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So, that man being controlling, his wife had the right to betray his trust, sleeping with another man. Crazy

I don’t have 1-3 yrs I have 4 months

So in your example around 37 minutes, how do you accept your spouse if she won't listen to your complaint of taking too many trips and just want to keep going with the status quo? You would feel unheard and not cared for. How do you accept that person?

I feel like I'm a 8 or 9 on calmness. That's not to say I didn't panic and a absolutely feel all the things -especially because how she left was pretty cold, but I didn't do or say anything stupid yet. In the past one of her issues was that I wasn't emotional enough. I feel like maybe she wants me to freak out and chase her down as a display of her worth. Can regulating myself emotionally this much be a bad thing?

I appreciate the openness on the Spiritual aspect! I also believe that The Spiritual aspect is crucial important . Or fundamental for our foundation.. Jesus was the second Adam miraculous created from the breath of God speaking life into existence to redeem us from the sins of the First Adam.. I feel like Our Spiritual journey can easily be tainted with lack of exposure to all the truth mixed with surrounding ourselves with people lacking biblical faith.. Not staggering at the promises of God. But seeing or hearing the Spiritual truth revealed in scripture 1st . Like before us as mankind began introducing our alternative suggestions… Example of Baptism for example is part of the Spiritual journey. Every experience of baptism in the Bible was specific to the Pattern of 1 God. All that you do in word or deed to all in the name of Jesus.. Peter was given the keys to the kingdom by Jesus.. Being told by Jesus that this knowledge was Divinely revealed. Acts 2:38 was the first message of Peter describing Jesus message. The Apostles were obviously supporting the same message without controversy or confusion. Repent be baptized in Jesus name and ye shall receive the gift of the Holy Ghost… Our situation can be different if we allow ourselves to drift away from the basic principles or fundamentals that the apostles taught. Into a newer alternative context or message that the nice Nicean Creed interpreted differently oor introduced in 325 Ad an alternative doctrine.. I want to real deal not another group of political whatever..

I enjoy this attorney so much … in a world with so much stress and hustle and bustle - I really am learning from this very blessed man. “Thank you sir”😊

You both are incredible bb thank you for your humble, openhearted service nsight

Chandra is most certainly inspirational!

Good stuff and so applicable to people in our situation. Pray for it, believe it and Trust God

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I thank God every day for this channel. May God continue to bless the team for us. You guys are awesome. Following from Ghana. West Africa

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I can especially appreciate your insight at this time in my life. The essence of knowing nothing is forever while we can live our lives unaware of what is right in front of us and who we are in the eyes of others. Looking back this may have been the missing 'awareness ingredient' in the early and formative years of our marriage and young family. Twenty years later resentments have been formed and embedded in 2 of our 3 adult children who aren't interested in hearing about how we as parents did what we thought at the time was for their best. Simply not knowing any differently than how we thought at the time. Our family is intact yet painfully fragmented while seeming pointless. I've also learned that what I think doesn't matter to them. Not a good sign.

Great video, A month ago, my five-year relationship came to an end. I really can't stop thinking about the love of my life, who made the decision to leave me. I've done everything in my power to win him back, but it's all in vain, and I can't imagine my life with anyone else. I genuinely miss him and just can't stop thinking about him, even though I've tried my hardest to stop thinking about him. I'm not sure why I'm saying this here.

My husband needs down time also. I don't, ha ha! Well, not like him. We are all different.

Now that we know what Rob did for a living, we can understand how his mind works, there's a mission, go and take care of it. So brave and intelligent. Thank you for your service Rob.

This skill is crucial with today’s news being very much fake. Thanks for sharing!

If people believed all the research that ever existed then we wouldn't eat or drink anything, including water from the earth.

Great primer video on research, thank you! As one of my professors would continually say, "be a responsible consumer of the information you take in". Google Scholar is a good resource, I would advocate as well to join your local library (as they will often have access to other research engines for full articles) and if you are an alumni, they often will grant you limited access as well to their research websites. When I see or hear "the research shows/says" I take caution of everything that follows. Thank you again and best of luck in completing your dissertation!

Excellent message. It can definitely help to check the scholarly articles for yourself, because media reports may underrepresent or misrepresent the results. I've found that if a study that I'm interested in is behind a paywall, I can try one of the following tactics: • Check if the journal is available through my public library membership. [This seems to work about 10% of the time.] • Check the academic or research institution website where the researchers work. (A lot of organizations like you toot their own horn. This information will likely just be the basic findings, not the full paper.) • Find scholarly articles or studies which cite the study, and which ARE publicly available. Then read what those articles say the study says. [This works much more often, but tends to reveal limited findings from the study that I was interested in.] - This is also a great way to look for more information and more research papers on the research topic. I've also heard a recommendation for another way to get a copy of the study so that you can read it: Contact one of the researchers who conducted the study. It's their work, so they can very often share at least something about it freely.

