I hope you keep making videos! I'm enjoying your content a lot.

Being child free is such a blessing, words can't express how much fun it is to be child free. It's so expensive to have children so help others whenever you can in the fear of God

I'm 100 percent sure the people who say such things aren't trying to convince us childfree people but themselves trying to justify the life choices they've made.

I find the response to child free people “you don’t know that” or “someday you will” either creepy or gaslighty.

👍🏽❤️ I would like to learn guitar tab, again.

I'm 30 and my sister who just had a kid tries to convince me every day to have one 😂Says she never felt love as strong as she did until now. I think it's easier to love a kid when they are in rhe baby stage. My mom stopped liking me when I became an adolescent. She still cared for me, but I felt the change in treatment.

I dont really date either Or go out looking for people I'm 22 and both my first relationship and the one I currrently have were both just, me falling in love with my firends But I also don't think I ever will have to, and I know it's maybe a bit naiive at my age but, I don't care I'm happy <3

“Have it all” is a drive. Makes us get up and go do our stuff. But if we aren’t careful, it will indeed poison us. With impostor syndrome, self-esteem harm….. It all comes down to management; what was said: not at once. Build, plan, reach goals. Do not just gather heaps of building blocks that never get used. PS: You work to gain money professionally. You are not born to be a career slave.

Those nose piercings are quite refined.

Truth!!! You're telling the truth! Thank you for this! I think "having it all" and trying to get there or rather " keeping up with the Joneses" is a deep dark hole of madness that never ends. I just want to be content. And for the most part I am, in general its whenever I start worrying about the way other people see me that it becomes a problem. Some arent happy until they tell someone off or spread a little bit of hate. If I'm honest this vid was extremely refreshing. I'm not an introvert but as a 35yr old woman I feel like I understand the point you're trying to make. I try not to make enemies often, but I'm no angel; and I have some. Art is my thing, always been that way. Not super good at video games and dabble in The original Nintendo Wii; along with some digital gaming applications.

I’ve always needed to be more independent, in my opinion. I like following your thought process on this one. It’s always a boundary negotiation with the self, meeting people. Old friendships are ‘gold’, they’re less reactive, unlikely to tarnish. That doesn’t mean maintaining silver isn’t worth it, sometimes. It’s good to think on.

so funny cuz i just got a new planner and was taking time to assess my goals, and in that section for the near future, my goals are written as "maintain".

This really helped me. My wife was sick lately. Accepted I needed to be there for the family and my goals must be set aside

I personally have trouble believing I am a good person because it takes so much effort to force myself to do the bare minimum. I'm never really motivated to live the life I'm privileged to have. I just try to keep going. Sometimes I wish I could trade places with someone with more challenges than I have, just to give them a break. I couldn't handle their life, though. I barely have the energy for my own. I appreciate your video. It's good to watch others who are grateful for the life they have made for themselves.

There is this quote in Buddhism that I was struck with recently, and it fits: "All things are ephemeral-fleeting and temporary. Even the most difficult moments eventually pass, just as the most joyful ones do. Understanding this impermanence helps us find balance, acceptance, and peace in the face of life's inevitable changes". The only constant is change. So on days when you feel low, remember; it will be different tomorrow. This goes for the best days too. Make the most of them - the way you deem them the best.

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I love my childfree life. Anyone shaming you for living that lifestyle are complete weirdos.

I gave my five children the gift of life. I want them to live it in a way that makes them happy. Even if that means they don’t want kids of their own. I told them that I still want to be a grandmother, even if they just bring home a lizard. Now I am the proud grandmother to every random lizard around my house. Like 18 of them are named Gary. I can’t lie the Gary’s are so cute and live outside so I don’t have to change any diapers. So sincerely from this mom to you, baby go live your damn life and don’t listen to anybody who tries to control your choices.

I apply this feeling with writing. Many days I make excuses for not doing it. I tell myself it's better to do a little than none as it will add up, it is important to me and the time will pass anyway

The phrase "life starts outside your comfort zone" is quite famous these days. It is easier to say it than to make it ours. We are shown, told and directed to NOT think. To NOT try. Because failure will ensue. Well, it is partly true. If any of us tries something mindlessly, it can be a minor embarrassment or a major life-threatening scenario. Whatever we want to do, there is a clear need to think it through, execute and then judge the outcome. To some, this is too much. Hence - why try if you can fail? Because 6P : "Proper planning prevents p*ss-poor performance". Any and all things that contain rewards (any kind) come with risks - nothing worthy is for free : )

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Ok. The best thing you can say is "not everyone are meant to be parents. There are tons of parents that have kids that are unwanted. Why would you want someone who doesn't want kids to have kids?" If you don't want kids... don't have them. Easy.

@sangxiong2241 What is the timestamp where she said she is an antinatalist or something similar?

I have a question. Who will support the infrastructure of society if woman an man don't procreate an what kind of impact will this have for the future generations.

