May Allah bless you for this video. Jazakumullahu khairan

Jazakillah khair. Only listened to first 20min but loving it. Im one of the women not in the privileged category, also I am busy with work, study and teenager. So polygyny is best for me but Allah knows best.

Wouldn't the mother lose custody of the kids as soon as she gets married....

I'm so glad I found this video - great information!

alhumdulillah for this video. i searched up this topic and wanted to watch a muslim women explain it. i tend to avoid men’s videos on such topics because i fear they might twist islamic rulings to fit their misogynistic views. again thank you ❤

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The presentation of Iffet Rafeeq is phenomenal. ..

46:04 and you know the ignorance of saying that somebody else’s opinion or real life account is cap is so disrespectful it’s so it’s just rude so there is a podcast of either four or five sisters they share the same father but different mothers and yes they do state that having their dad hardly ever around is a problem so if you remember most men are out working during the daytime by the time the man comes home in the evening it’s basically bedtime for the children and then divide the time that is already a shambles into half these children are not really left with much it’s not the man’s fault that he can’t add extra hours to the day nor can he divide his body in half and make sure that he is in two houses at the same time so yes when a man comes home after six 7 o’clock and the children are already ready to be settled to go to bed and he’s only doing that for three nights they just about get to say good night to him know it is not enough of an investment for your children. And if he works also on weekends it means that there is no time where the children are either not at school or not present that is there 24 seven it’s a low quality dad that your children will be receiving a father who is missing more than he is present. And common sense and most people know this even people who haven’t studied children’s behaviour when adults do something sometimes the kids internalise it it’s their fault for example dad not coming home every night anymore they make question have they done something wrong are they bad 47:13

42:29 No the data shows that children thrive in healthy relationships the data doesn’t show that children thrive in unhealthy relationships The way you belittle women for not being married as if the man is the prize building something with a man is the ultimate goal what about women who marriage has never and will never be written in the qadr what are you showing these women. And when you talk about building something what can you build with a man who is always missing in another woman’s house building you make that make sense if a man has three wives and he gives each 10 nights a month what is he building when he is missing more than he is home you are building you just don’t realise your building with the money that he gives you from working all day you’re basically a single married mother I tried to work out where you are coming from with this what is your narrative what is the point and when you expressed about your own situation I then realised you have your own guilt for destroying your own Marriage and now you’re encouraging other women not to do it based on your own guilt how do you know these women will be happy and be able to cope not everyone is suited for Poly it’s just how it is And I don’t know if Muslim women have become a nation of misogynistic boy moms but for example yes the woman is allowed to remove some of her rights to make it easier for her husband asks yourself now why is your husband not removing his right of having more women to make it easier for her KMT at this point it shows even though our own sisters don’t respect us our own sisters do not respect us if you as a woman do not understand where your sisters are coming from can you not imagine why the man don’t understand us why at the beginning would you start with a narrative that women think they’re too good for something why does that have to be the only reason that women don’t want this thing because they think they’re too nice Maybe it’s because they don’t think they’re suited for it maybe because they don’t want it maybe because we feel basing our sexual hygiene on a number of other women who we don’t know and can’t trust there are multiple reasons he doesn’t mean that you think you’re too nice or you think you’re too good for something I lost so much respect for you watching this video I actually feel disappointed To talk about children need. A father and then talk about we need an emir when you’re a maid is in your other wife’s house or his other wife’s house what do you think he’s doing for you how’s it gonna protect you Sis what are you going to do ring him and tell him he needs to come back now because of an emergency in an emergency you need the man to be with you there Do you know how many sisters are married to Mad right now they haven’t even consummated the marriage if you know how many women the whole Marriage the man apparently couldn’t afford to give her her right but all of a sudden he’s got another woman is £5000 away and he is willing to give another woman monthly maintenance and you’ve been in your house with your children live in a low quality lifestyle going 50-50 like the modern women Kaffir Women on the street 43:14 How does a man who is in another woman’s house protect you how does a man who has another wife in another country and has to split his time while he’s in the other country house you can pick today my sister the manipulation in this video is very dangerous very very dangerous

Love the vaulted ceiling in the background

if i didn’t catch my husband, he would’ve never stopped. that hurts me the most. so disgusting behaviour.

I’m ok with it I’m gori wife and 2nd is a little spitfire like Naima and can kick his butt on the daily 😅

I wish there was a way of getting people we care about to actually reflect on their own actions, reactions,decisions,responses... one tries n tries n tries...but its always that more focus is on what isnt, what hasnt happened, what one cant do...

