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@JunoOli-f1m Ай бұрын
thank u
@ForeverNewlywed Ай бұрын
No prob!
@alecsisdiollegna7544 Ай бұрын
Stage 3 ahhhhh! Been on this stage for 3 years now. It would be a miracle if we breakthrough this.
@ForeverNewlywed Ай бұрын
I hear ya!!! Even the stages have stages! Do you feel discouraged about how long that stage seems to be lasting?
@artistheart5272 Ай бұрын
All the bills are in my husband’s last name so how can I take something with my new last name in it when he insists on paying all the bills?
@JamesReinhold Ай бұрын
Use a bank statement or lease agreement
@ForeverNewlywed Ай бұрын
Agreed. Definitely valid options. Thanks for responding!
@ForeverNewlywed Ай бұрын
Firstly, I'm glad he insists on paying the bills lol 👏🏾 Are you guys working out of separate bank accounts? (Don't answer that here! But think about it) Would he consider putting certain bills in your name but still paying for those bills? For example, utilities? Cable? Also, switching any credit cards you already have to your new name should count. Anything specifically related to your career? For example, I'm an actress so all my business/brand documentation (including financially) is in my name. Gosh, I hope that helps! Also, check out some other comments here in the thread!
@kathleenmoyer2084 2 ай бұрын
My passport is valid through 2032. I just got divorced so what is the fee to change the passport please? And other than divorce decree, do i submit my birth certificate, and driver's license
@ForeverNewlywed Ай бұрын
Hi there! From my understanding, the process and fees will be the same, with the exception of sending an official copy of the divorce decree instead of the marriage certificate. No need to submit your birth certificate or driver's license.
@DixieDee 2 ай бұрын
So, am I to assume one doesn't have to go through the normal "name-change" process; like petitioning the court, etc.? Proof of marriage is automatic proof of name change?
@ForeverNewlywed Ай бұрын
Hi! So the "court order" step seems to vary by state. When I google it, the search results say that in my state I would need a court order to change my name. BUT I did my entire process without the court order, and that was most likely because I was changing my name after marriage, NOT just because I wanted to change it. And the marriage certificate is proof enough in this scenario.
@DixieDee Ай бұрын
@@ForeverNewlywed TY kindly. That makes sense.
@stickitmackattack94 2 ай бұрын
Oh my goodness, thank you so much! When you expedited your application did you write multiple checks or how did you go about making signifying that you wanted an expedited application?
@ForeverNewlywed 2 ай бұрын
Hey there! I actually didn't need my passport expedited. BUT it's really simple to do. On the application, you can note that you want the passport expedited. ALSO, write "EXPEDITE" on the outside of the mailing envelope. Keep in mind, there is a different PO Box address for expediting applications. Lastly, you will write one check, and that check will include the additional fee for expediting. If I'm not mistaken, it's an additional $60. Hope that helps!
@everythingeastbay8255 2 ай бұрын
Really helpful. Thank you. ❤
@ForeverNewlywed 2 ай бұрын
I'm so glad you found the video helpful! Thank you so much for taking the time to comment. I hope you are well!
@embracing_bold 3 ай бұрын
Great Tips….Ive been married 15 years 💕🙏🏽
@ForeverNewlywed 2 ай бұрын
Awww man!! That's beautiful. I'm sure you have a ton of tips 😃. Thank you so much for commenting. It means so much to me.
@MissShembre 3 ай бұрын
This is SO HELPFUL!!!
@ForeverNewlywed 2 ай бұрын
GREAT!! The name change process is still such an ordeal (understandably so), and I hope to help any way that I can! Thank you for posting a comment!
@miss_bhello7925 3 ай бұрын
Wow. Lol. That is a lot to do but thank you for this helpful information!
@ForeverNewlywed 2 ай бұрын
Haha! I know right! What an ordeal!! But I'm glad you still found it helpful. And hopefully not overwhelming. Thank you for taking the time to comment!
@fatimamukhtar2947 4 ай бұрын
being financially independent takes away the chance of putting unnecessary financial demand on the husband. So if my husband pays the electricity and water bill I dont mind getting myself the pie or ice cream that i want! ❤ from Nigeria 🇳🇬
@ForeverNewlywed 2 ай бұрын
Pro Tip! Thank you so much for sharing! My mom has always been a huge advocate for being financially independent despite being in a relationship. Or at least having a sure-fire way of being able to support yourself. It's def such an interesting topic because where the financial load lands can either put pressure on the relationship or, through communication, help build it. I appreciate you taking the time to share!
@Espiritosanto2894 4 ай бұрын
This was a beautiful prayer thank you.
@ForeverNewlywed 2 ай бұрын
Amen amen! I really have to get back to posting prayer videos. LOL please check on me if I haven't posted one by the end of September!
