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@dalemacey3544 15 күн бұрын
Do you have to be a certain age for attendance allowance my wife’s as Parkinson’s plus mental disability can I claim as my wife’s carer
@abletocarepodcast 15 күн бұрын
Happy new year. I'm really sorry to hear about your situation. You do not have to be a certain age to access attendance allowance and it sounds like there maybe lots of support you could access. Please reach out to Dean though as he is the expert [email protected]. Also check the description and get yourself a carers card. There is loads of support available there. Best wishes.
@dalemacey3544 15 күн бұрын
@ thanks for you reply that’s very helpful 🙂
@mirceabereveanu8943 25 күн бұрын
LEAVE SANTA ALONEEEEAH!
@abletocarepodcast 25 күн бұрын
😂 He's been around a while he seems resilient.
@abletocarepodcast Ай бұрын
Great question. So we use the term empathy in a few ways in culture but empathy is a little mutifacited. So one model of empathy is that empathy is three things - recognising the emotions of others, feeling that emotion yourself and adjusting your behaviour accordingly. So emotional contagion could only fulfil one of those critea depending on the individual. So emotional contagion is only part of empathy in the purest sense of the word. 👍
@johnwolters3942 Ай бұрын
Whats the difference between that and empathy?
@PaulinaPatel-u6u Ай бұрын
Such a moving story from Pete! It's so important for stories like Peter’s to be shared -They help break the stigma around dementia, showing it's not the end, but a new chapter with opportunities for growth, connection, and serving others!
@samueljable104 Ай бұрын
Inspirational bloke
@abletocarepodcast Ай бұрын
He is a wonderful, charming, and inspiring man.
@joshbaker3370 Ай бұрын
Loved this interview, what a positive, humorous outlook on life to have after his diagnosis!
@francescacaroli4609 Ай бұрын
I love this philosophy❤
@abletocarepodcast Ай бұрын
That's so good to hear! Please listen to the full episode. Sarah is fantastic 😊
@TinaLouise73 Ай бұрын
they invalidate gaslight and ignore ppl like me it's bcoz they judge ppl with a low socio economic status
@abletocarepodcast Ай бұрын
What was your favourite Teepa Snow insight?
@endramay Ай бұрын
This was one of the best explanation I've ever heard! Keep making videos🙂
@abletocarepodcast Ай бұрын
Thank you so much. Please share with any one you think could benefit. 😊
@Lorenzo-o4d Ай бұрын
Forcing any punishment or accountability on children is just awful. Children should be able to do what they want, when they want, and how they want. They will be fine when they get older lol.
@abletocarepodcast Ай бұрын
I detect sarcasm 😂😂 I think there is a difference between saying "let kids do whatever they want" and "maybe ways we are trying don't work very well" . For instance prison doesn't work and actually statistically slightly increasing the risk of reoffending isn't the same as saying... . "yeah we should let criminals do what ever they want". There is a thing called a reflective and nuanced argument but let's see what happens next.
@Lorenzo-o4d Ай бұрын
@ lol true, but yet we raise the theft limit at stores to avoid criminals getting felonies, and now we have more thefts. We legalize drugs and now we have druggies on the street. It seems to me as if Americans no longer hold people accountable anymore, regardless if it’s “effective”. Just my opinion, sure prison maybe isn’t the most effective. Preventing people from even wanting to go to prison is the real issue. Preventing students from wanting to get detention is the issue. Accountability.
@abletocarepodcast Ай бұрын
My approach involves restorative practice. Helping people to see how their actions impact on others through developing social understanding, responsibility and empathy. If I empathise with the store owner because he's just like me I'm less likely to steal from them. It's not punishment based as it rarely works whereas restorative practice could help people be better to each other and is proving more effective when used. But long way to go.
@Lorenzo-o4d Ай бұрын
@ honestly, I hope that’s the case and wish you the best. Unfortunately the culture in America would need to have a whole different value system. Asian cultures seemed to have mastered accountability and honor, and shame. Wish you the best though.
