Your Videos are always so calming to the mind. Thank you so much for sharing from your wealth of wisdom, knowledge and experience. God bless you Ma.
@TonyOkoro-c3u23 сағат бұрын
MOVING FROM FRAYING PAN TO 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 FIRE.
@biform13Күн бұрын
So you did NOT move. This is just dreaming of a homeland. Got it.
@ThisSideOfLifeWisdomКүн бұрын
👍🏽. Thank you!
@FreelancersguideКүн бұрын
Japa is not a term applicable to me. I do well in every place I find myself. But honestly, I want to travel because I want to see what other parts of the world looks like. I want to experience the racism. I want to be a part of stories. I'm tired of sitting in one place and living among the same people. So, next year, canada will see me, and I will see her. She will greet me, and I will greet her. And in a few more years, other parts of the world will see me. And in the end, I will be able to say I CAME, I SAW AND I CONQUERED. Thanks for coming to my Ted Talk
@ThisSideOfLifeWisdomКүн бұрын
I love it! We have only one life to live, why live it stuck in one place? And yes, i dont know why people think you can only thrive in a particular location. I wish you God's speed in your adventures. We look forward to seeing you in Canada! Thank you so much for watching and sharing this perspective🙏🏾
@abosedeadetunji3978Күн бұрын
You are always a source of inspiration. Thank you for the mature content you dish out. This is a great ministry.
@ThisSideOfLifeWisdomКүн бұрын
Thank you so much for the feedback, It helps to keep me going. I really appreciate it. Ese pupo!
@funmilolaolunifesi4973Күн бұрын
A very good testimony of God's faithfulness! ❤
@ThisSideOfLifeWisdomКүн бұрын
We give God all the gloty🙌🏽. I appreciate you watching!
@CashTalkForImmigrantsКүн бұрын
God's purpose for each of us is what ultimately matters. Achieve it, and leave empty. That's the end of the discussion, jare! ❣
@ThisSideOfLifeWisdomКүн бұрын
I agree 🙂! I can't really tell whether it's Christine or Vidal writing this comment. Hmmm, I think it's Christine. Am I right? Thanks so much for watching!
@CashTalkForImmigrantsКүн бұрын
@@ThisSideOfLifeWisdom 😃 you got it! How could you tell?
@EdostateonlineКүн бұрын
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR TAKING CARE OF YOUR MUM.
@ThisSideOfLifeWisdomКүн бұрын
Thank you for thanking me 🙂. It is my pleasure. I really appreciate your feedback, and thanks for watching!
@yemistephanie3733Күн бұрын
I've been here for 17 years, and I have no regrets🙏🏽❤🇨🇦
@ThisSideOfLifeWisdomКүн бұрын
Congratulations 🎊. We thank God for no regrets. Thank you for watching!
@manassehstewart7168Күн бұрын
Just subscribed you are very truthful
@ThisSideOfLifeWisdomКүн бұрын
I appreciate that. Thank you!
@manassehstewart7168Күн бұрын
Yes what you said is true
@ThisSideOfLifeWisdomКүн бұрын
Thank you!
@JoelBrownMDКүн бұрын
Brilliant video, well presented, instant sub.
@ThisSideOfLifeWisdomКүн бұрын
Thank you, and welcome to the channel🙏🏾! I really appreciate your subscription.
@ezinnennabugwu55Күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story with us. I agree that it is definitely worth all the highs and lows. I hope that one day I can look back on my time in this country and say the same. I have come to look forward to your videos. Please continue share your thoughts with us ❤
@ThisSideOfLifeWisdomКүн бұрын
You are welcome! Thank you for being a part of my community. I really appreciate you. How long have you been in your new country? I pray for wisdom for you to navigate those highs and lows and come out on top!
