Man, I can't imagine saying maybe to a man like you ahah
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@c_h_i_n_g_u63212 сағат бұрын
This is gorgeous perspective, thanks! ❤
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@marijazeljko640Күн бұрын
How much you love yourself depends on how happy you are and how peaceful you are and that is achieved by how much healthy food do you consume or how little(or none) you consume unhealthy food and how much negativity is not present in your life(negative people and negative sound, pictures and videos), but mostly depends on how much do you take care of health and hygiene. Trying is not doing, is it not?
@ZwenMatthews23 сағат бұрын
I can see your point. And I agree-everything is connected. If you love yourself, you will take better care of your health and respect yourself enough to make hard choices about how you spend your time and what relationships you surround yourself with. But loving yourself 24/7 at 100% is nearly impossible (I would even argue impossible). The point I'm trying to make here is that "trying to love yourself" is a way to love yourself. But you make an interesting point, thank you for the comment!
@Trey123922 күн бұрын
it’s my 18th birthday today can’t believe i’m now a man/adult crazy
@ZwenMatthews23 сағат бұрын
Happy birthday, Trey! Hope you had a wonderful day :D
@daniaratiba2 күн бұрын
i needed to receive this during this phase, thank you :) <3 !
@ZwenMatthewsКүн бұрын
No problem, keep going! Hope you're doing great :D
@daniaratiba23 сағат бұрын
@@ZwenMatthews this phase is pretty hard still but blessings & empowerment returned :D!
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@eefendy3 күн бұрын
thnks it meant alot
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Good to hear! :D
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@Fireok734 күн бұрын
Thing is, that's EXACTLY how you have to be at work. Be ok with everyone without getting too close with colleagues
@ZwenMatthews3 күн бұрын
True, but also kinda why? I do the same, but why not for example have 1 that is close?
@Fireok733 күн бұрын
@@ZwenMatthews because colleagues are NOT your friends. Remember that, because until the shit hits the fan, you probably wouldn't believe me. It just comes with experience. Maybe, if you are very lucky, you'd be able to have an actual friend at work, but tell yourself first - do you really want to have anything with this person, or is it just "being nice"?
@ZwenMatthewsКүн бұрын
@@Fireok73 Interesting. Well, from my experience, I got quite close with one of my colleagues back then. We shared a great bond both at work and in our spare time. But I can see how that doesn't happen in most cases. I just know work would be a lot less fun without that friend. You got any experience trying to be closer than colleagues with someone?
@Fireok7312 сағат бұрын
@ well, the thing is if your friend was the same age as you, then yea. It makes sense because you’ll probably have much more in common. But it negates if he’d be married and had a kid. People just don’t really have time to make friends with that much responsibility on them. Their priorities would differ from yours. So that’s the main issue for adults. Different thing is when there’s a big age gap between colleagues, there won’t be anything except sharing experience and skills. Just be nice enough to each other without being “too nice” and keep the working environment feeling non hostile
@kiellorrillo5 күн бұрын
Trying to change can make you happy even if don’t succeed but the key it’s that you have to really try
@ZwenMatthews3 күн бұрын
I agree, since there will always be some kind of win in trying your best
@Kurtis112666 күн бұрын
Oh look it's a young adult going through their motivational phase. You spoke for 3 minutes but didn't really say anything, sorry.
@ZwenMatthews3 күн бұрын
That's fine, can't always bring something new or useful to the table ;)
@arthurcandelaria43086 күн бұрын
You speak exactly what i feel with my friends, I moved out tô another school last year and Marie Some friends in the new school but we are only like “light friends” sorry for my bad english
@ZwenMatthews6 күн бұрын
No worries, I understand. Are your new friends people you like to be with, or are they just temporary friends?