@abletocarepodcast Ай бұрын
I'm UK based and there are sectors here that are getting there but.... systemic change is a long way off. Here's to a better world though 🤞
@nicwelch Ай бұрын
Forcing children to attend at all is awful!
@ThePoiMaster Ай бұрын
People have no idea the shit we have to go through as healthcare workers..
@nickychanas9228 2 ай бұрын
Ni9
@kevinwhitelightermusic2373 2 ай бұрын
Simlar to my mum good days and bad
@tobiasa9071 2 ай бұрын
It's so scary. I for sure thought it was part of aging and that the brain eventually just had enough at some point, but I didn't know that 5 year olds could get it. Truly scary indeed
@michaelsnyder6922 3 ай бұрын
I find myself with psychopathic tendencies with humans but I’m the complete opposite way with animals. Confuses me all the time.
@sim9263 2 ай бұрын
Fuck humans animals are animals, pets are pets. Same thing with me bro bro
@abletocarepodcast 3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for Sharing. We wish you and your grandad the best ❤️
@amberstevens7900 3 ай бұрын
❤ My grandpa has dementia. It’s so important to meet them where they are at. Keep up the good 👍
@joaovtmnc 3 ай бұрын
so true!
@dogewanderlust4359 3 ай бұрын
Like at Diddy party 🎉?
@abletocarepodcast 3 ай бұрын
You are right. There are studies that show that even very young babies seem to show some form of empathy , you are also right that many individuals classed as psychopaths do also seem to have a high level of cognitive empathy but seem to be lower on the emotional empathy scores. It's all very complex to pick out of a single statement on a clip. Im surprised by the manipulation comment but I guess you are right I would like to encourage people to show more empathy towards kids who come from troubled backgrounds as I really believe that showing them more love and empathy will improve their outcomes in life. But maybe I'm wrong or maybe that makes me a bad person. Thank you for your feedback though.
@tallulahraccoon3832 3 ай бұрын
We are indeed born with the ability to be empathetic! That is a scientifically proven fact! Although humans don't all have the same lvl of empathy from birth on (~ 10% difference due to genetics according to studies). We can learn to be more emptahtic. But that doesn't mean we aren't born with this ability. Even psychopaths aren't all unable to feel empathy. That's just outdated knowledge in this field. Stop spreading lies to manipulate ppl. 🙄
@EpilepsyIQ-vw8lc 3 ай бұрын
Never give up
@Hannah-jk3dk 3 ай бұрын
So one partner should stay home though as it was b4 the other parent doesn't play their role
@abletocarepodcast 3 ай бұрын
It would be amazing if all parents had the choice financially if they wanted to stay at home but if any parents want to work or need to work they should have that choice but then maybe a recognition from the powers that be that a higher level of nurturing support maybe needed for longer by any community the child goes into like nursery maybe needed. We used to be raised by the village, grandmother used to be in the same house, auntie and uncle over the road, next door were called auntie and uncle even if they weren't related. It doesn't have to be one parent or the another. Kids need play and kids need empathy from somewhere.
@professorswaggamuffin7572 3 ай бұрын
Good points. We need to give ppl paid maternity/paternity leave and allow them to have proper work/life balance.
@abletocarepodcast 3 ай бұрын
Aboslutely, the work/life balance is paramount! As is having that time to bond and adjust to being a parent. Thank you 😊
@Egalitarianism_Secularism 3 ай бұрын
NEVER BEFORE COULD YPU LIVE AND WORK IN AC. ALWAYS FINDING SOMETHING TO COMPLAIN ABOUT. THIS IS THE BEST TIME AND PLACE TO HAVE EVER COME ABOUT SO FAR.
@abletocarepodcast 3 ай бұрын
I agree, a lower risk of violent death, better education, decreased childhood mortality, longer life expectancy, reduced global poverty and yet we are still not happy. Mental health is the worst its ever been so something is still not working. So are we measuring metrics of well-being the wrong way or do people just need to get a grip? The challenge is that resilience to challenges seems to be poor, why do you think this is?
