You have the best dad. „I finally have a son“ is definitely the best possible reaction
@SillySquirrelOwO8 күн бұрын
I FINALLY HAVE A SON
@Chrysonpawz17 күн бұрын
"I finally have a soonn!!!!" LOL SO SWEET :)
@SimplyZed8818 күн бұрын
Is this real? Like is the actually that supportive and open and wow. I can't imagine this as being real, I'm sorry. You're so lucky.
@coolsaucekattАй бұрын
Testosterone update ??? What hap to your videos ? ^_^
@kaidayuri5526Ай бұрын
Update please?
@Louise-xt3yv2 ай бұрын
Still crying bc of this video, this REALLYYYY changed my life
@Solescomo2 ай бұрын
I wish more parents were open to talk like his dad
@For3verAGh05t2 ай бұрын
I'm so happy for you! My dad seems to support me too but I haven't fully explained how I feel and my wants like you have with your dad. But he said he doesn't mind me being trans.
@DinosaurNick4 ай бұрын
Don't feel bad, dude. I laugh, too, when I'm nervous. Awesome dad, though! Edit: I'm agender, and I, too, have dysphoria, mostly toward my chest and voice, and I can't decide what to do with my hair. Edit 2: That is so relatable. As a little kid, my mom put me in dresses and wouldn't let me play and get dirty, and I hated it. I was in my tomboy period in my preteens. As an older teen and young adult, I kept being told to be a lady, and I tried, but it just wasn't me, and I was miserable and uncomfortable. I didn't have a word for my experience until I was 38 and realized I was agender.
@KathyBoner4 ай бұрын
Im crying Ive been trying to build up confidence but i just cant seem to do it
@MattTheeTherian4 ай бұрын
if your gay then your gay don’t pretend that your straight you can be who you are any day of the week you are unlike the others so strong and unique we are with you if your straight well that’s great you can help pro create and make gay little babies for the whole human race! (wanted to send to make the mood brighter
@DarrenGilbertSuka5 ай бұрын
I wish I had your support.
@charlietao-x9h5 ай бұрын
his dad is the sweetest
@kathymcbride24255 ай бұрын
ian your dad is so cool your brave for telling him best of luck in the future love from the uk
@robinrogowski16325 ай бұрын
Way to go Kid, It is a long road.
@berrysnowyboy52517 ай бұрын
Hey dude, thanks for this (as someone still struggling with himself as a trans guy while struggling with internalised transphobia). It's helping me. <3
@Cicada-Screams8 ай бұрын
I truly wish I had a father like this growing up. Not even necessarily accepting right off thr bat, just someone I felt like wouldn't immediately dismiss me or put words in my mouth. I get a hard time wrapping my head around people having healthy relationships with their fathers, but when I see it hurts so much. He seems like a good guy.
@Chris423009 ай бұрын
What he did to me was unacceptable
@eg_manifest510 Жыл бұрын
I can see why you had to specify FTM in the title cause you already look like 90% of the guys I know
@HaxAras Жыл бұрын
Damn, your dad sounds awesome.
@fishintheocean-i4g Жыл бұрын
so now there's a psychiatric label for literally feeling depressed, for feeling very sad, for feeling morose? Have you seen the present state of the world??! Yes, of course you have, that's why you would have "dysphoria" as it's so labeled. That's not a mental illness, that's called a sane reaction. It's the people who so full on don't give a damn, that they're so content and happy in this present demonic matrix, THEY'RE the ones who are sick.
@green.eggs.and.trans. Жыл бұрын
20:38 bruh im jealous asf with this, you and your bond with your dad is adorable! im so happy you have a dad that accepts you :)
@TomatoAddict Жыл бұрын
Um ur still a white middle class in America, how dare u say this is worse than what black people have experienced smh
@EMMAuk45 Жыл бұрын
Keep posting videos i miss you sm😢❤
@rudymelo880 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for posting this
@ashlehsmash9028 Жыл бұрын
"I finally have a son"
@lemonboy9208 Жыл бұрын
i feel the awkwardness
@helenalovelock1030 Жыл бұрын
Please can you tell me how you are feeling 6 years later ???
@Raccoonboi634 Жыл бұрын
I’m so proud ❤
@sle3pyking Жыл бұрын
THIS MAN IS SO WHOLESOME
@Noa1398-k5s Жыл бұрын
made me cry, good for u dude!!!!:))))))
@AbbeyWagner4547 Жыл бұрын
I’m pangender but present myself as female and I want you to know that you are valid no matter what 🌈
@tommasomaruffi1306 Жыл бұрын
Oh come on I'm gonna cry with that ending
@keatonium3298 Жыл бұрын
aaaaaa the anxiety i need to come out to my parents at some point pls this is killing me aaa (pre-everything mtf)
@dakotachristopher55322 жыл бұрын
I'm four years late but all I wanna say is my gosh why can't we just leave other people alone regardless of their gender. I'm transgender and I'm lucky to live in Canada where almost everyone is mostly accepting of me and other LGBTQ people. There is still some discrimination going on but I don't think it is as bad as the US. I'm wishing you all the best.