Jazakallah khair sister BarakaAllah feekum ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

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Would be good to give womenfolk an insight to the submissiveness and subordination men have to, and are obliged to, experience. All men operate within hierarchies, and very few of them are at the top of the heap. If the ego is strong, it can’t tolerate such things. In the West there’s an idea of women’s suffrage, but many who recall this don’t think much on “men’s suffrage”. It results in skewed ideas, ideals and goals. But the points you make emphasise that neither women nor men need “liberation” or suffrage. We need to know where Allah ﷻ wants us to be, and we have to stand on our duty.

I’m probably in the minority here but I don’t see why we have to constantly bash wives over the head with “submit to husband” and “unconditional obedience” Maybe we should change the narrative that we “Submit and Obey” to ALLAH and Allahs teaching via the Prophet PBUH, which tell us to LISTEN (not submit) to the husband. Because realistically we do not submit to the husband; if he tells us to do haram, don’t pray, cut your family ties and never see your parents again, etc. we have to ignore him. However, we obey and submit to Allah alone by listening to *reasonable* requests of the husband, after filtering for ourselves, if the request is halal and fair (not overruling or neglecting our rights as a wife). Also, rather than feminists, for me the far worse connotations of these words is actually from so-called Muslim men, following these red pill boys clubs, who basically almost develop a god-complex astagfirillah They want unconditional obedience, submission and servitude to the degree that it’s clear the man is actually viewing the woman as his slave and as an inferior creation to men, and that the women should practically worship the husband. There is so much abuse of the leadership position of husband, because most are obsessed with power and control but totally ignore the characteristics and mannerisms of the Prophet PBUH, that the woman is naturally vulnerable to an abusive controlling husband and will have a reaction to these words, submit and obey to another creation (a man; or husband). Anyways, Muslim women should be accurately aware that submission and obedience is only for Allah and if the man is being hyper-controlling, to the degree that he says I don’t give you permission to go outside, to do optional fasting, to even have a say in any family decision and because I alone will decide and then only inform you after I have already finalized my decision, then it’s better to divorce, because you will only have hatred and resentment and you can’t continue to show respect to someone that constantly put you down and demeans you as inferior. If more women were willing to teach their sons the balance, and to give men consequences for actually bad behaviour (not he didn’t buy you a name brand purse, or nicer car) then maybe we can see positive change. But this world isn’t junnah so may Allah just make all our struggles easier, forgive our sins, and allow us to be junnah with our true love, even if we never find love from our spouse in the dunyah

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Why is a woman educating yourself and having a career regarded as being masculine??

What if as a wife they loan any money required?

You topics about pouses being selected and decided by Allah is very crucial and it be the motivation for the woman also not hesitate getting in touch with the person she love...private and genuine conversation is an excellent motivation for both couples...

Sister Na'ma, you are really doing great in helping people understand what is expected of them as Muslims.....but, i have been asking questions which i am not able get clear response from those channels i ever posted it to....One of the question is, is it permissible in Islam to talk a woman interested in you before she invites you to any other place....??

May Allah swt bless you sisters and preserve and protect you all!!! Ameen, its nice to see confident Muslim sisters who are trying to teach the correct wa.

Very informative May Allah reward you but the example with your own husband wasn’t that much necessary It’s clear husbands and wives private moments should be kept between them even our prophet Mohammad pbuh talked about it. It was just a reminder if I happened to hurt someone I’m sorry BarakAllahu feeki

May Allah swt reward you sisters! truly amazing content. I myself experienced life with a stepmother and unfortunately I experienced many issues due to my fathers wife coming from back home (different culture) and her rushing to disciple me and my brother when we were 11 and 12 years old. Now 3 more siblings later (half brothers and sister) I notice how she is more forgiving towards their mistakes which upset me but its in the past.

Baraka Allahu fik yaa my sister in Islam... ❤ You save my marriage walahi... I will list this video everytime any thoughts come to my mind if i ever think about divorce my husband, astafiruAllah... May Allah forgive me for even think about it... My husband is a wonderful man... But yet my eyes is always on the his defects astafiruAllah ...

So, there's only an imbalance between the numbers of men and women after age 60. Doesn't this mean Muslim men should be marrying widows over 60, not virgins??? Otherwise its obviously unfair to women, but also to other men who are left without wives. Apart from the top 0.1pc, why would anyone be a second?