@Egalitarianism_Secularism 3 ай бұрын
@@abletocarepodcast mental health is as you want it to be. Especially in modernity. When you tell yourself that you are more privileged than 99% of humanity (117 billion people who’ve existed) everything goes away. We GET TO LIVE AND WORK IN AC WITHOUT PREDATORS CHASING US.
@Egalitarianism_Secularism 3 ай бұрын
@@abletocarepodcast people are non-resilient today because of they are pampered and everything is already made for them. They don’t have historical perspective. It seems as though they’re incapable of imagining the 30’s……..
@abletocarepodcast 3 ай бұрын
@@Egalitarianism_Secularism again from a logical point of view you are correct. We are so safe. However, our biological evolution has not kept up with our cultural evolution. If you have ever felt nervous on a job interview or when giving a speech your brain triggers a similar response to when a predator is chasing you. So why have you ever "logically" felt nervous? Did you not have control of your brain? emotions are not logical. Now its amazing if you personally have a brain that works typically and has really good psychological strategies for managing that fear. However, under the biopsychosocial model, not everyone has the same biology, psychological strategies or social support. So what would your answer be to those who can't yet do what you can?
@Egalitarianism_Secularism 3 ай бұрын
@@abletocarepodcast everyone can develop it. CIA are highly functional psychos who can become a different person on command. How you act is a choice. Everyone can be trained to suppress emotions as they should sometimes. When we get to live in a place where the roads are made for us AND EVERY ANSWER IS GIVENNNNN TO US (INTERNET) and we’re on the cusp of commercial space tourism in this human arc… There’s very little reason for despondency barring heath issues.
@vehbiatallencrow 3 ай бұрын
Everyone fits in the square hole
@evm6177 3 ай бұрын
'Oh No no, except we would never prefer or want that.. No fun you see!' - Greedy politicians, exclusivity loving elites and monopolistic business opportunists who own everybody.
@fuwafuwa2299 3 ай бұрын
99% of them are just mfs who aint raised right
@Moonbean-h7g 3 ай бұрын
People change when the pain of staying the same becomes greater than the pain of changing.
@abletocarepodcast 3 ай бұрын
Great quote. Thanks for your comment. I often refer to it as an internal battle of cost and benefit. The benefit and cost of maintaining vs the cost and benefit of changing. Some people will change when the pleasure of changing becomes greater than the pleasure of maintaining. For example if I offered someone a million pounds to stop eating chocolate, even though they love chocolate, it might be enough motivation for them to change the habit with no pain involved. 👍 Thanks so much for engaging. 😊
@Lastprogramer 3 ай бұрын
diversity describes groups, it's divergence that describes the position of the individual. don't mix up diversity with divergence, it is both incorrect, and a mistake uniquely vulnerable to attack.
@abletocarepodcast 3 ай бұрын
Thanks for your feedback. I won't pass on your feedback to Alison who is the podcast guest on this occasion. As she is talking about her and her daughter's experience of being neurodivergent and constantly being corrected, it seems a little too ironic to then correct her. I'm sure your intention was well meaning though and you are 100% correct so thank you.
@Lastprogramer 3 ай бұрын
@@abletocarepodcast hahaha that is fair, this is the Internet and I'm always thinking of the sociopolitical game theory, it isn't always healthy.
@empowermentpathltd 3 ай бұрын
no I appreciate the correction and I know but forget due to my neurodivergent memory issues. 😂
@abletocarepodcast 4 ай бұрын
You're right I guess in that talking doesn't literally fix anything. So do you feel we should all just keep our problems to ourselves?
@philjohnson725 4 ай бұрын
Ok. 40 years ago we were told to keep emotions inside and suck it up. How many unstable, murdering young people did we have. Very very few. Today, explore your emotions and express yourself. How many unstable, murdering young people do we have? Half the bloody populatioin!
