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@Вова-в3я6я
@Вова-в3я6я 9 күн бұрын
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@jasonrogers469
@jasonrogers469 10 күн бұрын
I think it also really depends a lot on where you're from too. My wife and I are both proud possessors of extremely thick and dark armpit and pubic bushes...both of our armpit and pubic bush growth areas are massive, probably due to both of us having strong German ancestry... and also pretty noticeable leg hair too which we both have had since we started dating in our teens in our junior year in high school. Nothing special about that since we grew up in the pacific northwest where plenty of our classmates had full grown facial hair if they were guys and there were also plenty of other girl classmates who also kept their full armpit, leg and pubic hair. When we go to the beach in our local area, nobody gives us a second look or says anything negative and indeed when we go to one of the several nudist beaches around here where we can both display our full body bushes for all to see, we've gotten some pretty thoughtful, amazing and supportive comments. However, when we've gone several hundred miles down south to the beaches in California which we've done several times, and people there see our armpit bushes, leg hair and the more than obvious pubic hair growth protruding out around the edges of our bathing suit bottoms and going down the sides of our inner thighs, it's like we've both got some awful, contagious disease or something! Some of the looks and comments we've been given have been positively rude which of course is pretty annoying but the flip side of that coin is that they've also been so stupid that it also cracks us both up as much as it annoys us, lol! I think it just illustrates just how much the thinking and opinions can change in such a relatively short distance when it comes to guy and gal body hair.
@Faraverhoeven
@Faraverhoeven 10 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing this comment, very down to earth, love it! Interesting indeed, such a short distance but a big a culture difference. Happy you guys just got a laugh out of those mean comments :)
@jasonrogers469
@jasonrogers469 10 күн бұрын
@@Faraverhoeven Yw! Yea it's amazing how oulooks and opinions change in such a relatively short distance.
@ickymirage4282
@ickymirage4282 18 күн бұрын
nice painting skills , beautiful armpits :)
@ickymirage4282
@ickymirage4282 18 күн бұрын
a creative lady with natural look ... its so beautiful and healthy looking.
@Lu._.Soriano
@Lu._.Soriano 22 күн бұрын
Thank you so much for this video; I truly admire your bravery. I really dislike shaving, and sometimes I choose to wear long pants and long-sleeved shirts even in hot weather just to avoid it. I wish I could say I don’t care what people think, but the truth is I shave primarily because of societal expectations. Over the years, I’ve come to value authenticity more and more. Like you, I want to believe my worth isn't determined by others’ opinions and feelings. I want to make decisions that are aligned with who I am and how I feel, and connect with those who are able to appreciate me as I am. In a way, shaving feels like a compromise of my integrity, and that bothers me. However, I’m also afraid of being judged, bullied, or treated differently if I don’t conform-especially when it comes to my romantic life, which is hard to admit. Seeing someone like you who has chosen not to shave and shares your experience makes me feel less alone, and I’m really grateful for that. I hope one day I’ll find the courage to express myself fully, embracing both the positive and negative consequences that will come with it :)
@Faraverhoeven
@Faraverhoeven 12 күн бұрын
Thank you so much for this sweet & honest message and sharing your story. You've got this, proud of you! 💗
@bobbyprima4338
@bobbyprima4338 25 күн бұрын
Love your HAIRY ARMPIT 🙏
@bobbyprima4338
@bobbyprima4338 25 күн бұрын
Love your HAIRY ARMPIT 🙏
@mopedofpetrajordan8167
@mopedofpetrajordan8167 Ай бұрын
Love it ❤❤
@Faraverhoeven
@Faraverhoeven Ай бұрын
thank you <3
@florinaldea7094
@florinaldea7094 2 ай бұрын
No shave,no shame.Hairy girls are beautiful.