@arthurcandelaria43086 күн бұрын
@@ZwenMatthews Probably temporary friends because i´m thinking about changing to another school
@ZwenMatthews3 күн бұрын
@@arthurcandelaria4308 Yeah, you probably have that in the back of your mind, wich makes it seem dumb to create any valuable bonds since you are thinking about changing schools
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@Trey123926 күн бұрын
are you from netherlands🇳🇱
@ZwenMatthews6 күн бұрын
No hehe, Norway. Does it sound like it?
@Trey123926 күн бұрын
@@ZwenMatthewsyh
@ZwenMatthews3 күн бұрын
@@Trey12392 Haha that's cool
@ddemaine7 күн бұрын
Lovely soothing videos, so telegenic too. Do you do Patreon?
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@matthewwilliams11877 күн бұрын
Thanks for not answering............. 😔
@ZwenMatthews7 күн бұрын
Sorry bro, have had some problems with the notification stuff so not every notification is shown. But you can find the discord in the bio underneath every YT video ☺
@matthewwilliams11876 күн бұрын
@@ZwenMatthewsOh I see 😔 unfortunately it keeps saying invalid or link has expired.
@Trey123927 күн бұрын
How can i get a girl because i want a girlfriend now
@Trey123927 күн бұрын
I’m gonna be 18 in 5 days how scary i’m gonna be a man already
@ZwenMatthews7 күн бұрын
That is so exciting! How are you gonna celebrate it and what are you scared about?
@Trey123927 күн бұрын
@@ZwenMatthewsbeing a man/adult
@ZwenMatthews7 күн бұрын
@@Trey12392 And why does the fact that being a man/adult scare you? Do you feel like you can't become it?
@spicymeat7865 күн бұрын
18 isn't being a man dude, not from the pov of experience or even anatomically, if anything u become a man at 24-25 so u got time to chill
@ZwenMatthews3 күн бұрын
@@spicymeat786 That is correct, but I think me personally will never really feel like I'm getting older except my age
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@tr11_10 күн бұрын
No one knows how to get there. Pick a “job” that includes doing things that you are passionate about and that will take you closer to your goal. If you want the dream/goal enough you will figure it out.
@ZwenMatthews8 күн бұрын
True!
@westboy5210 күн бұрын
Hah I'm the exact opposite. I have no idea about where I'm going, but I'm taking several paths to figure it out.
@ZwenMatthews10 күн бұрын
That is a good path too! Think you've found one of the best ways of doing it (even though it might not feel so)
@salek_overthinku10 күн бұрын
I had the same question. I'm just trying to bring love to things I like doing or already do.
@ZwenMatthews10 күн бұрын
That sounds great, thanks!
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@User101-l6s13 күн бұрын
Bro what country are you from?
@ZwenMatthews12 күн бұрын
Norway bro
@Cyamonicaa13 күн бұрын
Amazing word.
@ZwenMatthews12 күн бұрын
Thank you!
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@infntegaming14 күн бұрын
It should also be valuable in the long term
@ZwenMatthews12 күн бұрын
It sure can! But it really depends on perspective
@matthewwilliams118715 күн бұрын
Hi 😔
@ZwenMatthews12 күн бұрын
Hi, how u doing?
@matthewwilliams118712 күн бұрын
@ZwenMatthews Not so good....
@ZwenMatthews12 күн бұрын
@@matthewwilliams1187 What is going on?
@matthewwilliams118712 күн бұрын
@@ZwenMatthews You really care?
@ZwenMatthews12 күн бұрын
@@matthewwilliams1187 Sure dude, I know how it feels to struggel. We're all in the same boat as we live on this earth so why not help each other a little, that is what I'm thinking. So what is going on in your life?
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@HhaytchJjay20 күн бұрын
didn't watch
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@kiellorrillo20 күн бұрын
moving for the sake of moving it's not always the best decision, sometimes thinking it's a good decision and man sometimes it's hard to do so.
@ZwenMatthews20 күн бұрын
yeah definitely!
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@Soul_partner23 күн бұрын
No, I think everything you said is very understandable 😊 Another good message, thank you