@4.etharia2 жыл бұрын
My entire life I was aware that I’m not quite like other girls. I didn’t have many crushes on guys, I wanted to play with the boys more than the girls. Nothing pissed me off more than when the boys were playing football and mom wouldn’t let me play, or told them they if I joined they weren’t allowed to play the game properly because I was a girl. My older brother that’s closest in age with me is 18 months older than me. He was allowed to have BB guns, knives, build clubhouses, etc.. The only time I got to do any of those things were when she wasn’t around. Even after being older than he was at those ages, I’m still not allowed to. My brothers have always said I was more like a boy-sister or something along those lines, even saying I was more of a boy than some of the boys they knew. I came out as Bisexual near the end of 8th grade, almost three years ago. Pretty much everyone in my family knows and supports me, or at least doesn’t care. My dad doesn’t know, and I have no intention of telling him. Everyone else in my family, I have no problem telling if they don’t already know regardless of their feelings or reactions. Everyone who’s reaction I care about already knows and is okay with it (other than my dad). I knew I was a boy inside before I ever even heard the term Transgender. When I finally found the term I think it was the summer before or right after I turned 11, I thought I had finally found what I was and a way out of living my life like this but then I started hearing about how people thought about it. A lot of my non-immediate family is homophobic, and most people (immediate and non-immediate) are at varying levels of transphobic. Some minor changes have been made in my life recently, but I’m hoping it will lead into a good direction for me. I had some important conversations and I’m getting a job soon. I’m going to be working on getting my driving permit (should’ve been working on the licence by now, but I have driving anxiety), then eventually I’ll be moving out and onto college. My mom won’t let me cut my hair again, but I can’t stand living like this. I can’t stand the idea of having to go through big life events like this not being happy and not living true to myself. I don’t want to go through another 2-4 years of school getting called by a name that doesn’t feel like mine. I feel like I’m lying to not only everyone, but myself as well. I’ve been nonstop trying to be the person I should be and that some people want me to be but I can’t do it anymore. I think it’s time to tell someone in my family how I’m feeling, but I don’t know who. I want to start somewhere though. I’m thinking possibly my sister. She has some strong opinions about a lot of things, but I know she would consider what I have to say and my feelings about it. Regardless of her own views I know she’d be there for me and try to help me.
@wally63702 жыл бұрын
i wish my parents were this understanding. my aunt (who i live with) just yelled at me and made fun of me and my mom drags religion into it and thats super annoying...
@51aliens2 жыл бұрын
this was 4 years ago??
@organtraderj0es3692 жыл бұрын
Awe his reaction is so pure! I love it so much. I can only hope my family is half as supportive as yours. Congratulations man!
@FuzzySockZ2 жыл бұрын
I came out to my mom, she said “honey your not trans” and I- kinda broke. But I know for sure my dad will protect me and support me. He said he would. I just haven’t come out to him yet
@darthcravus2 жыл бұрын
I myself am in a similar boat just sailing the other way I'd kill for your. Voice
@hamza_ali_2 жыл бұрын
Same bro 😭 It sucks
@itzjax72 жыл бұрын
Awh ur dad is so sweet and understanding
@oOLizzyOo2 жыл бұрын
my dad is a homophobe so if i do come out to him that im FTM he would just verbally abuse me more.....since he does that alot. so i will not say a peep to him he will find out himself. my mom isnt supportive at all my moms mother wont be either i will tell her tho i know she wont support it....no one from my familly does....and i really hate it.
@axo40822 жыл бұрын
You will die with the republic
@allywilliams68492 жыл бұрын
I’m the only one watching in 2022 🤪🧎🏽🏌🏽♀️
@seraagius24503 жыл бұрын
I'm currently watching every KZbin video I can find about trabs coming out and this video have me some sort of hope that when I come out my parents will support me
@DinoNuggz643 жыл бұрын
The dad sounded so wholesome: I finally have a son!
@Calimae9903 жыл бұрын
I hope to have the courage as you 🏳️⚧️ I’ve been holding myself in for so many years soon I’ll finally get out of my shell.
@bananamanchester41563 жыл бұрын
Your Dad is super empathetic, you can tell he doesn't know much about being transgender but he's trying his best to understand your feelings :)