Home girl that said delete them people from your social media is so right. I had a friend like that. Drama filled. Had a restraining order on the chick, and would not blick her from her social media page nor make her page private. "I want her to see my happy little life!" Then when the chick found out where she'd moved to and started stalking the kids.....you did this.

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Go and watch 'first dates' together (i know this is a program in at least the uk, belgium and holland). When you watch and talk about it and you are not more happy your with your partner, things are going wrong.

This video hit home for me as I am 46 and lost my partner last year. I have come to realize I will be alone for the rest of my life. I am a part of the LGBT community, and the dating poor is very small. It's a sad place to be and realize that this is my new reality.

Good calls. Some excellent points on here!!!

go 50 50 on every date and you will know who are the honest good loving ladies and who are the users. happy for over 10 years now with the love of my life.

Normalizing the mockery of god is good. That fuck gave my dog cancer

When I was young, I was having a really hard time in my situation and my grandma knew it. She couldn't do a lot for me because my problems was something she could not physically fix, but she said something that planted a seed that led to my own healing. It was so simple and it changed everything. She said "this is just a moment in time and this too will pass".

They so happy they cry in their pillow at night

In Japan tipping is considered an insult to the worker so no one tips ever. I wonder what would happen if North America adopted this.

Tipping in America is a way to take the pressure off of the company to provide a livable wage. It increases the profitability of the company and puts money into the back accounts of the one percent who own the company.

I hate tipping, it never used to exist in Europe. The places I worked where they had a tip were often really bad. Rather than tipping me for work or for my service, I would divide the tip with my fellow wait staff and kitchen staff, which I wouldn’t mind but there are always a few colleagues that don’t help or pull their weight so it was galling to see 5, 10 or 20 divided out to them. Then the manager AND THE OWNER at one place I work started taking a percentage. So I started refusing them

Why just pay them a decent wager. So tipping is voluntarly always.

I can confidently say I am cheap, I don't tip ever. I am immune to social pressure in that way. Part of it is probably because I have worked several service jobs that never got tips. People tip the delivery driver, not the people who make the food or collect the stuff for online orders. So I have been those poor under paid employee's and tips are honestly the problem. Companies get away with paying their employee's almost nothing, in some states they can be paid below minimum wage just because of "expected tips". Some restaurants get away with paying servers like $4 an hour when the minimum wage is like 15 because of tips. So that lady saying you hurt workers by not giving tips while true is also enabling bad business practices by giving out tips. People would pick other jobs if the tips stopped flowing. That said you gotta be careful, lot of places try and be sneaky and automatically add the tip into the bill by default and you have to select no tip to not give them one.

12:07 "It's not gonna be $18 it's gonna be $25" If you think I'm paying you a 38% tip you can get effed

Whats a tipping culture? Haha. I dont go to places that required.

To Insure Promt Service. Difference between actual tipped employee in US (when service is needed ie restaurants) and in Europe is overall pay. I agree tipping someone to hand u a bottle of water is ridiculous, but as a server/bartender for 25+ years, I will let u know that, for the most part, we do not have retirement, health benefits, paid time off, or any benefits a normal job would need to offer. We supplement those things with our tips. The better u are, the more you make. The extra money on our paychecks does not cover the essential benefits needed for a sustainable job. Has anyone noticed customer service decline since minimum wage has increased and tips are now expected to be included in your service bill? I have. Fun fact, we don’t get any benefit from the increase on your bill in the guise of claiming it goes to our pay, the employers do. Going from $1000/ week to $500-750/ week and being taxed on top of that makes for a weaker work force. The great staff in the industry will dwindle if we continue to be blamed for corporate greed making the rich richer and leaving the ones who help build the brands as the entitled stepchild of the family. This climate will discourage any Semblance of great customer service unless the companies pay much more than minimum wage they cling to. (Aside from the small owners who are crushed by the increase min wage and seem to be closing in every small town). I prefer making $2.13/hour and relying on great customer service to encourage my growth and prosperity in the field love btw. Have a great day.

Tip is voluntary! Just dont tip if you dont want to. And there is no reason to feel guilty! About someone basicaly begging for money!

I never got why people base tips of % of what was paid....its bad system..you dont pay 50% of a 10 dollars...you tip 5$

Idk how america has a legal mandated minimum wage but everyone there agreed "but if you get tips you have no minimum pay cuz you get tips"....no other country does that...because youd still be taking out the tips from your workers just thru pay

The whole tipping culture is a great excuse for employers to pay low wages to their employees To put it simply, it is simply cheating on employers and taking money out of customers' pockets. This should end completely

If someone asks for a tip up front, then I am leaving and buying elsewhere.

If I have to stand while ordering my meal, no tip. If I need to go get my food and drink, no tip. You only tip if are being waited on, standing at a cash register and waiting in line to receive food while others you don't know wait next to you are non tip-able situations. Edit: the server/waiter should be making LESS then minimum wage, which is why tipping exists. EDIT2: People who have massive amounts of wealth tip THEIR servers for good (amazing) service because they can. Tipping was invented for workers who are making less then minimum wage.

