The thing is I don't want help- professional help no.

No. 1. Run away from these people! They're human monsters and WILL traumatize you!

8 years later I still use this video x

Even though this is old its still helpful, i don’t feel ready to throw them away yet (idk why) but im hoping i can one day

Thank you so very very much for making this video. I know this is 9 years old but I've just been rejected for having depression by a girl who seemed like she'd be okay with it and could handle it. I feel betrayed and lied to but thanks to you i'm not losing hope. Thank you really. <3

I understand how you feel. I have major depressive disorder and I have severe depressive episodes and I have been crying so much lately. Flood of tears. Sometimes I’m just emotionally numb,angry,irritable,anxious or filled with rage. I still love myself but I fear committing myself to a good man because I don’t want to be a burden and weigh him down. I don’t want him or anybody to see me when I’m like that. It’s my battle. It makes me angry. I just want to say I’m so happy for you that you found such a good boyfriend who truly loves and cares for you. It’s okay to be scared of losing him. Never give up on yourself.

After three years together, he said I never loved him. Because I didn’t love myself. My heart is so broken

This video was made a pretty long time ago butt I’m too scared to show my scars or have them uncovered even in front of my family, sometimes I feel like I need to relapse just because my scars are spaced out and it looks weird, and I also don’t want to show them in public because people may think they’re fresh or they might trigger others

Thank you so much for this..🫂🫂❤️❤️

“At eternity’s gate” is a good one on Van Gogh

For me I see it how you see it. Then panic sets in and my heart races I get dizzy. Then I ball my eyes out.

For me when it happened I blocked it out. When I felt safe again I started getting flashbacks

God lead me to this video.

Dr fr rob has got black dog depression again Dr please help me

what if we don't want people to look for it though? making videos like this has good intention, but end up just making us have to get more creative to hide it

I am 11 days clean i used to scratch myself and pulled out my hair but i am doing better. So i very proud of myself

51. Someone on the phone wants to talk to you. (the reason: we think we’re in trouble)

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I appreciate the deep reflection of the effects of the scars. Something that came to me when thinking about this is reminding myself I made the choice to stop self harming. I made it more than once. Even though there are scars I made a choice to stop and that is empowering reminder. I could have continued and I have relapsed but what has stayed true and consistent as well was the choice to stop to find alternatives the choice to love myself and say i deserve a better coping mechanism and stress relief and I sought that. The first year is hard however I have hope it gets better. Tapping into what meaning I placed on my body before the scar was present was also helpful because the positive meanings don't have to be erased just because scars are present. Learning to see the beauty even after.

Hey guys I'm 30 chocolate I self harmed as well ,I have scars constantly have to hide n public

Just wondering how are you now..

I love this but if you’re dealing with mental health. Be with someone that loves you through it BUT also do the work get better. Therapy. Grounding techniques. Etc

He will get his...and they will get theirs.

Scumbag: a person who amuses themselves with the suffering of others.

There's no gene for BPD but there is a familial predisposition. According to studies at McLean hospital, having a family member with BPD puts you at a much higher risk. They estimated that up to half of the risk of getting BPD was associated with a predisposition set off by environmental factors such as trauma.

I’m a cutter and been cutting for years haven’t stopped since I’ve seen doing it since I was 7 years old. Now I’m 19 I still do it.

Christopher Nolan’s movie: Momento. Besides his short-term memory condition, I would love to hear your take on the protagonist mental health condition from trauma.

My tip is to not go to someone the person is familiar with. They may make things worse and may be one of the reasons behind this behavior. Instead, go to a counselor or a mental health advocate willing to reach out and listen in person to what is troubling them.

i have been cutting for 3 yrs i need help

I'm a brand new subscriber watching from London UK.❤

Im in elementary school and self harming...

My ex has this disorder though not diagnosed and no motivation to get help. He splits me. Im the best person he has had a relationship with and then when I stand up to him, have differing opinions or behave in ways he deems wrong he turns against me. Can happen very quickly. I am then a nasty, rotten, evil person. Nothing good about me. The worst. And it can be over a minor incident that a normal person would brush off. Things excalate. Im blamed. Im nothing but rubbish in his eyes. Then few days later he cant understand why im not over it as it is in the past and I must have a problem in my brain to still be upset. No apology or discussion unless I want to trigger him again. Always trying to choose words carefully and censor myself. Complete head f##k. Im healing now im out of this madness.

Yes , YES -

Lol 😂

I had someone tell me that because of my Physical and mental health issues. A relationship with me would prove too much to the gentleman. He would just one day walk away. Thank you this gives hope.

If I had answers to the who's you asked, I wouldn't be watching this video

I got it at 14

I’m 17 with it

Hope you're doing well, Kristen ❤ I'm currently 22 and you really helped me when I was in high school, thank you for being you

Therapie is a scam - I use to see some therapist´s when I was younger - they did all really care most about getting more money out of you - and they can´t heal you at all - you yourself have to face reality and save your very own a... - but if you thing I am wrong or a liar - just keep on going to a therapist - time will tell you quite sure - if your really honest to yourself.

You made my day ! May god bless you ! You are the hope a thousands of so called "psychological experts" will never be able to give... Feel deeply hugged my dear ❤ !

BPD the destroyer of relationships.

you're lovely! people should speak up about these things. Its awful having scars, i hope you can get to a place where you embrace them

Whoah you are sucha beautiful soul!! thank you for this message! I got goosebumps!!

Slow Down Talking - Girl. Back pack - your Talking to Fast , what's Wrong with you Speed Girl !!!!????

Thank you so much. I’ll be 32 next week, but when I was 16 I went through a severe depression and I wish I knew then what I know now. Now I am a high school teacher that is starting a dual masters program for school counseling and mental health counseling. I want to start my KZbin channel and I can’t wait to help others. Im just scared of the comments and putting myself out there, but this video really helped 😊

If could get those pills without anyone being g suspicious and asking any questions or the need of doctor prescription

I'm unlovable