catch it and they got back together I like that better
@DemandMoexhilarated16 күн бұрын
Definitely so in your opinion, the most scandalous is Mia ?
@nostalgicxscaperoom16 күн бұрын
@@DemandMoexhilarated that was the best revenge lol but the most scandalous is Trina
@DemandMoexhilarated16 күн бұрын
Agreeed between faith and Trina
@montanathemystic17 күн бұрын
Why do women only realize these truths when the baby is already here? It’s pure selfishness.
@DemandMoexhilarated17 күн бұрын
@@montanathemystic I don’t think people have children with the mindset of I’m gonna do this to a child. I think things happen it’s life and honestly a lot of women go through abortion for these same exact reasons and people even who have gotten marriages divorced and our left children things happen to people.
@montanathemystic17 күн бұрын
@ coming from a young girl with a mother who had a similar experience, having a baby before being prepared/not stable. It really can destroy your child’s life before they even have a chance; a strong support system for that child is EVERYTHING. If a mother is not set up, they inhabit that dysfunction. It’s above “life” you are bringing a soul with its own karma and your desire as a mother should be to make your child’s life as easy as possible, sometimes this means not having them at all. Women need to get rid of the idea that everyone needs to have a baby, the “what if i never do” is a recipe for disaster.
@DemandMoexhilarated17 күн бұрын
@ I think it’s horrible that you have had that experienced however, everybody experience is not the same. I know some people who have not had support but made it happen for their children. I think that situations like this positivity is recommended. it’s real easy to judge someone when you’re not there experience but compassion is free empathy is free. That’s just my perspective, but I respect yours and thanks for commenting.
@blackmancool99837 күн бұрын
Because they don't get to be delusional.
@michellewright284617 күн бұрын
I agree I would have waited because it wasn't the right person that's my only regret really I don't regret having my kid young
@PraiseGodAllYe18 күн бұрын
The fact that you’re as introspective as you are already shows your daughter’s in great hands. With planning, focus and preparation and hard work you’ll achieve what you guys need. Conception can be a mistake but it’s no accident. The egg chooses the sperm cell it wants out of 4,000. Your story will help millions. Keep posting, keep going
@Littlemsmiketyson18 күн бұрын
You’re so beautiful ..This red hair is so pretty on you😍😍❤️❤️!
@DemandMoexhilarated18 күн бұрын
@@Littlemsmiketyson thanks so much Mike❤️
@Estela_777_rose18 күн бұрын
But you loved it tho 😂 you loved the mf with all the 🚩 🚩🚩🚩🚩 he showed you them in the first interaction. And yea people can switch up but old folk told us all the time “Marry before you carry” single motherhood is a true epidemic and detrimental for children 😔
@Estela_777_rose18 күн бұрын
You’re pretty asf tho 😍 great skin, cute eyes, full lips, nice eyebrows. You won’t have a problem finding a man. Just choose better, stay fit 💪, take care of yourself, work on your mental health, pray, and never stop working on yourself. Don’t waste time or give your womb to men that won’t appreciate you.
@Estela_777_rose18 күн бұрын
The baby always needs a father figure tho. They crave the stability and discipline. Something a mother can’t always provide. A mother is to nurture and love fathers instill and cement the morals.
@PraiseGodAllYe18 күн бұрын
I’m glad you changed the energy… it seemed like you were making fun of her at first. No need to project you insecurities on her. People get married and end up single, and some stay and suffer in relationships that don’t benefit their children. A child of God will instill those morals. Making mistakes is apart of life, now she knows exactly what she doesn’t want for her child. People make comments like this then will attack women for having abortions or not meeting their standards.
@PraiseGodAllYe18 күн бұрын
God can fill shoes that no one else can. She doesn’t need a husband or man. If she wants one the right one will come when she’s ready. I appreciate your vulnerability despite the attacks. I don’t see anyone throwing subs being as open or honest about what actually happens behind closed doors. Children are a blessing and doing God’s will, that’ll lead you in the right direction every time
@PraiseGodAllYe18 күн бұрын
If anyone out there is being pressured into making choices they’re unsure about, pray about it. It doesn’t matter who you are or what done. Life is precious. People can convince of anything but at the end of the day, you’re the one that has to live with your choices.The love and joy you crave God will give you. Get the Bible app, you can literally look up whatever it is you want to find.