@lenyaya3534
@lenyaya3534 2 ай бұрын
Hi Fara, I watched your video a couple weeks ago and wanted to share my experience: I started shaving when I was 11 but I've always been a lazy shaver and have never been the person to shave even stubble. Instead, I often decided my leg hair was still short enough so it was acceptable, but I was still very aware of it when I went out. Now, a couple years ago, I kind of stopped shaving all together but was, again, ashamed because I noticed a lot of people noticing and I just didn't felt good with that, figured, what's the point, if I don't feel good with my decision? So, went back to shaving. And now I'm at this point at my life where I will soon move out from home. Then I watched your video and thought, maybe I should try again? I wasn't sure but started looking at celebrities who where brave enough to defy societal standards even with everyone watching. So, I can do it without the world wat hing right? Up until that point my leg hair was grown out a bit and I was embarrassed. But the moment I decided that my unshaven legs were an actual choice i made, I really liked it. I'm still very aware of it and wonder 'what do ppl think?' but it also makes me feel good. Also, I realized that the timing in my life isn't coincidental. Unfortunately, when I confronted my mother about wanting to shave, I did so because I had seen a woman at a lake that obviously did not shave her bikini zone. Even at that age, I already felt repulsed and hence asked my mother if she wanted me to look like that as an argument. She replied no. And in the past years, when I was shaving, my mother sometimes would say things like 'promise me you never want to grow a bush'. So, I think the biggest factor for my insecurity was the fear to be judged by my mom. Soon, I will hopefully not spend so much time with her and be able to outgrow (pun intended) that fear. My point, for anyone else reading this, is, sometimes it comes down to the people in your life. Of course, I can't out run my mother, because I do love her. But there may come a point in your life, with the right people in it, where you get to find out what your preferences are and really live them. I never expected to really like my leg hair but here I am. And also, it gives me motivation to be the person I used to look for. I have a younger cousin, just turned 11 and I want to show her that she has an option. She doesn't have to fall victim to the expectations of shaving. I missed an adult women in my life who showed me this. So, anyway, thank you Fara for uploading your video and being so honest. I hope it finds the right people and the right time, just like it did for me. I'm very glad that theres people like you who can show people like me and little girls like my cousin that we have choices and can be confident with making these choices for ourselves. I'm tired of having these choices made for me. I'm happy I was born in a time where things are (even if slowly) changing.
@Faraverhoeven
@Faraverhoeven 2 ай бұрын
Wow thank you so much for sharing your story🥺❤️ I am proud of you for doing what feels right to you & standing in your truth even though your mum doesn't understand. Thats couragious! <3
@rizwanrafeek3811
@rizwanrafeek3811 2 ай бұрын
Ladies shaving make their legs look like men's legs, such a bad idea.
@neilanderson8341
@neilanderson8341 2 ай бұрын
Wonderfult o see an attractive woman happy in her natural skin. True natural beauty.
@queen_esie
@queen_esie 2 ай бұрын
So Proud of you 💗💗💗
@Faraverhoeven
@Faraverhoeven 2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much Esie, you are amazing!! 🥺🧚🏻‍♀️
@j.b.4340
@j.b.4340 2 ай бұрын
I stopped shaving, and cutting my hair, in late 2019. I used to remove ALL of my hair. People judge. I have low testosterone, and too much estrogen, so I’m not that hairy, after four years. We can shave any time we want.
@KatGlos
@KatGlos 2 ай бұрын
Great video! cShaving/not shaving, I don't know why people have such a strong opinion! I do think shaved legs look better, but if I'm feeling lazy I don't feel embarrassed walking around with hairy legs. Although it's true that it's different as a blonde whene your hair is not very vissible to begin with. Pubic hair, I disliked it from the day it appeared, and this had nothing to do with societal standards. I find it ugly, scratchy and frizzy and removed it long before I ever had sex.
@Faraverhoeven
@Faraverhoeven 2 ай бұрын
Yes 🙌🏻 Do what feels good/looks beautiful to you!
