I was born with a sexually development body often called intersex. My right testis failed to develop and did not drop and at ten years old surgery for a undescended testis was done. Apparently some ( 2-3) teratoma were found and removed during this surgery but were not reported to me at any time after the surgery. My parents claimed they did not know, I did not believe them when years later I found out that I had this condition. As an adult this same testis started to grow but it took me nine months of trying to get any doctor to do any basic testing and even when that was done it was done incorrectly. Finely I demanded this testis be removed and a local surgeon removed this testis though my lower abdomen while I was wide awake. When he cut me a 10cm malignant germ cell teratoma poked out of the wound. He kept injecting pain killers just ahead of where he was cutting to remove the mass from the abdomen and scrotum. He used surgical mesh and tape to put me back together but this all ripped out two days after surgery. A real mess. I needed seven months of chemo and additional surgery at the Mayo Clinic for one other 17.5 cm teratoma in my upper abdomen. My life was hell for years after, It was found that this particular testis was in fact a fetal gonad, teratoma and my cancer was related to ovarian cancer. My remaining testis Is normal but never matured to normal adult size. I did marry but clearly I did not sexually mature as most male but we managed to make our marriage work for us. I have been treated for gender dysphoria but wouldn't call myself transgender in the classic sense of the word. I have also given a great deal of thought of transitioning to female as I have never seen myself as purely male at any time in my life. Between surgery, cancer and chemo there isn't much male in me any more. The sad truth is my cancer took the form of ovarian cancer thus taking estrogen hormones could cause the cancer to return. Have you ever encountered someone with the situation Ive been in. ??
@kevinewing28956 күн бұрын
This is such an issue for me! I am in tears 😭
@lindagromkomd6 күн бұрын
I'm sorry. It's a really difficult time right now. Take care of yourself and your safety. And tell everyone you know to vote. Linda
@Preciouspink14 күн бұрын
(PHALLUS PRESERVING VAGINOPLASTY SURGERY) Can a scrotum provide enough material for a canal and an outward appearing vagina?
@tifftg17 күн бұрын
Thank you for this very clear information.
@lindagromkomd14 күн бұрын
Glad it was helpful! Please let me know if there's info you'd like to see covered. Linda
@TRANSBOI121219 күн бұрын
What happens if trump wins for 2024 elections what are we gonna do for phalloplasty surgeries in 2025 im scared it wont happen
@lindagromkomd19 күн бұрын
This is a great fear among trans people and everyone who cares about them. Our best assurance is to vote, of course. I am trying to encourage everyone to register now to be able to vote in the November election (www.vote.gov). If Trump were to be elected, I am guessing there would still be safe states for surgeries and hormone prescriptions. This is far from optimal, but it's something. I appreciate your fear. Linda
@sharonannen8859Ай бұрын
* That's how I started in 1979. I tried squirting my mother's injection Estrogen underneath my tongue. Dunno if anything happened. Next, my girl friend offered her Birth Control pills to me for a few months. The pills worked wonders. I finally started prescription Estrogen about September 1979. I began studying phyto-Estrogen in 1981. That also works for me. *
@lindagromkomdАй бұрын
Thanks for your email. I always try to pass on the warning not to take birth control pills as your form of estrogen. The estrogen in birth control pills (ethinyl estradiol) has a higher blood clotting risk than estradiol we use for gender affirmation. I'm glad things are working well for you now. LG
@legolava3265Ай бұрын
Thank you for the explanation it’ll probably be a year or 2 before I can’t take any but I do think I want this now after learning all of this
@dianeschaap3602Ай бұрын
Thanks for putting in a word for an all-gender-affirming vote, Dr. Gromko!
@lindagromkomdАй бұрын
In my lifetime, there has never been an election with such critical implications for women, gender-nonconforming individuals, people building families - humans in general! Thanks for your comments. Linda
@user-jv5pd7rd4dАй бұрын
Can you speak about the surgery where they preserve the scrotum as well as the penis?
@lindagromkomdАй бұрын
Are you referring to a non-binary surgery that retains the penis and scrotum and creates a vagina? I haven't heard of that. Please tell me what you know. Linda
@user-jv5pd7rd4dАй бұрын
@@lindagromkomd Yes exactly that. on the "queerdoc" website and a few others they mention that the testicles AND scrotum may be kept, although this reduces the amount of tissue available for vulvoplasty, and the total amount of real estate available for the vaginal opening. Based on this, I am trying to understand where the vagina would go/how it would work. Apparently it is self-lubricating as well.