@ELExExCeEye18 күн бұрын
Can you do an episode on urkel an laura Laura treated urkel so bad until he became Stefan😢 💔
@DemandMoexhilarated17 күн бұрын
I wanna watch the reruns but idk where it’s at
@ELExExCeEye17 күн бұрын
@DemandMoexhilarated all 9 seasons are on hulu
@DemandMoexhilarated17 күн бұрын
@ I’ll go watch and get back to you with a review
@ELExExCeEye17 күн бұрын
@@DemandMoexhilarated oh my gosh thank you so much ❤️I'm sure I'm not the only one who's has that view point on how Lara treated urkel
@DemandMoexhilarated17 күн бұрын
@ I’m gonna watch and let you know how I feel
@Dontrolling18 күн бұрын
Life is full of could’ve, should’ve and would’ve. Comes in different forms but it’s about accepting the present. My mom had my brother at 19 and me at 20 and raised us on her own because she had to. We both got great scholarships and about to graduate college now in advanced careers. My best advice is to keep your finances in order and don’t be afraid to ask for help when you need it. I’ve seen my mom go to therapy and quit many bad habits just for our sake and I’m proud of her for doing that. My mom constantly dwelled on the past and I think it eventually made her depressed. She’s better now but just keep moving forward that’s all you can do.
@DemandMoexhilarated18 күн бұрын
Thanks for saying this, this is something I struggle with not dwelling on the past and moving forward. Constantly feeling like I should have done something different and in fear that my life isn’t going to turn out good because I didn’t follow the things society tells you that you should do. But I’m gonna work on this and my self esteem and make better decisions for my future.
@KiaSangria18 күн бұрын
You're torturing yourself over things you cannot change babe. Stop that. Your baby deserves a mommy who is all in. She doesnt have to be a statistic that baby can learn from your mistakes and live a happy life in a way that protects her from any pitfalls you may have had.
@DemandMoexhilarated18 күн бұрын
@@KiaSangria thanks for saying this and your right. I appreciate you saying this and I’ll definitely let the past go and move forward.❤️
@micah.100922 күн бұрын
Just like alot of yall settle for even less 😂, he's a college professor. Yall will give it up to ray ray for only a blunt and some food
@peachygal88564 күн бұрын
Sounds like you’re mad that no one is giving it up to you 😂😂
@micah.10094 күн бұрын
@peachygal8856 I'm literally setting up some yams this weekend lol like come on bruh it's facts lol
@peachygal88564 күн бұрын
@ sure you are 😉
@micah.10094 күн бұрын
@@peachygal8856 yeah , you tryna help me with that?
@micah.10094 күн бұрын
@@peachygal8856 you tryna help me with that ?
@OGseoulite25 күн бұрын
They’re*** or They Are
@DemandMoexhilarated25 күн бұрын
Sorry 😢
@fanta894425 күн бұрын
thankful for this show for displaying real relationship dynamics
@DemandMoexhilarated25 күн бұрын
@@fanta8944 you welcome sweethart
@DreMo521_25 күн бұрын
Finishing up the video 31:07 thank you bc I am trying so bad to let my bd go. Like it’s been so tough.
@DemandMoexhilarated25 күн бұрын
Girl I think it’s a spiritual soul tie when people have kids together, it’s not as simple as letting go. You really feel stuck to that person. I’m literally going through the same thing so I definitely understand. The best thing to do it pray. You have to take it to Jesus. Because for real that’s not something you can do by yourself. You have to ask god to step in because the situation gets so overwhelming and exhausting. You have to call you energy back. All the energy you put in the situation, you have to call it back and ask god to take control of the situation. Set boundaries and I kno what’s easier said then done especially when you’ve known someone for years. But you gotta set boundaries for them and their family. Boundaries so that you can protect yourself and your happiness in the situation because people will drag you down and trice to keep you in the same position they met you in, or the same position they last saw you in. You have to preserve your energy. Focus on self preservation and distance your self from friends and family members that benefit from you not being your best self. There are people who are connected to your child’s father and they will keep supporting or pouring into that toxic situation because they are connected to him and they will pretend like they are on your side to get a reaction out of you but they still want you to keep talking about or staying connected to that situation you have to distance yourself from those people I’m not even gonna sit here and act like that’s a easy situation cause I promise it is not, it is so hard but I praying for you.
