My son was born in august. He’s Down syndrome. I’ve mourned it here and there. The way I see it is him and I are on the same side. When I mourn because I’ve “discovered” a new aspect of our new life I’m discovering it with him. His battles are my battles his fight is my fight. Me experiencing it isn’t me rejecting him just like if we were in a journey experiencing difficulties we’d do it together even if the situation was stressful or hard It’s new but I’m his loyal friend and advocate now and always ❤