@lindagromkomdАй бұрын
Interesting. I know that when more external tissue is needed, a skin graft can be taken from the waist area - bilaterally - so that scars blend in with the skin lines. As far as the internal tissue would go, I wonder if this would be a circumstance for peritoneal pull-through vaginoplasty; that would provide for lubrication. The right colon vaginoplasty also provides for self-lubrication. I see your point about limited real estate for the vaginal opening. Also, please remember, I'm not a surgeon! Linda
@VLNTN333Ай бұрын
thank you so much for your content
@lindagromkomdАй бұрын
Happy to offer it; please let me know what would help. Linda
@MorningdovecampАй бұрын
Thank you for info 👍👍. I have subbed 👍🏳️🌈
@lindagromkomdАй бұрын
Thank you for communicating! Linda
@MorningdovecampАй бұрын
Thanks for info 👍👍
@MorningdovecampАй бұрын
Thank you for info 👍👍
@lindagromkomdАй бұрын
Please let me know if there is anything you'd like me to cover. Linda
@kaos1010Ай бұрын
I noticed your channel barely had any comments, and I genuinely just want to thank you for making these informative videos, I was just having this problem and was googling around, when I found your channel, totally one I will save and hope to see more in the future! ❤
@lindagromkomdАй бұрын
Glad you like them! Please spread the word. Linda
@lemurlover7975Ай бұрын
Do you know of any doctors that provide vestibuldectomy for provoked vulvar vestibulitis in combination with a vaginectomy for gender affirming surgery? Can I get both surgeries done at the same time by the same surgeon? I prefer a woman surgeon due to trauma. That's a combo surgery I hope to get for myself. I don't want a phallus. Just want to not be in pain and be comfortable in my non-binary body which I am not sexually active in and expect to never be active as I am an asexual human trafficking survivor who was born into slavery and trafficked for 35 years. I am safe now and 41 years old. I'm fine with getting a hysterectomy first, as I have a uterine septum and I had this really painful and active fibroid that might have gone away with my use of birth control pills to control the excessive bleeding. Anyway, I am asexual and I always have been and will be forever. I like it. I like my celibate life. So can you please refer me to a surgeon who can do both a vaginectomy and a vestibuldectomy on the same day for me, and sew up the hole so I just have skin there, without neuroproliferation created by trauma that hurts when provoked? I have goals to become a horseback rider and be able to put my pelvis into a rock climbing harness so I can enjoy mountain climbing, high ropes and zip lines, which I cannot currently do because of my extremely annoying vulvar vestibulitis. It's way too painful.
@lindagromkomdАй бұрын
Thank you for your comments/questions. I do not know a specific person who does the surgeries you mentioned. However, I would recommend looking for surgeons who do gender-affirming care with a track record of doing non-binary surgeries. I would start with a consultation with Dr. Heidi Wittenberg in San Francisco, and see what she would recommend. Good luck. Linda
@ReikkiKyraJonsun2 ай бұрын
Thank you
@lindagromkomdАй бұрын
You're welcome
@myfavzilike2 ай бұрын
Hiya linda, valentina here i saw the new web site, congrats on your new remote, practice.
@lindagromkomd2 ай бұрын
Yes! Thank you!
@AleP56Z4 ай бұрын
Thank you for this information 🙏
@lindagromkomd4 ай бұрын
Thank you for listening! Linda
@aspie_nico-lu6mr4 ай бұрын
I had gender nullification surgery 5 years ago and I am super happy with the result.
@lindagromkomd4 ай бұрын
thanks for adding your experience. Linda
@JugarBac5 ай бұрын
Thanks ❤
@lindagromkomd5 ай бұрын
You're welcome 😊
@ilovefilmseattle6 ай бұрын
You've done so much for our community for so many years! Thank you for taking such good care of us. 💜
@lindagromkomd6 ай бұрын
You are so welcome
@dianeschaap36026 ай бұрын
Crystal clear! Thanks for the info.
@lindagromkomd6 ай бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@MxFourhournes7 ай бұрын
The more I learn about this the less afraid I am about the process
@lindagromkomd6 ай бұрын
I'm glad to hear that. From what I can tell, most people feel more and more comfortable as the process continues. LG
@dianeschaap36028 ай бұрын
Thanks for walking us through the biology!
@dianeschaap36028 ай бұрын
Super interesting, Dr. Gromko! Thanks.
