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I had a partner like your current one too. Sweet, loving, cooking for me all day exactly how I wanted it, portrayed herself as conservative and stuff. She still branched off when I was in a weak spot for 6mths. Its all evolutionary, you gotta be masculine.

But what if that which they want is to remain best friends and they are VERY pushy even tho they monkey branched

Great video, tnx

If they are a narcissist they are not thinking about you

I have to watch your video again ! You speak with such honesty and heart! Don’t give up on your utube videos! I had seen lots of them and you are one of the best.

You speak with so much emotions and heart . I can’t believe you have only 92 subscribers. God bless you .

Your videos are so amazing. Thank you for your guidance.

Monkey branching is a premeditated action,most likely that person had been unfaithful during your relationship creating a bond with that new lover before she or he dumps you.

Hello , seeing you back make us happy . Glad to see your content and I hope you continue uploading videos.

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i hate female prostitutes because why should i choose her over a wife that isnt a prostitute and if you cant get a wife its better to be single than go with prostitutes

Man, you dont know how much i resonate all of what you said, i watch other coaches and i tell you have something they dont have.. DONT STOP! DO MORE OF THIS!!

Great content

Thanks dude. Best video on the subject, you helped me feel 100% better.

Not a victim of monkey branching it was a blessing in disguise

This smoked me. I learned I was in love with her but she was not in love with me. Just so weird cuz I'm the prize.

I realize in hindsight, after being monkey branched (only recently learned about this dynamic), that I had also probably been monkey branched to. When I met my ex I didn't know he was still in a relationship (he acted like he was single). Fortunately I found out very quickly and therefore put the breaks on. Tbh I was still just sussing him out and, when I learned he had a gf (while asking me out for a date: which I turned down), it put me off him. He then gaslit me (I only realize this now in hindsight) and told me that his interest in me was only friendship and that I had misread him. I gave him the benefit of the doubt (I feel stupid now) and saw nothing wrong in becoming friends (no romantic gestures, dates or anything just group get togethers with other people no one on one encounters not even just for coffee). It was during this phase that I got to know him better (or at least the facade he presented which I fell for hook, line and sinker). He did charity work, was very generous with his time and resources and behaved like a gentleman. He said that he and his gf had been growing apart for some time, that the relationship was practically over but he hadn't broken up with her just yet because she was going through a few things at that moment and he didn't want to give her another blow which also made him seem like a decent guy (I cringe when I realize how I was totally played). It was obvious that he was romantically interested in me at this point but I wanted to be respectful towards his gf and their situation and decided that I wouldn't encourage any romance (despite the fact that my feelings had grown for him) until he'd properly ended things with her. I was also open to the fact that he might decide to work things out with his gf and stay with her. In the end he left her (a few months later) and we officially started to date. At the time I didn't think of it as him jumping directly from one relationship to another or lining up a new relationship before leaving his gf. I saw it as that they had grown apart, their relationship was already over and ending it was just a formality which he hadn't done for practical/caring reasons. He also told me that his gf knew about his friendship with me and was fine with it. Turns out I discovered that she wasn't fine with it and was convinced that I had used my womanly wiles to take him away from her. None of her (their mutual friends) believed me and thought I'd actively come between them to break them up. I know (and my ex knows) that that is not how things went and I feel I'd been respectful (though perhaps quite naive). Anyway, fast forward 4 years and he lined someone else up before dumping me. This is when I realized that that's probably what he'd done to the girl he was with before me. His friends (who became our mutual friends who previously had been mutual friends of him and his ex gf) all felt that I deserved what I got and I was left to deal with the heartbreak completely on my own. I was younger back then and a lot more naive but I still feel very stupid. He convinced me with his good person act (tbf lots of people think he's a good person and that it's just that he has poor judgement when it comes to women: meaning it's bad women that take advantage of his good nature and cause him to stray ). Anyway, is it possible that there are some situations in which two people in a relationship just grow apart, are still together but it's more of a platonic thing and they've simply not split up because of mutual friends, family pressure or financial commitments they may have made together etc? In that case would it still be monkey branching/moving on too quickly (jumping directly from on relationship straight to another)? I used to think not and still am not sure. Perhaps not although, after my experience I think that it's best to err on the side of caution and make sure that the person you're interested in getting to know has been single for a while and properly ended their previous relationship. Lesson learned ... the hard way.

