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@jerisharpe906
@jerisharpe906 2 күн бұрын
God bless Wesley, it took a lot of courage to speak up. So glad you had caring parents that did something about the abuse. I'm so glad you took him to court & won. What common sense the parents had.
@emilylabo7053
@emilylabo7053 2 күн бұрын
My Grandson was sexually abused by his step father we spent years in counseling with him. The counselor said his Mother knew she ignored it, those words still haunt me.
@Fonoyb
@Fonoyb 3 күн бұрын
So an adult having Sx with a Minor is Rape unless that Child is Considered a Prostitute???? MAKE THAT MAKE SENSE!
@Fonoyb
@Fonoyb 3 күн бұрын
What kind of IDIOT SOCIAL WORKERS tell a Child they have to tell her Parents what was said about the abuse and than allows her to go back into the home unprotected? It's like victims get constantly SABATOGED!
@julielehman1921
@julielehman1921 4 күн бұрын
How terrible, such a sweet little boy, so cute. Real monsters out there. Even the Bible says sexual sin is the worst .
@thenomadrhodes
@thenomadrhodes 8 күн бұрын
I must be a rare case.
@delilahsorensen855
@delilahsorensen855 9 күн бұрын
This man ... didn't say... but SAID!!!
@viridianhughes219
@viridianhughes219 9 күн бұрын
I love her!❤
@lindawells8167
@lindawells8167 11 күн бұрын
What monstrous torture, trauma and pain that psychopath caused. I'm so sorry you were abused. You are a person-not an object.
@lindawells8167
@lindawells8167 11 күн бұрын
Children are made to feel like they will be the reason for the family breaking up if they tell the truth of abuse.
@MuckinFutch
@MuckinFutch 12 күн бұрын
I can't find a news report about the sentence given to this predator. Any information about this?
@torerikbottolfs-pettersen8577
@torerikbottolfs-pettersen8577 12 күн бұрын
Th07
@patriciaduggan4102
@patriciaduggan4102 14 күн бұрын
I thank GOD. FOR YOUR PARENTS so humble all 3 of you I am a practicing RC & pray. everyday for OUR LORD'S Protection ón all children, i àm sure you also do. I also plead THE PRECIOUS BLOOD OF JESUS over our children & grand children every day. God Bless You.
@myvizionchannel6444
@myvizionchannel6444 15 күн бұрын
Are you saying they were sharpened by the abuse?
@pathlatko6796
@pathlatko6796 15 күн бұрын
You are so brave to tell your story. I know you have helped so many. It's terrifying to know how many adults enabled him. He was one sick bastard.
@fastingcoach9711
@fastingcoach9711 19 күн бұрын
What wonderful parents!!!
@christineohi2231
@christineohi2231 21 күн бұрын
You're amazing. You told your story to my Nursing class at D.C.C. > 30 years ago. Little did I know then my own story would include domestic violence, devaluation, abuse by my Narcissistic husband. I finally left him after 17 years of marriage....only to have him gaslight me, saying I attacked him & put me in jail 2x. Thank God for Summit County Advocates for Victims of Assault (CO.) DA office that believed me, eventually. 3 years later I was awarded full custody of our sons & allowed to move away from him. But through similar heartbreak, realizations & therapy, I've learned to love myself & grow beyond the pain. One can never forget.....so hard to forgive. I admire you & since that day over 30 years ago I you've been my hero.
@marcteixeira8939
@marcteixeira8939 21 күн бұрын
Fisher definitely sounds like a narcissist.
@marcteixeira8939
@marcteixeira8939 21 күн бұрын
Thank you, Mr. Glover for sharing your story. I was abused when I was a child as well, and it was very traumatizing. I went through a lot of trauma aftermath after that. I felt like my father never understood my trauma. As an adult, I had to seek out my own help and made peace with my past. I’m learning. You definitely want to make these traumas into assets. I really had to forgive myself for this past trauma.
@marcteixeira8939
@marcteixeira8939 21 күн бұрын
I got abused by my cousins when I was 11 years old. I went through a lot with the aftermath trauma of it. I eventually got help for it. The key is to turn all these bad traumas into assets instead of something in a bad way. David Moody is right you have to forgive yourself as well.
