11 years later and I've returned to this. My God, this guy was/is my forever crush. I hope he is doing well and happy.

Thanks for being so open. Many can relate. This video was 6 years ago? Hope you are doing well today! My faith (Christian) has provided an anchor in life.

honestly i didn’t start developing feelings until he started to get so touchy with me when we’re under the influence and we’re always cuddling while drunk. idk if he’s straight or not cuz where im from everyone has to appear as “str8” since it’s illegal and everyone who’s bi/gay are DL. it’s so confusing i need to move on

This is probably the most honest, straightforward and sincere opinion about crushes on straight guys. Most of them will lead you nowhere and, at most, maybe to sex, sometimes just occasional gay on straight blowjobs and nothing else (which would be enough for me anyways). I didn’t expect this from such a short clip from a very young guy. Congratulations.

Have a friend who is straight & have a crush on. I won’t even bother to tell him bc I know I’ll lose him. It’s best that way. I tried to “build a case” and I just told myself one day… no. I accepted nothing was going to happen and that’s that. Completely agree with you. I don’t want to lose this friend.

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Timeless problem with every each of gays..

I'm a 50 year old married gay man (married to another guy) but I've had a crush on a co-worker for about a year now. He's friends with me and my partner and things he's said to me made me wonder if he was a little bi-curious. But he recently realized his drinking was a problem and went into detox for 6 days. Part of his drinking was due to his wife being very "cold" as he put it. He's confided in me because I'm more emotionally sympathetic than my 60 year old partner. This guy is 42 and his wife is 37 and they have 3 young kids. Well after his detox he found out that his wife went out drinking one night and left their 3 kids home by themselves overnight! The kids are 11, 8 and 6. So he ended up drinking a couple beers and then confronted his wife about leaving the kids by themselves overnight. She flew into a rage and attacked him. He held her back but she managed to bite him and bruise him pretty badly. And she got bruises on her wrists from him holding her back. Their 11 year old son started hitting his dad so he raised his fist but would never hit him. He just told him to back off. But the wife called the police and he was cuffed and put in jail for the night. Then he walked to a friends house and spent the weekend there. Then me and my partner offered to let him stay with us. So he's been here since March 20th and the police put a restraining order on him so he can't see his wife or oldest son. But he can still Face Time with his two younger kids. Me and this co-worker have also been working out for the last couple months. So unlike most straight crushes my straight crush is a friend and now he's living in our house. One day on the way home from the gym I told him I kinda suspected he might be bi-curious but he said he isn't. And then he joked that I was probably gonna kick him out because he isn't what I wanted him to be. I just said "Nah." But it's a daily struggle because I'm giving him all my support while he and his wife have decided to separate. He's very angry and is already calling her his "ex-wife." His first week here was very hard because he kept wanting me to check and see if she was on Facebook and stressing about why she was on it so much. So then he downloaded a couple dating apps and has been chatting with a few women. And he even went out on a date with one on Saturday. But he said he just wanted to go out and have some fun. She had to pick him up though because his wife has the car. But on his date he just went out to eat and then bowling. The night didn't last as long as he thought it would. But again he said he doesn't want to jump into a relationship after 5 years of marriage and knowing his now ex-wife for 17 years. But I don't think he realizes how hard it is to deal with when he's showing me women he's chatting with and asking my opinion. I've been telling him that my relationship with my partner is pretty cold too and I wouldn't mind hugs from him now and then. And he does give me the occasional hug and I offer him a hug when he seems to be having a hard day. Like today he found out his wife won't let him see the two younger kids even though they are not part of the restraining order. But MAN this is a daily struggle. Part of me wants to tell him how much I struggle but then it would be so awkward with him continuing to live here. And I'm afraid it would affect our friendship and doing stuff like going to the gym together. And He's a tall (6' 4" dirty blond hair and blue eyed guy) and I'm a very short 5' 4" brown hair and brown eyed guy who is stocky but very built too. He likes to bragg to people how I can lift a lot more weight than him at the gym and he will grab my bicep and tell me to flex for people. And of course I love the attention from him. And of course a part of my mind wants to say that maybe he has a tiny attraction to me. But then I snap back to reality and know that nothing will probably ever happen. I even told him during that conversation on the way home from the gym that my fantasies mainly just involve me giving him pleasure and not having him do anything to me. I said "Like just put on some straight porn and maybe jerk you off." He just said "Oh geeze." If I was single I don't think he would find my attraction as awkward but knowing I am legally married to my partner does make it strange for him. He even thinks it's weird that I check out guys on the Grindr and Scruff apps. Ugh! This is SO rough and depressing at times.

The truth hurts. A lot. Thanks for this (albeit years ago). Still applies and is a timeless challenge.