It's not about the mistakes you made (we all make mistakes) and although it's essential that we examine ourselves and try to correct them and become better people the issue is that there are NO excuses for dishonesty (and that's what monkey branching is).

Thank you for taking the time to make this video, it helped me a lot. I like your comment “what have they done to deserve a second chance with you?”

What made me hurt, was when I seen the guy she monkey branched with. It was a complete downgrade of me. I was like wow a guy like this got the same woman I’ve been with for years wow. However my ex still thought I was over weight. She didn’t know when she was monkey swinging; I lost a total of 70 lbs. So when I met up with her to give her the remainder of her stuff I immediately started getting phone calls from her after trying to work things out. I blocked her and told her don’t ever contact me again. Focus on yourself people, and make yourself happy. Remember though they will come back to see what you’re doing and it’s not because they want to be with you, it’s to see if they can take down what you’ve built again.

I stopped caring once I got abs lol. That was always my goal to be the best version of me. So once I completed that it was easy to stop caring about anything before that.

Your video popped up today for me to see even after a year when you shared it. I definitely needed to hear this. I am on a healing journey after leaving a narcissistic abuse relationship of 3 years, 10 months ago. It took a no contact order from police after a serious incident to help me realize how much I made excuses for his behavior. I had to detoxify from him and go through therapy to heal myself and forgive myself for allowing my love for him be at a cost for my respect and love for myself. A lesson learned now that I know what narcissism is. Keep your boundaries strong for your protection. One quote that resonates with me is...."When you love YOU, you know when someone else does."

If they branched on you, you dodged a bullet. Remember they have to live with what they did, at least yiu can look in the mirror and say you gave it your all. You were real, abd someone somewhere eventually will appreciate that.

Good points, especially about the new partner more than likely knowing that you exist and choosing to pursue your girlfriend/boyfriend anyway. I have done this myself and today I am truly sorry that I ever did that to another person. If a person shows romantic interest in you (i.e., flirting strongly, giving you her number, etc.) and then tells you they are with someone but are thinking of leaving them, say to them, "I wish you luck" and then hit the highway fast! No kidding people. Don't stick around!

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That's not monkey branching. Monkey branching is when you stay in a relationship just to be in a relationship until something better comes along and you don't break up with the previous partner until you have something going with the new one. The term comes from the fact that monkeys tend to not let go of the previous branch until they have a firm grasp of the next. The behavior is almost exclusively a female trait. Their hypergamy keeps them constantly on the lookout for the next better option, but you'll do for now.

Wow, this video is helping me so much, I had no idea what monkey branching was, I was so CONFUSED, it felt like I had been cheated on without actually being cheated on. It's so difficult to think right now, I can't believe he was so dishonest with me, is frankly disgusting how a person can be such a coward. He told me that he started to have problems since may, and yet he refused to talk about them until december, even though I tried so much to talk to him and figure the situation out. Everything I took from him, god, how can people be like that.

It sucks even more when it’s ur best friend she leaves u for. Then ur “best friend “ lied ab it for 2 months until I ended up seeing his truck their then she decided to end it when I find out then my “ best friend “ comes crying back to me ab her.

That is right. You hit all the points that happened with me and my ex. Thank you for sharing.

Great video. You are a great guy who I just feel it deserves only a high value woman. I have experienced this being monkey-branched. It is the height of disrespect to me by a very immature and low self-esteem woman. You certainly hit the nail on the head about that! Disgusting behavior, immoral, crude, immature, selfish and I say now that I have recovered ....good riddance and they deserve each other because the man who she monkey-branched to is also a low value individual. Why? Because no high value man tries to pull away someone in a relationship. If he was a real man and had a real pair of balls he would have gone out to find a single woman on his own. Conclusion: They deserve each other."water seeks it's level"!