@ezinnennabugwu5522 сағат бұрын
@@ThisSideOfLifeWisdom I have been here for 5 years now. I'm also in the same city as you are🙂
@ginikatalksКүн бұрын
It is possible to pay off your mortgage and experience financial freedom even as an immigrant! These words hit me differently… This bold step you took 25 years ago! Wow! Thank you for sharing your beautiful story with us.❤
@ThisSideOfLifeWisdomКүн бұрын
You are welcome! Thank you for watching 🙏🏾!
@TobiAweКүн бұрын
I absolutely love this video! It feels like you’re speaking directly to me. As I navigate my mid-30s, retirement is constantly on my mind. I’m actively investing in my future through various financial avenues, including real estate and stocks. Yet, I find myself pondering: Do I want to settle here forever, or will I return to Nigeria to enjoy my investments? I haven’t fully made up my mind yet, but as you wisely said, time will tell. Hearing from someone who has walked this path is truly inspiring. Thank you for sharing your story.
@ThisSideOfLifeWisdomКүн бұрын
Wow! My first ever super thanks! Thank you so very much! I am grateful 🙏🏾. I am so happy that you found this valuable. It really encourages and motivates me to continue. Ese pupo! You are on the right track for starting early and thinking about and investing in your future. I wish you the very best in your journey. Thank you so much for watching and for being a part of my community!
@adstixКүн бұрын
Hearty congrats on your Canadian Silver Jubilee anniversary! Your relatable story is indeed a positive and inspiring one! There are a few Nigerian folks who settled in Winnipeg since the 1980s and also have rich stories just like yours. Wishing you another prosperous twenty-five years ahead!
@ThisSideOfLifeWisdomКүн бұрын
Thank you! Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts. Amen, and may we all have rich stories to tell 🙏🏾
@cyliarabothata8857Күн бұрын
I came here with my family ( hubby + 3 kids) in 2022 as a student, i started my professional work in 2023. A Proudly South African, i miss my country everyday, my plan to go back home will NEVER change, to continue from where i left in making the difference and contributing to the economy of my beloved country and more specially serving the people of my nation.I cannot complain about Canada, people here are nice and what my family understands is that no matter how much we love it here, SA will always be our home sweet home, the place of our origin, our roots and our culture!🥰
@ThisSideOfLifeWisdomКүн бұрын
Thank you so much! I appreciate how you feel, and I pray that your heart's desire be fulfilled 🙏🏾. Thanks for watching!
@biform13Күн бұрын
You arrived in Canada as a student with 3 kids?!? South Africa needs you back now. Why are you waiting? Go Home
@lila29092 күн бұрын
I and siblings reside abroad and have no intentions of relocating back home. We decided to build a 3 bedroom bungalow in our city, that way, when visiting, we have a place vs having 3 different homes or renting. We share the upkeep and expenses. This works for us.
@ThisSideOfLifeWisdom2 күн бұрын
Good one! I like this idea. Thanks for sharing!
@rubysailor91863 күн бұрын
If you build at least spend 50,%of the year in the property
@ThisSideOfLifeWisdom3 күн бұрын
That looks like a good formula 🙂. Thanks for watching!
@RealTalk1965 күн бұрын
Fact is it has to be based on individual preferences. While I agree to some of your thoughts in this video, I find the video quite generalizing. My thoughts are basically focussed on individual path to happiness. What makes a person happy? What is the value of your money if you cannot indulge in what you really want? Few years ago, I completed a bungalow and currently live in it 50/50 USA& Nigeria. The idea of a bungalow was solely based on the thoughts of old age and my retirement goals. However, I began to miss a multi-level house with balconies @ each rooms fully en-suite , overlooking a large size veggie garden and fruit tress! Guess what? I am almost done completing that one because it makes me happy to live that way now and upon full retirement. Two master bedrooms upstairs and downstairs in place and why not if I can afford it? My recommendation here is for people to ensure their retirement investments and incomes are set up properly, and then spend some cash to live your life on your own terms and not on what other people think you should or should not do.
@ThisSideOfLifeWisdom4 күн бұрын
Thanks for your insight. For those who may want to or can only build one house, they need to consider the factors discussed before their building decision. Having enough in retirement is definitely key. Congratulations to you on living life on your own terms! I appreciate you watching!