@DreMo521_25 күн бұрын
@ thank you. For the most part I don’t talk to anyone. Not his mama, not his friends, everyone is blocked on all socials. I even went as far as not letting him touch me for a whole year. Maybe once. If I can think. Every time we try to work it out it doesn’t work. Then he took a pic with another girl and I was so upset. He “cut the girl off” and I use that with quotes bc you already know how it goes and I still don’t want him but it really feels like sometimes I can’t do life without him and I hate that feeling because I was NEVER EVER EVER this person. I lost myself after my daughter she’s 3 going on 4 and I heavily leaned on him for a lot. He has treated me wild. I can’t say I’m perfect bc I’m not but man. I don’t wish this on anyone. Thank you. I’m going to keep praying and keep on the journey of believing that I can do anything on my own. Thank you for your kind words. Sometimes it’s really what you need to hear (see) and yes screaming for God because I cannot do this alone.
@BlessedbyNella26 күн бұрын
Daniel is fine like god damn he could have had it all
@DemandMoexhilarated26 күн бұрын
@@BlessedbyNella periodttt!!!!
@DreMo521_26 күн бұрын
I used to missed the episodes on purpose so I can binge it on HBO. I’m going to rewatch it again 😩
@coziigurl26 күн бұрын
I love this show and this is such a good video 😂 Ik what the comments say but lowkey that first get back scene with Tasha did kinda look like Issa’s apartment because in the next season Tasha’s room/apartment looked slightly different
@sandeeb201027 күн бұрын
Luv tha energy! Flo Milli always be snappin. Enjoyed watchin.
@DemandMoexhilarated27 күн бұрын
Thanks soo much I love Flo ❤️
@tylaboyd137928 күн бұрын
Yes I love Insecure and you had a great perspective in this video
@DemandMoexhilarated26 күн бұрын
@@tylaboyd1379 thanks ❤️
@GeeEll329 күн бұрын
This is just what I needed to see. Ruminating on my off and on...permanently off. Ty.
@DemandMoexhilarated29 күн бұрын
@@GeeEll3 welcome ❤️
@ramblingsofafutureMD29 күн бұрын
im not going to lie to you jared was a good dude but jared didnt match Molly intellectually. Molly was a lawyer lets be real Molly wanted to be with someone of her caliber lets be real like the girl that wanted to date someone of her caliber and Iyanla was like you can date a bus driver lol noooo Molly didnt work that hard to be with someone that wasnt matching her. Lets be real had she married jared it wouldnt have worked because she would have constantly have dealt with friends judging him and her side eyeing him. hell they went out and he was the only one without a degree and felt college was a waste of time what else there to talk about when he was so closed off and comfortable honestly limiting himself
@ramblingsofafutureMD29 күн бұрын
Tiffany had the girl and towards the end during Molly wedding she was pregnant with the second I believe
@imrobinschild83329 күн бұрын
Lawrence went to Tasha apartment when he slept with her.
@BkGoodBoyBad29 күн бұрын
Netflix’s Insecure?
@DemandMoexhilarated29 күн бұрын
Sorry I seen it on Netflix
@BkGoodBoyBad29 күн бұрын
@ nah, I actually thought you were referring to an actual new season on Netflix 😂😂😂
@JorishanАй бұрын
The bank girl deserved better 😭 sorry forgot her name
@sphynx762529 күн бұрын
lol Tasha
@brianahylton9123Ай бұрын
Not Netflix Insecure lmaooo. Its HBOs 😅😅😅
@DemandMoexhilarated29 күн бұрын
Sorry I seen it on Netflix 🤣🤣
@allieharmon3926Ай бұрын
I wanted Issa to be single ngl. Nothing that's meant for you is THAT complicated sorry lawrence. Sorry, Daniel and Nathan
@MzJamaicanBeauty12Ай бұрын
He didn’t have sex with Tasha in their apartment, it was at Tasha’s place