@chrisnizer
@chrisnizer 23 күн бұрын
Damn man, those poor kids. Only "smiling/grinning" with their mouths in their pictures, no joy whatsoever in their eyes, just...emptiness.
@pija9505
@pija9505 25 күн бұрын
Cluster b manipulation.. so sad.. so devastatingly personal and confusing..
@pija9505
@pija9505 25 күн бұрын
Gaslighting, blameshifting, trooling, grooming, mezmorizing,, crazy making, brainfoggiing.. brain freezing.. All cluster b manipulation.. Sad
@iljavieten687
@iljavieten687 Ай бұрын
This is just gut wrenchingly comforting and emboldening....I cannot fathom this woman's bravery....I'm actually stunned and endlessly sad over how such things can even occur....but at the same time I feel so indescribably glad for Misses VanDerbur that she found people who were just loving her for nothing but herself...wow, what a testimony...😥
@sari5045
@sari5045 Ай бұрын
And here we are in 2024. The world is finally waking up. We now know that pedophilia runs thru EVERY aspect of our society. From the janitor to President Biden. And it’s even darker than that. WHERE ARE ALL THE CHILDREN⁉️⁉️⁉️
@Puddles1239
@Puddles1239 Ай бұрын
Doesn't make sense why her mother didn't rescue her .
@Siberialover23Guiterrez
@Siberialover23Guiterrez Ай бұрын
Anybody else here in 2024? 😢
@Siberialover23Guiterrez
@Siberialover23Guiterrez Ай бұрын
Her story is identical to my story 😢 other than it was my father who rap*d me & I'm Russian/English 😢😢😢❤❤❤❤❤
@Siberialover23Guiterrez
@Siberialover23Guiterrez Ай бұрын
He chose Wesley bc he could tell that he's in the closet 🫢🤭
@marcteixeira8939
@marcteixeira8939 Ай бұрын
What a humble family. Forginess is so important for the healing process.
@ONEFAITHofJESUS
@ONEFAITHofJESUS Ай бұрын
the apostles' doctrine lays out a blueprint with built in accountability and by design protects children. The problem is that very few are aware or understand what this sound structure is supposed to loom like...... And almost no "churches" , synagogues, etc. employ a plurality of *local elders......
@ONEFAITHofJESUS
@ONEFAITHofJESUS Ай бұрын
Comparing versions of the New Testament, prayerfully, is a helpful way to understand the only true solution to making safe religious space
@wordscapes5690
@wordscapes5690 2 ай бұрын
I get very nervous when people use religions to “solve” problems. Many people who are abused are gay or lesbian, and they then face double condemnation, particularly from certain faith traditions. Go to counseling first (and then go to church). Personally, no. I will not forgive. I will however, not be a victim either.
@Thekoryosmenstribepodcast
@Thekoryosmenstribepodcast 2 ай бұрын
My abuse started at 6 by an older boy in school, who was threatening me. I was terrified. It went on for a year before i said something. Then a second person started to do it. And at home i was being physically abused. It ruined my childhood. I still at 41 go to therapy. This kind of abuse literally snatches your soul away from you. 😢
@peterlohnes1
@peterlohnes1 3 ай бұрын
sadly a woman in my building who is a CSA survivor is regularly targeted by abusers and recently a sex traffic gang. Surprised to learn that sex trafficking isnt done by "mafia" or organized crime, but often done by "ordinary" groups of men who place no value on a woman's life, or use the argument "if I don't do it, someone else will, she's safer with me." Every single one of them that I've watched closely are total scumbags. Some of them make her dress up in chidlrens clothing. When calling the police "Sorry she's a willing participant, theres nothing we can do." There needs to be far more stringent laws in place to protext CSA victims because they are victims their entire lives as a result.