@estherofosu88405 күн бұрын
I think this is individual choice some homes can be dangerous lonely and it depends on the type of family you have, it you have those families who want to kill you and take over your property.some went home and regretted it’s personal though.
@ThisSideOfLifeWisdom5 күн бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@omoobaolusegun5 күн бұрын
May the resilience of Nigerians yield good dividends for the masses
@ThisSideOfLifeWisdom5 күн бұрын
Amin o,my brother!
@estherofosu88405 күн бұрын
Some use all their life savings to build back home and have nothing to live on, they never enjoy life not even take a vacation, eat good food or take good care of themselves. It’s a mindset and unnecessary competition. I like your advice a word is enough to the wise.
@ThisSideOfLifeWisdom5 күн бұрын
I hear you. Thank you so much for watching!
@estherofosu88405 күн бұрын
Some use all their life savings to build back home and have nothing to live on, they never enjoy life not even take a vacation, eat good food or take good care of themselves. It’s a mindset and unnecessary competition. I like your advice a word is enough to the wise.
@estherofosu88405 күн бұрын
There people who built in Africa and never lived in them, their children can’t go back to inherit them families are enjoying it .
@ThisSideOfLifeWisdom5 күн бұрын
True.
@Shineynsparkles6 күн бұрын
They issue is: Sending money back home is a waste because our people don’t love themselves or their country Send $1k ….what they do with it When I saw how azn and Latinos build a family house and then build a business and infrastructure …..diaspora has a long way to go !!!
@ThisSideOfLifeWisdom5 күн бұрын
May God give us wisdom. Thanks for watching!
@James_1506 күн бұрын
A lot of Nigerians spent all their lives working abroad and never prioritize their health. Prioritize your health while trying to make money. 60 years and you can’t climb stairs is not a good look
@ThisSideOfLifeWisdom6 күн бұрын
True, we do need to take better care of our health. Thanks!
@vk-lc9xy6 күн бұрын
I always love your videos. As a builder, I personally advise my clients not to build all those 5 bedroom duplexes instead build a town house of 2 bedrooms and let them out while you live in one of it.
@ThisSideOfLifeWisdom6 күн бұрын
@@vk-lc9xy Smaller is definitely better and a more efficient use of resources. Thank you very much for always coming back to watch. I appreciate it!
@Toksgg6 күн бұрын
Only God decrees and it comes to pass. Nigeria will be great again when every individual choose not to blame the leader but contribute their quota as citizens and not as a part of a tribe. God Bless Nigeria.
@ThisSideOfLifeWisdom6 күн бұрын
Amen!
@odyphil29226 күн бұрын
Very true.
@joseph1556 күн бұрын
I heard a Nigerian saying dont let Nigeria happen to you.
@ThisSideOfLifeWisdom6 күн бұрын
It is a sad situation for most Nigerians. We pray for better days for Nigeria. Thanks for watching!
@josefelfinito69256 күн бұрын
Nigeria is damaged beyond repair. Elections can't save her. Even if I was a billionaire, I can't stay in a lawless society like Nigeria.
@ThisSideOfLifeWisdom6 күн бұрын
That is a very sad commentary. 🙁 Thanks for watching!
@josefelfinito69256 күн бұрын
@@ThisSideOfLifeWisdom Yeah, because the lawless place called nigeria has done me sad things.
@herodelegend69747 күн бұрын
Great advice 😊
@ThisSideOfLifeWisdom6 күн бұрын
Thank you so much for watching!
@nanasarfo38177 күн бұрын
You're making a good point but building a house back home is very necessary as a foreigner in another man's country anything can happen at anytime, so better to prepare yourself before is too late. One thing is, never depends on any family members to build your house for you, do it yourself without letting them know. Avoid them if not they'll rather kill you and take the house. There are Many Many cases concerning such issues in Africa here. Open your eyes wildly in this 21st century. We're living with wicked people, be careful but put up a good house if you can, leave it for 3 or 4years, sell it, make some profit and start building another one. Forget about expensive cars, in this world, there's nothing better like owning a house.
