Debunking Birth Mother Myths
4:19
How to Fail a Home Study!
5:41
8 ай бұрын
The Hidden Costs of Adoption
5:01
10 ай бұрын
Your Guide to Post-Adoption Life!
6:21
Disrupting Birth Order
5:37
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@albertrivera5443
@albertrivera5443 3 күн бұрын
Even when you adopt a new born?
@steffanyaye
@steffanyaye 3 күн бұрын
Yes
@mikthe2004
@mikthe2004 23 күн бұрын
What if you can keep the secret forever?? I think an adopted kid will never feel the security of a blood relative?? Why didn't the survey ask "Do you wish you had NEVER found out you were adopted??" I wonder what the answers would be?? 90% Yes?
@adoption-beyond
@adoption-beyond 23 күн бұрын
I highly doubt it would be that high of a percentage.
@mikthe2004
@mikthe2004 23 күн бұрын
@@adoption-beyond It might be 100%. But why not put that question in your surveys?? It might mean that all your advice is crap?? What kid wouldn't want to live in blissful ignorance ??
@steffanyaye
@steffanyaye 3 күн бұрын
@@mikthe2004 Just to be clear, this was not my survey.
@streetlevelvideo
@streetlevelvideo 23 күн бұрын
But we know that separation from Mom is traumatic for a baby.This is indisputable, and I think most people understand this - I've never met anyone who said they wish they'd been separated from their mother and their entire bio family. We also know that most adoptees suffer lifelong trauma and struggle with identity issues. We also know that not ALL adoptive parents are good people. Adoption does NOT mean a better life, only a different life. Are birth mothers told that their child will miss them and suffer greatly if relinquished? I would think that if Moms were told this, most would not choose adoption.
@adoption-beyond
@adoption-beyond 23 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this topic. Adoption is very complex, and it is important for everyone to listen to all sides of the story.
@mocabusinessservices6172
@mocabusinessservices6172 Ай бұрын
What part of the international adoption process do you think is the most confusing?
@mocabusinessservices6172
@mocabusinessservices6172 Ай бұрын
What are some other misconceptions about adoption that you think we should address?
@mocabusinessservices6172
@mocabusinessservices6172 Ай бұрын
For those considering or experienced with international adoption, what was the most surprising part of the process for you?
@mocabusinessservices6172
@mocabusinessservices6172 Ай бұрын
What's the one adoption myth you wish more people knew the truth about?
@mocabusinessservices6172
@mocabusinessservices6172 2 ай бұрын
What are your thoughts… are consultants worth it?
@mocabusinessservices6172
@mocabusinessservices6172 2 ай бұрын
Have you ever considered embryo adoption as a way to grow your family?
@imrulhasan-xr5ic
@imrulhasan-xr5ic 2 ай бұрын
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@mocabusinessservices6172
@mocabusinessservices6172 3 ай бұрын
What’s the most surprising thing you’ve learned about the adoption process so far?
@mocabusinessservices6172
@mocabusinessservices6172 3 ай бұрын
What is the most important factor for you when considering adoption as an option for your child? Is it the timeline, the openness of the adoption, or something else? Let us know in the comments!
@NejatNuru-c5g
@NejatNuru-c5g 3 ай бұрын
Can i come the adoption seantar place
@steffanyaye
@steffanyaye 3 ай бұрын
I am afraid I don't understand your comment.
@mocabusinessservices6172
@mocabusinessservices6172 4 ай бұрын
Which part of adoption wait times do you find hardest to deal with?
@mocabusinessservices6172
@mocabusinessservices6172 4 ай бұрын
What surprised you most from our list?
@suzannemays-hornung9015
@suzannemays-hornung9015 4 ай бұрын
Hi, thank you for your wonderful story on your adoption & the information. I have finished foster care In Maryland 7 months. With All the mandated licencing-etc I want to adopt two 17 yr old sisters on the photo listing with Heart Gallery. They are in another state. Could you please direct me if I would need an agency and do All their requirements or a home study with agency towards adoption? Or your view would really be so welcomed and appreciated! Thank you & God Bless
@steffanyaye
@steffanyaye 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for your great question, and congrats on completing the foster care licensing process, that is a very time-consuming task. You need to get a home study done either by your foster care licensing agency or a private child placement agency. You will need to find one who is willing to help you submit your home study to the Heart Gallery and be willing to attend a best-interest staffing on your behalf. Check with your foster care licensing agency first to see if they can help you with this process.
