Amazing episode. Such a relief to know sio mimi pekee hung'ang'ana na jina la Iddi. Also, people who hate avocados need to be studied, that fruit slaps with every dish mazeee 😂.
@ivannawaweru514323 күн бұрын
Thank you for the support love ❤ And yesss, hio case study tuanze na Iddi, juu wuehh energy ya kuhate avocado inatoka???
@reactthisiit25 күн бұрын
I know this guy 🤣....Avacado is like water no taste but satisfying we Idd acha maneno yako. Pineapple aje sasa! we tunajua kitu unamaanisha na Pineapple 😏
@ivannawaweru514324 күн бұрын
😂😂😂 anamaanisha nini?
@velonaoketch9194Ай бұрын
Just a question, so does it mean that siblings should not take care of each other? Does it mean that if one sibling is able to support a parent with another siblings fees, then they should not because it is not their responsibility? Does it also mean that we do not take care of our parents in their old age because it is not our responsibility. I am a bit divided here. I agree when not able to anyone can just say they are not able to but if able to where is the harm??? It is not only first borns who pick up 'parenting' responsibilities. I believe we just need to balance and communicate. If in a position to assist, if not speak out. We just need to reach a position where we overcome the fear of expressing ourselves that was instilled in us when we were young.
@cestmoitoutАй бұрын
There has to be a larger conversation about black tax in general. I think this points to the need to reframe the mindset around parentification of children ( mostly but not exclusively happens to first borns) and the finance and retirement planning that is lacking in most families where wealth flows backwards instead of to future generations. Some siblings become complacent when their older ones are successful. I have seen cases where a first born goes abroad and all of a sudden the younger ones assume they don't need to put effort into their own purpose. A first born gets a scholarship to go abroad or a job and instead of the younger ones hustling to also look for scholarships or working towards a career, they just assign breadwinner status to the one that has travelled and stress them coz they have to juggle studies and work to cater for people who are just chilling.
@velonaoketch9194Ай бұрын
@@cestmoitout What you have said is true. We need a re-education on how to handle finances especially as a family. I have placed it as my duty to educate my children on how to handle their finances and to know kila mtu atabeba mzigo wake. They can care for each other, communicate when they need help and work towards getting better even if they are supported. I am also working on my retirement, at least to ease any form of financial burden coz wueeh black tax has become some peoples side hustle. Kudos to all first borns whether biological or the first to break cycles in their families. You could have the money talk in your show and how it is a taboo to discuss money in our families (just a suggestion). How important it is to talk about it and how important it is to encourage open communication in families
@ivannawaweru5143Ай бұрын
Yes there's the balance issue; when kids are forced into parental roles when they are still in need of parental support themselves it's wrong. However when Parents manage the childhood phase well, kids are able to support them when they are fully upright 🤩
@fatmamuhaji3596Ай бұрын
As a first born daughter, thank you 🥰.
@ivannawaweru5143Ай бұрын
❤❤❤ hugs
@biznashapeup2549Ай бұрын
Awesome
@ivannawaweru5143Ай бұрын
Thank you!
@mululuvicky9274Ай бұрын
OMG! I really enjoyed pt1&2. ❤🎉
@ivannawaweru5143Ай бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it ❤
@muhozabenitresorАй бұрын
The first to like and to comment
@ivannawaweru5143Ай бұрын
Asante sana 🎉
@muhozabenitresorАй бұрын
My favorite drink is Amstel
@ivannawaweru5143Ай бұрын
That one I need to Google 😅
@muhozabenitresorАй бұрын
Ivanna big up saaana
@ivannawaweru5143Ай бұрын
Thank you for watching Beni ❤
@user-nn6tc5jq4v2 ай бұрын
I really love this👏🏽i love the vulnerability and honesty .
@ivannawaweru5143Ай бұрын
❤❤
@melvinomukuyia64262 ай бұрын
Aaawww❤ am honored 😢and Carol your amazing and such a blessing to me too
@fatmamuhaji35962 ай бұрын
This was such a good listen. Good job for encouraging men to speak out more. It might hell them seek the healing they need. Waiting for part 2
@ivannawaweru51432 ай бұрын
Thank you love ❤❤
@DoweMusic2 ай бұрын
God job Ivanna
@ivannawaweru51432 ай бұрын
Thank you ❤❤
@Frie_light2 ай бұрын
If strong was a person
@sample29-jf7lr2 ай бұрын
Aaaaw 🤩 I was deeply moved by the letter to your mom. Your words captured the profound love and bond you shared, Losing a mother is one of the hardest experiences anyone can face, Please remember that it's okay to grieve, to feel a range of emotions, and to take all the time you need to heal. Your mom's spirit and love will always be with you, guiding you and giving you strength.❤💯
@ivannawaweru51432 ай бұрын
❤❤❤ Thank you for your kind words
@fatmamuhaji35962 ай бұрын
“She’s finished crying” 😅 Aki mazeee, totally relatable Also, mnakaa very beautiful ☺️.
