The lawyer appointed by judge to represent my kids turned out to be bias. She never interviewed me or got my side or concerns. She made me look like I was pure evil and my kids would be in danger if left in my custody. Yet the father had hit my daughter. He left kids unsupervised in a water park while he walked to his car to get his wallet. When kept overnight dad was taking kids to his wotk at 5am in 40-50 degree weather and left unsupervised in the car for a few hours while he was working. He took kids to park and while they played he took nap in car. And here counsil says I'm a danger to my kids. Please fire her already. She has violated my rights with her accusations that my ex not only put in her head but my kids as well and both her and my ex are narcissists. We need to fix the court system that is so corrupt as well as CPS.

Great content

My husband refused to wear his a couple of years ago and it broke me. He doesn’t see why.

Thank you so much! This is invaluable

I love this video so much and all of the information I know I’ve been right about a lot but know I hear it from and expert and I also now have ALL the correct terminology for the things I need to point out when my husband goes to court for custody of my step daughter! Thank you soo much!!

OMG, listening to these two, why would marraige be a good thing for any man (or anybody for that matter) its a loose loose situation.

I thought this was good content until you referred to buying a second house. So I guess this definitely is t directed at “regular” people.

To tell people it’s “all going to be ok” belies the circumstance of so many…some people don’t survive

It's refreshing to know that someone in judge Callahan's position actually listens, exhibits patience, and understands effective communication.

WTF? I think this could be content, but who is as affluent as the people you are talking about? I’m currently (married) in a $200k house - I’m not starting at a $1M house

A few years ago I was at an entrepreneur event whete George Ross, Donald Trumps, key attorney, who appeared at his right hand man on T he Apprentice was willing to answer questions about Trump. Many participants asked if Trump had a prenup and arranged marriage with Nelania. No one believed ot was a ❤match, it was a business arrsngement. Ross confirmed they had a prenup, the marriage was a business arrangement and they both benefitted and made it work. Mayne Malania did ❤ Trump in the beginning because she had a child with him. But I think the honeymoon ended before the honeymoon endrd in reality. Trump and Malan8a are so extremely different where thr only commonality is Barron. I cant imagine she could ❤ and respect Trump anymore.

Is post degree maintenance modification possible? 25 year marriage.

I thought this was really interesting. I had never heard of this strategy.

So this guy in his scenarios about divorce, make it always the husband’s fault. in actuality if you look into divorces, currently women are out cheating and leaving their husbands. Typically within one year the woman regrets her decision. But I’m sure this simp won’t admit it…

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It is people like these who has caused the downfall of a once great place to live one's life.

Its the greatest business, marriage and divorce. Its better than the NATO deal with USA pays 2/3. Easiest thing to save yourself is to give it to her as you lose money and time lawyers and courts. As you see the business of marriage is bad for a man. Its very expensive divorce

TELL THAT TO JUDGE CAROLINE WOJTAZSEK OF NIAGARA COUNTY WHO PUTS 14yo’s BACK INTO THE HOMES OF ABUSIVE MOTHERS!!! NO ONE CARES, NOT JUDGES, ATTORNEYS, THERAPISTS, TEACHERS, DOCTORS, POLICE NO ONE!!!? ITS ALL ABOUT THE $$$$$$$$$$$$ ITS ALL ABOUT FRIENDS, FAVORS AND POWER!

what a sh*t show

Very helpful ladies! Thank you!

Is it necessary to appoint a solicitor?

This is a great brief to get anyone to reach in their think tank to identify a productivity and rapid resolution in a divorce process. The question that I have is, prior and during the mediation does each lawyer have access to both spouses complete banking accounts? My reasoning in asking, is one spouse refuse to disclose any employment information and salary throughout the marriage. I did question this from my lawyer but most lawyers in this area is looking for an easy button instead of a challenge that require some elbow grease. I was told , well you know who you married and you stayed in the marriage therefore if your spouse did disclose that information that was your problem throughout the marriage. So how could there be an equal balance/settlement if one doesn't disclose all financial information if one party hide money under the child or friend name? Another challenge is, that one spouse had planned the divorce for months to years waiting for a time when one spouse have a six figure salary and when the that spouse with a six figure salary made a decision to stop working within a couple months. The spouse then chose to file for divorce with the hope they would be awarded alimony so that spouse could continue working to fund their extravaganzas.