@andreaedmond9557 4 ай бұрын
Great info, my driver's license and ss card have already been changed to reflect my new last name. Do I submit the DS-82 or the DS-11? And do they still need the marriage certificate if my last name is already changed on my id?
@hannahcritchfield3754 4 ай бұрын
If I have already changed my name to my married name on my Driver's license and SS card, do I still only send in my marriage certificate as proof of change? Or do they need my new documentation as well?
@ForeverNewlywed 2 ай бұрын
Hey there! How's your process going? I would say yes! It may depend on your state, but as far as I know, just send what they are asking for. I only had to send in an official copy of my marriage certificate (as far as proof was concerned). And when they sent my new passport, I got it back.
@DcN1212 5 ай бұрын
Yes finally I tried emailing for information no help . You have helped me million thanks.
@ForeverNewlywed 5 ай бұрын
Wonderful!! So glad I could help make it easier for you. And thanks for taking the time to comment!
@kellylegrand2281 5 ай бұрын
sally few that girl
@siobhanhogan6670 5 ай бұрын
Im struggling with how to deal with my partners loss as parents. As partners, I can totally come to terms with how to support and be patient but as parents kids force life to keep going. My partner is isolating away from the family home and the demands of family life and work are making it so hard to stand by the patience and see a way through
@ForeverNewlywed 2 ай бұрын
Hey! Just wanted to check on you. How are things going since you last commented? Patience is certainly tested during loss, but as parents, keeping the communication going takes effort. And like you said, life keeps going, so we have to intentionally stop. Just stop and talk. Even if it's just for 5 or 10 minutes before rushing to the next thing. Isolation is such a dangerous space. It's lonely and we end up left with our own thoughts, which when we are grieving, can skew more negative. Counsel is a safe place. Seeking help, and talking things out (even when it is uncomfortable) is so helpful. Even if your partner feels like they are talking in circles. Words have a way of bringing life. But we have to be careful not to speak death to our hope. The children will observe how you both handle this period. If they are of age to understand, try not to exclude them from what is happening. They will understand if you and/or your partner explain that sometimes you're still sad, or angry, etc. But that every day you are working to heal from the loss.
@debbienunez2653 6 ай бұрын
So proud to have u as my daughter ❤️ love u
@ForeverNewlywed 6 ай бұрын
Hey Mama! Love you too. Thanks for always being so supportive!
@ahtzirilopez3655 7 ай бұрын
Do you sign the DS-82 form with your new name?
@ForeverNewlywed 4 ай бұрын
Hey hey! You would fill out the DS-82 with your new name, and make sure you attach the requested documents that prove that you have reason to change your name.
@maliyahjo6538 7 ай бұрын
Will your marriage license have your maiden name or your married name on there?
@Allieflower 5 ай бұрын
Maiden name
@DcN1212 5 ай бұрын
Your marriage livens will have your name on it as such: Your name before marriage : Example (Diana Johnson) Your husband last name is Smith After your name on marriage certificate it will say. Diana Johnson New Surname: Smith They do it like this so that when you go to change last name on documents they know it’s you who is changing the last name. That’s why they also include your current address/ D.O.B and city/state or country you was born in. Which helps in identifying you. Plus you have to bring proof that backs up what the marriage certificate says .
@rebekahrogers4031 4 ай бұрын
Mine has maiden
@user-vu9gd8ed1h 7 ай бұрын
My husband and I don’t have the same address, we are renting and plan to purchase a house eventually. We are still using our parents address as our permanent address. I’m starting the process of changing my name - does it matter if my address isn’t the same as my husbands even though we live together ?
@Allieflower 5 ай бұрын
No
@ForeverNewlywed 2 ай бұрын
That's right! You are the only one who is applying for the name change, so it doesn't matter that your addresses are not the same.
@phuongnguyen-xh4wh 7 ай бұрын
Thank you❤
@ForeverNewlywed 6 ай бұрын
You're so welcome! 😊 Very happy the information helped.
@KsenyaBlondex 7 ай бұрын
Talking way too fast
@ForeverNewlywed 6 ай бұрын
Noted! ☑️
@StretchFX 7 ай бұрын
This video was very helpful. Thank you 🙏🏽
@ForeverNewlywed 6 ай бұрын
Yay! So glad you found it to be helpful! Thank you for taking the time to comment.
@StretchFX 6 ай бұрын
@@ForeverNewlywed absolutely welcome 🙏🏽
@tommyofdallas214 7 ай бұрын
Thank you for this...
@ForeverNewlywed 7 ай бұрын
💕
@maddi.o 8 ай бұрын
So incredibly helpful!!!! Thank you!
@ForeverNewlywed 8 ай бұрын
You're so welcome! I'm glad to be of service 😁 Thank you for taking time to comment
@Stillunbothered 9 ай бұрын
Thank you for speaking to this, may GOD rest their souls.