Amazing Duo, you two!!

10:32 pm My husband won’t put me first. I’ve been married 34 yrs . I feel so defeated . It’s all about him . He flips what I say around throws things in my face won’t accept any ownership for his part . Won’t communicate without a fight . He doesn’t listen to me begging him to show me any affection or make me a priority . I feel I’ve reached the end of trying in a one sided marriage . I’m obviously going about it all wrong . Trying to get him to understand what I’m saying and feeling . Please help

Takes two to align . However a chronic liar and closet drunk who never contributes’ she hasn’t given me any reciprocation. I’m a university professor and three plus decades of being a psychologist. If your partner is a chronic liar and hid money . Does not work for twenty years. No trust no relationship. She’s gone

OK, u are talking sh*t, at the end of the day, u are a business, and u need people, not to separate or divorce e but come to u instead,....Avoid

This was so good. A lot of wisdom and insight raped up in 1 Thank you for sharing

I really need help please 🙏

☝🏼 regret first moves... was absolutely unaware of the underlying issue... what a fool.... the thing with videos like these rich in content, is that they're automatically outdated basically .. this type videos should be required watching before a marriage license is even issued.... we were required to have three separate counseling sessions with our church pastor... I couldn't even tell you anything that they were about...

I love all Jefferson's advice, he should write the book:)

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I’m struggling my wife left yesterday 😢please pray for me

Thank you both for this pod cast

Hear human voices AMEN that Sir.

Really need to have a job and an income and I'm trying to better myself and better my life and I really need to be able to earn money to support myself and see myself being better and living better I'm trying but I'm having problems with my cell phones for years. I've been asking for help and only one friend would help me. So far. I was so happy feeling like I was moving forward and seeing myself be a better person working towards my goals.

I need advise I had to go to a friend to get help with my phone not working properly and with getting an app on my phone that would help me earn an income and it went well and said in my Gmail on October 10th and than I got a Gmail from the job app telling me that my background check came back with a driving while suspended and also with multiple lawsuits against me in my background check. Mr. Jefferson Fisher. I've been watching your videos in your car about communication tools and techniques and I really appreciate your videos and advice with that. Thank you for all of your work and for helping people. Could you please help me. P.S. I have been feeling targeted and harassed and frustrated with my cell phone, I've explained what's going on to my boyfriend and he won't even look at me while I've explained the kinds of troubles I've been having with my phone working properly and he won't even look at it and just says there's nothing wrong with my phone. He once took one of his phones to our shopping mall and paid a technician to fix his phone and I asked him to please help me get my phone fixed and he just says there's nothing wrong with my phone.

excelent questions, Kimberly!

We should perform FROM identity (in Christ) not FOR identity.

Jeez I wish I had parents like this guy. His kids are so fortunate. I still have problems communicating at age 58. What a guy 💙

What if infidelity was involved?

Very helpful and meaningful conversation

That was an amazing episode, thank you both ❤

Well, it gets easier when she has rejected all physical intimacy for almost 9 years and still won't honestly seek help or address it. WHY should I spend more time investing in someone who has made it clear they do not want me, desire me or even want to kiss me? The more time I spend just reinforces how broken the foundation of our relationship is, while she is happy to have all the reinforcement so she isn't lonely (cell phone always in hand, even when next to each other) - She doesn't want me, she just wants me around.

Thank you, wouldn't work for me, intentional time is impossible, too long to explain why here but probably posted about it before in a comment.

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How does one get clarity when he won't really tell me? I admit we had problems but many of our issues usually started by his anger. He's a retired veteran of 22 yrs. with a lot of emotional military baggage. I tried really hard to be supporting and one day was blindsided by him and his therapist saying he wants a divorce. If I keep trying my pies but don't have clarification as to what is truly bothering him how can I save our marriage? We are 4-5 months away from our marriage of 17 yrs ending with divorce finalized early next year. As it is I work hard for me and my kids who are struggling with this to change but he makes it difficult and sometimes I feel he knows how to push my buttons to get me emotional, get me to react in a negative way and then turn around to put blame on me.

This dude is solid gold. Thank you for interviewing him.