Its still not going to be enough. So this point has no basis.

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Then she should not have made herself worthless by stopping four marriages.

While I agree with not asking for a high amount, you do have a point. The cost of living is high and women need a safety net. Besides, the cost of living in America is twice it was 2 years ago.

@@shimmer4771 Where is the belief in Allah? Is he not the provider? Do people not trust Allah. Finance is important but we as people are not content. Who owns the cost of living? Allah owns it all but who are we going to, to seek help? We go to people instead of Allah. Money is a never ending pit full of unpleasant things, place your importance in that pit you will never be satisfied. Why are people afraid of going through tough times? People say this life is temporary but they live it as if its permanent. By not placing a high mahr do people realize that they save a lot going into marriage I have 100% belief in Allah that he will provide for me, I have zero doubts that when I marry Allah will give me the opportunity to provide for my wife. I will never seek financial freedom because I don't care about wealth, Allah will provide for me until my last breath. And ever since I began to feel this way I haven't slept hungry nor have I been homeless. When will people understand that Allah is the provider, when will people put their trust in Him and not money. Its a shame the effect money has on marriages, its a shame.

As long as you place importance on financial security that is all your life will be. Allah is the provider, everything comes from Him even the jobs people brag about, the opportunity to work comes from Him. Islam has surely been integrated with the western culture and value. Money is more important than anything else, if the man has money everything else can be overlooked, if the man has money Allah is secondary, you can see this through the actions. People say Allah is first on social media but through their daily actions its different.

The guy in the video mentions 60k. I wouldn't even marry a queen/princess( of england/name a country) if that was her requirement. 60k is an apartment in many countries and the women of today are absolutely NOT worth it, they bring nothing in return.

@@_Gunner_ not all women bring nothing in return. I agree, asking that amount is wrong. Please, do not slander good women.

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Be careful about marriage. I've heard of sisters getting divorced and not having anything and no way to support themselves.

@@shimmer4771 you're right it's very scary for women, they are expected to give up carrier for the family and than 20/30 years later the man moves on to an younger women leaving the women without any skills to support themselves. My aunty was left with a child without any support, she had to work like a maid for her brother's wife, she hardly had any food to eat, she developed stomach ulcer from extensive hunger and only eating old rotten food. she died of stomach cancer 2 years ago.

@@shimmer4771 I also have seen the other extreme in the west, where the women takes a stake on all that her husband has after the divorce. There should be a balance between the two. And our girls need to be educated on how they can protect their interest while staying within the law of Shari'a

@@jdkhan5620 Yes. Women who do that are wrong, without a doubt. I also consider because women are physically weaker than men, protection is vital.

Makes sure to tell your daughters to write whatever requirements they have in the Nikah Contract and stipulations. This is the best thing for wives and is a blessing for them , use it.

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