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Have we ever heard of a baby mother pouring love and support into their man? If that were the case, she wouldn’t be a baby mama…

i coddled my child's mother and that was my fault and she had a therapist

to dovetail on your comments of the jealousy, before my baby mother and I split up I told her I've improved so much and if I meet another women she's going to get the best version of me because you chose to walk away. If you willingly walk away as woman or push your man away accept the consequences as a choice that you made and dont be bitter.

Obviously way too mature and woke for Switz! I’m glad she did the shadow work and did the self healing. I just pray she continue to grow and stop vacationing with them and create her a new family!

Its amazing that you understand all this

A narcissistic high conflicted bio mom is a huge problem in a new relationship and my heart goes out to the children involved in these situations. I have been dealing with this for 12 years and it's been heartbreaking.

Friendly suggestion: The music was overbearing and hard to hear the interview. Please either eliminate that or lower the volume for future shows. Thanks It's great that Mashonda did the healing work and is in a better place. I hope she finds true love if she desires that.

Bs! I alienated my child because the father was a pos a druggie etc I do not want that thing lol

Aww well she did more den 1 so Ik she still want n she got a whole bf but was crying on my phone n saying she wanted me back 1nce anither stick go inside u it’s wrap

WOW!!!! You just described my husband BM TO THE T!!! Unbelievable!

Just fix your families….

14. Don’t date a guy with a BM especially if he has several! He should have these boundaries in place way before he gets involved with another person.

You walk away from that shit. the fuck😂

Sometimes she doesn't want him, sometimes she's bitter because he's not doing his part as a parent. And so she's bitter that she has to do it all by herself. I understand that there are women that are still in love with their child father but I wish content like this would keep a space for women that don't want their child father, don't care who they go with or where they go but they're bitter because they have to take care of the child alone. Also I'm not speaking about women that have multiple children. Sometimes you can just have one. All you have to have is 1 become a mother.

I told my bf his ex wife calls too much about the most random stuff, at inappropriate times, nothing serious and it makes me feel uncomfortable , he claimed I'm jealous

It a bit of karma if you pair up with a failed man with children. He failed his woman and he failed his child but here you are helping him avoid consequences. Know that whatever mess you get yourself into was your own fault for touching a single father with a living baby mama. You should have left him to figure it out or rot. That is their problem and destiny. Leave them alone.

What the hell! this video should only be seconds long, consisting of the words "don't date a single father". Have standards please!

Don't need to know any of the signs...you only need to know NOT TO DATE BABY DADDYS. Let him find a chick who's baby daddy isn't over her, and the 4 of them can hang out 😂

Men we don’t need 13 reasons because a women with a Kid under 18. Runnnnnnnnnnnnn

This is so true!

Why have a baby with someone to just be with another

The sons are not put on a pedestal. We are treated like sh*t by our mothers as well.

My bf has 2 autistic boys with his baby mama and she tries to make my life with him miserable...do i leave even though I love him and his boys or do I cut my losses and leave?

She's soo gorgeous. Just beautiful!!

Why she always talk about Alicia 🤔 Swiss had a other women pregnant in the marriage before alicia the Daughter is now 15 years old. THE MARRIAGE WAS A MESS BEFORE ALICIA. SHE IS NOT REAL WITH HER SELF SORRY 🤷🏻‍♀️ AND CUZ SHE LOOKS LIKE A LADY DON'T MEAN SHE IS ONE WE DON'T KNOW HER.... BUT I WISH SHE WOULD TALK ABOUT THE OTHER WOMEN SHE BROKE YOUR MARRIAGE NOT ALICIA

Reality check anyone can become a baby daddy or a bm 😅

An ex girlfriend who demonstrates these traits is psychologically disturb and dangerous. PLEASE BELIEVE ME😮

I dealt with a man with no boundaries, a narcissist, and likely a sociopath that btw came with a baby momma as his dull twin. I’m 26 they 45-46. When I tell you that was theee WORST relationship I’ve ever been in. She tried to control everything this man did in his household. Including sex while he had his child. Blew phones up. Knew about other females he dealt with. He claim she jealous. 8 years later she still would randomly pop up and cause a scene. He didn’t make it no better because he was a liar. Once I found out he gave her money on a down payment for a new home I crashed my car into his garage and dipped on that lame ✌🏽 dont do it ladies.

Can I just remind everyone He had affairs before Alicia Keys he even had a baby with another woman. At least Alicia isn't denying her wrong doing she's dealing with everyone's backlash. At least Alicia isn't being petty towards her not that she deserves it.

Assumptions...how do you know if he's not sleeping with the baby mom? How do you know if he's not having inappropriate conversations with the bm?

And that there is organic healing. She went through the stages she had to and came out of it with her empathy and dignity intact.

I love so much madam mashonda God bless you 🙏

My husband always say he doesn't have to deal with her because his kids r almost grown and they have they on phone and whenever he calls the boys he includes me every time

My husband shut that shit down quickly he didn't play no games about me

Right

why black women think they can control men, lmao that's yall always end up with betas. No woman controlling me.

Imagine being a single mother hahahaha walking L

She's gorgeous

I am the adult child. The key is how bonded are the father and child? I see the stepmother care as much as the father. Only

Its the run for me ❤

Black men how about avoid the baggage altogether. Get your passport. Especially if you know that she rejected you neglected you clowns you treated you like shit I didn't all of a sudden you got 12 kids and now she wants to be with you turn that down just get your passports jealous and avoid the baggage and drama all together

How should i feel if my boyfriends babys mother invites him to go out with her and the kids, he agrees & goes.. he told me he was going to take his kids somewhere and i found out he met up with her

I'm a stepmother bee dealing w this for 2 years. It got even worst when we welcomed our own baby last year n now expecting another. Literally she checked the boxes 1-9 & 11-13 🤦🏽‍♀️. I'm her #1 enemy bc I'm not like his other ex who they would get together to bash him n when she tried that in the beginning w me I shut it down. I defended him.

Moshanda is a wonderful beautiful lady and i think she doing a great job at co-parenting i just don't think Alicia deserve Mashonda as a friend.

My husband baby momma is doing all this but we moved away 3 years ago and she is still doing all of this

My baby mama aint over me she never will be 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

This is right. My ex tells me she has a new man. Lol who cares this is the same woman who acted like she was engaged. I left you 2 years ago for a reason.

Do they even know they hurt her so much

At some point she needs to forget about Swizz I'm tired of her whining and her still healing. She needs her own man and her own family