@ivannawaweru51432 ай бұрын
😢Yeah ❤❤ Thank you love!
@resonsindiyo32233 ай бұрын
Insightful chat! Good job!
@ivannawaweru51433 ай бұрын
Thank you ❤
@fatmamuhaji35963 ай бұрын
Love it 🎉 Congratulations girl 💕
@ivannawaweru51433 ай бұрын
Thank you so much
@fatmamuhaji35963 ай бұрын
Tough talk that needs to happen for real, glad you do this 🙌🏾
@ivannawaweru51433 ай бұрын
Thank you ❤
@Monique-kf6rl3 ай бұрын
❤❤
@ivannawaweru51433 ай бұрын
Thank you❤
@biznashapeup25493 ай бұрын
Good job Ivanna..
@ivannawaweru51433 ай бұрын
Thank you❤
@Mongoina3 ай бұрын
Big up Ivanna. This is so informative
@ivannawaweru51433 ай бұрын
Thank you ❤
@devotaw.9363 ай бұрын
are your feelings eggs🤭🥴🤣When did having a child at 18 become a big deal in this country? We have our work cut out for us with this whole parenting while healing situation.
@ivannawaweru51433 ай бұрын
😂😂😂 T for tough. Parenting and healing at the same time is no joke. But doable❤
@queenwere13 ай бұрын
We healed in the school of parenting 😂😂
@aishawangui32003 ай бұрын
Love this. 🎉
@ivannawaweru51433 ай бұрын
Thank you ❤
@joycekinyanjui96353 ай бұрын
Go girl
@ivannawaweru51433 ай бұрын
Thank you Joyce ❤
@Annierukenya3 ай бұрын
Cheering you on 👏
@ivannawaweru51433 ай бұрын
Thank you Annie ❤
@devotaw.9364 ай бұрын
notification bell turned on! 🤗
@ivannawaweru51434 ай бұрын
Yay! Thank you!
@constantinefadhili51324 ай бұрын
Have always know u have the potential to fly high
@ivannawaweru51434 ай бұрын
🤗
@christiees_4 ай бұрын
Here for it!
@ivannawaweru51434 ай бұрын
Most Welcome❤
@juliettendungi4 ай бұрын
Way to go 👏 👏 👏
@ivannawaweru51434 ай бұрын
Thank you ❤
@violachepkurui44964 ай бұрын
Such an inspiration
@ivannawaweru51434 ай бұрын
❤❤❤Thank you
@faridahkerubo52834 ай бұрын
Great job Ivanna🎉
@ivannawaweru51434 ай бұрын
Thank you Faridah 🤗
@gk_network4 ай бұрын
Amazing 🎉.
@ivannawaweru51434 ай бұрын
Thank you! Cheers!
@wamuyukabugi742 жыл бұрын
Well done Ivana. You are an encouragement to many.
@ivannawaweru51433 ай бұрын
Thank you ❤
@jamilasambuli90792 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️
@ivannawaweru51433 ай бұрын
❤
@marvelynekwamboka50022 жыл бұрын
Love this.🌼
@ivannawaweru51433 ай бұрын
Thank you ❤
@DoweMusic4 жыл бұрын
Waiting!
@fatmamuhaji35964 жыл бұрын
We shall wait patiently 💃💃
@devotaw.9364 жыл бұрын
Love it, 1.Having a partner is definitely easier when it comes to raising a child. 2.The partner you choose is Uber importante. 3. Friends and influence, I honestly feel like friends who don't have kids themselves can't relate to you most times. 4. Selfcare definitely needs to be actual care cause wah you need it. A night going HAM is hardly ever care. You end up recuperating for the next sijui how many days. 5. Healthy boundaries are a tough choice but definitely worth it in the long run for your kid(s) 6. I'm with you gurl, when the universe provides, hell yes we're getting that ring😂😂😂 Wise words Ivannah❤️
@ivannawaweru51434 жыл бұрын
Thank you love😊
@graciemutindi56784 жыл бұрын
This is profound....
@graciemutindi56784 жыл бұрын
Great piece...thanks
@ivannawaweru51434 жыл бұрын
Thanks too for engaging😇
@yvonneyasmine69624 жыл бұрын
Happy birthday, though am late
@devotaw.9364 жыл бұрын
We're so blessed to have you in our lives. 🎉🎉🎉To many more😊😊😊
@sheilangumi-mbugua21734 жыл бұрын
Happy New year and Happy Birthday Ivanna!!
@josephinemanyuru37894 жыл бұрын
Happy birthday Ivanna. I wish you God's blessings throughout the year.
@Annierukenya4 жыл бұрын
Happy birthday my dear. May this year bring more and more blessings for you and your boy 😍 you're a great mom ☺
@resonsindiyo32234 жыл бұрын
Happy Birthday Ivanna, may your STAR continue to SHINE. Keep up the AMAZING work!