For I delivered to you as of first importance what I also received: that Christ died for our sins in accordance with the Scriptures, that he was buried, that he was raised on the third day in accordance with the Scriptures, and that he appeared to Cephas, then to the twelve 1 Corinthians 15:3-5 love yourself ❤❤❤❤😊😊

Single child free women are supposed to be the happiest demographic.

Self-promotion or prioritising self-preservation is not selfishness. Just because the primary path the media propagates involves the human side of being social (overly?) .. doesn’t mean everyone needs to go with the crowd. Playing life on hard, solo, is fine. Do what makes you happy, don’t step onto others’ feet. Easy innit?

“Perpetuating the HOUSING CRISIS?” 😂 I do not track, but the things YOU’RE saying make sense.

Dealing with burnout from manufacturing jobs and the weight of unresolved trauma has been difficult. Trauma is a word I still hesitate to even use. I have been very avoidant in my behavior and thinking for a variety of reasons that I am trying to make sense of. It’s easy to fall into the trap of blaming yourself for everything, and society encourages that individualistic mindset, it avoids addressing the broader systemic issues. That intentionally cultivated narrow view isolates us and prevents any meaningful change from taking place. It's also a easy way out of acknowledging the bigger picture, that's why the self help industry stays profitable. I'm trying to figure out how much responsibility I bear for the place I find myself in, to better understand how to move forward, reclaim my agency and make amends with myself. Reading Erich Fromm’s Marx's Concept of Man has been key, and listening to The Sane Society audiobook. Fromm provides a critical and psychoanalytic perspective on how modern society alienates us from the world, others and ourselves. Vivek Chibber's Confronting Capitalism has been very clarifying and empowering. His analysis exposes deeply entrenched inequalities and offers a pathway to resistance that feels grounded in reality and thought provoking. His lectures critique the individualist ideology that permeates our society as well. I’ve also been diving into Marx’s Economic and Philosophical Manuscripts of 1844, particularly the sections on alienation. Marx’s breakdown of how we become alienated from our labor, from others, and ourselves under the development of capitalism has been really helpful in framing my own experiences. The way he articulates this alienation sheds light on the disconnection I’ve felt and gives me a clearer understanding of the systemic nature of my struggles. The first section of the manuscript is especially impactful, and I recommend it to anyone interested-it’s available for free online. My hope is that by learning more about these ideas I can empower myself to live a life that’s more aligned with my values and on my own terms, as much as that is possible.

The only time I don't feel emboldened in my decision not to have kids is when I spend time with my family. I am the only one of my cousins without a child, which was because I'm the youngest by far, but I'm reaching an age where they're starting to ask questions. Then I realized that in my family, I don't have a model for what a woman's life without kids even looks like. Even though I'm 28, it still feels like they see me as a kid until I have my own. And part of me does wish I lived near them so I could be more of a part of their kids lives, but I don't know if I would want to deal with their parents' shade. Anyway, it's always good to come back to the city with my bf (who agrees on no kids), and our other child-free-by-choice friends, who see me as the competent adult I am.

For me home is where nature is. Canada seems like a non-homey place. I like USA

I’m about to be single for the first time in my whole life as a 31 year old. I want to be single for a long long time m

Audio issues.. Maybe try a compressor or limiter to even out the amplitude.

I adore you & would love to be your friend or wife ❤ you're a gem

I’ve never felt at home, I don’t know if I ever will… the closest thing to home I’ve felt is camping in the woods by the river

The best version of yourself is made when you stick to choices you make. You only have one lifetime, so it will always be there; sacrifices to be made. Plan, execute, enjoy 😉

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I have 2, i don't plan on having anymore.

There's more to life than having children

I like the way your brain makes thoughts. Subbed.

The biggest hurdle is learning HOW to say no. Some people require straight talk, some others welcome more diplomatic speech. Nevertheless, one of today’s most coveted skills is the ability to stick to boundaries and say no when it is appropriate.

I knew from a very young age that I didn’t want children. I like quiet time and get overwhelmed with a lot of commotion. My parents and friends never made a big deal about my, and my husband’s decision!

My last relationship ended in 2019 . I have zero interest in getting into another one . I am lucky that people in my life aren't pushy about it

Its nice to see someone else with similar view points.

Wow! Your statement of losing trust with yourself, hit hard. Thank you

I went for a hike by myself today. It was what I needed and various people didn't show interest so I just went rather than put it off. Was awesome and I'll happily do it again

33 yo single and childfree woman from Sweden here 👋

For the first time in my life (I am 33) I have found a woman like myself 😂 Relate to everything you are saying

Hearing you speak about not having the qualities needed to be the parent you want to be is exactly why I do not want kids. Physical touch and constant noise would totally DRAIN me and I would not be able to control my temprament around my kids no matter how much I would love them. The ”selfish” argument is so stupid and so wrong.