I think people needs to hear it
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2 сағат бұрын
here is why
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4 сағат бұрын
you are better than someones "maybe"
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7 сағат бұрын
You ACTUALLY love yourself!
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12 сағат бұрын
What is it? And why avoid becoming it?
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Change your narrative, change your future
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What is it? How can you use it?
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What does it mean to be strong?
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14 күн бұрын
that not many people have
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14 күн бұрын
... is like a house
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14 күн бұрын
live with the flow
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14 күн бұрын
makes you worse
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21 күн бұрын
because you can change them!
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21 күн бұрын
Increases fun to time ratio!
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21 күн бұрын
How to follow your plans
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21 күн бұрын
A lense to a new world
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21 күн бұрын
This is how you start
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@marslangdon9007
@marslangdon9007 33 минут бұрын
why was this recommended for me
@cuteMrAngelit
@cuteMrAngelit 4 сағат бұрын
Man, I can't imagine saying maybe to a man like you ahah
@ISplushy
@ISplushy 4 сағат бұрын
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@c_h_i_n_g_u632
@c_h_i_n_g_u632 12 сағат бұрын
This is gorgeous perspective, thanks! ❤
@ISplushy
@ISplushy Күн бұрын
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@ZwenMatthews
@ZwenMatthews 23 сағат бұрын
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@marijazeljko640
@marijazeljko640 Күн бұрын
How much you love yourself depends on how happy you are and how peaceful you are and that is achieved by how much healthy food do you consume or how little(or none) you consume unhealthy food and how much negativity is not present in your life(negative people and negative sound, pictures and videos), but mostly depends on how much do you take care of health and hygiene. Trying is not doing, is it not?
@ZwenMatthews
@ZwenMatthews 23 сағат бұрын
I can see your point. And I agree-everything is connected. If you love yourself, you will take better care of your health and respect yourself enough to make hard choices about how you spend your time and what relationships you surround yourself with. But loving yourself 24/7 at 100% is nearly impossible (I would even argue impossible). The point I'm trying to make here is that "trying to love yourself" is a way to love yourself. But you make an interesting point, thank you for the comment!
@Trey12392
@Trey12392 2 күн бұрын
it’s my 18th birthday today can’t believe i’m now a man/adult crazy
@ZwenMatthews
@ZwenMatthews 23 сағат бұрын
Happy birthday, Trey! Hope you had a wonderful day :D
@daniaratiba
@daniaratiba 2 күн бұрын
i needed to receive this during this phase, thank you :) <3 !
@ZwenMatthews
@ZwenMatthews Күн бұрын
No problem, keep going! Hope you're doing great :D
@daniaratiba
@daniaratiba 23 сағат бұрын
@@ZwenMatthews this phase is pretty hard still but blessings & empowerment returned :D!
@ISplushy
@ISplushy 3 күн бұрын
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@ZwenMatthews
@ZwenMatthews 3 күн бұрын
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@eefendy
@eefendy 3 күн бұрын
thnks it meant alot
@ZwenMatthews
@ZwenMatthews 3 күн бұрын
Good to hear! :D
@ISplushy
@ISplushy 4 күн бұрын
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@ZwenMatthews
@ZwenMatthews 3 күн бұрын
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@ISplushy
@ISplushy 4 күн бұрын
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@ZwenMatthews
@ZwenMatthews 3 күн бұрын
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@ISplushy
@ISplushy 4 күн бұрын
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@ZwenMatthews
@ZwenMatthews 3 күн бұрын
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@Fireok73
@Fireok73 4 күн бұрын
Thing is, that's EXACTLY how you have to be at work. Be ok with everyone without getting too close with colleagues
@ZwenMatthews
@ZwenMatthews 3 күн бұрын
True, but also kinda why? I do the same, but why not for example have 1 that is close?
@Fireok73
@Fireok73 3 күн бұрын
@@ZwenMatthews because colleagues are NOT your friends. Remember that, because until the shit hits the fan, you probably wouldn't believe me. It just comes with experience. Maybe, if you are very lucky, you'd be able to have an actual friend at work, but tell yourself first - do you really want to have anything with this person, or is it just "being nice"?
@ZwenMatthews
@ZwenMatthews Күн бұрын
@@Fireok73 Interesting. Well, from my experience, I got quite close with one of my colleagues back then. We shared a great bond both at work and in our spare time. But I can see how that doesn't happen in most cases. I just know work would be a lot less fun without that friend. You got any experience trying to be closer than colleagues with someone?