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I believe it’s a good idea polygamy, if I can tame my jealousy, if only I can tame that emotion, i would consider it. I would need to consider it i won’t have a choice to be honest. But it’s so important for the husband to be fair with his time and his love, he needs to be equal and the problems will start if he isn’t.

What about a long 22 years of toxic relationship? Where both husband & wife are wronging each other? Is divorced an option because they are doing haram to each other and disobeying Allah. Is divorce an obligation on them even with children?? Thanks ❤

Are you a man or woman? Who told you to cover your face?

Reason why mainstream ppl don't want sisters to serve husbands is due to coIo-knee mentality to keep imbalance and keep forren brothers down.

Parents who don't teach their kids Islam about relationships are eviI and sin, and will have to answer to Allah. Aisha had i/c at 9, so all kids should know about i/c around 9 or 10 for boys, which is a sadaqa in nikah, not act like preists that i/c is eviI.

Why are you trying to force woman into polygamy? Do you know HIV AIDS and Heroes is real?

Very informative Thank you! Baba Ali how many red bulls did you have before recording mashAllah lol.

Ma Sha Allah, learnt alot. Jazaakallahkum kairan

EXCELLENT video, very informative none of that click bait stuff. May Allah swt bless your channel and reward you for such great content! AMEEN.

Sis I follow you but I can't understand some things. Can you please put Turkish subtitles? ☹️🥺

Jazakumullahkhaira. Fully insightful 🎉.

Asalamu3lakum and JazakAllahukayrun for the content and discussion. I would like to add with my humble opinion that many of these points make much sense however I think the more important issue here is first understanding what if the sisters are not satisfied with their husbands due to their exposure to pornogrophy and or the unrealistic idea of "romance" by watching these indecency shows that plant this idea that a man should do certin things to his wife that is quite the opposite to islamic sexual etiquettes. Please can you arrange this topic that many avoid. JazakAllahukayrun!!!

Alhamdullilah polygamy is a choice. It is not Fard. Allah (swt) is the most Merciful of those who show mercy. This fake mercy being extended to the second wife while willfully neglecting the first wife and her children is destructive. This is exactly opposite of what you are preaching. We are supposed to consider the needs of our sister in Islam while they neglect our needs. Polygamy should be practiced by will full participants, not forced down on someone.

Ma Sha Allah sis Na'ima, Allahuma Barik. As I prepare to marry, Allah has made me to watch this before subhanallah. May Allah preserve you for this ummah.

My sister Naima, in many countries I see abuses against Muslims and some Islamic governments on the issue of women’s rights, freedom, equality, etc. And trying to impose liberal Western values ​​on Islamic governments and peoples. Many non-Muslim women in comments from eastern countries such as Korea and Japan, because their media copy Western news, write comments on KZbin and thank God that they are not Muslims because the rights of Muslim women are oppressed, etc. I wonder why we do not see a universal novel, meaning that it is suitable for readers from all over the world, explains the difference between Islamic family law and Western laws, explains the preventive laws to protect Muslim women, and the laws of absolute freedom that caused crimes and attacks against women, in the form of a novel that is beloved by everyone, whether Muslim or non-Muslim women. There is a lot of bullying from non-Muslim women, such as telling women the freedom to do what they do and that they bear responsibility for their actions! Bullying that she has the right to wear what she wants in front of society, and society has no right to interfere with what she wears I wonder whether it is possible to see a women's novel that addresses all the problems and corrects the concepts that women of the world have, and that the concepts of freedom, equality, rights, duties, responsibilities, and parental care differ between Islamic culture and Western laws. Many Islamic governments began to change their laws and say that we now respect women’s laws in imitation of Western values, and in reality it had negative consequences. We must return Muslim women to Islamic values ​​and not to the laws of Muslim governments, which have become liberal

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💗💃 At the end of the day throughout your journey in this life, your learning and studying. The question becomes does the God/god you are serving approve your lifestyle?

Alhamdulillah.... May Allah bring happiness to all muslims family.... In the future I would like to get married who would like to lead herself abiding by the role of Islam... and I hope in shall I will get her very soon.. And she will be the best one for me from Allah... Dear brothers and sisters please pray for all the Muslims male or women so that everyone can get their favourite person... 🌹🙏🙏🙏

MAshallah.. is the married.. thats the one!! .-)

The ads are annoying😩 Awesome video sister