Keeps these positive videos up bro.. love your content

Mine always saw what he wanted n purposely split with me to go to what he thought was better then he’d say he didn’t cheat on me because he was single… Each time I would ask him was he leaving me for the specific woman n he’d deny call me crazy n paranoid n jealous n low n behold he’d be with who I’d ask him about … 🤷🏽‍♀️ I became extremely jealous, controlling, paranoid, depressed, suicidal and struggling to get my health and life back… It’s strange he would tell me I had a dark nature yet I wasn’t behaving in this kind of manner.. Seeing the man you love leave to have sex with others destroyed me xx

We gotta get a new cut tho I guarantee your looks will increase

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That is sad. I dont know him but will check his YT. Thanks

Tou look amazing guys!

Yes that right bro cos all the story u tell i happen to me cos that last cos my ex monkey branches relationship it feel me to love myself cos i knw it

Well said! Expectations are the killer of a relationship. I wish everyone learn this before sabotaging their relationships for "illusions"

Congrats man. Keep pushing and continue to do what you do.

My ex of 3 years broke up with me cuz she was developing feeligs for a nother guy, she told me that i didnt failed her that i didnt lacked anything and that i was a good guy and that she was sorry and one day karma would reach out to her for what she did to me, and i think she monkey branched to the guy and i felt destroyed and i felt that she lied to me so i wouldnt hurt but that made it even worse felt that i failed her but other people told me that she was the one who failed me she failed me in staying loyal to me but i know i lacked something but i will work on everything i can.

Great video, I've been going through a situation where my GF of 4 years monkey branched off me to another guy I believe... the guys I "wasn't supposed to worry about". We were long distance for the last 1 year but saw each-other every weekend... my ex is easily influenced, and went from being like minded (having an alchoholic father so not wanting to fall into the party lifestyle) to me- then being pressured by her friend to start drinking, which became expecting me to be okay with her partying with male friends suddenly... she did irresponsible behavior like getting drunk and apparently (i learned after the fact) riding on the back of this dudes motorcycle. Then to doing a 180 after saying she loves me, wants to be with me forever, I should move where she's goin to college etc to.. "we should break up". At first I didn't think I was monkey branched but now I truly believe this is why she left. It's very painful she was never honest with her feelings, I wish she would have expressed the problems because I was more than willing to work on them and fix them. It hurts but 1.5 weeks of no contact, 2 weeks after breakup i've been going to the gym everyday, eating better and focusing on my passions. I think about her daily, miss her and the good times but i'm starting to realize maybe I am better off without her (that even feels weird or painful to say). Keep up the videos, you have a great energy and personality for this. sorry for the rant I started and just kept typing 😂

Man your energy and videos are great! Keep it up I could see you going far with this. Main suggestion I have is to invest in a decent camera and mic. I do Videography, let me know if you would like any suggestions or have any questions about a good budget setup.

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How many relationships end because the woman cheated on her husband or boyfriend? (monkey branching) 80% of divorces are initiated by women. Apparently some women also always have extra men on Tinder, etc. lined up in case their current relationship isn't providing them with what they want, or if they find a "better" one to jump to. This works until they reach their mid-30s at which point men are looking for younger women or for women with less attitude or baggage (exes, children, tattoos, debt etc.) The nice men who had been friend zoned are busy working or living their lives, not interested in women who had dozens of partners. Check out Better Bachelor and Alexander Grace on YT.

Thank you bro. The pain of breakup is the worst pain in life. It tears you in pieces.

Wonderful advice that resonates with us and I know it would with many others too. I’m proud of you, babe!

Welcome back! long time no videos. Thanks for your video, but there is a lot of noise.

Understand this, the person that they money branch to is just their next ex.

Thanks bro! You are right, if someone doesn't communicate their needs and then leave instead of being mature and work on things, it is completely their mistake.