@ZelieVS
@ZelieVS 2 ай бұрын
Beautiful sharing Fara! I love that from you ☀🌞☀
@Faraverhoeven
@Faraverhoeven 2 ай бұрын
Thank you Zelie ! <3
@qqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqq54
@qqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqq54 2 ай бұрын
yo freeya ya
@andrewjohnfillery5954
@andrewjohnfillery5954 2 ай бұрын
I'm a straight male, and I shave my armpits and legs. Because I prefer to. If you prefer not to, that's cool. What you do with your body hair shouldn't be anything other than your own personal choice. Hope we can get to a point where that's a mainstream view. You advocate for it well!
@Faraverhoeven
@Faraverhoeven 2 ай бұрын
Thank you! Thats great to hear! Yes 🙌🏻
@knowahnosenothing4862
@knowahnosenothing4862 2 ай бұрын
A real life Hobbit, good for you hobbit.
@Faraverhoeven
@Faraverhoeven 2 ай бұрын
Thats mean, but thank you for your comment 🤣💋
@Muffinn_Cakes
@Muffinn_Cakes 2 ай бұрын
​@@FaraverhoevenI honestly read it as a compliment 😅
@carolinefarrell6
@carolinefarrell6 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for making this video and sharing this personal experience! I decided to stop shaving this summer and I have very thick dark hair. Since I've started I have not seen a single other woman with hair on her legs like mine it makes me self conscious at times but it is the right decision for me
@Faraverhoeven
@Faraverhoeven 2 ай бұрын
Ahh 💕 keep doing you <3
@micheller3251
@micheller3251 2 ай бұрын
I have the same issue, dark thick hair on very pale skin so it's very noticeable. Hopefully more and more of us will make the move to stop shaving and we'll see more variety
@Faraverhoeven
@Faraverhoeven 2 ай бұрын
@micheller3251 yes!! 🌸
@dumplingowo2180
@dumplingowo2180 2 ай бұрын
You are gorgeous and i am very happy that you've made such video. Remembering those hard times when i hated my appearance because body hair, now i am glad i didn't continue to do shave it
@Faraverhoeven
@Faraverhoeven 2 ай бұрын
Thank u💗🧚🏻‍♀️ glad to hear!
@ABpluseAB
@ABpluseAB 2 ай бұрын
You are now officially one of the bros
@ModernInka
@ModernInka 2 ай бұрын
😂💯💯💯💯
@SocietyofIdiocracy
@SocietyofIdiocracy 2 ай бұрын
Whether your appearance fits within the majority or minority of societal standards, your still identifying with a group. The truth is, nobody is truly an individual. You dress, act like the group you choose to identify with. People with alot of tattoos hang out with people with a lot of tattoos, feminists who don't shave hang out with other like-minded people who do the same, and so on. The choice to be "different" than the majority of society, is just rebellious nature, but a group identity. If not shaving was normalized, the people who did would be the rebels. It's a psychopathy to feel different or more special than the mojority...which isnt a bad thing, just human nature I guess. To set themselves apart from the group they identify with, they try to display the most extreme aspects of that group identity. Stockbroker bro wants the nicest suit, coolest car, most luxurious penthouse apartment and designer watch. Its the same intent, just in a different group identity in your situation. You want to be the most extreme version of your preferred group identity, feminist hippie people. I dont think its societal oppression and patriarchy is why most women do what they do, it's because that's the group identity they feel most comfortable in, or what makes them happy. Could there be outliers to that, sure. But think its more that than sexism and male oppression. You seem nice though, wish you all the best
@carolinefarrell6
@carolinefarrell6 2 ай бұрын
I understand your comment here about doing what the group does, but in this case not shaving is actually doing nothing to your body and leaving its natural form. In order to match the group women take action to change their bodies to fit into societal standards while men don’t. You have to think about why that "group identity" is to change your natural body and where those standards come from
@aaaccc7173
@aaaccc7173 2 ай бұрын
This is a very long-winded way to say that this woman's hairy legs gave you the ick...