@Fireok73
@Fireok73 12 сағат бұрын
@ well, the thing is if your friend was the same age as you, then yea. It makes sense because you’ll probably have much more in common. But it negates if he’d be married and had a kid. People just don’t really have time to make friends with that much responsibility on them. Their priorities would differ from yours. So that’s the main issue for adults. Different thing is when there’s a big age gap between colleagues, there won’t be anything except sharing experience and skills. Just be nice enough to each other without being “too nice” and keep the working environment feeling non hostile
@kiellorrillo
@kiellorrillo 5 күн бұрын
Trying to change can make you happy even if don’t succeed but the key it’s that you have to really try
@ZwenMatthews
@ZwenMatthews 3 күн бұрын
I agree, since there will always be some kind of win in trying your best
@Kurtis11266
@Kurtis11266 6 күн бұрын
Oh look it's a young adult going through their motivational phase. You spoke for 3 minutes but didn't really say anything, sorry.
@ZwenMatthews
@ZwenMatthews 3 күн бұрын
That's fine, can't always bring something new or useful to the table ;)
@arthurcandelaria4308
@arthurcandelaria4308 6 күн бұрын
You speak exactly what i feel with my friends, I moved out tô another school last year and Marie Some friends in the new school but we are only like “light friends” sorry for my bad english
@ZwenMatthews
@ZwenMatthews 6 күн бұрын
No worries, I understand. Are your new friends people you like to be with, or are they just temporary friends?
@arthurcandelaria4308
@arthurcandelaria4308 6 күн бұрын
@@ZwenMatthews Probably temporary friends because i´m thinking about changing to another school
@ZwenMatthews
@ZwenMatthews 3 күн бұрын
@@arthurcandelaria4308 Yeah, you probably have that in the back of your mind, wich makes it seem dumb to create any valuable bonds since you are thinking about changing schools
@ISplushy
@ISplushy 6 күн бұрын
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@ZwenMatthews
@ZwenMatthews 6 күн бұрын
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@Trey12392
@Trey12392 6 күн бұрын
are you from netherlands🇳🇱
@ZwenMatthews
@ZwenMatthews 6 күн бұрын
No hehe, Norway. Does it sound like it?
@Trey12392
@Trey12392 6 күн бұрын
@@ZwenMatthewsyh
@ZwenMatthews
@ZwenMatthews 3 күн бұрын
@@Trey12392 Haha that's cool
@ddemaine
@ddemaine 7 күн бұрын
Lovely soothing videos, so telegenic too. Do you do Patreon?
@ISplushy
@ISplushy 7 күн бұрын
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@ZwenMatthews
@ZwenMatthews 7 күн бұрын
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@ISplushy
@ISplushy 7 күн бұрын
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@ZwenMatthews
@ZwenMatthews 7 күн бұрын
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@matthewwilliams1187
@matthewwilliams1187 7 күн бұрын
Thanks for not answering............. 😔
@ZwenMatthews
@ZwenMatthews 7 күн бұрын
Sorry bro, have had some problems with the notification stuff so not every notification is shown. But you can find the discord in the bio underneath every YT video ☺
@matthewwilliams1187
@matthewwilliams1187 6 күн бұрын
​@@ZwenMatthewsOh I see 😔 unfortunately it keeps saying invalid or link has expired.
@Trey12392
@Trey12392 7 күн бұрын
How can i get a girl because i want a girlfriend now
@Trey12392
@Trey12392 7 күн бұрын
I’m gonna be 18 in 5 days how scary i’m gonna be a man already
@ZwenMatthews
@ZwenMatthews 7 күн бұрын
That is so exciting! How are you gonna celebrate it and what are you scared about?
@Trey12392
@Trey12392 7 күн бұрын
@@ZwenMatthewsbeing a man/adult
@ZwenMatthews
@ZwenMatthews 7 күн бұрын
@@Trey12392 And why does the fact that being a man/adult scare you? Do you feel like you can't become it?
@spicymeat786
@spicymeat786 5 күн бұрын
18 isn't being a man dude, not from the pov of experience or even anatomically, if anything u become a man at 24-25 so u got time to chill
@ZwenMatthews
@ZwenMatthews 3 күн бұрын
@@spicymeat786 That is correct, but I think me personally will never really feel like I'm getting older except my age
@ISplushy
@ISplushy 8 күн бұрын
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@ZwenMatthews
@ZwenMatthews 8 күн бұрын
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@tr11_
@tr11_ 10 күн бұрын
No one knows how to get there. Pick a “job” that includes doing things that you are passionate about and that will take you closer to your goal. If you want the dream/goal enough you will figure it out.
