The cause of absent fathers
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Why men don't aspire for marriage!
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@Boxtron55
@Boxtron55 Күн бұрын
the only thing that Authenticates your words my sister is your burp 🙏 Thokoza gogo
@bennymoremi-mi8wk
@bennymoremi-mi8wk 2 күн бұрын
My mother was not like that to my father, my father died and my mother was able to look after us because she is trained to make an income, we never ran short of anything. We now follow green steps of our parents not girlfriends. Life is not about girlfriends, we prepare for future Now if this lady is dying to be house wife, after her Nigerian guy dies what is she going to do with bills, SA nigerians do not have insurences to cover future problems, and to provide for the family, what then this woman going to do. Nigerians are using calture to oppress their wives, when he dies his family takes all and leave you with that load of 4 children, in London Nigerian ladies have been stopped to lay complains agains their men, due to high number of opened cases, these girls are coming from oppressive background, when they find a liberal enviroment they release pressure, Nigerian culture marreid men can have girlfriends on the sides, and the senior ladies say its ok. We have seen many examples of SA women fight with exhubbies for assets, one women went to live in Nigeria, a place with no running water, no elec, no food, hubby sold her return ticket, i wonder why they all have four kids, SA people its always an average of two children. So that children can get best life.
@MngomaMnogoma
@MngomaMnogoma 6 күн бұрын
South African man work hard for their money we don't have juju for money
@BeekaytheDeejay
@BeekaytheDeejay 10 күн бұрын
Love your posts, mara this one... Ja ne, you hit me HARD!!!!
@TalkswithLebo
@TalkswithLebo 10 күн бұрын
@@BeekaytheDeejay I'm sorry 😥😥 it's never easy hearing these things i know
@thaandoo6569
@thaandoo6569 10 күн бұрын
Whoever Bewitched you must not Rest till they bring back your senses or what they Stole.. Because here you are just Yappa Yappin.. Other videos you can make sense buh here you just chillin in the trash Bin... You Beautiful & definitely not dumb so don't spew such Rubbish... It won't change the Facts
@TalkswithLebo
@TalkswithLebo 10 күн бұрын
@@thaandoo6569 I wonder what prompts people like yourself to wake and decide to say things that you say about people. You feel that being rude is the epitome of kindness, struggle to express views without tact and say vile things just to prove a point. You could have just scrolled passed this video, yet you came here to say nonesense. No one has the power and authority to bewitch and no one ever will. Teach yourself to stop making it your habit to say things that might impeded in your ability to receive blessings, especially when you don't know the person or whose they are. Lastly, oskang phaphela!
@TalkswithLebo
@TalkswithLebo 10 күн бұрын
@@thaandoo6569 ya'll give yourselves so much time to abuse creators when you don't l ow how to respond to their content. Do yourself a favour and stop watching my videos, I will not tolerate any form of disrespect from you, tomorrow you are the one who will claiming you have been bewitched because you go around spewing nonenses to people you shouldnt be spewing it on. Get a life!
@HabibatAllah1
@HabibatAllah1 12 күн бұрын
May God protect us all from evil. Ameen.
@mandyishername
@mandyishername 14 күн бұрын
You must be the stalker because you have done videos about her on Facebook, KZbin AND TikTok 😳 don’t you have a life?
@TalkswithLebo
@TalkswithLebo 14 күн бұрын
Don't expose your peanut brain please!!! You came all the way from all my platforms to put in your 2 cents on a video which has profound messaging, shot months ago? I think you should ha e yourself checked, that is not normal. I only shot 2 videos exposing her weirdness and have 100 more videos speaking about important life issues. Sound to me like you are trying to get my attention. Don't you have friends?
@delanocruz7958
@delanocruz7958 18 күн бұрын
I think you're just generalising issues here. You've not addressed cultural and societal issues because not all foreigners are like that.
@TalkswithLebo
@TalkswithLebo 18 күн бұрын
@@delanocruz7958 when did I say all foreigners are like that? The problem starts when we reply to defend and not watch to understand what some root causes of the problem that we see in society are. The fact of the matter is that some women are dating illegal foreigners who make their money illegally because South African Men have no appetite to date women so strip online. If you have a problem with this statement then one has to wonder what it is actually that is triggering you about fact.
@georgekennedy-g6j
@georgekennedy-g6j 18 күн бұрын
You are absolutely right dear,I do admire your person ❤
@camaatv
@camaatv 20 күн бұрын
Hey Lebo, delete this video. Nigerian are hard working and stop shaming your country women that are after responsible Nigerian men in South Africa.