@ThisSideOfLifeWisdom6 күн бұрын
True, anything can happen at any time, even back home (if people can actually kill someone for their property🙁). Instead of going through all that hassle of buying and selling under those circumstances, why not invest in something else, and if you ever need to get a house anywhere, you have the money to do it?. Just a thought. Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts on this.
@peterahanor56897 күн бұрын
A country you can't travel to the North as a southerner or Easterner and feel safe even before the emergence of the Terrorists in the North. How do we call that a Nation? A country where the entire nation depends solely on the Oil in the Niger delta and neglecting the welfare of the indigenes of that land. How do we call that a Nation? Just to mention a few .Atleast l believe most of us in the diaspora understand better from our experiences over the decades what the definition of a country is. I don't celebrate Nigeria independence because as a Historian and diplomat the entity within this territory can't be defined as a country. Its a collection of ethnic groups who are actually nations yet to metamorphosis into countries. Our so called diversity is an irony.Think about old YUGOSLAVIA and what we have today in that territory. That's Nigerias future. Its the only way to go. God bless you all.
@ThisSideOfLifeWisdom7 күн бұрын
Hmmm. I hear you. It is definitely not a happy day for Nigeria🙁. Thank you for sharing.
@nkechinjubigbo79977 күн бұрын
Thank you ma’am
@ThisSideOfLifeWisdom7 күн бұрын
Thank you!
@uwomanoorikogho90657 күн бұрын
Thank you very much ma for the HONOR. The beautiful Country of ours is a great Nation i will never forget, a country with beautiful people, natural mineral resources, bunch of talent, beautiful land scapes, river's, and good weather. I pray that the LORD Almighty will send a redeemer to deliver our Country from the tunnel into light. AMEN!!
@ThisSideOfLifeWisdom7 күн бұрын
Beautiful country, beautiful people, Nigeria. May we be blessed with responsible and accountable leadership and followership🙏🏾 Thank you so much for watching!
@hamidahali12347 күн бұрын
Beauty in our diversity, Strength in our numbers, Unity in our drive for progress - One nation. Happy Independence Day from my humble self ma
@ThisSideOfLifeWisdom7 күн бұрын
I wish all those things for our beloved Nigeria🙏🏾 Happy independence Day to you. Thank you!
@ogwangjoshua6957 күн бұрын
Depends on individual preference and purpose. if its for dual purpose of housing parents and also your visits , then build, and also if you are planning to return then you can do it when about to return or make one that is easier to maintain as houses in africa depreciate fast but the land appreciates, if you will return in a box to be put 6 feet , and have no need to seen as a vagabond whp returned dead and useless, then do nothing at all, and also if you dont have any surplus you shouldnt be trying to put a mansion. But if you have surplus and would Love to , Please Do it and do it graciously , that means you also have ,more money to keep traveling and you have a great presence at home,. Dont make your decision on people who have long term plans to never ever return to homes yet as for you you are planning to go back , Make your own life
@ThisSideOfLifeWisdom7 күн бұрын
Definitely, different strokes for different folks. Everyone must consider the factors discussed and make the best decision that will not be a waste of resources or detrimental to them in old age. Thank you so much for weighing in on this very important matter.
@e-koto7 күн бұрын
Very interesting topic. All you said is right. I raise the same questions when I see people building these massive houses. They transfer what they live in USA to Africa without thinking of how they will look in their old age
@ThisSideOfLifeWisdom7 күн бұрын
True. May we all get the wisdom we need to make the right decisions for now and for the future. Thank you so much for watching!
@ikeokwesa56937 күн бұрын
Commonsense isn't such a common commodity!
@ThisSideOfLifeWisdom7 күн бұрын
Indeed! Thank you!
