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@kiwi.kiwi. 3 күн бұрын

Hello brother or sister, I’m pasting my comment to your question here since it keeps getting deleted. I’m a sister, and I’ve not really heard of this disorder before. But it does sound a bit like schizophrenia. First off, let me explain. I myself also have always struggled with my health, since even as a child (constant pain). I recently got diagnosed with systemic lupus erythematoses (SLE) last summer. It’s an autoimmune rheumatic disease. I graduated with this disease in pain, probably before I got diagnosed, and when I was just using stronger pain killers for my whole painful body, before being given the proper medications for my illness. I kept taking my strong pain medication thrice a day, even at school, because I chose to not let my illness make me have to repeat my last year and instead just graduate anyway. Now that I have the proper medications, they give me terrible side effects. But I trust Allah, this all will pass and I am striving to become better and better every day. I think of a lot of things so as to support my illness, and all my ideas work, alhamdulillah. My whole right side of my body is also affected by the mildest type of cerebral palsy, which is the spastic type. And, with hemiplegia too, that often comes with it. My right hand has no regular sense of touch, when I touch any thing it feels as if I am wearing that thin blue doctor’s glove. The difference between my right and left hand when it comes to sense of touch is really really mild, which is why I didn’t realize this for most of my life, alhamdulillah, but if I focus on it specifically, it is noticeable. Coincidentally, you must use your right side a lot when praying, and I cannot pray as normal; I will have to pray partially standing and partially sitting, according to what I can and can’t do. When I first tried to pray like normal, I realized I couldn’t due to my right foot and I cried so much because I wanted to pray like the prophet so bad but I cannot. It felt so unfair. I am also left handed. I had been eating with my left hand my whole life. Then I heard the right hand should be used. I didn’t really believe it, because I am left handed and it is how Allah created me. But once I became more religious, I began using my right hand, even though I sometimes struggle with holding things a little bit and of course with the sense of touch. The therapy for this is to use your right hand more in whatever you do, but I often do not prefer to do so, since it feels so weird; the fact that I’m left handed, coupled with the fact that my right hand is also less capable of the sense of touch. But I have learned to eat and drink well with it. I even have shortness of breath, for a long while now, even after my illness (SLE) has been calmed down and stabilized, though it is lifelong and has no cure. My lungs may be scarred from when there was pleurisy with my lungs from before the illness had calmed down. I will find out if my lungs are scarred or not, but if they are, I will have to deal with shortness of breath for my whole life. This means I cannot fully recite the Quran anymore. I also cannot even just talk or sing without breathing all the time. Short breathing intervals which seem to be melodic as well have helped me out in this case, to turn this weakness of mine into a new strength. But here is the thing. The more pain you suffer from and the more difficulties you have, the greater your rewards. I still thank Allah because I could have been worse. None of my health issues are deadly or terminal or whatever, actual serious stuff. They are treatable, and manageable, and not at all dangerous to my life expectancy, although many are lifelong. I’ll give you one Hadith on this. But before that, here is a link. Here, you can find many beautiful Hadiths telling you that you will be rewarded for your issues. sunnah.com/bukhari/75 And now my favorite one regarding this: Narrated Jabir: *The Prophet ﷺ said: “The people of well-being will wish on the Day of Resurrection, when those who endured afflictions are given their reward, that their skins had been cut with scissors in the world.”* Sunan al-Tirmidhi (2402), Al-Marad wa al-Kaffarat (202), Al-Mu’jam al-Saghir (241). There are also many Quran verses, there’s one verse saying that among other people, there is also no harm for the sick. I heard that there’s a verse that means, disabled people aren’t useless. Allah loves you and perhaps He intends for you paradise, so we may be rewarded for enduring our issues in regards to our health. I don’t think any other religion does this and everything else better than Islam. You are not believing in a lie, it is the devil who wants to make you believe in HIS lie. I hope it has helped you. You are not alone. We say that I am extremely intelligent but in extreme pain. And I use my intelligence to help others and also my pain. And if you have any other questions, comment any time! (Fun fact: I speak at least 4 languages, one of them being Turkish! So, her zaman mutlu ol!)

@sadimsora 3 күн бұрын

Thanks sister, though your comment was already visible in the original video... Your comment made me feel a lot better, maybe I should focus on the fact that everyone suffers in their own way and this is a test from Allah... I never had such physical problems but I could only imagine how hard it should be to not using one of your hands (at least not in the most functional way) throughout your whole life... Without unsealing our hearts and soul, our intelligence and logic is worthless... Without Allah, ethics are meaningless... May Allah make both of us a better Muslim Inshallah... (Note: Depersonalization and derealization involve feelings of detachment, either from oneself (depersonalization) or the environment (derealization). People may feel like they're watching themselves from the outside or that the world around them feels unreal or dreamlike. These experiences can be triggered by stress, anxiety, or trauma and may occur briefly or persistently. Treatment typically involves therapy, addressing underlying causes, and stress management techniques. FROM MY EXPERIENCE: Imagine you are at a family gathering and you are talking with other people... Everything is going fine then a sudden thought kicks in... All of a sudden everything and everyone feels fake, the smile of people around me feels artificial, my own movements feel like I have no control over my body and I act abnormal as I try to act normal, I feel stressed and tired as I try to maintain my sanity... I feel like I could pass out anytime when these thoughts kicks in... My family doesn't know about this and my mother only knows that sometimes I think about "Doubtful things"... I'm not diagnosed but I'm almost certain that this is some sort of DP and DR disorder...)

@kiwi.kiwi. 3 күн бұрын

@ it’s most definitely a disorder, but I’m sure Islam can help you with that. You should look more into our faith! And thanks for your concern, but, my hand is actually fine! I can do everything with it, it’s just that I’m left handed which makes it the non-dominant hand. If you’re right handed, my right hand is just like your left hand. You can use it well, just not for writing. But due to my conditions, it is made a tiny bit weaker. This doesn’t impact my daily life at all. Aside from being left handed, the difference in the sense of touch is VERY, VERY little, which is why again, I didn’t realize it for my whole life! It’s just that I should not overuse my right hand too much, since I am more prone to being paralyzed for a few minutes due to my conditions. My cerebral palsy and hemiplegia are the most mildest of cases. Even if I do get paralyzed, it’s no problem and I can still move my hand well. It goes away fast if I just rest my hand. It’s a small thing, really, because the more major thing was my foot. I underwent an operation at a young age to correct the fact that I could only walk on my toes with my right foot. Today, I cannot take a step starting with my heel in a smooth way due to my cerebral palsy, but what matters to me is being able to walk using my whole foot! I got what I wanted, most of the problem has vanished because my Achilles tendon has been extended. I don’t really care about how I start my step, so what if it’s not smooth when I start with my heel… I’m completely fine today! Even despite my health and this sickness. The only challenging thing now is my sickness and the side effects from the medications. I look like a normal person when you first see me. But inside I’ve dealt with and am still dealing with a lot of pain. That too will pass. The next time you’re with your family, remember that what you have is simply a disorder. Like the word says, it is not how it’s supposed to be since it is disordered, not in order. You should look into what Islam has to say about family! Did you know, that if you want a long life, you would have to maintain your ties with your family? Anas ibn Malik reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Whoever is pleased to have his provision expanded and his life span extended, let him keep good relations with his family.” Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 2067, Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2557 I believe you can deal with your disorder with Islam, because for every problem you have, I know of what it says. So I suggest deepening yourself into your Deen even more, and see how it affects you!