@Faraverhoeven
@Faraverhoeven 2 ай бұрын
Thank u for ur comment :) All I will say is I do have a rebellious nature yeah lol, but like I said in the video, due to societies pressure it was a choice of courage & so a lil bit of a rebellious nature is needed ;)
@SocietyofIdiocracy
@SocietyofIdiocracy 2 ай бұрын
@@Faraverhoeven Can respect that perspective, am just a psychology major so human nature and behavior fascinates me lol. Good luck to you
@Bigcubefan
@Bigcubefan 2 ай бұрын
Based comment. Nothing to add to this.
@windyr
@windyr 2 ай бұрын
I bet you get fewer mosquito bites now
@Faraverhoeven
@Faraverhoeven 2 ай бұрын
Haha maybe ?
@PieterPatrick
@PieterPatrick 2 ай бұрын
Don't shave, you really do not have to shave. Shaving is optional, body hair is normal.
@Faraverhoeven
@Faraverhoeven 2 ай бұрын
Period!
@ColtfortyFivez
@ColtfortyFivez 2 ай бұрын
Am I the only one who thinks her brows are groomed
@lilzeddy
@lilzeddy 2 ай бұрын
Yea seems so 😂
@lil_blaspheme
@lil_blaspheme Ай бұрын
“body hair” being the topic here
@AndreasW-p4r
@AndreasW-p4r 2 ай бұрын
Holy macaroni
@algorithmcs2024
@algorithmcs2024 2 ай бұрын
make videos on philosophy history too and your lifestyle and about yourself
@Faraverhoeven
@Faraverhoeven 2 ай бұрын
great idea, I love philosophy!
@Brandonfunky
@Brandonfunky 2 ай бұрын
Hi 👋, I think that's quiet attractive and sexy tho. Don't know if there's something wrong with me. Good to hear you shared your thoughts on this.
@Faraverhoeven
@Faraverhoeven 2 ай бұрын
haha It should be the normal IMO ✌
@ryanstonehouse4288
@ryanstonehouse4288 6 ай бұрын
I don’t do acting but this helps with my day to day anxiety an amazing amount thank you truely
@Faraverhoeven
@Faraverhoeven 6 ай бұрын
I'm so glad it helped! <3
@azmanhogberg35
@azmanhogberg35 6 ай бұрын
Faraa! you're so cool, thank you for being you <3xx Tuva
@azmanhogberg35
@azmanhogberg35 6 ай бұрын
Also this video is really inspiring!
@Faraverhoeven
@Faraverhoeven 6 ай бұрын
Thank you dearrrr so sweet❤️❤️💋
@vic-kra
@vic-kra 8 ай бұрын
I love this so much, it was sooo helpful!! sending love and light <3
@Faraverhoeven
@Faraverhoeven 8 ай бұрын
Oohh Im so happy to hear that 💗🥺 sending u love & light too 🦋
@polenco1149
@polenco1149 Жыл бұрын
Omg. So Beautiful 😊
@Faraverhoeven
@Faraverhoeven Жыл бұрын
Thank you 💕💕
@jim1527
@jim1527 Жыл бұрын
Yay! my favourite youtuber uploaded again!
@Faraverhoeven
@Faraverhoeven Жыл бұрын
Jim🤣🤣❤️❤️❤️
@marthaestradaz
@marthaestradaz Жыл бұрын
The elf ears are so cute omg! You’re so pretty <3333 thank you for sharing!!!
@Faraverhoeven
@Faraverhoeven Жыл бұрын
Tysm!! 🥰
@jet3837
@jet3837 Жыл бұрын
Love this vlog! Watching while baking a pie 🥧
@Faraverhoeven
@Faraverhoeven Жыл бұрын
Naaawww Jettie❣️
@sabrinafountain1615
@sabrinafountain1615 Жыл бұрын
I just recently stumbled upon your channel and I'm so happy I did! I love your videos and your calming energy. Keep up the awesome work!
@Faraverhoeven
@Faraverhoeven Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, makes me very happy💖 have a lovely day :)
@caisagrace
@caisagrace Жыл бұрын
sooo cute!!!! i love it!
@Faraverhoeven
@Faraverhoeven Жыл бұрын
Thank youu🥺💜