At least you have the confidence to make this video unlike me I'm never going to be able to what you do

Im 33 and i still deal with this but it gets better as u grow older

Sitting with a group at those circular tables. Oof

My best friend has social anxiety, so here I am! (Edit: after watching the video, as someone with phasmophobia and mild seperation anxiety, I always ask my friend to come with me to places and I hate to go alone. Is that good or bad?)

Are taking medication for your anxiety

Im going into 7th and still have no friends cuz i cant just walk up to anyone

i appreciate your effort, but this video is giving "if youre anxious just stop being anxious" and i felt like there were no real tips to manage anxiety, just what to do at a new job. Well I knew what to do, the problem is just, how do i do it

I'm so intimidated by men as well thought I was the only one 😭😭😭 also same I hate orals and interviews the worst part same with call answering and having to prepare for answers and questions and what I have to do for the job like even if im gonna be helped I need to know before exactly everything I need to do, how etc or else I feel soooo stressed and bad

Reading these comments made me feel a little better, since I haven’t had a job in a year. I’ve worked at two places, the latter being the reason I was so scared to apply again because my boss at my last job followed me and would take my stuff, and ask inappropriate personal questions. I have applied to places since, but they either never reach out for an interview, or they hire me but never officiate it. Two places I was excited to work at because I was promised to be by myself mostly, but everytime I checked in with them about what I should do or the process in general, they kept saying “oh I forgot,” or “yes I will do that eventually.” I called those places for about a few weeks until I realized there was just nothing going to happen. It really hurt because I was excited to have an income again, and it was out of my control. I kept up with it, called them, asked around. I was just tired of playing a waiting game. Now me and my bf have moved and the closest place to work is probably 10 min away. I haven’t driven in a long time either, so the thought of applying and then having to drive after months of not doing it.. I just really want to get out of this anxiety. I was better before, but ever since my last job, it just really messed with me. I know I have to though, even though my bf can handle paying for both of us, I know it stresses him out and he’s doing it because he really wants me to be happy. I would be happier being able to help, it’s just that one step that’s hard to take.. I will try though, and I’ll update

Social anxiety ruined my life,its horrible disease,its so hard to live with it,its so hard to find job,i went to few interviews and tried to work few works,it was disaster completely disaster and embarrasment,tried working as waitress i was slow,shaking,tripped and fall,forgot orders,when sipping drinks in small glasses made a mistake sipped to much,forgot to take money,everything was horrible,didnt even last a one full day,manager was yelling i went home crying,same thing in other bar happened lasted one day,too crowdly,i froze when see a lot of people,cant speak,shake,my face turn red,my heart pumping fast,i left college cause few classes you need to talk in front of everyone i couldnt do that,i will never find a job..my mother clean houses so i go sometimes with her to help and get a little bit of money and sometimes babysitting neigbours kids,and thats all for now,and now im looking for some online job.Anyway its a horrible disease and no one understands,i went to doctors,took meds,nothing helped me.Hate myself,my parents dont understand this,im very depressed,feel like i am huge dissapointment to my parents,cant even find a guy to start a family,and i have a older sister,she s completely normal,comunicative,she has a job,husbans,kid,great life while i suffer and im cursed with this horrible disease,no one understand,i cant take a normal walk,if i am passing by two or more people i started shaking being weird,face red,thinking theY must ve been staring at me,feel like everyone staring at me and laughing at me and talking how weird or ugly or something bad about me...if anyone knows some online job please let me know❤

Avoidance is not the solution. Therapy therapy therapy

I went to an interview at a big company and I had worked in another branch so I knew exactly how to do ace the interview and do the job. My dad drove me and I threw up twice walking across the parking lot.

My social anxiety is not as evident with strangers, but for people who know how I act and know that I’m a quiet girl I feel high social anxiety with. Because they know I’m quiet and unsocable, and it would be weird to be more like myself and change. It’s just like the really chatty girl suddenly being quiet. It’s just weird to change all of a sudden. So I still isolate myself, and my SA isn’t gone at all

I’m in my 30s and just got ready for huge interview based on 1) preparing 2) thinking about how relieved I was gonna be afterward. I got it, too! 🎉

I'm 24 and i have severe social anxiety. I work online part time. I want to do something in academics probably be a teacher as a history graduate. But I'm really scared. Im trying to gather courage also working on my fitness.

