I agree LinkedIn is so much better than Facebook for me. My goal is to learn from others, share my inspirations, books that have helped me and to celebrate others accomplishments. Networking is a plus when you engage in it, especially when it is authentic.
@reneemercado12729 күн бұрын
I appreciate this!
@OneHelloConsulting8 күн бұрын
Good!
@dmrant15 күн бұрын
I do this every year at my company, because there are folks who go out of their way to help me. I pick up a nice container and fill it with snacks, we all need to eat.
@OneHelloConsulting15 күн бұрын
Love that!
@justinwest516617 күн бұрын
ya same i did all this but worse
@davidwhitcher197224 күн бұрын
What makes you think that people talk to each other in class? This is not my experience. Adults show up last minute and leave as soon as the class is over. There is no time to talk.
@OneHelloConsulting11 күн бұрын
Thanks for commenting. I think it depends on the class, and I also think it takes time ( a lot longer than it used to) to break the ice.
@dmrantАй бұрын
challenge accepted
@markcaputo-d1gАй бұрын
or you have no credibility also , right ?
@kattygresaАй бұрын
How do you react when you see someone from a different dept. and I say good morning and by the time you say moooorn…. The other person acts as is she has seen the devil and does this many times. And then one day after 3 years tries to have a friendly conversation. 😮
@OneHelloConsulting11 күн бұрын
I have actually had this happen... honestly, keep them arms length and learn more over time. Basically, tread lightly
@PodMatch_comАй бұрын
Love it, Cassandra!!! Just subscribed. :)
@David-wo9un2 ай бұрын
My question is, how to let go of the fear of rejection; do you have a course on that?
@OneHelloConsulting2 ай бұрын
Great question. No, I don’t have a course on it and I struggle with it to. Honestly as of now I’ve learned to nurse my wounds and then get up and try again because the possible benefits are greater than the rejection so it’s worth the risk. But man rejection is hard. I’ll try and do an episode on it soon.
@dmrant3 ай бұрын
How true, we care for so many, but who cares for us? There are times we all have to balance the give and take.
@OneHelloConsulting3 ай бұрын
Well my point is you should care for people (I actually think most people don’t care for others enough) but care does not have to mean “giving value”
@David-wo9un3 ай бұрын
Such an interesting discussion; so many people are only “act” interested because of what you can do for them. Is there a way to see through those with ulterior motives vs. those who are genuine?
@David-wo9un3 ай бұрын
Best advice ever; “listen more than you speak”! I also was not expecting, after watching a video on how to talk to anyone, to get a link on how to bail; you truly have us totally covered!
@POVminimalist3 ай бұрын
801st subscriber here! 🧡✨
@OneHelloConsulting3 ай бұрын
Thank you!!!
@POVminimalist3 ай бұрын
@@OneHelloConsulting I look forward to watching more (or all) of your videos. Thank you for being an inspiration!
@IAmCatElf3 ай бұрын
From a fellow external processor, YES!!
@IAmCatElf3 ай бұрын
As an extrovert this needs more views!! I get so lonely without social interaction and feel like I can’t be left alone :( but I also get so exhausted from difficult social settings. I get depressed without my friends, so I feel like I’m a needy person who can’t be a real adult on my own even though I’m 30…
@David-wo9un4 ай бұрын
Great information that for me is easier said than done; It’s so difficult to leave the safety of being a lurker.
@zruuuking20414 ай бұрын
Made For People, Super Communication, The LIKE SWITCH books are stunning choices that i can look into 🙏🏿😃 thank you for sharing this cass
@zruuuking20414 ай бұрын
Thank you for the tips cass 😊 i appreciate it! this video help in a major way.
@zruuuking20414 ай бұрын
Thank you for the clarification & great advice cass 🙏🏿💯 i needed to hear this.
@akadayana4 ай бұрын
Wow I needed to hear this. Lol. Thank you! 😂😊. Do you have a teen version of this? My daughter with Asperger’s needs help with building connections and confidence. This pandemic really messed all of us up!
@banderas20004 ай бұрын
Somewhere you can see someone on a weekly basis at least. you get to "know" each other. And actually build relationships. Vs at bar / club or event a quick event. Your there boom next time they are somewhere else. This is why relationships can develop at work. You get to be around someone and get a feel for them rather than a stranger on the st.
@David-wo9un4 ай бұрын
Just came across this by shear luck as I didn’t see it when it was originally uploaded. I enjoy the occasional guest but also value/appreciate hearing your insight into various aspects of the workplace.
@David-wo9un4 ай бұрын
Nice information, as always. As much as I like hearing you speak on topics, it’s nice to see you inviting guests on occasion.
@MichelleDodick-r2e4 ай бұрын
An ongoing class.
@banderas20004 ай бұрын
Any suggestions about sites to find cool classes to attend?