@Michael.P2477 күн бұрын
Buy a flat or apartment in a very good area of lagos and rent it out getting good rent or use it for Airbnb. This will bring In money constantly as you're abroad, when you visit home you can stay in the flat, when you return abroad the short let service will continue
@ThisSideOfLifeWisdom7 күн бұрын
@Michael.P247 That's a great idea! I think an Airbnb will probably be better, so it would not be an issue getting renters out when you need to visit. But then, you will need someone trustworthy to manage the place while you are away 🤔. I appreciate your input. Thank you!
@Michael.P2477 күн бұрын
So many people run Airbnb with their apartments in lekki specifically, yes you’ll need a trustworthy manager but lagos has advanced a lot. The apartments are in high demand and go for like N60k to N120k per night …. I run one in Lagos already and I’m blessed with an okay manager. Selling the apartment when you want to is also easier compared to houses. They’re all serviced with generator, security and other amenities. They’re a good investment compared to houses. The managers are not 100% honest but you’ll still make some millions yearly
@sholagan7 күн бұрын
There’s no amount of rent that I can generate in Nigeria that will make it worth my while. I’d rather buy a nice small fully serviced duplex and use it for myself.
@Michael.P2477 күн бұрын
I will still buy a small duplex as well, for now a flat is okay for me….the ultimate would be a small duplex. The flat MUST be in top places in lagos for ur investment to keep up with inflation: LEKKI, VI, Ikoyi, Oniru, Ikate…. That’s the secret, those areas stay in demand. I’m from Ikeja so I can’t live elsewhere than Lagos ….
@nosaedokpayi24467 күн бұрын
I love this channel I wish I discovered it sooner
@ThisSideOfLifeWisdom7 күн бұрын
I appreciate that very much! You are welcome to the channel. Thank you so much for watching!
@auntyo35417 күн бұрын
You are right about building a bungalow instead of many stories house. My Aunty can't get to her bedroom upstairs now because of the arthritis in her knees.
@ThisSideOfLifeWisdom7 күн бұрын
Agreed. multiple stories are not for seniors. Thanks for providing a real-life example!
@vincentalakija55157 күн бұрын
For someone like Dangote, i don't understand why he is complaining, i mean, he has the financial means to buy a foreign passport if he really wanted to, for example in the UK if you invest £1M+ they'll award you UK permanent residency, the US has a similar program for wealthy investor's, you mentioned all those wealthy carribean island nations with strong passports and Turkey, including Malta with EU access, why hasn't Dangote then taken it upon himself to aquire one of those citizenships? I mean, he has the financial means to acquire and purchase a strong passport that allows him access to wherever he desires.
@ThisSideOfLifeWisdom7 күн бұрын
True. I'm not sure why he hasn't done that, but I do agree with him that as Africans, we shouldn't need to jump through so many hoops to travel within Africa, which was what he was complaining about. Thanks for watching!
@TheBee4447 күн бұрын
What is it with Africans, especially Nigerians who went abroad for greener pastures just to later turn around to permanently stayed over? It is unpatriotic, with a little slavery mentality to not consider investing in your country. Africa is the world. This is where South Africans excel. They hardly travel. Some of you are just lost souls & broke. Go build whatever you’re capable. Go contribute to your country. You’re living a borrowed life when you stay back abroad.
@ginikatalks7 күн бұрын
Do you really need this much space... true words. weldone ma for this valuable content.
@ThisSideOfLifeWisdom7 күн бұрын
Thank you!
@sadonix63038 күн бұрын
Good. I clicked because of your smile on your video thumbnail. Well done
@ThisSideOfLifeWisdom7 күн бұрын
Thank you!
@obafemibello56138 күн бұрын
Femi Bello ~ I thank God for your wisdom and the sense of humour in the presentation as factual as the points made . We build these mansions back home and the children abroad don’t want to know at least for now. Our prayer is for our country to continue to develop to such a standard that will inspire her children to return home. Please keep up the good work.
@ThisSideOfLifeWisdom8 күн бұрын
Thank you, uncle, for your input.. I really appreciate it 🙏🏾