@TalkswithLebo
@TalkswithLebo 19 күн бұрын
@@camaatv here I'm talking about foreign nationals who are I the country illegally and are using SA women to obtain citizenship. If you are an honest human being and this doesn't isn't you, then you shouldnt be affected. The problem strata when you want to mute me from the truth, yet SA women are falling in this trap of thinking Nigerian man who left their conservative wives at home love them and it's not true
@MrMalimaali
@MrMalimaali 21 күн бұрын
Saze salithwala idombolo sesiphilela ukusebenzela izifebe manje 500k for hair..hay makeye eLagos futsek
@DwightP-h7h
@DwightP-h7h 22 күн бұрын
Hi good evening. I like ur energy.
@Hosh-r3k
@Hosh-r3k 22 күн бұрын
Nigerian men showing the South African men what father figures do
@mlambolebogangchristinah5461
@mlambolebogangchristinah5461 22 күн бұрын
I love your conversation, they're enlightening
@oparahugochukwu6548
@oparahugochukwu6548 23 күн бұрын
Madam, what do u mean by spirit of the unborn baby.... please enlighten me?
@TalkswithLebo
@TalkswithLebo 23 күн бұрын
@@oparahugochukwu6548 once a baby is conceived, they become a spirit. If they pass on before their appointed time, they continue to become angels in the spirit world. So where a man has experienced loss, through a woman who had a miscarriage, abortion or still birth, he too needs to cleanse because he was connected to that unborn baby through his DNA. So when tries to date other women, whilst there is loss, it may prevent him from having fruitful relationships becuase he is essentially in mourning
@wandilenokuphiwe
@wandilenokuphiwe 24 күн бұрын
Mhonqonqo:are our women so dumb and failing to reason,are their bodies for sale to the highest bidder,just only for materialistic things. Women you are selling our and your children's country to these foreigners. Let me tell you this,one day you will wake up with a Nigerian president👆👆👆🤞🤞🤞
@vusumuzi_mathumo
@vusumuzi_mathumo 24 күн бұрын
All south african women have been slept by nigerian men
@madmire
@madmire Ай бұрын
i love your content. definitely going to follow you on Tiktok
@madmire
@madmire Ай бұрын
eyy that's why young men get rejected most of the time from young women. When the gents get much older, they don't want anything to do with women who rejected them. Then after being exploited by the men they chose, they decide to run back to the guy who they rejected and they found out that he has already moved on with his life, which ends up breaking the woman's spirit for not choosing the "right man" for their lives. I think as well that not only women but everyone in general are programmed to live under the society's influence, not realizing that sometime people can make one terrible decision in their lives and sometimes its hard for people to accept Man, this world we live in has made it harder to find someone who can truly love you for you. If there was a way to encourage young woman to make right decisions in their lives... It is a sad world we live in.
@lokishvibes202
@lokishvibes202 Ай бұрын
We don't give a damn.
@DripFiend101
@DripFiend101 Ай бұрын
The women who at 0:51 is stating we as SA have allowed to be disrespected does not know what she is saying. We did not allow ourselves to be disrespected basadi stated how worthless SA men are so we must defend that you cannot make this stuff up
@DallasDallad
@DallasDallad Ай бұрын
well dressed well spoken right person to speak the topic❤
@DallasDallad
@DallasDallad Ай бұрын
well dressed well spoken right person to speak the topic
@johannesdavid-gz2ei
@johannesdavid-gz2ei Ай бұрын
you more beautiful with positive words
@sabelomogari9216
@sabelomogari9216 Ай бұрын
When he said he wants more kids, the look in your eyes killed me 🤣🤣
@martoking
@martoking Ай бұрын
Marrying while young is disastrous for men. Young, poor, weak men don't make good families.
@janetmabuza4363
@janetmabuza4363 Ай бұрын
Buya Simakade 😂😂😂 ONLY a Man can speak kanje because if it was a woman she would be called everything unGodly...to each their own our journeys i think once you have a child YOU and what you think and feel comes second.
@Lee_Nolo
@Lee_Nolo Ай бұрын
I am glad that he realized that. When the bible said "do not defile the marriage bed" , God understood what He meant . Procreation is God's will, but definitely within the confinements of marriage. Now children suffer daddy issues, seeking validation in wrong places and many other problems💔
@keithjedburgh7341
@keithjedburgh7341 2 ай бұрын
Point. We are on the same trajectory with this gentleman
@_theerealnono_7694
@_theerealnono_7694 2 ай бұрын
Not to be rude, but the audio in this video is quite low.
