I had to take a step back and evaluate every family and non family relationship. They were ALL one sided, with me doing to weight of the effort and others feeling entitled to my energy without exchange. I never saw relationships as transactional, but after realising that everyone else that I am encounting does, I have had to change the way I relate to others. Since I cannot change how people approach relationships. I have decided to completely pull out of deep connections and have superficial transactional relationships where I am able to receive from my giving. I can't justify people showing up when they have a need. I am happy leaving them to figure out their own problems and they naturally remove themselves from my space. People tend to go away when they don't get what they want
@raakheeduggal99024 ай бұрын
I wish more people saw friendships and relationships this way.
@marvinwaaldijk34875 ай бұрын
Thanks this video really helped me
@Carmen_Lee_Co6 ай бұрын
Great interview Shannon 👌🏽
@ShannonKaiserWrites5 ай бұрын
thank you so much
@angelisa3687 ай бұрын
Thank you for this posting, Shannon! I’m sorry for all you’ve been through lately. This post definitely speaks to me. I find it so difficult to not see myself as a victim and as a creator instead. It’s inspiring to hear how you’ve been able to shift to the other side!! 💕💫🙏♥️☀️
@honestreviews99557 ай бұрын
People who go to this places to rely on a deeply personal drug trip to find themselves and connection with the universe are people who haven't done the work. If you want to Iive this and own it as apart of your core existence.. you need to do the work year around, at home, in your natural environment. I'm all for people finding the greater beauty and purpose on this planet but hate that this has become a fad or whatever. They don't understand this is serious shit and if you're not in the right head space going in.. you can PERMANENTLY damage your psyche and physical brain. This is not supposed to be a magical cure to your problems.. this is a VERY SERIOUS (natural, but SERIOUS) drug. People are WAY to flippant about this.. There are SOOOOOOOO many other routes to get to a space where you understand yourself, our connections, and our purpose besides buying into this money farm. I'd be surprised if not every single one of these 'reviews' from 'influencers' wasn't comp'd apart of, if not their entire trip!!
@gaian6395 ай бұрын
What do you mean by "comp'd apart of"?
@emilycarver5958 ай бұрын
This is my life, thank you so much for exposing this. ❤
@risewithangela8 ай бұрын
Love Mark and that is a fellow Vancouverite! I have followed his whole career. Love Kylie too. Great podcast.
@colbertauhava44898 ай бұрын
Thank you Shannon, for sharing your story & lots great of information.
@kirkwhite17368 ай бұрын
Utter Garbage. I have tried to be selfless and love myself 🤮 and my peers have took advantage of me, hurt me, isolated me. Now I'm 50, alone and never had a relationship with a woman and never will And Self Love Is Not Narcissism? Obviously You Don't Live In America
@meldee35468 ай бұрын
Wow! The sweating was a HUGE sign in hindsight. Thanks Shannon 💛
@noahhouse92339 ай бұрын
I’m currently in a situation and I honestly don’t know if I’m the problem or if she’s the problem. It I feel manipulated
@MoonWolfDancing9 ай бұрын
Thank you Shannon! ❣
@MinaDeCaro9 ай бұрын
Just discovered this deck❤ Ordered a copy😊 I love your Unshakable Peace Oracle--I am going to love this one too!
@LindaPauliinaKuhlmann9 ай бұрын
This is just what I needed to hear at this moment❤🙏 Thank you and the universe for this message🙏 I am definitely going to order you deck right away!🎉❤
@johngreen23169 ай бұрын
I suffered from mental abuse for years, and did nothing for a quite life, in the end my wife thought she was so much better than me and thought she could do better so she left , for years I was broken,but got over it and have been really happy since then on the outher hand her life has been a disaster.
@alethaalatalo50899 ай бұрын
The timing of this video showing up in my inbox today and how it applies to a situation I've been going through (again) for the past few days is absolutely crazy! I love the Universe and YOU! I've enjoyed your content for about 4 years now I think and I truly appreciate all you share with the world. Thank you!
@lizavbby9 ай бұрын
Good job mama
@DigitalPhotoArchive11 ай бұрын
This video is amazing and summarizes everything on the idea of self love and selfish-love Thank you!!!!