I'm a 50 year old guy going through this with my 42 year old co-worker. What's worse is that he's married with 3 kids and I'm married to another guy and we all work in the same factory. We even give this guy rides home each night. But this guy has given me some pretty strong signals. We once took him and his two younger kids to a fair while his wife was out of town. At the fair they had a small indoor reptile exhibit. One of the guys showing the reptiles was Black with blue eyes and his voice and mannerisms were such that I was 99% positive he was gay. Well, a week or two later this co-worker friend stopped by my station and we started talking. We were talking about how gay men can find some women to be pretty and he said the same of straight people towards the same sex. Then he said "Remember that guy at the reptile exhibit? If I were gay, that's the type of guy I'd like." To me, that was a big sign right there. But then he followed that with "Even my wife thinks I'm part of that 5 or 10% of men." So that's when I really began to wonder. He's also done and said some very flirty things with me at work. And he even told me about how he went to a sex shop and bought a dildo. He said his wife was too embarrassed to go inside though. But that just seems like something a totally straight guy would never share with another guy (gay or straight). He's tall and I'm short and one day I asked if I could borrow him for a minute to reach something at my work station. As we were on our way to my work station he said "You can borrow me anytime!" There's just so many signs here that most straight men would never say. And he sometimes goes out for drinks on Friday evening late at night. He told me I could meet him sometime. So I am very curious to see how that first time drinking together will go. Of course I will NOT be making any moves on him. I'm just more curious to see if he will reveal anymore signs once he's had a few drinks. I do honestly think he has a slight bi-curiosity to him. There's a great KZbin video about the "Secret to getting straight guys" by Patrick Marano. He says that it will usually be a guy that you know and have a bromance with. And I've known this co-worker for about a year now and there is a bit of a bromance going on. I will bring him food that I've made and he does the same for me. And about 6 months ago he moved to a different station at our factory and promised me and my partner that he wouldn't become a snob or assimilate to the better-than-everyone-else mentality that the guys in that area have. And he's stayed true to that promise. It's made one of the guys actually very crabby and it's almost to the point where our co-worker friend is ready to file harassment charges with HR against this guy. And he has confided in me even more than my partner. So unlike a lot of people here, I think my situation is pretty unique where the guy may actually be bi-curious. Some of the things he's said are just too out of the ordinary for someone who would be 100% straight.

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I don't know how I missed this video.. but I'm proud to be gay

So. . . dead channel?

given the age of the video I don't expect a reply. I hope life finds you well. your videos just appeared on my timeline. there is no justification for catfishing but thank you for being honest about attractiveness. because a lot of these KZbin videos stories and with something to the effect of he didn't have to catch fish in the first place I would have gone out with him. ninety percent of the time we know that's not true. I'm at the bottom of the barrel as far as looks and dating prospects are concerned in the gay community although if I were straight I imagine I would have similar results. I'm self-aware enough to know what I look like. and I don't earn enough money to make up for the difference. I'm not putting myself down just being honest. and your honesty in this context was very refreshing thank you

#Proudtobe a gay man.

Your sincerity and earnest, successful effort to contend with and resolve some of the central, complex issues relating to human sexual orientation makes you such a hot, erotic guy to me!!

I'm going to a Christian private school soon for k-12 and as someone who is open with being trans- yes it's quite scary

Don’t procrastinate your coming out. The sooner you do, the happier the rest of your life will be. After the arrows stop flying you will feel free, happy and see life through better eyes . Start by being honest with your self..

As a bisexual with very masculine looks and mannerisms in High School, I had some serious feelings for several of my straight friends but I never acted on them. I sometimes wonder if any of them would have returned the feelings but were also very deep in the closet

I took worldviews senior year of highschool. I'm gay but I was in deep denial in high school. Christian school was traumatizing.

Today, that man who be cancelled and lose his job.

If gay parents are raising gay kids Then why are straight parents raising gay kids too

My Grandparents raised me and when I thought of coming out as Bi to them i was scared they would hate me but, they didn't, they accepted me and I was so happy so, Be yourself and don't let anyone say different. P.s. forgot, some people didn't accept me for me

The teacher it’s really confused, he should had said that the Bible defines marriage in Genesis 2:24 as a union between one man and one woman. Jesus Christ upholds this definition of marriage in Matthew 19:5, as does the Apostle Paul in Ephesians 5:31. Any and all sexual activity which takes place outside of this context is treated as sinful, what Jesus calls ‘sexual immorality’ in Mark 7:21. Further to this, same-sex practice is specifically highlighted as sinful a number of times in Scripture. In God’s Law, for example, condemnations of same-sex practice are given in Leviticus 18:22 and 20:13. Further references are made in the New Testament. For example, in Romans 1:24-32, amid echoes to the Genesis creation account, both male and female same-sex practice are treated as sinful. Further references to the sinfulness of same-sex practice can be seen in 1 Corinthians 6:9 and 1 Timothy 1:10. The Scriptures are, therefore, consistent in their prohibition of same-sex sexual activity, across different periods of salvation history and within different cultural settings. Although the Scriptures are clear on sexual ethics, they also tell us that the prospect of forgiveness and eternal life is held out for anyone who turns from sin and puts their faith in Christ (Mark 1:15), no matter how they may have fallen short of his good design for sex and marriage. That means we need Jesus in our hearts, we all do, we are all sinners. Sex before marriage it’s a sin, sex with animals it’s a sin, so we need to repent and ask Jesus to help us

If you're gay, go to another NON-RELIGIOUS private school. It's that simple.

All religious schools will shove their beliefs and religious dogmas down to your throat. Bruh why tf every activity is talking about God and why we should love him.

I went to Christian school, took worldviews senior year, and yeah, this isn't surprising to me. I grew up going to Christian high school knowing I was gay and I knew I had to hide it. We had a speaker talk about how the anus isn't meant for insertion as a reason not to be gay.