@rayjones7313
@rayjones7313 3 ай бұрын
Wesley, you're the first person I've heard on video so far whose spoken boldly about FORGIVENESS... JUST FOUND THESE VIDEOS. DON'T HAVE ANYTHING BUT THIS PHONE, AND HAVE A JOURNEY WITH BEING ABUSED SOMEWHAT BUT WHO'S A 7-year-old boy tell in 1963 Seattle-- you had lots of praise for your Dad-- Praise God Almighty that tell him even the worst things at what, age 11? By that age (I was 11 in late 1966) I couldn't tell anyone even the Police Officer across the street, as I had by then become Twisted Beyond Belief Boy SEEKING the feelings that came with, by then, wantonly GIVING my body over to Any Male of ages 8 to 18 plus a few Adults. But I couldn't tell my Daddy, an alcohol addicted who'd be known today as a PTSD veteran... But he's who (by the letter of the Law) Raped me by both performing and receiving Oral on/from me, likely over 800x before I finally said No when I was 15+). Never ever cease thanking the Lord for Your Folks... 🌞 🌞. ❤❤ I went through Cyclical situations, even thinking I was Healed or Cured.... Deception from Psych. or Name It And Claim It Church Charlatans equally a Satanic stroll into fellowship with the Prince of Lies. Eventually I became a Perpetrator with having repeated History with My. Own. Sons. Treatment in Prison. Christian Counseling for the Whole Family... The Lord has been Gracious to me even when I'd gone so FAR astray as I was by 8th grade, flitting between being Suicidal or a Demented Catamite... My "gifts" these days aren't mentioned by Paul -- Rambling and Digression -- But if God could make use of Baalams Talking Jackass, perhaps He just might be using me . 🌞🌞🌞 He 🌞 is 🌞 SURELY 🌞 using 🌞 you 🌞 and 🌞 your 🌞 Messages
@sociologyaddict8689
@sociologyaddict8689 3 ай бұрын
Love Tina Frundt!!
@lynndurbin9476
@lynndurbin9476 4 ай бұрын
This proves adults do not have the best in mind for their children. It's a matter of the parents pride in covering up their daughter's abuse instead of facing the truth, their own life seemed more important to them. Parents who don't even know or care about their children!
@jantaljaard835
@jantaljaard835 4 ай бұрын
She is so wonderful.
@floraarukwe2705
@floraarukwe2705 4 ай бұрын
And me
@srfeliciacrandall7243
@srfeliciacrandall7243 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story! Many of these things have happened in the dark over the years now children are assaulted in daylight through schools, open borders etc, trafficked like it’s a carnival. Children- where is their neutral ground? Where their protection? Prayer & awareness like you are giving to bring this sickness into the light
@destinymccreary8912
@destinymccreary8912 4 ай бұрын
This is Satans work please do not be fooled! Pornography included.
@user-mj8nf2vp7q
@user-mj8nf2vp7q 5 ай бұрын
I have PTSD (physical abuse), & those panic attacks are no joke, especially when you're driving! Prayer, breathing exercises, & medication have helped...counseling is forthcoming. God Bless you for telling your story! 👍🏽💯🤗
@kimberlystamper9529
@kimberlystamper9529 5 ай бұрын
My son and I had the talk before his first church camp. Trust no one
@kimberlystamper9529
@kimberlystamper9529 5 ай бұрын
So brave ❤
@kyrene94
@kyrene94 6 ай бұрын
Brave guy. He really had an uphill battle with the school involved. So happy for him that he overcame! God bless him
@kyrene94
@kyrene94 6 ай бұрын
What a loving family. Seem like really decent folks. I wish them the best
@FelicityFlow-ug2eq
@FelicityFlow-ug2eq 7 ай бұрын
And especially this day and age were sex traffiking seems to be on the rise in alarming rates ! Once you watch rhose rabbit holes you wish you never had ! Just stick to funny animals videos save your innocence !
@margyeoman3564
@margyeoman3564 7 ай бұрын
This lady's story was the most real about the aftermath of abuse. It was not the excruciating, abuse, rape murder we usually see. Ìt was not made simplistic. It was a full orchestra of life harmed and a person surviving .
@aprilwalker908
@aprilwalker908 8 ай бұрын
A?
@aprilwalker908
@aprilwalker908 8 ай бұрын
You are nice girlwtta. ❤️ u.
@jeannelederman8992
@jeannelederman8992 9 ай бұрын
You are WONDERFUL Holly!! I am so thankful you are strong enough to share your story!! ❤⭕️❌