Family court is business. Didn't go like she said at all. Yes, they have a cup tea with all atterneys and Jurge before the court date. Lol. Corrupted! They don't like strong women , but they are not doing half of the thinks we do for our children. Corrupted and have nothing to do about child well-being many cases. They all know each other in the court and playing games with your child ! Sorry but didn't go like this 😂

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They’re really selling marriage.

10:55 makes me feel a tad bit better as I am a mom of 4 and I know in my heart and soul that my children's father is a malignant narcissist. I am so thankful that my Dad (grandfather) is there to speak to them about some of the incidents that happens.

That did go hiw uou telling right now but im sure thats the way they suppose to do it. The father never had any communication with my child no matte we didn't moved over 9 years. He opened the custody case 4 years later he got 2 times a week for 5h supervise visits by jis 18 years old daughter who has not seen my child only twice with his father. When i required Proffesional supervise visitation the Jurge denied like everything else i requested . He will have supervise visitation by his 18 years old daughter who he also took the court abd got full custody of her when i was with him saying that she was living with him. That was a lie and when he wan her case that's why he trying niw take custody of my son nomatter he never been in his life. How he can get twice a week 5h visition with a child he dined last 9 years since he was born . The court system is abusing our children and thats business for them. Now she gave temporary order that she can give him custody . They are doing that he doesn't need pai the money he owns because we filed violation support order for the last 4 years. He knows how to law . The Jurges knows that he didn't show up the child support violation hearing for two years but came to custody to play victim. Omg. The system is corrupted. My son was crying when he heard the news. And you think the Jurge or any one in the room cares about your child , you ste wrong! They are more criminals !

Lol. Our case lasted 4 years and the Jurge gave the father who hasn't been in my son life 9 years since he was born 6h twice a week first month supervised visit by his 18 years old daughter. . The hearing was ready set by the all attorney's and Jurge when i came to court Room. She only asked the visitation dates and place for pick up and drop off Nothing else. And i open violence childsupport order and he didn't came to that hearing before the court put a warrant for his rest, but they make him a victim. The Jurge everyone knows each other and i believe thry ready haf meeting before i came to courtroom because she only gave the order and the hearing last only 30 min. Didn't went how you are saying. People have different l aws and the courts are corrupt. How you give 3 visition a week for 5h when he never went to the doctor office, school or any were and the child told that she dosn't want see him.. she favorite the father over my son. The court system corrected! The attorneys are corrupted i more wearst that Russia !

There’s a lot of things here that are discussed that if there is an order like that, it is unconstitutional because it’s not about what the judges says, it’s about what the law says regardless if the parties aren’t in agreement

Parents & Kids have no idea if or what family training, goals, Family values, family lawyers have.... & it all costs far too much money, for most families. Many family lawyers have bad family values & no family experience, or no competence in family matters. The Kids & Family Goal... & the role of any Family Court staff...have to be Family focused for Child & Family - not divorce or Feminist focused. Both 1960''s & 1990's were Divorce & Feminist focused. And many bad & destructive family ways family lawyers brought in. Kids & Family have to be focus & plan until 18yo.... More.

My opinion changes on information I receive….❤

These orders are unconstitutional on their own.

Do amicus attorneys update a parent after thr home visit??

Great video. Dr. Fletcher has great insight about this process and really good advice. Thank you.

Eye opening discussion. So much growth in her words..

And what's next after a Default Decree is settled? Is there another process or documentation we need to file up for before we intend to get married afterwards?😊