@heyheykaykay1 9 ай бұрын
Hello! Can i keep my middle name and original last name and just add my new married name? If so, how do i go about in doing this?
@ForeverNewlywed 8 ай бұрын
Hey there! Yes you can! You'd go through the same steps. When you change your name on your Social Security Card, fill out the paperwork with the entire new name that you are changing to. So, you'd put the entire hyphenated name (original last name - new married name) on the line that asks what the new last name will be. You can also opt NOT to hyphenate it, and just make it a double last name. Your middle name remaining the same wouldn't affect the process 👍🏾 Everything from there gets easier because your SSC will serve as proof of what the new full last name will be. Let me know if the process was any different than this. I'm always looking out for any changes that may have happened in the passed few years.
@ChrishaynaGrant 9 ай бұрын
Thank you! This was super helpful
@ForeverNewlywed 9 ай бұрын
Sweet! I'm so glad you found it helpful. And please, let me know if you discover some tidbits along the way that would make the process even easier!
@NicholeSchroeck 9 ай бұрын
When we fill out the DS-82 do we write our maiden name or our new name?
@ForeverNewlywed 9 ай бұрын
Hey! You would fill out the DS-82 with your new name, and make sure you attach the requested documents that prove that you have reason to change your name.
@pamelamaddox1547 10 ай бұрын
Absolutely
@DevinDomino 11 ай бұрын
I used the DS-5504 application because it was within one year of me renewing my old passport. Plus you don’t have to pay again. Think of it as a wedding gift from the government
@ForeverNewlywed 7 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing that! Really great to know that there is a perk in case a renewal falls within the sam year timeline of a wedding! Really great to share within the community!
@Dannen-t1u 11 ай бұрын
When we sign the DS-82 do we sign our maiden name or our new name?
@ForeverNewlywed 9 ай бұрын
Howdy! You would fill out the DS-82 with your new name, and make sure you attach the requested documents that prove that you have reason to change your name (i.e. marriage certificate, etc).
@porshaflowers9079 11 ай бұрын
Congratulations!!!!! Lets go:-)
@ForeverNewlywed 9 ай бұрын
Whoooop!!!🙌🏾 Thanks for supporting!!!
@karolinas6735 11 ай бұрын
Newlywed 5 years later, finally changing my last name 😂 thank you for this video I usually follow the instructions really well but just wanted to make sure. Great video, I love how you explained everything and your style.
@ForeverNewlywed 9 ай бұрын
Yay!!! Congrats on 5 years 👏🏾 And you're right on time with your name change 😁 Thank you so much for taking the time to comment and I really appreciate your compliment!
@YouTubeExpertZesan 11 ай бұрын
love this
@ForeverNewlywed 11 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for watching and taking the time to comment!
@YouTubeExpertZesan 11 ай бұрын
I am eagerly anticipating your upcoming video. Implementing effective SEO strategies for it will significantly enhance its visibility, attracting a broader audience to your content.@@ForeverNewlywed
@PatriciaRichardson-w3h 11 ай бұрын
Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family as well. You are so correct …strengthening our connection to family and loved ones is so critically important. God Blrss❤️❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@ForeverNewlywed 11 ай бұрын
You said it perfectly! Thank you so much 🙏🏾💕
@GLMPPDance 11 ай бұрын
I liked this episode before I even listened to it just because I was excited to see you both! But now that I've listened I wish I like it again! Lol.... Thank you guys for being so vulnerable and transparent. So many of us go into marriage thinking forgiveness won't be a part of a healthy marriage. But this conversation really put some light on things that anyone joining their life to another person will go through. Conversations and wisdom like this are so needed ❤
@ForeverNewlywed 11 ай бұрын
I am so glad you watched ❤️ And I truly appreciate your comments. As you mentioned, a healthy marriage is the goal! And we are just trying to learn what that means and how it plays out in marriage from day to day. I too love when the hubs comes in to speak with me, and I plan to have him join me more often 😊
@RozVerde Жыл бұрын
Starts at 1:08 thank me later
@ForeverNewlywed Жыл бұрын
LOL for those who need to get straight to the point 😉
@porshaflowers9079 Жыл бұрын
I love this‼️
@ForeverNewlywed Жыл бұрын
Yes! Needed to update my Welcome page. Looking forward to launching some new stuff on all my social media platforms 😁
@porshaflowers9079 Жыл бұрын
This is awesome! WOW I have to let it go! The insurance claims--- I can relate😩‼️. I'm moving forward!!!!!!
@ForeverNewlywed Жыл бұрын
For real! I really would catalog the times when he made me mad or did something that I might want to do the same to him so he knows how it feels. It literally never works out the way I imagine lol. So, def tossing that way of thinking. It will not help "us" in the long run!