Waiters and waitresses do not want to get minimum wage assurance. They want tips. They voted against tips being removed in lieu of being eligible for federal minimum wage. Don't believe service industry people when they say they are sympathetic to non-service industry people. They are just greedy.

Well folks, that's on you. All i hear is a false/misguided sense of pride/flex aka " i am a good tipper" "i tip really well" and bla bla and bla, well now maybe if you were not, situation would not have been has bad and every schmuck and their mother would not fill entitled to your money. You want to show off that you have money, that you live the dream( american dream), that you made it or are above other, that you won the rat race. Be my guest but don't complain when everybody will try to rip you a new one. Here in France we don't like people who show off their money or success for this very reason because maybe next door people live a miserable life and you should not throw your lavish lifestyle in their face .. Ya know we are catholic around here, we don't claim to be loved by god the moment we have some weight in our pocket. In sum you reap what you sow. And don't get me started on thinking that it is normal to be paid 45cents/hour. I think America is culturally bankrupt. "Humility is a hallmark trait of Christian leadership. Another way Jesus demonstrated servant leadership was through his compassion for others. He showed care and concern for those sick, oppressed, or rejected by society." If America think herself as a christian nation then sadly her people missed the plot entirely.

Tipping simply shouldn't exist. It is the employer that ahould pay their staff. Americans who defend tipping are fools and people who rely on tips should get a job where your employer actually pays you. When tipping is mandantory its not a tip. Its a service charge.

Americans and just greed tips are stupidity

I hate the tipping culture in america. How business owners managaged to convince their workers that its not down to them (their employer) to pay their wages but its down to the customers is beyond me. Add to that the differing state taxes that are not included in the prices on menu's and it just makes eating out an unpleasant experience. Service staff spend about 5 minutes giving me service, taking my order and fetching my drinks or plates (which usually someone else has done the work on). So, if I am their employer, at $20 per hour, above minimum wage, I owe them about $1.60 for the time they spent working for me, regardless of how big my bill is. 🙅‍♂

*NO ONE TIPPED ME WHEN I WAS A CASHIER AT CVS SO NO ONE'S GETTIN A PENNY OUT OF ME*

You want a tip, give me the level of service that you want your tip to be.

Starbucks used to never have a tip Option and even they got in on iy

What the hell!!!! I got you tube to play Frozen songs for my 4 year old, and this was obviously in the queue. How disgusting to mixed videos like this with videos for young children!!!!😢😢😢

Give it 30 days, when his young self ain't got nothing on her bills lol. Thats reservoir will dry right on back up.

Younger guys still share their vulnerabilities because they haven’t yet been burned. They’ll learn what females do with that kind of weapon. By the time they’re middle aged they’ll have learned never to share anything that can be weaponized with a woman.

Locally it's called "Grab a Granny" Good for an 'empty'. Definitely not long term.

For young dudes, an old hole is better than no hole.

I'm 61 and the women my age are boring and week ,the sun even bothers them they can't roller skate their pussy stinks ,it hurts their back to pick their legs up,they have kids a grand kids begging and living off of them,their broke,and a bit crazy and very lazy .the can't run ,and full of sequel diseases.

Its not emotional intelligence. Its the ability to control your emotions. Why do these women come up with the most obvious coping terms to expose their lack of accountability or to upsale their lack of personality?

Dating? You mean older women being used as practice by younger men?

I like how they say “dating” when the young bucks just use it for experience and to have a secure booty call. At least thats what I remember when i was younger few years ago

Young men are just dying to be with menopausal women now. Youth, beauty, and having a family are so 2023.

Yeah a lot of females getting busted having relationships with minors

Younger men are not interested in older women, they're interested in sex with older women.

Younger men dating older women & younger women dating older men are same.. One is for se x & the other is for money

Be careful of younger men who date older women. He’s typically looking at you as low effort low hanging fruit/easy lay. Men are naturally visual and if he can overwrite his instincts for youth and beauty, it’s Typically because he is incapable of dating his age or younger. As soon as he gets the ability to do that he’d move on or string you along for the occasional slow Tuesday. You could still have your fun though, just have that at the back of your mind.

most young men that date older women are getting ready to give up on dating altogether. I was 26 dated a 54 yo woman, I am 45 now and have not dated since.

what's more concerning is older women dating and sleeping with young women!

Younger men are just after sex,and a woman to get money from,your easy to get,easy to have sex with and desperate.they know it and are using you.not that im saying do not do it.just be aware thats there is no future in it.dont be delusional like those retired men in 3rd world countries that believe the young women actually love them.its a means to an end.that said enjoy it for what it is and good luck.

You have no options when you hit the wall as a woman.

why to pay 150$ for a young prostitute when you can have free meals, sugar mommy allowances, rent free homes, presents all for a lousy sex?