@notyourhero296
@notyourhero296 2 ай бұрын
As a coloured from cape town what i can say is its always the girls that no one wants in her area that go for these nigerian guys😂😂😂
@mlambolebogangchristinah5461
@mlambolebogangchristinah5461 2 ай бұрын
Hie Lebo,my name is also Lebo. I'm a housewife and it's hard. You have to depend on someone else. What you're saying is true and wish I had this lecture when i got married but I'm praying for my independence back. Thank you for this lecture❤❤
@JabulisileMangwane
@JabulisileMangwane 2 ай бұрын
Its your opening statement for me life is not a movie
@masandefuzile2261
@masandefuzile2261 2 ай бұрын
Thokoza gogo
@Jesusbabe6464
@Jesusbabe6464 2 ай бұрын
Girllll you really explained it well l wish all side chicks will see this..they will think twice 😂...but ke they don't learn
@forwhatitsworthwithHolli
@forwhatitsworthwithHolli 2 ай бұрын
Why do always want what I have or what I want? It seems people start like my interests, so I take it as a compliment but give a stern warning that I do not tolerate other strange people who interfere with my relationships, and if he allows it, then he's not my type in the first place because I want a strong man who has the discipline to see through the Jezebels
@busisiwemsibi8901
@busisiwemsibi8901 2 ай бұрын
Fully agree
@MissCombs1511
@MissCombs1511 2 ай бұрын
Ai ok... let's just give up and brace for singledom forever. Marriage men are unicorns. 🤷🏽‍♀️
@BanksOmale
@BanksOmale 3 ай бұрын
Nigerian men are just loving, hard working, kind, cheerful givers. That's how we are everywhere. We are providers! We are responsible!
@bridgettekekana4639
@bridgettekekana4639 3 ай бұрын
Brief note, encouraging students especially females to "just study in varsity" hardly works. Between stepping into your identity, competition within friend groups, social media, daddy issues, climate change, environmental issues yoooh, ausi Lebo, it's alot! Alot of people encourage students to find a partner while still in varsity, but when you look around campus especially with married lecturers dating students, it almost makes you give in on love and just go with the masses for older men
@bridgettekekana4639
@bridgettekekana4639 3 ай бұрын
It's a messy world 😂
@keda003
@keda003 3 ай бұрын
Western culture has eroded traditional values
@annieojuro-anuonye7203
@annieojuro-anuonye7203 3 ай бұрын
I am a single mom of 2 kids for 2 men… i still feel weight of my last break up with my last baby’s father that its hard for me to coparent with him after attempts for us to get to an understanding failed… I would appreciate if there are suggestions on how to lead my situation… love the show
@MissCombs1511
@MissCombs1511 3 ай бұрын
Aus Lebo.. the part about polygamy, I disagree from personal experience: A woman allowing for polygamy does not mean it curbs cheating. Cheating is about a lot more than getting to 100% by combining 2 women. He will continue to cheat to fill the hole, even temporarily, that exists. Cheating is about cheating.
@MissCombs1511
@MissCombs1511 3 ай бұрын
I think we should buy a billboard and write: FOUNDATION IS EVERYTHING!!!
@GeorgeMasibuko-y8j
@GeorgeMasibuko-y8j 3 ай бұрын
Nigerians date fun girls and single moms. Regular girls don't mess with them. And when a Nigerian man hits on a SA woman, he spends his money and time trying to justify himself. And trashing South Africans. Most jollofinas get turned out and become self hating because most of them are single moms or working girls
@Itebogeng414
@Itebogeng414 3 ай бұрын
So true. Its important for women to also have a vision for themselves as wives and moms. Shuuu so deep
@Ologun1
@Ologun1 3 ай бұрын
This is big in Africa and the Diaspora and why certain Girls are blowing up on Social Media
@Octavia-iw3ky
@Octavia-iw3ky 3 ай бұрын
I'm happy my father never put us through that by having children outside his marriage and even after his divorce with mom. That is not a pleasant situation for children either. This step step issue is nonsense
@mlondolozimbikwana
@mlondolozimbikwana 3 ай бұрын
Hi Lebo, please keep up the good spirit. But I can't help noticing that you are kid yourself, perhaps if you study SA history, you would quickly realize that these satanic activities were very seldom pre- 1994. But OfCourse you were not born yet,