I indeed have one of those husbands.

30:32 To me, it makes more sense to wash them first.

I know this will sound crazy, but I still can’t believe you have two babies, one that is 2 and another that is 4. Both born during the Big C. It’s crazy to me. CRAZY!

I’ve just found your channel, and watching this video has made me smile. You are honest and relatable about your life. The button down dresses you could wear with a cardigan, tights and boots. The part of the video where you sat down and started to watch to just made me laugh. Sending you encouragement and smiles. Love Lesley England x

I feel you so hard on so many things in this video. 1. I have a cold too. 2. When I organize my clothing, I lay it all out on the floor… only to not do anything with it for days. My mom once got mad at me for doing this and started picking up my clothing, I literally throw myself on top of the clothing. I was like, “I have a system! Leave me alone. It’s in my room. Not all over the house!” Now, I can leave it all over my apartment. But, I still leave it in my room. 3. I get distracted by the sound of construction too. i can’t really do anything. Earplugs or earphones work.

Love seeing your regular uploads . You're the most genuine , humble youtuber ✨️

I was having a massive sort out this morning, got to the stage where everything was out and wanted to give up. Then turned on KZbin and saw you had uploaded this! I popped this video on to help motivate me, thanks 😊

Yay you’re back ❤🎉

What accent is it? 😅

I always look forward to seeing your new uploads ❤

such an excellent review, loved the examples of the issues you showed, especially the hood! thankyou so much for making this vid!

My daughter has a large duplication in the 12th chromosome q.

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Is the public transportation system there not good? What about EMS? Can’t they get there if there was an emergency? That’s crazy. I can totally understand why you would be anxious. I can’t count on anyone in regards to my health. It’s all on me. I don’t drive either. So, I have to rely on public transportation to get around. I was just talking about this with my driver today after an appointment. As for having anxiety when the deployment ends and your spinous comes back. Are you anxious because you have developed a routine with your kids and now you have to change it because your spouse is back?

i just suffered a chemical pregnancy! got a faint positive at dpo 13 but that line never progressed! n then i started bleeding! it was an awful feeling! i wish to get this happiness in my life too! hope everyone who are trying for baby are blessed with positive result! pls pray for me too!

Im loving the regular uploads . This is real life , the highs and lows 😊 x

I remember when my boys were younger 1'2,5 & 8 my partner worked full days and I was left to it to do everything.... I suffered with really bad depression life was so so bad I felt guilty for not being able to meet their needs everyday and every single days aim was just getting through the day and keeping them alive pretty sure i still have trauma from then but eventually i dragged myself to the doctors and they put me on anti-deppresents and even tho I didn't want to go on them and feel like I had or was failing as a human it did make me feel so much better and life did get slowly better. Not sure how getting an appointment is at your doctors surgery but its like your wanting an appointment with royalty 🙈 making you jump through hoops just to speak to someone its ridiculous but i have been on anti-deppresents for 15 years and will not be able to come off then but sometimes I sometime I do forget because my brain is the size of a pea!! But I can usually remember that I haven't taken them because I start getting agitated and snappy no patience and just start feeling so low its horrible knowing I need to take a few pills every day just to be and feel "normal" what ever that is but definitely does keep me in line have you ever suffered from depression when watching your videos i often wonder if you suffer from that also sorry I hope you don't take offence to that hope your okay xxxx❤

Enzo is the cutest.

I’m so sorry you’re going through this, and at the same time I know you’ll be giving comfort and validation to a lot of people. I could relate to everything you said, and my husband isn’t even on deployment.. You are doing an incredible job and I hope you get the me-time you need when he’s back xx

Have been home with a burn out from work for 2 weeks now with a 9 month old baby and 2 step sons and I know the mental and physical exhaustion. Perhaps you can stay in the town where the preschool is after the drop off to have brunch/shop/see a movie until its time for pick up? That way it saves you the back and forth and still get some alone time. Good luck and stay strong!

Currently watching this as my husband is working away and I’m looking after our 9 week old and 20 month old. It’s refreshing to see you be so honest and say how I’m sure most military wives feel at some point. Hope the rest of deployment goes quick for you!

You are doing an amazing job ❤

I really love your videos. I subscribed to you while I was pregnant, you were a few months ahead of me in 2021. I'm sorry the days can be so long and so hard, you may feel like you're faking it right now but you're legitimately doing an amazing job.

I used to have really bad meltdowns like that. My mom didn’t handle it well. Let’s just say, corporal punishment was involved. So, you’re doing A LOT better than some other parents would do. Hell, there are parents that record their child having these violent meltdowns and then post them on the Internet. WTF? That’s not okay. It broke my heart seeing you on the kitchen floor, looking at the clock while holding Enzo and realizing it’s barely 9am. I know this might not sound like much, but it doesn’t last forever. Your kids will grow up and I know they will both grow up to be great people.

Ahh, does soph wave with the back of her hand out? My Ozzy used to do that, its mirroring behaviour. Ive not seen another child do it up until now! 😍

My little suggestion as I’m obsessed with planners and plans! Instead of saying - more walks - do 30 minutes walk twice a week - very manageable and not so overwhelming. - AM skin routine - apply SPF - PM skin routine - double cleanse And everything else .. diet, clothes, who cares 🤣 we need to eat crap to survive 🫠🤣

Is it good for tall people. Son 6'4 partner 6'

I’m the same way. I can’t go to the grocery store because I can’t write a list, even though I write a list for everything else. It’s just easier to do it online. Yeah, it’s more expensive. And not everything that you need is there, so you still need to go to the grocery store. But, going to the grocery store for a small haul rather than a big one is so much easier. Also, did you just say that you walked 15,550 steps? Girl, that’s a lot. Girl, where the fk did you go? What did you do? I mean it’s recommended to have 10,000 steps a day, but still.

