(Infinite Leader, 2021)

Our "want" and "need" our entirely subjective to the naked eye. It has no meaningful connection to how we feel internally in terms of how we have developed the things that surround us externally.

I have a theory (impart of William Glassner's work called -- "Critical choice theory) that suggests the following: "If we know the difference, then we can make a difference." Even though individual experiences can't be internally proven, they often are use as a gateway to understanding our greatest fears. Which can be used to rationalize what those fear(s) are exactly and gain the ability to assess those same fears appropriately.

@Victoria Yargeau The average mind will not have control over their flight responses. Mostly due to a delay of communication between the Amygdala and the dorsomedial and/or dorsolateral nucleus, which is part of the frontal region that evaluates most primary motives via neocortex. 🤔 This delay is (in-theory) is approximately 1: 2000 boolean thoughts per/sec/per/sec. Which is considered about 2 exact thoughts for every 1:2 neuronal collisions. 💥 Add that up you have about: 400,000 thoughts for [probably] 1sec ~ (- 1sec(s)) Crucial time. Basically fear becomes hypothetical at the point of moment it is defined too "surreal" for the subject to consider an object that is not that same as the FEAR in which they may be currently observing. William Glassner speaks on this sociology in his teachings but there are no applications of time where a person could experience fear and rationalize the difference between past trauma and the current situation -- i,e; "moment".

Thus. They have [a] decision to make. As it turns out, the real reason some these psychosocial behaviors exist is because of an over compensated ego specifically used for healing/codependence and resilience.

@Victoria Yargeau True, but people with anxiety disorders go into fight of flight whenever they come across a trigger. I've had generalised anxiety and I was almost constantly in fight and flight and I know because it would cause me loads of health issues from being chronically stressed and I tracked my nervous system with HRV. So in that state, those suffering mental illness also lose control, according to this theory. So how can you ever know who is really in control, there is so many external and internal influences that can take the wheel!

Yes, our thoughts certainly Do crate our Reality!! is it cr8 or cre8?