@abletocarepodcast 4 ай бұрын
That's an interesting concept. So you feel the number 1 cause if the increase in crime since the 80's in British youth is because we are now more open about feelings. I'm not sure there is a direct correlation but it would be interesting to explore and see if there has been study done. My only thought though is the majority of crimes don't seem to carried out by the youth who have higher emotional literacy and intelligence, in fact I'd statistics show exactly the opposite but I'm always open to new theories.
@kyleburke8025 4 ай бұрын
Bullshit. Talking about your problems won't fix them.
@Curlyblonde 4 ай бұрын
The UK has still a higher incidence of Jakob-Kreuzfeld Disease (brain wasting disease) among the younger segment of the population. There hasn't been much discussion about it in the past 20 or so years. Currently the higher incidence of severe drug and alcohol abuse among the young also comes into play once these addicts reach middle age and continue unabated. Lack of intake of nutritious food also starves the brain of fuel, accelerating brain cell death which is a co-morbidity of addictions as many eventually become malnourished. Our changing social morality, loosening of laws and tolerance to illegal drug consumption has not improved the public's overall health and quality of life. These social tolerances to drugs and alcohol have introduced health complications on a large scale and shortened general life expectancy in most western industrialized countries.
@TheVelvetTallow 5 ай бұрын
It’s type 3 diabetes of the brain. Metabolic component
@compulsiverambler1352 4 ай бұрын
Which just like early dementia in general, has become much more common since ignoring rampant long term effects of COVID infections and constant reinfections became an international policy to pander to short sighted corporate greed not wanting to install HEPA filters. We are all affected, it is only different in degree. Hidden pandemic of neurocognitive decline while everyone complains about air traffic control, pilots and doctors making more mistakes than ever before
@Envy797 5 ай бұрын
Fuck, you got me shit
@jennifermooremythology 5 ай бұрын
Yeah..a whole lifetime exhausted now..
@mommamoore4427 5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this 🫶🏼
@abletocarepodcast 5 ай бұрын
It's our pleasure. Please could I ask why this was useful for you? ❤️
@mommamoore4427 4 ай бұрын
@@abletocarepodcast sorry I just saw your response. I am an adoptive momma of 7 amazing angels and my 3 younger kids were all born with drugs & alcohol in their system. I have never heard of this before your video. 🩷
@kingmasterlord 5 ай бұрын
the better looking you are the more vacuous amd amoral you're assumed to be. your data was old in 1960
@abletocarepodcast 5 ай бұрын
You're right the concept of halo effect or reverse halo effect does seem to fluctuate based on cultural perspectives. My example doesn't not exist anymore it just more nuanced than I could describe in the clip but great feedback. Thank you.
@kingmasterlord 5 ай бұрын
@@abletocarepodcast thank you for taking it as feedback, too often coddled people take raw data as confrontation.
@Dizz2K7 5 ай бұрын
no.
@moj_schizofrenia 5 ай бұрын
google: US4877027A document describes hearin voices device
@liakennicott7205 5 ай бұрын
It's a way to take away rights from individuals. No one gets a free pass to have a "better mental capacity" than another. Sorry.
@abletocarepodcast 5 ай бұрын
It's 100% misused at times. It's designed to protect and empower but is often not. Education is the one of the only ways we will be able to improve things. Thanks so much for your comment.
@robertholland9842 5 ай бұрын
No your wrong
@abletocarepodcast 5 ай бұрын
Thanks for your comment Robert would you like to expand?
@Rattlehead7211 5 ай бұрын
Had a conversation like this with a shirtless man at a gas station once
@MosesVictories 5 ай бұрын
Wtf?
@K44ne 6 ай бұрын
Is this Hughie father trom The Boys? 😅
@abletocarepodcast 6 ай бұрын
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@abletocarepodcast 6 ай бұрын
I've been compared to worse! 😂
@TRXST.ISSUES 6 ай бұрын
Great advice.
@Wings372 6 ай бұрын
Fair enough