I don't know if you remember me from commenting in the past. I have 3 kids so I feel your pain 🤣 albeit mine are slightly older at 11, 7 & 3 years old. You are doing amazingly! Don't ever doubt that you're not doing great. For the first couple of years of my eldest son's life I had severe depression and wasn't able to do half the things you are doing for your children. Sending my love and well wishes to you all ❤x

Sweetie, I know how you feel when you say that you’re so tired by 8pm. Yet, don’t want to go to sleep because you know you have to get back to that reality. That’s a great way to describe it. Granted, I don’t know how it is in regards to military life and even parenting life. But, as a high functioning neurodivergent person (possibly autistic according to my therapist) that is trying very hard to get low support needs… I totally understand. Having to keep up your hygiene, clean the dishes, clean the house/apartment, go to appointments (whether they’re yours or your kids), get groceries, feed yourself, feed your kids/pets, go to other events that need you to go to, maybe have a social life, but definitely you make sure your kids have one… that is hard for anyone. Add your personal issues that you’re not getting support for and fighting to get support for. That makes it so much harder.

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Hey, I've been following your KZbin for a few years now, I completely understand where you're coming from. I'm in wiltshire in army housing and my partner is also army! hang in there! always so difficult but you're doing your best x😊

I thought I was just inept. But it turns out, it's the travel system!

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What pram did you move on to?

My son has 22q 11.2 duplication

You are so amazing and a good teacher

My daughter also has 14q duplication

My daughter also has a micro duplication. Her's is 16p11.2. I see many similarities in your daughter with mine.

I have adhd and was diagnosed when I was a child but started taking medication recently and I’ve found that it’s helped with my parenting with being able to regulate myself a lot better and my emotions and being more patient but it hasn’t solved the problem. I’ve had to go to therapy too cause my self esteem and confidence is shattered due to adhd. I really feel for you cause it is so hard having adhd and can’t imagine how hard it must be too with you’re daughter needing extra help. It’s hard work being a mother with adhd. Xx

I think I have OCD and autism myself. I keep asking for help. But, no one is listening to me and helping me. I think people missed it because one, we were born in and grew up in the 90s. I think a lot of kids fell through the cracks during the 90s and 80s. A lot of girls in those two decades are now getting diagnosed with these disorders and you are hearing stories from all these 26-outward years olds that are JUST getting diagnosed with something that they should have gotten diagnosed with in preschool, if not earlier. I also think it’s because we’re girls. I don’t know why autism, OCD, ADHD presents differently in boys vs. girls. It seems like it’s not as apparent on us as it on boys. But, we obviously are still struggling. I don’t have kids myself. I don’t think I ever will. I know I have way too many issues to raise a child, lol. But, I can’t imagine how much harder it is struggling with any of these disorders while having a child. I know this is easier said than done, but please get evaluation. You need to know. Also, you need someone to regularly talk to like a therapist, even if it’s once a month.

You are f’ing amazing and you’re doing absolutely incredibly. You’re smashing it! 💛 I can completely understand wondering why brains seem different and other people don’t seem to struggle with daily life in the same way we do. I’m not a parent and I can’t start to imagine exactly how your life is from day to day but I do understand finally starting to realise that stuff you’ve struggled with in life so far could have an explanation. I also don’t have any diagnosis but the more I watch on KZbin and talk to other people who have Autism, ADHD, ADD, Dyspraxia etc. I’m absolutely sure that I’m not Neurotypical and I can have meltdowns over the tiniest stupidest things. Anyway I think was a really good video and thanks very much for sharing - you’re not alone with Yootoobs. (I stumbled across you on KZbin after watching Elle’s vlogs) Carry on being amazing. ❤️🧡💛💚🩵💙💜

Thanks so much for sharing and being so real and raw, that really isn’t easy. I hear you, and I know it probably doesn’t help but my god should you be proud of yourself, massive hats off to you. This will help anyone who watches it. I’m not in the same situation but I really struggle with my mental health and I became a Mum to my daughter in June, she was 3 months early and it was the most traumatic thing. I’m so immensely grateful for her but struggling with the trauma from it on top of just life is tough. I get it ❤

If you ever need a chat . I'm your person!! We've all been there it's hard, but you're doing amazing xx

Happy birthday Enzo! 🎉Thanks Vicky for making such regular consistent vlogs.. my baby is poorly and has only been able to nap on me so i’ve been relying on videos to watch while i’m nap-trapped! Hope you all have a lovely Christmas x

Give the CBT a good try. I've accessed it a few times over the last 10 years and there are always snippets that help- aside from the ADHD (and there being grey areas around which symptoms are what) I'm so glad that you were able to talk about this as we still need to do so much work around making it common conversation.

Love the round up option - it silently makes a difference without you feeling the impact and creates a little bit of savings throughout the year. Great tip!

What’s your go to meal as a wife/mommy?

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Your channel is so amazing and very much real life . What you see is what you get. The most realistic down to earth vlogs , i look forward to each and every one of your new uploads xx