@ZwenMatthews
@ZwenMatthews 8 күн бұрын
True!
@westboy52
@westboy52 10 күн бұрын
Hah I'm the exact opposite. I have no idea about where I'm going, but I'm taking several paths to figure it out.
@ZwenMatthews
@ZwenMatthews 10 күн бұрын
That is a good path too! Think you've found one of the best ways of doing it (even though it might not feel so)
@salek_overthinku
@salek_overthinku 10 күн бұрын
I had the same question. I'm just trying to bring love to things I like doing or already do.
@ZwenMatthews
@ZwenMatthews 10 күн бұрын
That sounds great, thanks!
@ISplushy
@ISplushy 11 күн бұрын
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@ZwenMatthews
@ZwenMatthews 6 күн бұрын
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@ISplushy
@ISplushy 12 күн бұрын
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@ZwenMatthews
@ZwenMatthews 12 күн бұрын
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@ISplushy
@ISplushy 12 күн бұрын
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@ZwenMatthews
@ZwenMatthews 12 күн бұрын
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@RonZ234
@RonZ234 12 күн бұрын
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@ZwenMatthews
@ZwenMatthews 12 күн бұрын
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@User101-l6s
@User101-l6s 13 күн бұрын
Bro what country are you from?
@ZwenMatthews
@ZwenMatthews 12 күн бұрын
Norway bro
@Cyamonicaa
@Cyamonicaa 13 күн бұрын
Amazing word.
@ZwenMatthews
@ZwenMatthews 12 күн бұрын
Thank you!
@ISplushy
@ISplushy 14 күн бұрын
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@ZwenMatthews
@ZwenMatthews 12 күн бұрын
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@infntegaming
@infntegaming 14 күн бұрын
It should also be valuable in the long term
@ZwenMatthews
@ZwenMatthews 12 күн бұрын
It sure can! But it really depends on perspective
@matthewwilliams1187
@matthewwilliams1187 15 күн бұрын
Hi 😔
@ZwenMatthews
@ZwenMatthews 12 күн бұрын
Hi, how u doing?
@matthewwilliams1187
@matthewwilliams1187 12 күн бұрын
@ZwenMatthews Not so good....
@ZwenMatthews
@ZwenMatthews 12 күн бұрын
@@matthewwilliams1187 What is going on?
@matthewwilliams1187
@matthewwilliams1187 12 күн бұрын
@@ZwenMatthews You really care?
@ZwenMatthews
@ZwenMatthews 12 күн бұрын
@@matthewwilliams1187 Sure dude, I know how it feels to struggel. We're all in the same boat as we live on this earth so why not help each other a little, that is what I'm thinking. So what is going on in your life?
@ISplushy
@ISplushy 15 күн бұрын
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@ZwenMatthews
@ZwenMatthews 12 күн бұрын
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@ISplushy
@ISplushy 17 күн бұрын
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@ZwenMatthews
@ZwenMatthews 17 күн бұрын
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@ISplushy
@ISplushy 18 күн бұрын
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@ZwenMatthews
@ZwenMatthews 17 күн бұрын
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@ISplushy
@ISplushy 19 күн бұрын
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@ZwenMatthews
@ZwenMatthews 18 күн бұрын
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@HhaytchJjay
@HhaytchJjay 20 күн бұрын
didn't watch
@ISplushy
@ISplushy 20 күн бұрын
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@ZwenMatthews
@ZwenMatthews 19 күн бұрын
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@ISplushy
@ISplushy 20 күн бұрын
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@ZwenMatthews
@ZwenMatthews 20 күн бұрын
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@kiellorrillo
@kiellorrillo 20 күн бұрын
moving for the sake of moving it's not always the best decision, sometimes thinking it's a good decision and man sometimes it's hard to do so.
@ZwenMatthews
@ZwenMatthews 20 күн бұрын
yeah definitely!
@noahwesterbk2076
@noahwesterbk2076 22 күн бұрын
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@ZwenMatthews
@ZwenMatthews 21 күн бұрын
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@ISplushy
@ISplushy 22 күн бұрын
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@noahwesterbk2076
@noahwesterbk2076 22 күн бұрын
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@ZwenMatthews
@ZwenMatthews 21 күн бұрын
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@ISplushy
@ISplushy 23 күн бұрын
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@ZwenMatthews
@ZwenMatthews 21 күн бұрын
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@Soul_partner
@Soul_partner 23 күн бұрын
No, I think everything you said is very understandable 😊 Another good message, thank you
@ZwenMatthews
@ZwenMatthews 21 күн бұрын
Np, thanks!