@MelGetmanova Жыл бұрын
No info on middle AND LAST name after marriage
@ForeverNewlywed Жыл бұрын
That's a great call out. From what I read, the process is generally the same. For example, some people take their middle name out and make their maiden name the middle name, while also taking on the new last name. And the application is the same. Is this something you would like to do or have done? (change middle name)
@ashleyjaimes4755 9 ай бұрын
I have 4 names(first name, middle name, moms last name and dads last name). What if I wanted to drop two names and add my surname? Is it the same process? Is it more expensive? What’s the process?
@porshaflowers9079 Жыл бұрын
This was awesome! I'm excited and look forward to digging into forgiveness!!!!! Thank you for this video.
@ForeverNewlywed Жыл бұрын
You're so welcome! Thank you for taking the time to comment and for following along with the series. Feel free to drop suggestions for videos also 😉
@jennysbirthingstory2975 Жыл бұрын
Lord have mercy. My list of places where I need to change my name is a lot longer than this list. I wish I could have convinced my spouse to let me leave my last name. I want to keep my last name for when I graduate. Like, why do we need to change it for them? They didn’t put in all of that hard work in our education, so why does their last name get to be the once on the degree? 😩 anyone change their name like described on this video but kept your maiden name with your university?
@gracielatorres1476 Жыл бұрын
I feel you!! But why don't you keep your last name until AFTER you graduate? :) I've been married for almost two years and just now changing my last lame. lol I don't think there is a penalty for waiting this long
@veronicamorales2427 Жыл бұрын
Same ! I’m changing it 3 years later
@ForeverNewlywed Жыл бұрын
Lol I agree with Graciela and Veronica! This video is for those who are ready to make the change and who want to make the change. Def no mandates here. But I noticed you said your spouse had a hand in making the decision. CONGRATS on graduating 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 You did the thang! You earned it and you should be super proud! Maybe in 30 years when you're more accustomed to your new name, it won't feel so bad. Personally, I earned my degree before I got married so it still says my maiden name.
@jennysbirthingstory2975 Жыл бұрын
I am definitely waiting until after. Thank you ladies. 🧡
@liliannwora2605 Жыл бұрын
Great video! Thank you
@ForeverNewlywed Жыл бұрын
No problem! I hope it helps 👍🏾 Thanks for taking the time to comment!
@RaquelHi Жыл бұрын
It's says not to sign it I can be wrong
@ForeverNewlywed Жыл бұрын
I had to look at the site again myself! Did you send yours electronically or by mail? When I did it by mail, it said I had to sign it. And everything went smoothly. BUT maybe you had a different experience? Lol if you didn't sign it and all went well, I say, "great"!
@Jaivlogzofficial Жыл бұрын
What if your an American citizen but don’t live in the us what do you use as your proof of address then?
@ForeverNewlywed Жыл бұрын
Great question! So, you don't have any footprint left in the U.S. where you can have a U.S. address? From what I've read, you'll just need documents to prove that you are a US citizen. So, a previous passport, your birth certificate, a naturalization certificate, or a certificate of citizenship. I've not had to do the process from this lens before so if you have more clarity, please share! I know it would help someone else.
@TaiwanBrown Жыл бұрын
So happy to see you back!!
@ForeverNewlywed Жыл бұрын
Thanks bro! Yes, doing my best to be more consistent. Always glad to see you in the comments 👋🏾
@youngrevivalist Жыл бұрын
I’m getting married in a couple days and I HATE when people say “you’re in the honeymoon phase,” and I feel like it’s insinuating that “the worst is yet to come” and like everything we’ve gone through has been peaches and rainbows and all of the good is going to fade away. People are so negative that’s why I tune them out. We have to work at keeping our love alive.
@ForeverNewlywed Жыл бұрын
CONGRATULATIONS!!! How was the wedding?? I really appreciate what you said about keeping the love alive. And people don't realize that even the way they ask certain questions creates a negative response, and/or puts the couple on the defensive. So, hopefully, we'll lead with love in how we encourage other couples!
@sardiver3 Жыл бұрын
You're giving out false info. This is what is needed in CA at the SS office for a name change. No mention of needing old SS card? Most people can't find there's 😂 What documents does Social Security need to change name? Fill out the Application for a Social Security Card (Form SS-5) (PDF) and bring it to a local office along with unexpired identification and proof of name change, such as a marriage or divorce document, adoption decree, amended or corrected birth certificate, court order with the name change, or tribal document.
@nalinshook3866 Жыл бұрын
You don’t even need to print it now I did it online and just went in with if and marriage certificate
@ForeverNewlywed Жыл бұрын
Hey y'all! That's great to know. Part of the video is still a step-by-step based on what I actually did. But I'm glad that things have become simpler along the way!