@mocabusinessservices6172
@mocabusinessservices6172 5 ай бұрын
What's the most surprising family-building option you've learned about? Share your thoughts in the comments!
@mocabusinessservices6172
@mocabusinessservices6172 5 ай бұрын
What's your favorite activity to do during open adoption get-togethers?
@mocabusinessservices6172
@mocabusinessservices6172 6 ай бұрын
What strategies have you found most effective for self-networking in the adoption process? Share your experiences!
@mocabusinessservices6172
@mocabusinessservices6172 6 ай бұрын
Did I miss anything? Something you would want to add to the list?
@mocabusinessservices6172
@mocabusinessservices6172 7 ай бұрын
What factors do you consider most important when selecting an adoption agency for your adoption journey?
@mocabusinessservices6172
@mocabusinessservices6172 7 ай бұрын
What factors influenced your decision when choosing between a licensed agency and an individual social worker for your home study process, and how do you think this choice impacted your overall adoption journey?
@NathanStric
@NathanStric 7 ай бұрын
I still go through it I was told by mom that my dad that ive known isn't my natural dad but adopted me when I was three I was told in 2020 at age twenty-nine i felt like i was a bit old being told
@steffanyaye
@steffanyaye 7 ай бұрын
That sounds like a hard situation to be put in.
@NathanStric
@NathanStric 7 ай бұрын
@steffanyaye yes it is hard for sure, I have wave flashes time to time
@mikthe2004
@mikthe2004 23 күн бұрын
@@NathanStric Would you have preferred never to have known the truth, because frankly finding out any time after teen years would really mess with your head?? Blissful ignorance would surely have been better??
@fortitude1082
@fortitude1082 7 ай бұрын
She Keeps saying open adoption and no secrets......this still goes on. Adoption should be last resort.
@steffanyaye
@steffanyaye 7 ай бұрын
Thank you for your thoughts.
@mocabusinessservices6172
@mocabusinessservices6172 8 ай бұрын
Ever come across any wild myths about adoption in general? How have they shaped your views on adoption? Let's chat about it-share your thoughts and stories!
@mocabusinessservices6172
@mocabusinessservices6172 8 ай бұрын
What role do you believe adoption agencies should play in supporting both adopting families and expecting mothers throughout the adoption process? Share your thoughts and experiences-have you encountered challenges or found invaluable support from adoption agencies?
@mocabusinessservices6172
@mocabusinessservices6172 9 ай бұрын
What steps can families take to navigate these differences effectively and ensure a smooth finalization process? Share your thoughts and experiences below!
@mocabusinessservices6172
@mocabusinessservices6172 9 ай бұрын
How can open communication and honesty contribute to a successful home study experience? Share your thoughts and strategies below!
@justinelliott4087
@justinelliott4087 9 ай бұрын
What types of questions should we ask at the staffing?
@steffanyaye
@steffanyaye 9 ай бұрын
Great question! The hopeful adoptive families are generally not present for this (we were not present for our daughters). The people present for the staffing are the staff who have worked with the child and your home study social worker is there to represent you. In addition, it is usually the staff who work with the child that is doing all the asking of questions about the hopeful adoptive family, not the other way around.
@justinelliott4087
@justinelliott4087 9 ай бұрын
@@steffanyayethank you!
@mocabusinessservices6172
@mocabusinessservices6172 10 ай бұрын
In the video, Steffany highlights three essential qualities of an adoption professional: quickness in response, compassion, and knowledge. Reflecting on your own experiences or aspirations in adoption, which of these qualities do you consider the most important? Share your thoughts and insights below!
@mocabusinessservices6172
@mocabusinessservices6172 10 ай бұрын
Reflecting on your own values and experiences, what do you believe are the key factors that contribute to a successful adoption match? How can prospective adoptive parents ensure they are prepared to meet the unique needs of a child from foster care? Share your thoughts and insights below!
@mocabusinessservices6172
@mocabusinessservices6172 11 ай бұрын
What were some unexpected costs or fees that surprised you during your adoption journey?
@mocabusinessservices6172
@mocabusinessservices6172 11 ай бұрын
Reflecting on the journey of bringing your child home - what was the most helpful advice or support you received during those early days? Share with us in the comments!
@mocabusinessservices6172
@mocabusinessservices6172 Жыл бұрын
What’s your biggest challenge or success story when applying for adoption grants? Share your experiences below to help others along the way!