@lindagromkomd8 ай бұрын
Thank you, Diane. I appreciate your support. Linda
@MD.MILON.MIAH_8 ай бұрын
Your videos are worth watching
@lindagromkomd8 ай бұрын
Thank you.
@MarhiVca8 ай бұрын
Great
@lindagromkomd8 ай бұрын
Thanks for your feedback. lg
@MhijVjmk9 ай бұрын
great
@lindagromkomd9 ай бұрын
Thank you for your feedback!
@ssboss60379 ай бұрын
Usful😊
@lindagromkomd8 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@JugarBac9 ай бұрын
Usful👍
@lindagromkomd9 ай бұрын
Thanks
@MarhiVca9 ай бұрын
Thanks you
@lindagromkomd9 ай бұрын
Welcome. Have a good Thanksgiving.
@MdSohag-r9o9 ай бұрын
❤️❤️
@lindagromkomd9 ай бұрын
Thank you! Linda
@lindagromkomd10 ай бұрын
I just attended a Seattle TDOR event put on by a trans and gender-nonconforming choral group called STANCE. In addition to music, the event featured poetry and stories told by choir members. Of course, they had the reading of the names - always so tragic. It was wonderful to see performers of all gender identities performing with the voices most comfortable for them. LG
@samanthaforney712610 ай бұрын
Very important information.
@lindagromkomd10 ай бұрын
Many many thanks. I think this new approach will save a lot of misery for a lot of people. LG
@JuneNeko10 ай бұрын
I trust Dr Gromko regarding skincare! Thanks for the advice/reminders!
@lindagromkomd10 ай бұрын
You are so welcome!
@dianeschaap360210 ай бұрын
What a useful video for any of us who might find ourselves struggling - during the holidays or any time. It’s like a menu: pick an activity from each category and you’re on your way to surviving.
@lindagromkomd10 ай бұрын
Thank you, Diane. This year - with unprecidented political strife - is an especially important year for self-care. Linda
@samanthaforney712610 ай бұрын
Pain relief is very important during pre surgery hair removal. The genital area is very sensitive.
@lindagromkomd10 ай бұрын
I have heard so many stories of people crying through treatments, but we actually have clients who sleep through their electrolysis. Pain control has to be a priority! Linda
@user-hh7wb4jy6x10 ай бұрын
Thank you for this detailed information. It’s been so beneficial for not only patient teaching, but educating my colleagues too!
@lindagromkomd10 ай бұрын
You are most welcome. Let me know if you have a "Question of the Week" that might be useful to you. Linda
@dianeschaap360210 ай бұрын
NB: At 1:42 Dr Gromko mistakenly says “0.4 grams per kilogram” (the guideline per pound) instead of 0.8 grams per kilogram.
@lindagromkomd10 ай бұрын
Thank you, Diane. lg
@miabee593010 ай бұрын
I support everyone who wanted to become a girl :>
@lindagromkomd10 ай бұрын
Thank you for your comment. Linda
@rubidimash83910 ай бұрын
You are absolutely right!
@lindagromkomd10 ай бұрын
Thank you for your feedback. Linda
@tokenfree164110 ай бұрын
A real woman speaking truth.
@lindagromkomd10 ай бұрын
Thank you. Linda
@teenpattigoldtricks67910 ай бұрын
This video was simple, yet informative. Exactly what I was looking for, as I’m getting ready to receive the HPV vaccine. Thank you for educational content like this.
@lindagromkomd10 ай бұрын
You are so welcome! Thank you for your feedback. Linda
@natureexplore111110 ай бұрын
Dr. linda you are awesome!
@lindagromkomd10 ай бұрын
Wow, thank you!
@dianeschaap360211 ай бұрын
How incredibly compassionate of you to post this video, Dr Gromko!
@lindagromkomd9 ай бұрын
Glad it was helpful! Important to spread the word about this. Linda
@colelupo210011 ай бұрын
This is evil and will lead you to hell... one which you wont be able to escape. I would suggest you read romans
@samanthaforney712611 ай бұрын
Great information!
@karendonald647 Жыл бұрын
I love that you are sharing your knowledge here on youtube. It's so interesting and helpful.
@lindagromkomd Жыл бұрын
I'm so glad!
@BD-YouTube-Developer Жыл бұрын
All your contacts are great I have seen your KZbin channel very nice thanks
@kellyhanning9913 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for all you do!
@lindagromkomd Жыл бұрын
Thanks for listening, Kelly. Please spread the word! Linda