Our enemies are the overthinking especialy when we are alone. And to cope with that try to make a to do list everyday so we know what should we do bc i usualy forgetful especialy when my anxiety came and do gratitude by pray everytime especialy when we wake up in the morning so we can start our day with positifty bc in my case i usualy wakeup feeling stress and pessimistic. At first try, i being pessimist thinking by that thos is not gonna work bc you i should fix my anxiety in a propper way by go to doctor but when i watch this i remember that we need many times and days to change our habbit, we can't do it for instant.

Dont agree with you when you said, if you're not super friendly, they'll judge you. Well, isn't that what social anxiety is?

This comment section is so relatable

You are my big inspiration, I admire you!

Im a residential builder who deals with client meetings and inspectors everyday. It is mentally draining.

Allah gave us this life to worship him, this is the truth Allah says in the Quran (56) And I did not create the jinn and mankind except to worship Me.

Thank you so much for sharing from your heart. You have helped me understand social anxiety in a very meaningful way.

God bless this girl

Same from India girl 😭

Scary how relatable this is. Still the fact you made a video is amazing because with my social anxiety talking on camera would be sooo hard lol.

why this anoying music in the background?

Yah baby

Hey, you are very beautiful and you make no time a weird face. I feel you.

Them braids look you cute huh?

Bro, i worked as a barista. Its so hard and they fired me for “not knowing what im doing”. It was my third day and they seemed frustrated with my questions. Not to mention in my trained they told me to do whatever and they will watch? LIKE CAN I GET HELP OR?

Lottery tickets and gambling is 18 yrs old here in Minnesota, U.S.A

Absolutely so many of your viewers agree that working far away from where your house is helps

The actual POS machine is very easy you want them to understand that it's actually interacting with. And there's a 70% chance they're going to return something or ask some oddball unpredicted questions. And remember they literally are squared off. It would be very different if you were sitting by their side and they weren't staring

God I need help so bad... family is telling me I should get a job but I’m so scared of applying

Please be gentle with yourself. Even the fact you went out and did it and went beyond the fear was a huge accomplishment. I'm sitting here 34 years old, having major anxiety going to my first real full time job since becoming a mom (I have been a SAHM and running a small at home online business) I haven't worked around people full time in about 11 years. I'm on day 3 today and while at work I feel pretty relaxed the anticipation anxiety is SO real. I work for the school district with special needs kids. There's so much going on at all times and I don't feel helpful at all yet, it's extremely intimidating because the 3 other paras all just jump into action knowing exactly what needs to be done and I often am lost. I can't relax when I'm not at work because I know the time is moving quickly and before you know it it will be a new day. The struggle is so real!!

Okay, enlighten me, because I’m confused. So I live in Connecticut in the States, and I am questioning if you stole the Walmart basket because here we grab those in the store and they’re like mini shopping carts (buggy) that carry and we can’t take them. So my question is, can you purchase those baskets and use them in place if a bag or something? Because that’s not a thing here

Throughout my life I've walked out on jobs because of anxiety or I was let go because I made so many mistakes because I was too scared to ask for help. Even at the temp job I'm at now it's a struggle. My ideal role is remote or where I'm doing something simple, routine and with hardly any people.

I’m 27. My name is Louis and I’m from England. I want to say without you thinking I’m being mean that you should really start to work on yourself in this respect.

I work at a car dealership and it actually FORCED the social anxiety/introversion out of me. Trust me when you’re given no choice… you get over it😭

Shy isn’t social anxiety I have it and have since I was a kid. I hated being called shy.

I just accidentally found this channel while looking for interviews for an author by the same name. I just wanted to stop in and say I hope you're doing well and I'm glad you hung in there. Keep rocking 👌

Thankyou

it's like you're describing me

You are doing amazing, not is wrong with you. Everyone has this in some level

tell curtis to stop fucking up shit

I just stumbled upon your channel after searching up tips for interview social anxiety and I really like your videos!! I think I can relate to how you were feeling moving back in with your parents I'm at a bit of a crossroads with getting fired from my job but just trying to let go more and not let my past hold me back from things I enjoy, one day at a time I guess :) Wishing you abundance and love in all aspects of your life <3 <3

On behalf of your bird......I'd like to tell you I think it's safe to say... they think you are very attractive tehehe ♡♡♡♡♡

Your bird going : _whew_ _whew_ my heart broke from cuteness overload .