@mocabusinessservices6172
@mocabusinessservices6172 Жыл бұрын
What’s the most surprising thing you’ve learned or experienced during your own adoption journey while navigate the home study process? Share your insights!
@Jquest27
@Jquest27 Жыл бұрын
If the tax redit is not refundable, how is it beneficial?Refundable, so we're in the process of adopting twins that are scheduled to be here april first
@steffanyaye
@steffanyaye Жыл бұрын
Two things, there is a bill introduced right now that is trying to get the adoption tax credit to be refundable again. So hopefully that gets passed. The current tax credit is spread out over five years.
@jenniferh189
@jenniferh189 Жыл бұрын
one thing to remember is that some of our adopted kids have families that don’t want to meet them. it’s not that i don’t want to acknowledge little girl’s birth family..:i wish her birth parents were open to a meeting someday. they have made it clear that this is not an option. It’s hard
@steffanyaye
@steffanyaye Жыл бұрын
You are right that is hard. I am sad that is not an option.
@adoption-beyond
@adoption-beyond Жыл бұрын
How can prospective adoptive families and expecting parents actively contribute to fostering transparency in adoption processes, and what role do ethical standards and regulations play in ensuring a positive experience for all parties involved?
@adoption-beyond
@adoption-beyond Жыл бұрын
What factors do you believe are most crucial for expecting parents when choosing an adoptive family? How might emotional readiness, financial stability, extended family support, educational plans, and childcare arrangements influence their decision?
@adoption-beyond
@adoption-beyond Жыл бұрын
What are your thoughts on disrupting birth order in adoption, based on your own experiences or perspectives? How do you believe it impacts the dynamics within the family, especially considering the role of the oldest child?
@adoption-beyond
@adoption-beyond Жыл бұрын
Expecting moms, what factors are most important to you when choosing an adoptive family? Share your thoughts and experiences below!
@mari80900
@mari80900 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this topic. Red flags are sometimes hard to see.
@steffanyaye
@steffanyaye Жыл бұрын
Oh good, I am so glad you liked the video.
@ella5319
@ella5319 Жыл бұрын
My adopted son could talk to me anytime he felt like it, but I didn't bring it up to him because why should i remind him he is adopted, he knows that since he was five years old.
@steffanyaye
@steffanyaye Жыл бұрын
A lot of adoptees have expressed that they didn't feel like they could talk to their adoptive families about their adoption, because it was never discussed by their parents first as they grew up, so they took that to mean it was an off-limit topic.
@ella5319
@ella5319 Жыл бұрын
@@steffanyaye These statements maybe true, but it's not that easy in real life to smile, and give him the support he needed from me because it waa important to him , but we adopted our son at five month's, and he was a happy child. I during his childhood I would forget he was adopted, then when I did think about it I became very nervous. You see we are their mothers that went through all the ups and downs taking care of a child. They are our pride and joy, but some how the birth mother is what they have wanted see, wanted to find out about her family. I am going to say something I am not proud of, it seems to me that writers, media people glorify the birth mother, focus on their reunion and now the adoptee is full filled, now his life is completed . This is all he ever wanted. My job is done now he is with his real mother...but my heart is broke into pieces.
@mehir2003
@mehir2003 Жыл бұрын
Can I adopt from palestine ?
@mari80900
@mari80900 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing. Your videos are so helpful!
@steffanyaye
@steffanyaye Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your kind words. They came at such a perfect time, I am getting ready to sit down and record some more videos today!! Let me know if there is anything in particular you would like to learn about.
@adoption-beyond
@adoption-beyond Жыл бұрын
What are some specific warning signs or red flags you believe others should be most cautious of when researching and selecting an adoption agency to work with?
@adoption-beyond
@adoption-beyond Жыл бұрын
What do you believe are the most critical services that an adoption agency should provide, and why do you consider them essential?
@adoption-beyond
@adoption-beyond Жыл бұрын
Can you share a personal story or experience about how supporting a loved one through adoption has impacted your life or the life of someone close to you?
@adoption-beyond
@adoption-beyond Жыл бұрын
What are some common doubts or fears you've personally encountered or heard about from others when considering adoption, and how have you or they addressed these concerns?
@mari80900
@mari80900 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing . My daughter has experienced 3 failed adoptions and is still on her journey, this journey gives us hope.
@adoption-beyond
@adoption-beyond Жыл бұрын
Oh, I am so sad to hear your daughter has experienced this 3 times. I am glad the video gives you hope!