You know I find it hilarious you became a mediator considering when you was the judge in my divorce you denied my request for mediation and even settled my divorce when I hadn't made it to court yet!!!!! I called made the court aware my son had gotten sick and vomited on himself and I was returning home to clean him up and would be late. You then said I had 30min to get there. We had 2 days scheduled for court and you finished it with only wife's testimony and never heard anything from me. Then after hearing her lies you placed me on supervised visits I had to pay 700 per 2 4hr visits 1,3 and 5 weekend every month that my ex hasn't shown up for in almost 3 years not to mention she's not followed 1 thing the court ordered her to follow and all of this was done with your decision making. You've ruined everything when it's come to WHAT TEXAS COURTS CALL BEST INTREST OF THE CHILDREN!!!!! YOU DONT HAVE A CLUE AS HOW AND WHAT TO DO WHEN IT COMES TO THE BEST INTREST OF THE KIDS NOR DO YOU CARE..... YOU DIDNT HEAR ANY TESTIMONY ABOUT THE OTHER SIDES MENTAL ILLNESS THAT WHEN MARRIED WAS BEING TREATED BUT SEPERATED AND POST DICORCE SHE LIED AND SAID WAS MISDIAGNOSED BUT CONSIDERING CHEATING WITH OUR DAUGHTERS BF AND ASKING HER TO SWAP STORIES IS SIGNS OF A NOT MENTALLY STABLE PERSON THAT YOUVE LEFT IN CHARGE OF MY KIDS AND TOOK THE ONLY THING THATS KEPT THEM SAFE AND PLACED THEM IN THE HANDS OF SOMEONE THAT COULD HARM THEM IN FACT HER DECISION MAKING HAS GOTTEN THEM HURT LEFT IN BAD SITUATIONS NEGLECT AND ALLOWED GER TO ALIENATE ME FROM MY KIDS AND ALLOWED HER TO ABUSE THE KIDS MENTAL AND EMOTIONAL ABUSE AND KEEP US APART SHES EVEN DOING THE SAME THING WITH THE OLDER KIDS SEPERATING THE DAD FROM THE OLDER KIDS BY SAYING WELL IF YOURE AROUND YOUR DAD THEN YOU CANT SEE YOUR BROTHER AND SISTER AND IM NOT GOING TO BE AT YOUR BIRTHDAY IF HES THERE AND IM NOT GOINF TO YOUR WEDDING IF YOUR DAD IS THERE. SO IF ANYONE WANTS TO USE HER AS A MEDIATOR BE PREPARED FOR NOTHING GOOD AS SHE DOESNT CARE ABOUT YOU OR THE KIDS BUT ONLY HER GOD MONEY!!!!! I RECOMMEND RUN AWAY FROM HER

Very informative, thanks for sharing

Thousands of dollars in transcripts alone!? Is family court for Families or is family court about exploiting families? What is appeal in the context of ex parte when the judge silenced one side and required no exhibits of the petitioner? I can't even begin to describe the injustices that occurred in my case. The absent unsupporting father perjured to obtain an ex parte. He was a stranger to my daughter and attempted to abduct her while we were in vacation in his jurisdiction. A restraining order prevented us from returning to our homestate. It's been abuse ever since. I expect the litigation abuse to continue until I terminate parental rights. He has never supported the child but his father has two lawyers fighting me. The judge gave him everything he could have wanted, including entrapment me in crimes against the court. Abusers go for litigation so the victim compromises when they should have never had to. The judges are corrupt. Your repeat clients are evidence of that. Judges aren't making mistakes. They know what they're doing and don't care. If they don't follow the law, why should we?

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Can we share the debt we owe on our student loans after we divorce? The degrees we earned during our marriage are an example of this.

We have two beautiful children, a house with a picket fence, and a kitten. One day, she kissed me goodbye and went to her sisters for a long weekend. The two of them wrote an order of protection to get me booted, then she filed for divorce. Never saw it coming. We've lost all of our savings, we're not happy with the kids, we lost our business, and now we're about to lose our home. NEVER underestimate the power of a woman to destroy your life.

If there is already an attorney involved, why pay even more for a mediator? Opposing counsel is perfectly capable of sending me a settlement offer, and I am capable of accepting or rejecting it. But my problem, or concern, is that her lawyer is licking his chops so that he can feed his own children's college savings accounts.

Opposing counsel is purposely dragging this out to bill my wife. His divorce demands are totally one sided. He has forwarded me texts my wife sent to him that are vicious and cruel.

Most women will not accept mediation. My ex wife laughed at me when i broight it up. They know the judge will be sympathic to her and the children and get a much better deal. A mans only hope is to have a well written, split 50 50 prenup. He wont get 50% without one, he gets 20% at best.

Men, know this - family courts objective is to keep the mother and children in the house, while you pay her alimony and child suppprt. You have no real bargaining power in the divorce. The courts will never give the man custody and the house. How many woman and children are homless and the father living in the house? Zero..... how many men lost everything ? Millions of men became homeless. Understand what a divorce is....... its not splitting assests. Its setting her up financially without you committing suicide.

Jennifer, great show! Great guest!

So glad my divorce was quick. Now much happier and wiser.

Thank you for sharing what it is like to work with the firm and the transition on getting through this chapter of life.

Glad I was able to listen to this! Thank you!