@HarryHenryIbuchi-dq6fx2 ай бұрын
Nice
@OneHelloConsultingАй бұрын
I'm just seeing this! Honestly, one of the things that's been working for me is searching on Instagram. Even if nothing pops up, it now knows what I want and when people in my area then run ads for a class or event, it shows up in my feed
@tay_craycray4 ай бұрын
This was so so helpful 🎉
@OneHelloConsulting4 ай бұрын
I'm so glad!
@dmrant4 ай бұрын
Cassie such a great show and very timely for all of us who want to work on connections. Thank you so much. I will follow Bailey on LinkedIn for sure.
@Veraconah5 ай бұрын
The baby boomers don't ghost. That's the difference. Ghosting is now acceptable behavior. Integrity and closure are less valued.
@OneHelloConsulting5 ай бұрын
Oh I’ve had baby boomers ghost. Not replying to messages is no longer a generational thing. So across all generations we need to remember to get back to people and put others forst
@dmrant5 ай бұрын
I agree with the first two reasons. But #3, yes there are times you don't know what to say, such as giving advice. Then just say that you are not comfortable giving advice, and either suggest someone who could (clear that first with the person) or say I will get back to you on that one, let me put something together for you. I guess what I am saying is just acknowledge the person in some way.
@OneHelloConsulting5 ай бұрын
I completely agree that that is the right thing to do but I’m sharing from experience that sometimes we don’t always do the right thing. Which I’m not proud of. However I want those who send emails and don’t hear back to know it’s not their fault!
@David-wo9un5 ай бұрын
Interesting discussion; lots of great information that is easy to forget when you let your emotions get the better of you! It’s very easy to blame yourself when you believe you’ve been ghosted.
@nickmando23295 ай бұрын
would you have any advice for drop in classes? i use ClassPass and sometimes manage to book the same time slot every week... but 90% of the time, all my classmates are different people. its often like this with dance or gym classes as well. most tend to be "drop in" classes
@OneHelloConsulting5 ай бұрын
Start going to a regular class. Stand in the same spot. You’ll start to see a pattern of who shows up. Or become a regular at those drop ins to start recognizing the other regulars. I swear there are some there!
@David-wo9un5 ай бұрын
Nice video; appreciate the personal stories of how the books helped you at a specific time in your life. I am curious if you will be writing a book at some point?
@shabanarahmani99585 ай бұрын
Thanks for the video!❤
@David-wo9un5 ай бұрын
As an iced coffee lover, don’t you have a way for us to “buy you a coffee”?😊
@OneHelloConsulting5 ай бұрын
If you go on Cass Thompson Career Advice its in every video description! I don't have one here yet!
@David-wo9un5 ай бұрын
@@OneHelloConsulting Thank you; feel the need to honor/reward your work with what you love, coffee!!😂😂
@AshlynnPhoenix-jj1ri5 ай бұрын
I remember you made a video before about loneliness and hybrid working and I read the comments and people were saying hybrid is great because they have more time to spend with their friends and family or they can avoid the toxicity of their office. My family also reap the benefits of hybrid working because there's always someone at home to keep an eye on and care for my elderly grandma. But I think people forget that not everyone has friends and family that they can easily visit and also, not every office is toxic. I heard this suggestion from someone and don't remember it well, but if you and your friend have the same work-at-home days, you could gather at one person's house and work there. If you need to take a call, you can go into another room etc. I've never tried this before (and it's not my idea!) but I think it would work because you're having the social interaction with your friends and working as well, sort of making your own office. I think the only issue is if you work on confidential stuff that can't be shared with other people
@hawaiichick15 ай бұрын
Cassandra, you are amazing! I have been following you for 4 years and I love how you deliver your messages. This video was for me! I consider myself an introvert and struggle with networking. This has been useful. Thank you!!
@dmrant6 ай бұрын
I have my accountability buddy, so I am going to start with finding pre-influencers in and out of my field. I am also going to check out Noah Kagan's book, thank you for the referral Cassandra.
@AjithKumar-vo2bq6 ай бұрын
Great video! It was very informative. Could you share some cold messaging templates? That would be really helpful. Thanks!
@TheDenisedrake6 ай бұрын
Yes! I've had some life changes over the past 5 years and have lost connection with friends and family. I am an extrovert and you would think it would be easy for me-- but it is not. I am VERY excited about your Camp Connection group.
@David-wo9un6 ай бұрын
Sounds like a fun idea for summer. I was just in Scottsdale for a conference and they could have used a speaker like you to lighten things up! I would be nice if you introduce your coworker on one of these videos!😂
@OneHelloConsulting6 ай бұрын
Oh what conference were you at? And I’ll try and get him to make an appearance soon!
@David-wo9un6 ай бұрын
@@OneHelloConsulting The National Association of Psychometrists(NAPS); it was at the Scottsdale Plaza.
@catherinemaryfairweather6 ай бұрын
I am so glad you’re making videos on this topic. I am slowly losing my mind even in my hybrid situation. As a huge introvert I never thought I would feel lonely but here I am.
@OneHelloConsulting6 ай бұрын
Even introverts need people! Hope that I can help!