Is this article still available anywhere to read? the page seems to be down

EMDR completely fits this

I thought I 'allowed it' & had years of therapy to 'fix my shame of weakness'. The dark cloud remained. Then I had 'an event' & someone said, "Your silence when that man talked to you that way is truly a gift." I always thought it was weakness. Then my father told me in a dream, "I'm proud of you for not being like those who abused you. You stood up for goodness by not responding in kind, you did not sink to their level, that's what really matters in the end.' Ordered book today.

thank you, this really helped and so to the point!

RECON 1) Recall the memory briefly. 2) Explore your implicit beliefs (Your natural feelings) and explore your desired beliefs (Your target feelings). 3) Create a new meaning experience (through imagery, music, movement). 4) Objectively describe that memory while integrating that new narrative experience. (Juxtaposition of old memory with new experience) 5) New Narrative Integration (repeat the new narrative a few times to feel the change).

cool vid

The pregnancy flip is exactly what happened to me. It was at 14 weeks (we had just stated announcing it). Lost that pregnancy right around the time of that first sudden rage/terror. Felt too ashamed and invested to kick him out, and I really believed he was the person I thought I saw in public. Now it’s my life mission to help women and children. Oh, and every abusive perpetrators or abusive family system refuses to believe their child has any special needs, diagnosis, or medical issues. That’s textbook. I also started to consider myself expendable. Just wanted to keep the kids alive and as innocent as possible. That became the only goal or care. What choice does a mother have in these systems? So another generation of trauma.

The pregnancy flip is exactly what happened to me. It was at 14 weeks (we had just started announcing it). Lost that pregnancy right around the time of that first sudden rage/terror. Felt too ashamed and invested to kick him out, and I really believed he was the person I thought I saw in public. Now it’s my life mission to help women and children. Oh, and every abusive perpetrators or abusive family system refuses to believe their child has any special needs, diagnosis, or medical issues. That’s textbook.

Didn’t appreciate the analysis of Trump, who you do not know , who isn’t your patient yet you seem to think you’ve assessed him accurately. That’s just bad medicine. And , it’s simply untrue, but go ahead with your arrogance! In this truly free country , we elected him twice so I guess hate the people who voted for him. How is that moral superiority working out for you?

What do you say about somebody who is an abuser (my adoptive father) who never apologized. Never. There was no honeymoon.. There was just daily terror.

Does coercive control also apply to other family relationships, like parents and children, and sibling relationships?

Thank you, amazing video!

Great stuff - starting a self care RPG group for my role as staff wellness coach. Bought the book & excited at the ethical considerations piece.

Expedition inx gehirn temple grandin

His talks/discussions are so beyond enlightening.

I was so sick when I was a kid. I was coughing uncomfortable. My father screemed from ky room where he went to sleep that he would stab my eyeball with a fork. Holy shit. Where that came from. I went to lay down in the kitchen floor coughing. My mother who was sleeping with me in the bedroom didnt come to hug me. How that is even possible?

99.99% genetic in case of young onset of Parkinson's

Much on offer here but I stopped listening when it was stated that children 'never' think their parents are at fault, but think that they are to blame. Most of the time yes: just not always. And yes it is a special kind of hell to be trapped in a childhood where you can see the incompetence of those in charge of you...

Not sure i get the forrest ... A group identity? A communal type of self. Anyone have thoughts to help?

This is an excellent incite into my condition thank you and hi from the usa

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So is the book just for people seeking therapy, or should therapists read it too?

What if I have both disconfirming and confirming experiences available today? Would I use only disconfirming one?

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😮 it was a good thing you wanted to hear his opinion!

Does SERRAPEPTASE work for accumulation of a protein called alpha synuclein in brain regarding Parkinson's disease?

I love this therapy and wanted to become certified but it’s way out of my price range now. There are currently only 31 certified therapist in Michigan.

Wilderness therapy destroyed my life. I went to Second Nature in Duchesne 20 years ago. I came in with oppositional behavior. Came out with PTSD, anxiety, depression, trust issues, social fear, destroyed family relationships, and many more issues. I'm now a non-functional adult. I don't feel comfortable being around others anymore as a result of the crippling PTSD and have isolated myself for most of my adulthood. I'm perpetually suicidal. It's awful what they did to us. Stop this vile industry! Stop kidnapping children! Stop destroying lives!

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8:07 I’m not cheating on you, I’m sleeping with other women so we can stay married. 😂😞😤

THANK YOU SO MUCH. I appreciate this.

Sit around the couch and feel good 🤪 Crack a nut and enjoy the grass. What good advice

I just got her book and it sure explains a lot. Psychologically people are a disaster today and they want to let you know how miserable they are. The baby boomers partied too much 😢 Most people have terrible parents. I cannot tell you the hell I've been through in this life

How do you catch someone using technology to facilitate abuse?

They spittin straight FAAAACTZ!100%

It really does work like magic. I did this before knowing about how it's called, very similar experience. My addiction that I have been fighting and struglling with for almost a decade, gone, poof, magic. Because it was rooted in a belief tied with my self worth, that I was fed in highschool through peer pressure and the need to feel accepted... The hardest thing I'd imagine would be, being self aware and doing the introspection to find the core belief in the first place. Then you bring the memory, feel it, question it and realize it doesen't make sense now, it's not true...

they have add or adhd

these guy talk to slow to have schizophrenia

This answered so many questions for me with clients who are coming in basically for trauma related problems, and all their mapping’s tended to show up in the G.I. track. As a reflexologist, I was quite confused until I found your work. I thank you. My clients thank you. This has elevated the world of reflexology to new realms. Thank you so much.

This is a very useful excerpt. Thank you for highlighting this particular gotcha in the memory consolidation process.

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the therapeutic relationship! yes engaging . great video

I got yelled at & pinned down

Look up the cycle of abuse.

The leaning tower of ...never changes their stripes. ❤

Hamas and Israel. The female being Israel. youtu.be

Dr adren your rewire your brain is awesome thanks

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Would this be a good book for a grad student interested in Polyvagal and EMDR? Or would this be a better read after one has more base knowledge in both? Thanks!

Wonderful interview. Enjoyed the charming anecdotes revealing their journey together, their thought processes and humanity. Lovely vision for humanity. Just lovely.