@ljproductions6731 Жыл бұрын
I like how he’s holding the leash like he’s walking himself
@Debbie369 Жыл бұрын
you have a meditation avoid mistakes and i have connected to the music in that track where can i find that track please i love it so peaceful and thank you
@danamichel7709 Жыл бұрын
Yep. Lots of wisdom here. Great card stock! Such a pleasure to use too. Thank you.😊
@risewithangela Жыл бұрын
Love that you interviewed Kute! ❤ #alignment
@psscott8289 Жыл бұрын
Love you, Shannon 🙋🏻♀️💕💙💜
@EmpoweredWithinJenniferPilates Жыл бұрын
So beautiful, thank you Shannon. It is time to "write that book" - so much validation in your message today, thank you!!
@amyhartsoughink Жыл бұрын
Profound and helpful as always, Shannon. Thanks for sharing!
@sharona710 Жыл бұрын
My friend told me I have my head stuck in the sand because I do not watch the news. I told her as long as she stays in Meerkat mode (super cute, ever alert and scanning the horizon for danger) I will be happy with my head in the sand and if there is something I NEED to know, she can sound the alarm.
@NikNik0123 Жыл бұрын
Perfect timing! I have literally currently been ruminating on the fake friends in my world. Learning lessons 🤷🏽♀️
@ShannonKaiserWrites Жыл бұрын
You got this!
@BrandyPricegoogle Жыл бұрын
Shannon, I love the term you used.... Transformational relationships vs transactional relationships!!! My friend, of 18 years, and I were just talking about this yesterday and how authentic reciprocity is the feel good glue in our relationships with others. Thank you for sharing such a beautiful and clear reminder for us all to steady ourselves in self respect.❤❤❤
@colbertauhava4489 Жыл бұрын
❤ the video..
@jurelkirklandfilms2510 Жыл бұрын
Thank you, Shannon.
@DamianSagrero-di8me Жыл бұрын
Hi
@BradFalck-mn3pc Жыл бұрын
My ex hacked my phone and it was ok at first but then she started manipulating my settings and interfering in my phone usage and now I am at the point of making a police report
@Purplespretty44 Жыл бұрын
It's draining, I carry a solid positive attitude but sometimes I want to run wild screaming and waving my arms around🤭🤞
@domenicapasculli1648 Жыл бұрын
How can avoid my sons😢
@kaleidojess Жыл бұрын
I think you're onto something
@lajornadalondon Жыл бұрын
Love the intro ❤ but most important this message 👍👍 thanks
@ShannonKaiserWrites Жыл бұрын
Thank you, so glad this content helped.
@godswittness69 Жыл бұрын
Thank you. Ive seen more than 20 therapists/psychologists/psychiatrists in my life and only 1 or 2 have managed to touch my life, and only a bit. I believe that the therapists, like yourself here on KZbin are pushing the new frontier of Spiritual, Mental and emotional health. Godspeed and good continuation. This type of teaching is extremely important at this time.
@FabulouslyFierceMechellAlline Жыл бұрын
Great information, thank you 💎💜💎
@chilloften Жыл бұрын
Sweeeet.
@chilloften Жыл бұрын
It’s hard to come by, that’s what I’m noticing.
@oceanbound2012 Жыл бұрын
People pleasing video would be very helpful!
@TheFreeSpirit8 Жыл бұрын
Love your energy and message ❤️ YES YES YES!
@ethical_sarah Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing! 🙏🏼
@ayeshaleephotography Жыл бұрын
I KNOW I was dismissed, neglected, physically and emotionally abused. My parents use to tell me to my face we see you but we don’t hear you. Any time my mother got a chance she would insult me and my dad would spank me about everything, from forgetting to feed the animals, not doing my chores, eating to slow, not doing my homework, bad grades, the list goes on. I don’t hate my parents. I feel sorry for them. I cut ties with my mother 8 years ago and just recently cut ties with my father. And I’ve NEVER been happier. I didn’t raise my kids the same way so they didn’t have to heal from the pain that was my youth. I’m working to heal my pain. I’m a work in progress but I believe one day I’ll be ok. Thank you for this video. As I reread what I typed it made me sad, I almost cried hahaha!!! That lets me know I still have work to do. 😊
@ShannonKaiserWrites Жыл бұрын
I am so so sorry you experienced this but it is empowering to hear how you are showing up for you and knowing you are not what they did or said to you. Super proud of you to do what is best for you and your healing. Sending you love on this journey.